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Ryan Kohrs
April 1, 2025
I spent a good amount of time with CSM Habelman while in Afghanistan and working in Iraq with him. I still remember the call when he asked me if I wanted to go work with him in Iraq. The truth is, I would have followed him anywhere because that is the kind of leader he was.
I still have my Hawaiian shirt we bought together in Ft. Bragg before we were deployed and wear it April 1st every year, then head out to get some Ice Cream like we did so many times in Iraq.
He was a positive influence to so many, he will always be missed but never forgotten. May we all strive to have such a positive impact on the lives of others has he did.
MSG (Ret) Chuck Travers
July 11, 2021
I serve with CSM HABELMAN in Afghanistan 03-04 and he was a good friend. After our tour in A-Stan we kept in touch and we both ended up in Iraq (Al as a Contractor over in Fallujah and me with the 1/156 AR 256 BCT 1st CAV at Camp Victory in Baghdad. One day SGT Khors called me and said he and Al were working a PSD out in Fallujah and would be coming to Camp Vic and let´s link up. I said great! And we planned to meet the next day (30 or 31 Mar 2005) unfortunately I was not able to link up with them at the PX/Foodcourt and they ended up leaving. Several days later Khors called me and told me Al had been KIA in a firefight. I was devastated. I still have the Hawaiian shirt you mailed to me in Iraq Al. Thank you for your leadership and most of all your friendship. I named my youngest son (Tanner Alfred) in your memory brother. It was honor to serve with you CSM, the most accomplished (yet humble) soldier I ever met.
God Speed
MSG (Ret) Chuck Travers
NCOIC Gardez Afghanistan
OEF-3 , 2003-2004
OIF-3 , 2004-2005
I though a lot of Al this week. This is him 2005 Camp India, Iraq
Rick Clay
August 10, 2013
Molly Skovran
March 7, 2012
Coming up on the 7th year since his death, I have learned more about the man who was my brothers Godfather than I ever knew before. I salute him now in memory of the man he was: An extremely honorable man, and a man who's principles I will never cease to respect. He lives on in our memories, and I will never forget.
Forrest Smith
August 13, 2008
Sergeant Alfred C Habelman is THE reason I was able to serve in Special Forces and the reason both of my children also served in the military.
Back in ’86, coming from a MASH unit into SF Reserves (3rd/12th) as Battalion Surgeon, I had to get jump-qualified. At that time, the Airborne Committee had approved SF jump school at Ft McCoy and as a two-week course, BUT only with the stipulation they had to pack into two weeks what is normally done over three weeks at Benning, with the Committee allegedly saying, ‘should be no problem for you Green Berets.’
It would be an understatement to say that I was having problems that horrible hot humid summer with the long grueling days of PT, lateral drift, swing-landing apparatus, suspended harness drills, thirty-four foot tower, etc; my forty-eight year-old body ached from head to toe, I could hardly walk and what people thought were ‘Skittles’ I was popping, were really Motrin. Finally, one morning, I was all done and didn’t fall out but stayed in barracks to pack my gear and go home; the commandant came in, talked briefly with me and when he saw my mind was made up, said ‘It’s your decision’ and left. A few minutes later, in walked Sergeant Alfred C Habelman and the next thing I knew I was running down the road in BDU’s to catch up with the rest.
Those of you who knew Al, know he had a way to motivate people to do things they never knew they could do. Not only did Al dramatically change my life, but also the lives of my children, only kids at that time because had he not motivated me, I would never have been in SF and as a result, my children might never have gone to Virginia Military Institute and not gone on to serve in Afghanistan (my son, Ranger & 82nd Abn) and in Iraq (my daughter, Marines).
Somewhere in Al’s effects, his children should find a pair of 24-K gold jump wings, the most heart-felt ‘thanks’ of a man who felt privileged to know and honored to serve with their father, and whose life is another in a long list of lives made infinitely richer for having been touched by Command Sergeant-Major Alfred C Habelman.
