Mattie Stepanek Obituary

STEPANEK, MATTIE J.T. "Almost 14"

On Tuesday, June 22, 2004 of Rockville, MD. Beloved son of Jeni Stepanek; loving brother of the late Jamie, Katie and Stevie; proud "daddy" of his service dog, Micah, and kin to Sandy, Hedder, Jamie-D, Chris, Cynthia and Kaylee. Mattie, "a poet, peacemaker and philosopher who played", will also be remembered by a world of family and friends. Friends and visitors will be received at St. Catherine LaBoure Catholic Church, 11801 Claridge Road, Wheaton, MD 20902 on Sunday, June 27, from 4 to 7 p.m. A Mass of Christian Burial will be offered at St. Catherine LaBoure Catholic Church on Monday, June 28, 2004 at 11 a.m. Interment Gate of Heaven Cemetery, Silver Spring, MD. In lieu of flowers, please honor Mattie with donations to the Muscular Dystrophy Association, c/o MDA Mattie Fund, PO Box 66002, Tucson, AZ 85728 or to Children's National Medical Center PICU, 111 Michigan Ave. NW, Washington, DC 20010. Please view and sign Mattie's guestbook at www.pumphreyfuneralhome.com.

Published by The Washington Post on Jun. 25, 2004.
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Mattie.....your wisdom and words continue to inspire and guide me! You will always live in our hearts........Barbara Mulvey

Barbara Sheets Mulvey

June 22, 2023

Mattie matters... ever and always.

Jeni Stepanek, PhD

Family

June 21, 2022

Many thanks to Roberta Garrett, Travis, and Megan, for keeping current (and alive) a place for people to share thoughts about Mattie across time. And thank you to all who share their thoughts about his life, and his legacy, and how the essence of his existence continues gently touching our world - with hope and peace.

Jeni Stepanek

March 20, 2019

Mattie, continue with your good works. :-)

Isela

March 19, 2019

Valenda Newell

May 26, 2017

Mattie is amazing at poetry

Kari Dean

December 23, 2014

"Hope is real. Peace is possible. Life is worthy." -- Mattie J.T. Stepanek
Embrace, believe, celebrate. --
Thank you all for these beautiful comments.
--- Jeni

Jeni Stepanek

September 17, 2014

Peace is possible. Thank you to those who continue to remember Mattie, and to celebrate hope and peace. Please visit Mattie's website www.MattieOnline.com to learn about the beautiful legacy that is unfolding from his life.
With gratitude,
Jeni ("Mattie's mom").

Jeni Stepanek

August 26, 2014

rest in peace Mattie

kasandra Pineda

November 16, 2013

Dear Mattie and Jeni, I just finished reading "Messenger" and all I can say is I have been so deeply touched by this book and by your life. Mattie, you are a true angel and a believe with all my heart, a true gift from God. I keep your "Think gently, Speak gently, Live gently" quote with me everyday! You will be in my heart and soul forever!

Gabriella Conrady

November 10, 2013

What a smile !!! Thank you, Mattie. Jeni, thank you for your courage.

Monica Atuahene

August 6, 2013

Mattie, I have your quote to "Play after every storm" written on a sticky note so I can read it every day. You are a true light for me personally and give me inspiration through my cross in life. I know you help me from Heaven to carry my cross with dignity and to live life to the fullest in spite of the sad hardships. God Bless you dear Mattie. Please pray for me from Heaven.

Amy George

March 25, 2013

Matthew remains one of my dear inspirations to write. writing gives me life. its the only way i can live day to day is to express myself in my writing. he was such a wonderful and brave young man. bless his soul...it is here amoung us.

kim barhite

December 6, 2012

Ive been reading his poetry for years and i write as well and hoping to get my book published but that might not happen anytime soon.and they probably never will be as insperational as his but you had an amazing son and he saw things beautifully. i wish i could have met him. his writting brings a smile to my face every time i read it over and over again.

Alexis Bonilla

December 5, 2012

Dear Mattie and Jeni, I am continually inspired by your messages of peace. Mattie, you will always be part of my soul. You taught me so much through your sittings. Thank you! Jeni, your are such a beautiful person. Thank you for continuing to spread Mattie's words of peace. They fill my heart daily. We all miss you Mattie but are consoled that you are looking upon us from above.

Dorothy

April 1, 2012

Mattie and Jeni - love you both!!!

