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Hillary Fitzhugh Obituary

HILLARY LUCILLE FITZHUGH, 39, Executive Director of ChildBuilders and devoted aunt, sister, and friend, died unexpectedly at home on Saturday, March 19, 2005. She was a dedicated, energetic leader who worked tirelessly for Houston's children. Hillary was a selfless friend to many with abundant beauty, joy and faith. Her hundreds of friends who survive her will miss her sweet, gentle grace and luminous smile. Hillary was devoted to her family and friends and cared generously for her grandmother and mother before their passing. She was an active member of St. Luke's United Methodist Church. Hillary was a leader and dedicated volunteer in with the Association of Fundraising Professionals (AFP), holding the Certified Fund Raising Executive (CFRE) professional credential, Alpha Gamma Delta, Houston Area Panhellenic Association, and Anna K. Chase Foundation, and she was a provisional member of The Junior League of Houston. She was the daughter of the late Parker Marshall FitzHugh, Jr., and Patsy Lucille Kelly FitzHugh, and the elder of two children. Hillary was a fourth generation Houstonian, raised in the Sharpstown area. She graduated from Sharpstown High School in 1984 where she was a member of the drill team, then from Texas A & M University in 1988. Hillary is survived by her brother Kelly Todd FitzHugh, and wife Sara;nephews Garrett Parker FitzHugh and Brandon Cole FitzHugh, of Prosper, TX. She also is survived by Godchildren, Ian James McClellan, Gentry Lightfoot Boring, Elizabeth Delia Kent and Caroline Ann Kent. A memorial service in celebration of Hillary's life will be held Thursday,March 24, 2:00 p.m., St. Luke's United Methodist Church, 3471 Westheimer at Edloe. Reception will follow in the Hines Baker Room. A private interment will be held following Easter. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to: ChildBuilders, a nonprofit organization that provides innovative services, programs, education, and collaboration to promote healthy child and family development, 3800 Buffalo Speedway, Suite 310,Houston, TX 77098; or Alpha Gamma Delta Foundation, an international fraternity for women that exists to provide opportunities for personal development through the spirit of sisterhood, Attn: Gale Wilkerson, 8701 Founders Rd., Indianapolis, IN 46268.

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Published by Houston Chronicle on Mar. 23, 2005.

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The J.R. Morgan Family

April 12, 2005

We are so sorry for your great loss. I know she will be missed. You are all in our prayers.

Mackenizie Fitzhugh

April 6, 2005

Hillary,

Thank you for taking such good care of me. I will miss you and our evening play time. I am settling into my new home and they give me lots of attention. (Hillary's Scotish Terrier)

Connie and Ken Robbins

April 6, 2005

Kelly, Sara, Garrett, and Brandon

We are sorry for the loss of Hillary. I can only imagine the emptiness you must feel. Our prayers are with you and may the Lord bless your family. We love you all.

Therese Marz

April 6, 2005

Hillary was a generous and compassionate soul who graced Alpha Gamma Delta Fraternity with her presence and dedication. My thoughts and prayers are with her family and friends.

Marjorie & Richard Descalzo

April 5, 2005

So many nice words for such a genuinely nice person. Hillary was worthy of these accolades; all of them and more; so many more.

We love her. We miss her. Though we cannot replace her, we can honor her memory by stepping up and stepping out for all those who depended on her advocacy. We can honor her, too, by treating others with her same kindnesses.

And, most importantly, we can hold her beloved family close, for the grief they bear will need sharing. Kelly, Sara, Garrett and Brandon. You are in our hearts and our prayers. You are not alone...never alone.

Angela, Jack and Jane, David and Johnette...all of us, we love you.

Monica Rath

April 5, 2005

Dear Sara,

I am truely sorry for your loss. After reading all of the postings, your sister-in-law sounded like a very genuine soul who cared about everyone. I know she will be missed terribly in your life. Please take comfort in knowing that she is in a better place and is surrounded by souls just like hers.



You and your family are in my prayers.



Love,

Monica

Kelly, Sara, Garrett & Brandon

April 4, 2005

Words can't describe the heartbreak we feel as we try to work through the why's, what happened's and she was way toooo young's. Her "boys" miss her so much, the phone is too silent without her almost daily calls to just to say, "Hi! How's it going?" Just like that she was gone and we have arrived at the point of realization that it all IS REALLY TRUE, she really IS gone. Kelly and I will work hard to make sure that her boys don't ever forget her and her deep, deep love for them. Life is so much dimmer without her light. Rest in Peace dear sister, you were loved and will be missed.

Aunt Ree and her nephews 11/04

April 4, 2005

TRACY HULL

March 30, 2005

Kelly and Sara,



I am so sorry for your loss. I was delighted to become acquainted with Hillary last Fall at Brandon's Birthday Party, then at Thanksgiving and Christmas. Since my first introduction, Hillary was so friendly and happy to become a friend. I was so looking forward to knowing her even better on her frequent visits to your home. I am saddened to hear of the news of her passing.



You will be in my thoughts. Please call in me if you need me to help with anything.

Kay York

March 30, 2005

Hillary, for years to come the community will reap the benefits of your hard work and dedication. Your spirit will always guide us in making the world a better place for children. Kay York

Karen Thomas

March 29, 2005

Rice University's School of Continuing Studies extends sympathy to Hillary's family. She was an instructor in our non-profit fundraising class and related so well to the class members. Her ratings were always stellar and students often said she was one of the best instructors they had known. She will be missed.

