From someone who also has lost a husband and a sibling...Families!... i feel your pain and sorrow!..let those ones around you..hold you tight and compfort you at this time..and knowing with GODS promise to us all.. we WILL see and be with our loved ones again!. This is temporary remember that..hold them deep in your hearts take them everywhere you go..till you meet again!... PRAYERS and HUGS..to all of you at this time..