September 3, 2011

after i read your son's book it touched my heart
your son is a beautiful poet

gabrielle hoffmann

September 1, 2011

Dearest Mattie, Each time I read an entry in your Guest Book I am reminded of your generous spirit and love of life. You will always have a special place in my heart. I continue to keep your Mom, Jeni, in my prayers.

Barbara Mulvey

July 29, 2011

just saw mattie remembered on oprah,what a beautiful loving spirit to teach us all about our true nature

mary coyle

July 28, 2011

I just finished reading The Messenger, and at the end of the book i cried, and cried. I truly believe Mattie is a Saint and is watching over us, especially his Mom. What an Angel he is who suffered his whole life, while he spread the word of kindness and peace. What a wonderful gift from God. I love you Mattie!!!! I know your happy now, and your doing exactly what you want. Keep your eye on your Mom until you see her again in Heaven.

June 27, 2011

your son was a true inspiration to me....i read his works as a young women entering the health field of nursing. his words touch so deep.
he talks on for i have just "rediscovered" my copies of mattie's work and i will take them now to the job that i work as an RN and share them with my patients. i am sorry to hear that he passed in 2004. what a wonderful young man!

June 16, 2011

Our prayers and thoughts are with you for the wonderful son you brought into this world. He will be forever a shining star to all of us. Mattie will be forever loved. God Bless Mattie.

Don & Alfreda Avelis

May 29, 2011

Thank you for continued thoughts and prayers to and for my son. And peace and thank you to Roberta, Travis, and Megan, for keeping this legacy book online for visitors who want to read or post about Mattie. What a beautiful gift for his legacy. Peace to you.

Jeni Stepanek

May 24, 2011

Just recently saw Oprah's dedication to Mattie and I was reminded what a truly inspirational person he was.

blessings,
Rev. Bryan Garra

Bryan

May 23, 2011

A sparkle in the night, an angel in disguise...A son of God, A son of Love, Mattie Stepanek...Yes, that you are!

Sandra Gonzales

May 20, 2011

I have read the book The Messenger and have been moved beyond words.......I knew, I just knew he would be brought forth for sainthood. What a dear, precious, faith filled child he was. His mother is the same, an inspiration and a source of spreading God's love.......and to think he is going to be honoured on Oprah's last show! Please pray for my family, Mattie, you have taught me so much about what love is and how to serve our God.

Lou Ann Greenham

May 20, 2011

How beautiful to see gentle thoughts of hope and peace offered by people on this site, so many years after my son's spirit left his body. Many thanks to all, for such thoughts, and for so many prayers.
Jeni Stepanek ("Mattie's mom").

Jeni Stepanek

November 23, 2010

The years may come and go, but the memories of our loved ones will live on forever in our hearts. And may the prayers of others help in some small way to bring you strength, comfort, and courage each day. Many words can be expressed, yet we know Almighty God can express and provide to you and your family everything that is needed to care and sustain your hearts always.

July 16, 2010

I WILL MISS MATTIE HE WAS A GOOD FRIEND TO ME. AND JERRY LEWIS TOO. WHEN
MATTIE START TALKING ABOUT MDA FOR LONG TIME EVERYONE WILL MISS MATTIE,
I LIKE TO SAY STEPANEK FAMILY IT IS HARD FOR THEM SPEAK OUT TO EVERYONE, BUT MY HEART GOES OUT TO THEM A LOTWE WILL REMEMBER MATTIE, IN YOUR HEART'S
THAT HE WILL REST IN PEACE. I WILL MISS
MY BEST FRIEND MATTIE, JUST LIKE A SPECIAL FRIEND TO ME. AND JERRY LEWIS TOO.
YOUR FRIEND,
COLIN CAMPBELL

COLIN CAMPBELL

May 8, 2010

MY HUSBAND AND I HAVE WATCHED MATTIE EVERY TIME HE WAS ON T.V. WE MISSED A SHOW ON CNN,SO WE ORDERED THE TAPE.HE WAS AN INSPIRATION TO US AMONG OTHERS.WE MISS HIM ,BUT I KNOW HE IS HAPPY WALKING WITH HIS SISTER AND BROTHERS WITH JESUS. WE ARE KEEPING HIS FAMILY IN OUR PRAYERS

BOBBY AND LORETTA PRIOR

April 28, 2010

Dear Family Of Mattie I know this is late, but I am so sorry for your lost. Let me share a scripture with you at James 4:8 were it says Draw close to god and he will draw close to you.