We shall not soon see his like again.
Forrest Smith, MD
Pleasanton, CA
Trevor Kleineahlbrandt
March 16, 2007
Al,
I'm not one for making public entries like this (just like you)but I think of you and miss your humor and company. One day we'll laugh again together on how I let you out on a string on the road to Baghdad so you could almost get lit up by your beloved Army comrades at that roadblock. Just remember that I did finally get out to save you. Semper Fidelis!
Don Denman
November 19, 2006
Al was a true hero in every sense of the word. I knew Al because he protected me while I was working in Iraq. Al comforted me with is presence and strength. I could do my job everyday knowing that I had this man watching out for my well being. I will miss Al but I will never ever forget him.
Greg Liska
November 17, 2006
Al was the model of an SF Soldier. I worked with him in Afghanistan and Iraq. A great natural leader and great friend. No narrative could ever tell you just how much I mean these words. We were the only private sector enterprise that dared work in Anbar Province and we succeeded largely because of Al's audacious plans that kept the insurgents several steps behind us and off balance. It was a wild ride and we whooped them. It was just bad luck that got Al. It could happen to any of us out here. There's not a day goes by that I don't remember something about Al that makes me smile just for a moment before I remember that there's no replacement for him in theater, in my life, anywhere.
Vicki Sparks Mancuso
November 10, 2006
I did not have the honor of knowing Sergeant Major Habelman. The honor of knowing about him has been extended to me by a High School friend who thought very highly of this fine man. My own brother is in Special Forces, has been for 20 years now. My family has recently been blessed with his arrival home. Although we are ecstatic to have him home for now, we are also filled with that sorrow residing deep in our souls for those not coming home to their families. I believe each and every soldier is Special Forces @ heart. They all deeply believe in the code that guides them each and every day, and I along with the rest of my family pray for an end to this soon. Every person we pass on the street has a brother, a husband, a sister, a mother, a cousin or friend in the middle of this horrible war and each night when I hit my knees to thank God my Brother is home for now, I also pray another family gets to welcome a loved one home.
My deepest regards to Alfred C. Habelman and the family & friends who loved him so deeply.
Vicki Sparks Mancuso
Houston, Texas
Michael Butler
June 9, 2005
Al was one of my supervisors in Iraq at Camp India. He was a man that liked to get things done thats for sure. I remember him chewing me out for something but later found out from my other boss that he had told him after the fact "You know that Butler is a good guy." Anyway he will be missed and did a good job in Iraq and did his duty.
Brian Leighton
June 3, 2005
As the Texas legislature closed, this resolution was passed:
H.R. No. 1567
R E S O L U T I O N
WHEREAS, The death of Alfred C. Habelman of Houston on April
1, 2005, while working in Iraq for a California-based construction
company, brought a profound loss to his family, friends, and many
admirers; and
WHEREAS, Mr. Habelman was born on July 19, 1951, and attended
Spring Woods High School, where he was an all-district football and
baseball player; he graduated from Sam Houston State University and
played professional baseball with the Montreal Expos organization
before an injury led him to enlist in the Army; and
WHEREAS, A highly decorated, 31-year veteran of the U.S.
Army, Mr. Habelman served with distinction as a Green Beret,
Airborne Ranger, and Special Forces Leader; he earned the rank of
Brigade Command Sergeant Major and served this nation with the most
decorated unit in the Republic of Vietnam, the 5th Special Forces
Group, and with the 1st Special Action Force in Indochina; and
WHEREAS, This brave Texan also served as part of Operation
Enduring Freedom in Afghanistan, where he led the 7th Cavalry
Regiment to become the first Apache unit certified combat ready in
the history of the reserves; and
WHEREAS, He regularly demonstrated steadfast courage and
unwavering commitment to his missions, and for his noble efforts he
was accorded a host of prestigious military accolades, including
several Meritorious Service medals, Army Commendation Medal, Army
Achievement Medal, and the Army Forces Expeditionary Medal; and
WHEREAS, Possessed of countless talents and skills, Mr.