Darrin Clinton

March 29, 2005

Kelly, really sorry to hear about your sister. Our prayers are with you Bro! Sincerly, Captain Darrin

Joy Horak-Brown

March 26, 2005

My condolences to Hillary's family. She was most helpful to me and always so positive and productive. Joy

John D. Phillips

March 26, 2005

Dear Family and Friends,

I met Hillary for the first time on our recent Aggie cruise. She was so sweet and had an ever-present smile. Having also graduated from A&M in '88, I was stunned to learn she was no longer with us. I feel fortunate for the opportunity to have met such a kind and generous soul who did so much for the people around her. I am so very sorry for your loss.

Hillary and Cindy on the Aggie Singles Cruise --Early March 2005

Chuck Bradley

March 24, 2005

Friends/Family of Hillary,

Of course, my deepest condolences to you and your family. I met Hillary recently on an Aggie Singles cruise where I was the host. Hillary and her nice friend Cindy were good company and we enjoyed some great meals and ship activities together. I hope you will find comfort that she really enjoyed the cruise. I will remember her for the important work she did for ChildBuilders, as well as the classy gesture of a bottle of rum that she and Cindy gave me as a "thank you" gift. I'm guessing by reading the previous posts that that was just her style. I'm sure you are proud of her. Our group from the singles cruise has gotten together and we will be making a donation to ChildBuilders in her honor.

Hillary,&
lt;br>We'll meet you on the quad for the last march in.

Chuck Bradley
Texas Aggie Class of 1993

Nancy Davis

March 24, 2005

Our deepest condolences. Our prayers go out to the family. Love, John and Nancy Davis

Louisa Keyes

March 24, 2005

My deepest sympathy to Hillary's family and loved ones. I only knew her briefly when we volunteered together at Texas Childrens for our Junior League placement last summer. What a tragic loss for the community. My prayers are with her and her family.

Kathleen Cummings Murray

March 24, 2005

How could such a young person be so wise and knowing? Hillary, you constantly amazed me with your gentle strength, compassion, evenhandedness and sincerity in every aspect of your personal and business lives. You can never replaced....only you could fill those pretty pumps you always wore...to match your wonderful wardrobe perfectly. Style was your middle name, to be sure.



I miss you terribly; your kind words, beautiful smile and warm eyes always let me know that everything would be all right. Keep smiling down upon us all and each of us will benefit from your love even now that you are with your Father in heaven.



God bless you, my dear Hillary and may God bless and comfort your family and friends during this very difficult period adjusting to a world without you. You'll always be in my heart.

Vanessa Linsley

March 23, 2005

My sympathy to you and your family.

Vanessa

Joan Linsley

March 23, 2005

We were so sorry to hear the sad news about Hillary. Our sympathy to you and your family.

Joan and William Linsley

Betsy Schwartz

March 23, 2005

My thoughts and prayers are with you. May your wonderful memories of this kind, gentle woman bring a smile to your face even during this time of horrible grief. Hillary brought a smile to every room she entered and touched so many. Her legacy will be felt in Childbuilders for years to come. With sympathy, Betsy Schwartz

Carol Ann Paddock

March 23, 2005

I wish to extend my deepest sympathy to Hillary's family. She was wise beyond her years and such a good friend to so many. She excelled in her professional life and I will miss her as a colleague and a friend.

Carol Ann Paddock

Doug Upchurch

March 23, 2005

Hillary was one of my very closest friends in high school. However, since I left Houston, I had only kept in touch with her through our mothers. The news of her passing has shocked me but I know heaven will be a more wonderful place with her there. I remember her big heart, her great sense of style, and her love and support for her family and friends. Thinking of you and sending my love, Kelly, in memory of your sister during this time.

Rose Childs

March 23, 2005

Our prayers are for your strength and continued support and love for one another.



The Child and Adolescent PAC of MHMRA of Harris County

Texans Care For Children

March 23, 2005

Texans Care is sadden by the loss of a great child advocate and caring person.



Susan Craven, Executive Director

Alice Morris

March 23, 2005

Hillary was a special person and will be greatly missed by all who knew her.

Catherine Burch Graham

March 23, 2005

To Hillary's family:



Your loved one was a wonderful colleague and friend. I will miss her always smiling face.

Rebecca Meloni

March 23, 2005

So sad to lose such a wonderful person-a great Alpha Gam!

Matthew Cox

March 23, 2005

Dear Kelly, Sara, and boys: I can't find the words to express the sense of loss and sadness I feel for all of you and Hillary's specical friends like Pamela, Leigh, Daniel, and SO MANY others she cared about. To me she was a wonderful friend and mentor -- truly, one of the best friends I could ever hope to have. I learned much from her about my work and life in general. I am a better person for having known and loved her. Take care of yourselves. I hope you find comfort, as I have, in knowing that the world is a better place because of Hillary.

ZIZI ASFOUR

March 23, 2005

You will be greatly missed my dear friend by your family, friends and community which you helped so much.

I will always remember your smile and your positive attitude. You were the best!

Beth Burroway

March 23, 2005

I knew Hillary through AFP and always found her to be full of energy. A smile could be found on face 99% of the time. She will be sorely missed.

Beverly Robinson

March 23, 2005

I would like to extend my deepest and sincerest sympathy to the family of Hillary Fitzhugh. I went to college with her mother, Patsy, and was very saddened at her death also in the recent past. I did not know Hillary personally, but it is obvious that she was a very special young lady and my sincerest condolences are extended to you, Parker, particularly. We will keep you and your family in our prayers.

Luanne & Larry Kopecky

March 23, 2005

Please accept our prayers during these trying times. My wife Luanne became a walking buddy with Hillary and she will miss her very much

Jennifer Powell

March 23, 2005

My heart is broken by the loss of such a wonderful AGD sister and friend. Hillary's wonderfully giving spirit will stay forever with all of us who were blessed to know her.



My thoughts and prayers go out to Hillary's close friends and family.



Jen

Pamela Hamza

March 23, 2005

My precious friend, how I miss you so! God bless you sweet angel girl...He blessed us with your life!

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