Antonio

April 28, 2010

To Mattie's family,

I say good morning to your exceptional son everyday. He was, and always will be, an inspiration. His beautiful smile is so clear in my mind, and his big heart is a continual lesson to cherish life, love God's creations, and know what is important during our time on earth.

Rest dear angel Mattie. We love you.

Robin Covino

September 23, 2007

We still miss and pray for you daily. lambert family

joan lambert

March 6, 2006

Our family thinks and prays for Mattie all the time. We miss his wonderful message of peace. I have also bought all his books and read them to my grandson. We hope his wonderful mother is doing well. You are such an inspiration. many prayers, the lambert's

Joan Lambert

February 26, 2006

Dear Jeni Stepanek,



Your son Mattie was a specail boy at alomst 14. When I read his poems books called Heartsongs he voice speeks back to me like he is in the room with me and waching over my actions like and Angel.

Love Becky Berue

Becky Berue

November 24, 2005

Mattie~ You were and always will be an inspiration to us all. You are loved by so many. And even though we never met, you will always have a place in my heart and your words will always be with me throughout the rest of my life.

God Bless You.

Christine Rosburg

September 7, 2004

Mattie was an Inspiraton to me. He truely had a heart of gold. I will remember Mattie everytime I watch MDA. He is angel of God now. His books will always be a treasure of what he left. May the Lord give you comfort and strength.

God Bless

Lisa

Lisa Lopez

August 7, 2004

Happy Birthday Mattie,



I hope you are having an amazing day, one where you can truely "play". I know Jamie,Katie and Stevie are there with you. We celebrate you everyday and keep your Mother in all our prayers.

Roberta Garrett

July 17, 2004

I am at a loss for words. If you knew me you would know how funny that is. I will miss your spirit Mattie, but I know that your writings will be with all of us forever. Rest in Peace, my Amore.

Deborah

July 2, 2004

I just wanted you to know how sorry I was to hear of your loss. Just know that Mattie is in God's loving arms.

jeanette j

July 1, 2004

FOR MATTIE: WHAT A SHINING STAR YOU WERE



You were so smart, so wise for a little guy

You stood tall and had such great ideas

You truly touched every one who had the

pleasure of meeting you either in person

or through your books and interviews

God had great plans for you and you couldn't

wait to get started

You were so gifted, so blessed

but yet you didn't let MD get in your way

You accepted each challenge as a learning

experience, a test and you passed with flying colors

You touched the world with such wisdom

Mattie, there will never be another like you

You were like a shooting star, they come every so

often, they are unique and special

just like you!

God truly made his best Angel when you came along

You were a shooting star .... you only could

stay a short amount of time because your

beloved siblings needed you so

You had such a simple way of life

Peace

Why can't it be? Maybe they will listen now

They will hear your mission statement over

and over because my friend, you made a difference

Your 14th birthday present is to watch from Heaven

your plan starting to come into action

Your pain and suffering is now over

You are one and in perfect health

Muscular Dystrophy is now a thing of the past

Be happy and get caught up with your brothers and sister

and please don't be concerned about your Mom, for she

Will be all right and your dog too...

You have touched so many hearts in your short time

here on earth

Everyone loved you so

you were an inspiration and a friend to so many

God allowed you to be his vessel to let the children

know they can have dreams and to follow them

you have made a difference in my life

You have shown such strength

determination and courage

You had a fighting spirit

a love of life

Yes Mattie you were this and so much more

Rest in Peace...the Peace you so wanted

to accomplish on this earth

You will have your beloved fireworks

because July 4th is right around the corner

Maybe finally, Freedom and Peace will

mean more all because of you

I will remember you always for when the sky is dark

at night, I will look up to the stars and the brightest

shiniest one will be you and I know you will be looking down on those

Who loved you so and your brightness will be your way of

Letting everyone know you are doing just fine!



Written with love, June 22, 2004

Jan Johnson

Myasthenia Gravis and Brain Stem Stroke Survivor

Jan Johnson

July 1, 2004

What an inspiration Mattie was to people around the country, in and out of wheelchairs alike. He truly knew what peace was. Sincerely, Troy A. Butler

Troy Butler

June 30, 2004

Mattie touched the hearts and minds of millions of people who have seen him on TV, personal apperences and through his books with love, wisdom and a knowing beyond his years.



I do know that in order to have such an extraordinary son, you must be an extraordinary woman and mother.