Habelman was a multi-engine air transport pilot, a single-engine
and multi-engine commercial pilot, and a flight instructor as well
as a medical specialist, underwater expert, and first degree black
belt in Tae Kwan Do; and
WHEREAS, Al Habelman was an outstanding soldier and civilian
whose exceptional achievements and profound dedication to the
welfare of others are an inspiration to all Americans; although his
presence will be greatly missed, his legacy will live on in the
hearts of those whose lives he so richly blessed; now, therefore, be
it
RESOLVED, That the House of Representatives of the 79th Texas
Legislature hereby pay special tribute to the life of Alfred C.
Habelman and extend deepest sympathy to his mother and to all those
who mourn the loss of this beloved man; and, be it further
RESOLVED, That an official copy of this resolution be
prepared for his family and that when the Texas House of
Representatives adjourns this day, it do so in memory of Alfred C.
Habelman.
Bohac
______________________________
Speaker of the House
I certify that H.R. No. 1567 was unanimously adopted by a
rising vote of the House on May 20, 2005.
______________________________
Chief Clerk of the House
Bonnie Habelman
May 12, 2005
I wish to extend my sincere appreciation and thanks to all of the friends of BCSM Alfred C. Habelman. The kind words and loving acts have touched my heart and will never be forgotten. There are no words to express how wonderful it is to read the stories, and to hear from so many of you. I realized he was as special to you as he was to me. He was a loving son and hero in my eyes, and now I know he was in yours. Love to All, his mother, Bonnie Habelman
Garry 'Doc" Lowe
April 27, 2005
One of the highest tributes that can be bestowed upon one when they pass on, is the legacy that they leave behind. The influence, impact and lives that were touched when they were here. After hearing from, meeting and talking to all of Al's friends it is obvious that Al's life had a profound impact on hundreds of people. It is hard to find the words at a time like this to express what we are feeling in our hearts, because we all admired and loved Al.
The stories, exploits and adventures of Al are legendary, and most of us could tell stories all night, but I thought I would dwell instead on the character of Alfred C. Habelman and what he meant to me. Al's charisma and confidence was intoxicating. Men naturally followed him. Not only was he a natural athelete and a leader, but directed his life from a personal sense of destiny.
Al was a man of high principle. He lived by that warriors code. He loved Special Forces, being an operator, he loved what he did, a man of action. There are some in this nation, who say there are no absolutes anymore. When it came to that warriors code there were absolutes. Words like trust, honor, loyalty, respect, integrity, responsibility, and professionalism were words that he lived by.
Al's loyalty to his friends was legendary. He saw the world as good verses evil, right verses wrong. Al loved to fight the good fight. If he or any of his friends were the object of injustice, he would always come to the rescue. Sometimes he won, sometimes he lost, but he never compromised.
It did not matter day or night, time or place, if you called Al he would come ( if you did not call and he found out, you were in trouble). Like many of you, there were so many times that he went out of his way to help me.
I do not believe in coincidences in life. It was not chance that our paths came together so long ago. God had a hand in it for a purpose. That reason is so clear to me now, Al made me a better man.
There is no doubt in my military mind that Al was a believer. It gives me great solice to know, that he is absent from the body and face to face with the Lord. God's purpose for Al has been fulfilled, according to the plan of God.
I have lost a true friend, mentor, and brother in arms. Al, I will never forget you.
Garry 'Doc' Lowe
Barney Van Huss
April 26, 2005
Dear friends. I asked Bonnie's permission to relay a letter she received from a military commander of Al's. The rest is directly from the letter.
