Thanks for your comments! The obituary I promised to write, but didn't write, started off, "gone bowling. I told George that if he didn't write his own obituary, I would write 'gone bowling'" or worse. But when the time actually came, and I sat there in his hospital room writing it, I couldn't do it.
I have received many, many nice emails and cards, and I appreciate them all - thanks so much! But I have a large, empty hole in my heart right now.