I had purchased some of Mattie's books a couple of years ago and will treasure them always. He is an amazing soul and I appreciate and Bless you with Love for sharing him, yourself and your family with us.



Sincerely,



Karen

Karen

June 30, 2004

Dear Miss Jenni,

As Mattie always said "Always play after every storm". Now comes the time for me to say "Mattie as you have said listen to your Heartsong. Mine has been singing a different song for quite some time. With you in mind I wish to say I miss you all the time. With you now in heaven I will never have to say to the self inside of me when will my song start to sing or how long can I listen. Now that you can watch me from the sky high up above never more will I have to wonder can I call or when will our heartsong join together to sing a joyous chorus. Never more will you and Jamie have to be two seperated brothers. Together the Stepanek family will only need a mother. Mattie only remember me as our Heartsongs sing together. I will never forget you or the many words you spoke. I love you always Mattie From Amanda L. Crisman"

Love you Miss Jenni and always remember even though this might be a gigantic thunder and lighining storm just remember to play after this storm.

Amanda L. Crisman

June 29, 2004

We first met Mattie and Jeni at the FireFighters Softball Tournament for MDA. He was giving out little pieces of wisdom on tiny pieces of paper, doing what he could to help fight against MD. With Jeni by his side working so hard all weekend in the heat. Mattie has that special determination. There are very few people that you meet that give off that glow, that you know right away that you are in the presence of someone very special. Mattie and Jeni thank you so much, we felt your heartsong.



Bobby and Bunny Carter

Montgomery County Career FireFighters, IAFF, Local 1664

"Black Sheep" Softball Team

Bunny and Bobby Carter

June 29, 2004

Mattie you are now 1 of God special angel. you are free to run with all of the angel's. God Bless the Family and Friends

sandy polley

June 29, 2004

Mattie, Thanks for sharing your joys of life, love and peace with all of us around the world. You looked so peaceful last Sunday in church and I know God has a special place for you in heaven with your brothers and sister. You have taught us more than any world leader possibly could about peace and life.



You are the ultimate "Peacemaker".

Continue to play and have fun.

We love you and your poems!

Hank, Darlene, Jaclyn and Johannes.



Special greetings from Conny, Oma and Opa from Holland.



Jeni, Thanks for sharing Mattie with us for the brief time he was on this planet. We missed your singing at Most Holy Rosary and Mattie's teaching in religion class. He was one of the most spiritual persons I have ever met and wise beyond his years. Continue your life's work and may God provide you with much strength during this difficult time.

Darlene Boerlage

June 29, 2004

Blessings on all.

I feel a great sadness, as I lost my best friend, Phyllis Mitchell, in 1961 when we were both in 6th grade and to this day I have never forgotten the strength of her and her Aunt that took care of her and when I first saw Mattie it brought memories of Phyllis back.

Now Mattie is in heaven-running with Phyllis and doing the things they could not do here on earth.

Also keeping an eye and I hope providing some guidance to those left behind.

Blessings on your family Mattie, you will never be forgotten

Carol and Eduardo

carol lopez

June 29, 2004

GOD BLESS MATTHEW....WALK WITH THE ANGELS....GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS..



My Dearest Family

Some things I'd like to say; but first of all, to let you know that I arrived okay. I'm writing this from Heaven, where I dwell with God above; where there's no more tears or sadness, there is just eternal love. Please do not be unhappy, just because I am out of sight. Remember that I am with you every morning, noon, and night. That day I had to leave you, when my life on earth was through, God picked me up and hugged me, and He said, "I welcome you." "It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone. As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on. I need you here so badly, as part of My Big Plan; there's so much that we have to do to help our mortal man." Then God gave me a list of things He wished for me to do. And, foremost on that list of mine is to watch and care for you. And I will be beside you every day and week and year, and, when you're sad, I'm standing there to wipe away the tear. And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight, God and I are closest to you in the middle of the night. When you think of my life oN earth, and those 13 loving years, because you're only human, they are bound to bring you tears. But do not be afraid to cry-it does relieve the pain. Remember, there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain. I wish that I could tell you of all that God has planned; But, if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand. But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is over, I am closer to you now than I ever was before. And to my very many friends, trust God knows what is best. I'm still not far away from you-I'm just beyond the crest. There are rocky roads ahead of you, and many hills to climb. But, together we can do it, taking one day at a time. It was always my philosophy, and I'd like it for you too, that as you give unto the world, so the world will give to you. If you can help somebody who is in sorrow or in pain, then you can say to God at night, "My day was not in vain." And now I am contented that my life, it was worthwhile; knowing, as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile. So, if you meet somebody, who is down and feeling low, just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go. When you are walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind, I'm walking in your footsteps, only half a step behind. And when you feel the gentle breeze, or the wind upon your face, that's me giving you a great big hug, or just a soft embrace. And when it's time for you to go, from that body to be free, remember you're not going, you are coming here to me. And I will always love you from that land way up above. Will be in touch again soon. P.S., God sends his love.