"It is with great sorrow that Nancy and I send our heart felt condolences, on behalf of the Division, for the loss of your son and our fellow Soldier, CSM Al Habelman. He has many friends here who remember him fondly and will miss him terribly. He was a great Soldier, leader, mentor, and friend. We will forever admire his steadfast devotion in service to his Nation and to his fellow Soldiers. Last week, at a council of Army Reserve, general officers and senior staff, LTG Ron Helmly, Chief of the Army Reserve, remembered Al in Honor of his selfless service and ultimate sacrifice. We are reminded that freedom IS NOT free and that Al served honorably and without reservation. We honor him and consider him to be a true "Iron Man of Metz, representing the ideals of our finest Soldiers. It has been a great privilege for us to have known so fine a man. You are in our prayers. If we can be of service,please do not hesitate to contact us. Sincerely, James Archer Major General USAR Commanding"
We are putting together a scrap book of Habelman stories. If you would like participate please contact me at the e-mail address provided. Please provide pictures to the photo gallery.
janet petri
April 25, 2005
Words cannot express the profound sorrow I feel for Bonnie at the loss of her beloved son Al, my cousin Little Al. Getting to know him after death has left a void I didn't even know existed, and that can possibly never be filled. Certainly he was an extraordinary and accomplished military man, but his life overflowing of valued friendships made him rich beyond measure. Having been a truly distant cousin(life happens excuse), my children have been deprived of their own "Al stories". I can only guess the influence he would have had over my 15 yr. old son, as well as my girls, 13 and 19. What happened to the mold he was made from? Was he an anomaly? I pray not. The only consolation I have is that when I see him in Heaven I can tell him how sorry I am that I missed him down here. But that's okay because we'll be spending eternity together with our Heavenly Father. One can only imagine the level of hijinks going on in Heaven with Al there. Must be at an unprecedented high!
Bob Frank
April 24, 2005
To CSM Habelman, family, and friends:
I did not have the honor of knowing the Sergeant Major and dearly wish that I had. Having just now finished reading every entry in this guest book, I am compelled to add one of my own.
As a Viet Nam-era veteran, I state with conviction that many of the finest troops with whom I served were Sergeants Major. Men of steel and bullet-proof dedication, they were--and are--the backbone of the Army.
It is clear to me now that Al Habelman was such a man. Indeed, he excelled even by the standards of his peers--a hero amidst heroes.
Thank you, Sergeant Major, for upholding the finest tradition of the United States Army.
Respectfully,
Bob Frank
West Point class of 1970
former Captain, US Army, Airborne
"All the Way"
Judy Faes
April 23, 2005
You were always faster than me when we played tag many years ago. As we grew up Little Al became Incredible Al. You dearly loved life. Al you truely accomplished so much. You made our family proud. We love you.
Judy Faes and Family
Christine Jennette
April 21, 2005
He was the quiet one in our family, who gave and accomplished the most. He is dearly loved and respected, can not be replaced, and will be remembered always. We love you AL.
Felix and Elousie Mayson
April 19, 2005
Bonnie, Our Love is with you, and We are always here for you.
BG Ken Bergquist (USA- Ret)
April 18, 2005
The truest measure of a soldier is best understood with the simple question: When I go into harm's way, who from the many soldiers I have known would I want next to me? For me the answer is obvious; I would have Al Habelman. When the world erupts around you, rank, honors and achievements become meaningless. All that really matters is the character of the man who stands back-to-back with you. It is that mutual faith that ties a bond that can never be broken.
Scottie Campbell
April 17, 2005
I am a friend of Al's from high school, class of 1969. We played sports together and did some things socially. I have followed what Al was doing over these years and have been proud of him for his service and courage. I'm even more proud as I read the comments in this guest book.
Al will be missed by all those close to him, friends, family and comrades. And he will be missed by the United States of America. One of our best.
Thanks for all you've done, Al, and especially, for the kind of man you became. Good job, good life, mission accomplished! See you soon in the presence of the Savior. God bless you, buddy.