June 29, 2004

YOU NOW CAN REST MATTHEW.

REST IN PEACE MATTIE.,

REST IN PEACE....

KAREN,KIRSTEN,KIERIK AND KAJUAN CARTER

June 28, 2004

God Speed Mattie. I only knew you from watching Oprah. As I was on my way to work last week and heard of your passing I greived for a moment and then my heart begin to sing for you. The world was trully blessed to have you and the heavans I'm sure are celebrating your arrival. Be proud of yourself and enjoy your Wings!!!

God Bless the Stepanek Family and those that had the privilige of knowing and loving you. PEACE!

Jon Anderson

June 28, 2004

Mattie,

The storm is over, now you can play.

Heaven has a great new angel.

Debbie

June 28, 2004

I will truly miss Mattie. Such an amazing visionary. This past November I got to meet Mattie at a book signing at Borders Books in White Flint Mall for Mattie's fifth. It was awinspiring listen to Mattie read various poems from all five of his book. After meeting Mattie I shared Matties story and his poems with my pen pals aboard. My pen pal from Russia was so touch by Matties poem that she asked me to send her one of his books.



The one thing I will miss about Mattie is his beautiful smile and not hearing call in the radio and read a poem. I'm so happy I got to meet Mattie and I will treasure the books and cd that I purchased the day I met him.

Harriet Falchick

June 28, 2004

Dear Jeni,

I feel like I knew Mattie like he was part of my family. I followed him on the Oprah show and on the internet. As a Christian, grieving for a loved one is never easy but may you find peace and comfort in knowing that Mattie is in Heaven. If I lived closer, I would attend Mattie's viewing. Instead, I will keep you and your family in my prayers. I will treasure his poetry and CD forever. Thank you for sharing your son with the world. As a mother I know that there is no greater gift from God. Love, Brandi

Brandi Moore

June 27, 2004

I heard of Mattie's death....and simply cried. What an extraordinary young man. Mattie displayed insight and courage way beyond his years and touched our souls with his writing and his quiet,intelligent acceptance of his condition. Jeni, be so proud of your son. Try to find comfort in knowing he changed the world just by being Mattie.

Maureen Valley

June 27, 2004

You showed courage & determination. You shared great wisdom. You shined your light on peace and love for all. Your Heartsong rings with joy and spirit. Now run, laugh, and climb trees again, Mattie, we remember and bless your mission.

Anne Maloney

June 27, 2004

Jeni:

I was depply saddened to hear of the loss of the passing of Mattie who was an inspiration to me. I will always remember Mattie with fondness. God bless his soul. He was a remarkable and arguably a most loved young man of those who came in contact with him. No one can match his wit, charm and humor. And I am happy with the thoughts that he is now with our Dear Lord in Heaven.

Having recently lost three members of my family during the past three years, I can empathize with what you and your family are experiencing at this time. Losing loved ones is one of the most difficult time of our lives and I have never really learned what to say to comfort those who survive. Even though my sister, brother, and sister-in-law are gone, they will always remain in my heart as I know Mattie will remain in yours. You are a strong woman and your love and devotion to each other was God's gift of His love to the both of you. The journey continues and you will never be alone. Look for the faith and strength that God originally gave both of you and remember that eternal love never dies--it just live forever and ever. May God bless you now and always, and may God raise Mattie up on eagle wings in Heaven. Thank you God for sharing your precious Mattie with us for a short time as he fought the good fight and shows us what courage is all about durng his illness.





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Drusilla McCain

June 27, 2004

I was so sad to hear of Mattie's death. He was such a loving and gentle person. I was so inspired when I would hear him speak. I followed him on Larry King.

I know how he loved his dog and most of all his mom.

He will be truly missed and I know he is in heaven and free fom pain and suffering.

My best wishes and prayers go to his family and friends.



Mattie you will be missed but never forgotten.

Gail Pittore

June 26, 2004

Dear Ms. Stepanek,

I can not begin to know the loss that you are feeling but I know how I am feeling. I lost a very dear friend. Mattie, was such an inspiration. I first heard him speak three years ago and was so impressed by the wisdom and strength that he possessed. He was truly a child of God. We have been truly blessed that God shared him with us these past thirteen almost fourteen years. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time. May God continue to hold you in His arms and support you with His love.

Barbara Mulvey

June 26, 2004

You didn't have to know Mattie to "know him". Every year we looked forward to watching the Jerry Lewis MS Telethon, to see Mattie's smiling face and hear his words of wisdom. So much for living such a short life. But now he has joined God and his three siblings, and is lighting up the heavens with his beautiful smile. We will miss you here on earth, Mattie, be we now have a new Guardian Angel. God Bless You and May You Rest in Peace. Our heartfelt prayers and condolences to Mattie's family and Micah.

Linda and Cliff Quicksell

June 26, 2004

Joan L

June 26, 2004

JENI, IAM SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS OF YOUR LAST ANGEL ON EARTH. MATTIE ACCOMPLISHED MORE IN HIS SHORT LIFE JOURNEY THAN MOST OF THE WORLD COULD DO IN 80 YEARS. THANKFULLY HIS PURE WISDOM AND LOVE WILL REMAIN HERE THRU HIS BOOKS, TO BE PASSED ON TO FUTURE GENERATIONS. IAM VERY THANKFUL THAT I HAD THE OPPORTUNITY TO SEE MATTIE ON TV SEVERAL TIMES, WHAT A GIFT HE HAS BEEN TO THE WORLD. SURELY GOD HAS A MANSION FOR YOU WHEN IT IS TIME FOR YOU TO REUNITE WITH YOUR LITTLE ANGELS IN HEAVEN. MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU, YOU ARE A TRUE WOMAN OF SUBSTANCE AND FAITH.

SUE ALEXANDER

June 26, 2004

May you rest in peace, now you are with God just like in your I am poem.

My deepest sympathy to your family.

May God grant peace and comfort to all who mourn.

Marcia Kramer

Marcia Kramer

June 26, 2004

Mattie and his Mom have been such a great inspiration to our family. If anyone is a saint it is Mattie now, He suffered much and he loved much. God bless you. We know you are with Jesus and watching over all of us now. Your wonderful Mom, Jenie is in our prayers.

Joan L.

June 26, 2004

Dear Mattie,



I always knew there was something specific that made each person special. After seeing you on Larry King, I learned it is our "Heartsong" I will forever treasure your books and appreciate what you have shared with the world. You have touched this earth like it will never be touched again. Your "Heartsong" will sing forever. Thank you.

Roberta Garrett

June 26, 2004

Dear Mattie,



I was so touched by your incredible insight for such a young man. I have always wondered what to call a persons special "thing" that makes them special. Then I saw you on TV and heard your definition of a "Heartsong". You have touched the world profoundly and will sing in everyones heart forever.



With Love from Roberta,Travis & Megan

Roberta Garrett

June 25, 2004

Dear Jenni,



I'm so sorry for your loss of Mattie, but I know he will always be with you in your heart. In my heart Mattie is in a better place, pain free and gracing the heavens with his 'Heartsongs'. I have truly missed you both at Holy Rosary. I've missed your voice singing and Mattie smilie and wheeling around the church.

Love and Prayers,

Lydia Anderson (Monica's mother):)

Lydia Anderson

June 25, 2004

Dear Jenni,



Mattie was an inspiration to me. When I was feeling bad and I would see him at church, his smile would brighten my day and make me feel so much better.I will miss him deeply. He was a wonderul person. I would think about you and him often since you no longer attend Holy Rosary. I missed you both. You are in my prayers always.

Love,

Monica Anderson

Monica Anderson

June 25, 2004

MATTIE ACCOMPLISHED MORE PEACEMAKING AND GOODWILL IN ALMOST 14YEARS THAN MOST OF THE WORLD COULD DO IN 80 YEARS. JENN, I AM SO SORRY FOR YOU LOSSES. GOD CERTAINLY HAS USED YOU AND YOUR FAMILY OF ANGELS TO SHOW THE WORLD MUCH ABOUT LOVE, FAITH AND HEARTSONGS. MY HEART FEELS SO SORROWFULL THAT MATTIE HAS LEFT US. THANK YOU SO VERY MUCH FOR SHARING HIM WITH THE WORLD, MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU.