Scottie
Americas Best "The Professionals"
April 17, 2005
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April 17, 2005
Trent Sanders
April 16, 2005
There isnt alot i can reflect on about Al. I never met him...for all of my short 16 year life, i never met, talked or even saw a picture of Al. But i can not lie when i say that i have never sat and listened to a childhood story on my dads knee with the amazement and mental vivedness that I have when i heard my first "Al story". When i was ten, this man was a legend, one that rivaled the power rangers, in my eyes. i heard story after story that made my jaw drop, storys that I didnt know if they were true or not, i just wanted more. As soon as i knew about Al my friends knew about him, and they wanted to meet him. needless to say so did I. As i got older, i began to take better notes of what my parents told me. This was the man who pitched for the expos. he wrote a vietnam war screen play, which I recently read. He took apart an engine and put it back together based on photos he had takin, and lots of other things which ive heard, but am unwilling to bring up because of how fantastical they are, and still dont know if they are true. the other day i was talkin to a friend, and told him about Al. when i got to the part about "the death of superman", this old friend who had drifted away, who i hadnt talked to in two years, walked over to me and asked me to repeat what i had said. i told him agin that Al had died...and this lead into the first conversation i had had with him since i left that group. i didnt know Al, and I dont know if this is even anything people want to take the time to read. But after reading this guest book, i felt compelled. Al was just another comic book hero, except that he was real. if he is inspiring me to do great things, and ive never even met him, i cant imagine what i would be like if i had.
Johan Bronkhorst
April 15, 2005
Al,as a South African soldier im proud to have served under your command for the last 12 months in Iraq.I have learned alot from you and you will be missed by many as I do now!May you rest in peace and thanks for being such a great person,soldier and friend!
(Bronx)
George Sebek
April 14, 2005
To the Habelman family,
I just received an email from a high school buddy and he mentioned about Al. I was deeply saddened to hear of Al's death. All I remember of Al was our high school years playing football and hanging out together. We really didn't have much contact after high school. But recalling those years,I remember his courage, his friendliness, and his heart for people. Reading about his accomplishments and how he affected so many lives does not surprise me. He will be missed by the many who loved him so much. "Greater love has no man than this, that one lay down his life for his friends."
Al, you loved, you gave, and you'll be missed.
Richard Vandiver
April 14, 2005
Al was a brother-in-arms. He was military; I was OGA. When I heard Al was back in Iraq, I tried to collar him, but he was always on the go. He loved his life; he loved his job; he loved his Country and he served her honorably and proudly for decades. In a time where more than half of Americans comfortably sit on their proverbial fences concerning our involvement in places such as these, whether in Vietnam or Iraq, the Al Habelmans-and there are too few, serve without question, and die without the gratitude and honor they deserve.
My fondest memory of Al was 1979 in DC. I was standing in the Rossyln, VA metro stop waiting for the next car, and I hear from behind me, "Ricky"; nobody had called me that for ten years. I turned around, and out of the shadows out steps Al, all smiling and decked out in dress greens with his beret cocked to the side. I asked him what the heck he was doing there. He just did that "heh, heh, heh" of his, and replied, "I know what you're doing." At that he said he had to leave, and I called after him, "Wait a minute, Al, at least let me get your number." He said, "I'll catch up to you"; and he never did, and I never did either. But we will catch up soon enough and swap "war stories" for an eternity. I look forward to that day.
I pray for Al's mom and other family members and friends, but at this time, I am particularly prayerful for our Nation and the loss of a bright star from her flag.