SUE ALEXANDER

June 25, 2004

Mattie, while I never had the pleasure of reading any of your books I will once Barnses & Noble get them in again after being sold out this week (See you touch us here on earth when after you left us to be with your brothers, sister and God). Im 48 years old and currently dealing with a rare immume system disease. But when I think of how brave and couragous you accepted your disease and lived a much more meaningful life for it, I do not complain, but only hope I can be half as strong as you. I hope your mom and family take comfort in knowing you no longer suffer, but now with God in Heaven. While your life was way too short, your impact is not. Thanks for making life just a little more special.



Bob Magnuson

Bloomington, MN

Robert Magnuson

June 25, 2004

This world is a litter dimmer with the extinguishing of Mattie's earthly light. However, this world is a far better place for him having been in it but for a brief 13+ years. His life was an inspiration, his poetry an ongoing gift of beauty. He will be missed! He will be remembered at Mass and in other prayers. God bless Mattie and his Mother!

Lynn Simon

June 25, 2004

Jen, Micah & family ... your heartache is shared by so many. Discovering Mattie a few years ago has been a Godsend. And, truly God sent him to you, and you graciously shared him with us ... My dog, Hootie! and I volunteer in pediatric therapy. Mattie's inspiration has helped us counsel and visit with thousands of young people in Atlanta. Mattie's profound perspective and truly loving heart will live on...I'll continue to share his wisdom/soul...with children and adults whose senses will be soothed by his heart. He's blessed mine. May his incredible love and heart continue to soothe you.

Love and gratitude,

Sherilyn & Hootie

Sherilyn

June 25, 2004

Jeni, my prayers have been with you and Mattie. I met Mattie at a book signing in Baltimore what a special child, I also have had the honor to have been on the MDA Ride For Life.

We will miss Mattie at the Fort Washington Harley Chapter.God Bless You and Mattie

Linda Townshend

June 25, 2004

Jeni,

Mattie's books sit beside my son Taylor's bed and are often read by us before he goes to sleep. We had the honor to meet both of you at a local Border's where Mattie signed my son's "Journey Through Heartsongs" copy. It was late and Mattie was tired, but when the booksigning co-ordinator told the line of people that he would have to stop signing books Mattie piped up" I'm alright"

That night my son gave Mattie a heart shaped rock and a sketch he did of God's hand reaching through the clouds to help us. I hope in some small way they brought Mattie joy, and that you will find comfort in the knowledge that Mattie's dedication to life as a peacemaker

will continue to give those blessed by his life; hope and meaning.

We were lucky that you shared Mattie with the world, and Mattie was blessed to have you as his mother. You are ,and will continue to be in our prayers.

Denise and Taylor Berman

June 25, 2004

Jeni:

this is your "waiting room" bench neighbor, Kendal's mom. I was so moved of learning about Mattie; he was such a burst of energy/laughter in all situations. I always admired your focus, strength and determination. You were an inspiration regarding the care of my own daughter. Truly you, Mattie and those who have gone home before you have treasures upon treasures waiting for you in heaven. Celebrate Mattie's life - he did.

Carole Lowe-Nedab

June 25, 2004

May every consolation and blessing be granted to you in your deep sorrow. Kindly accept my heartfelt sympathy.

Victoria Bell

June 25, 2004

May God continue to bless you and your family.

Yvetta Evans

June 25, 2004

I came to see you at one of your appearances, and watched as you readied your table for your poetry reading. I was in awe of you; how "typical" you were of a kid your age. Right before you began to read, chills came over me. I felt I was in the presence of someone of true greatness, put here on Earth by God to brighten the lives of others. And, in your short but influential life, you proved that to be true. Thank you, Mattie, for gracing our lives with your gifts.

Sheila

June 25, 2004

Dearest Jeni -- Ed and I have been keeping you and Mattie in our prayers for years now...

We will STILL be praying for you now, as you adjust your life around Mattie's physical absence...knowing you will hold him in your heart and mind, until you can hold him in your own arms once again.

The Lord's Peace be with you.

Always love from Ed and Cathy Johnson

Ed and Cathy Johnson

June 25, 2004

Dear Stepanek Family,



My daughter, Katie Veon, was in the same hapkido class with Mattie at Grand Master Lee's studio in Clinton, MD. I will always remember Mattie's enthusiasm and courage as he earned his black belt. I have not had a chance to read all of Mattie's poems, but I have seen a few of them. They were very beautiful and filled with wisdom born of suffering. It broke my heart to hear of Mattie's leaving us, but I know for certain that he is in the presence of Our Lord, praying for us all. In Heaven, he can finally be the peacemaker he always dreamt he'd be. I will keep him and you all in my prayers.

Cheryl Veon

June 25, 2004

A POEM WRITTEN FOR MATTIE
Posted by JAN on June 24, 2004, 7:05 am

FOR MATTIE: WHAT A SHINING STAR YOU WERE

You were so smart, so wise for a little guy
You stood tall and had such great ideas
You truly touched every one who had the
pleasure of meeting you either in person
or through your books and interviews
God had great plans for you and you couldn't
wait to get started
You were so gifted, so blessed
but yet you didn't let MD get in your way
You accepted each challenge as a learning
experience, a test and you passed with flying colors
You touched the world with such wisdom
Mattie, there will never be another like you
You were like a shooting star, they come every so
often, they are unique and special
just like you!
God truly made his best Angel when you came along
You were a shooting star .... you only could
stay a short amount of time because your
beloved siblings needed you so
You had such a simple way of life
Peace
Why can't it be? Maybe they will listen now
They will hear your mission statement over
and over because my friend, you made a difference
Your 14th birthday present is to watch from Heaven
your plan starting to come into action
Your pain and suffering is now over
You are one and in perfect health
Muscular Dystrophy is now a thing of the past
Be happy and get caught up with your brothers and sister
and please don't be concerned about your Mom, for she
Will be all right and your dog too...
You have touched so many hearts in your short time
here on earth
Everyone loved you so
you were an inspiration and a friend to so many
God allowed you to be his vessel to let the children
know they can have dreams and to follow them
you have made a difference in my life
You have shown such strength
determination and courage
You had a fighting spirit
a love of life
Yes Mattie you were this and so much more
Rest in Peace...the Peace you so wanted
to accomplish on this earth
You will have your beloved fireworks
because July 4th is right around the corner
Maybe finally, Freedom and Peace will
mean more all because of you
I will remember you always for when the sky is dark
at night, I will look up to the stars and the brightest
shiniest one will be you and I know you will be looking down on those
Who loved you so and your brightness will be your way of
Letting everyone know you are doing just fine!

Written with love, June 22, 2004
Jan Johnson
Myasthenia Gravis and Brain Stem Stroke Survivor

Jan Johnson

June 25, 2004

I just wanted to let you know what an inspiration Mattie was to me and especially my son. My son was a quadraplegic due to an assault. We first saw Mattie on Oprah. Brandon was so moved by Mattie, that he had a whole different outlook. He passed away on March 11th 2004. Hopefully they will spend some time together and keep singing their heartsongs. Mattie was a gift to the world. My deepest sympathy.

God bless

Sue Reichert

Sue Reichert

June 25, 2004

May God Bless You.

Guy Beltz

June 25, 2004

Mattie was such an inspiration to me. I am 56 years old and never had the opportunity to to meet Mattie, however, felt like I knew him well. Mattie is now in heaven with God.

Kathy Hogan

June 25, 2004

Hello Jenny,

Our hearts go out to you each day

at the death of Mattie. I heard so much about Mattie at the homicide of our son in 2002.

The Stephanie Roper Foundation helped us so much during our loss.

We love you. Vera

Vera Price

June 25, 2004

Mattie's life and works are an inspiration to the world. I often read his poems to my second and third grade kids in religious education at St. Michaels. He taught us a lot in his short life. It is important to keep his memory alive.

Bob Polito

June 25, 2004

Mattie is now one of God's Angels. He joins his brothers and his sister in a place better than this; but, this place is better for having had Mattie for a very short 13 years. God Bless you Mattie and Jeni. Keep writing your heartsongs, we know of ours now, thanks to you.

Rosie Watson

June 25, 2004

Your soul touched many more lives than you could of ever imagined.

Millions of people around the world had you in their daily prayers, me included.

You will be forever missed, even though we have never meant, your "Heartsongs", touched me, and my family.

My heart aches for Jeni, as a mother who has lost so much, but your son, was and will always be remembered as he wanted to be, as a "Peacemaker".

May God Bless You!!

kathy krause

June 25, 2004

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