Ricky "class of '69"
Barney Van Huss
April 14, 2005
We didn’t say goodbye to Al at the service. Alfred C. Habelman will live on as a legend where giants walked. More than one Special Forces soldiers told me how when Al visited or on temporaty duty at Ft. Bragg there was a since of Awe. His reputation spread over three decades from a young E4 Green Beret to a Brigade Command Sergeant Major. Habelman was modest and explained to me how soldiers like Gary “Doc” Lowe were the real heros. He went on to say that “while he had close to a year of training before being sent into battle, young Airborne troops, Marines, and Army personel were in harms way after a few months of training.” There is one recurring theme heard at the reception, and the eulogy. CSM Habelman saved my life in _________. Al always had your back. John P., Al’s child hood friend, Fraternity Brother, and confidant said it best. “I don’t know how I’m going to fill this hole in my heart.” There were at least 70 uniformed soldiers present, not to mention men from the 1st SF, 5th SF, 7th SF, 12th SF whose uniforms had shrunk and had to wear civilian clothes. Brothers in Arms, and in the halls of Sigma Chi hold his memory dear and will continue to tell about the time when they knew a great man. Today the term hero is overused on athletes who play games for a living. Al was a fan of these games, so am I. Al played in the Arena of life and death. While athletes go into Halls of Fame, the name BCSM Alfred C. Habelman will be emblazoned on the Special Operations Group Memorial with over 100 other “Warriors”. This “Warrior's” wall has over 40 Medal of Honor recipients.
I know that when my time comes I’ll here the word “Brother” in Al’s voice.
Dan Denham
April 12, 2005
I apologize for making a second entry into the guest book, but I wish to report on Al's memorial service today. I know many who have written will return to the guest book to read new entries. I was deeply moved by several things today.
First of all, I was moved by the tremendous turnout for Al's memorial service as it ended up being standing room only. This is a testimony to the number of people that Al influenced in his life. Secondly, I was moved by the number of colleagues who attended in uniform. I thank all of them and am sorry I was not able to visit with those from units other than the one I served in with Al. As I was barely able to button my uniform trousers and my coat had no extra room, I know many who attended have crossed that treshold which I am encroaching on. So, there were even more brothers-in-arms at the service than it appeared. Thirdly, many traveled hundreds of miles to attend whether by road or by air. I thank them for their thoughtfulness and love of a brother. Finally, I thank all who spoke at the service, even though I know it was difficult, at times, for them to get the words out. The stories they shared about Al and the love they expressed helped create a more complete portrait of him that will forever be etched in my soul. That portrait exemplifies goodness, strength of character, loyalty, and action, all with a little humor thrown in for good measure. It should give everyone pause to think about his or her own character and why we are here on this earth. When I think of all-stars and all-Americans, I will remember Al.
I wish to also thank the VFW members who assisted with the procession and Al's recent employer, ECCI for hosting the reception.
Jim Webb
April 12, 2005
I am proud to say that at one time in my career I commanded a Special Forces Detachment that included Al Habelman as my “Team Sergeant.” Make no mistake about it – Al was a naturally heroic son-of-a-gun and a true patriot. His country will miss his contribution and I will miss a true comrade.
Lance Corporal Kyle Wittenbraker
April 12, 2005
A friends father showed me the obit and asked if I wanted to attend the funeral. Being a Sigma Chi from TCU and a Lance Corporal in the Marine Corps that just got back from Iraq, I felt a special connection to BCSM Habelman. I was very touched at the funeral and laughed and almost cried (as close to tears as I get). I am very glad I attended and it made me feel better about what I do and realize that true heroes still exist. In Hoc Signo Vinces and Semper Fidelis, brother.
James Compton
April 11, 2005
To the family of Al, our thoughts and prayers are with you. This has been a shock to learn of Al's passing. Al was the first friend I had when I moved to Houston. We are so sorry for your loss.
God Speed Al.
Mr.and Mrs. James Compton
Lyle Harris
April 11, 2005
Al was the epitome of a gentleman, a friend and a patriot to all that knew him. He could keep you laughing for hours with stories based on his experiences. He gave so much for his country. He will be sadly missed. Our deepest condolences to his Mother.
john rutherford
April 11, 2005
I met Al before he went into the service. We were at Stepehen F. Austin in Nacogdoches, where we were in the "Raiders" of the ROTC together. Al was not exactly ready to settle down to academia at the time. He had a different calling. Al left SFA to join the army and become a member of the Special Forces and much more. However, as a Raider we all took the same oath. "I will train now and be strong in body and strong in mind. And, if I must go in Harm's way, I will lead...and brave men will follow me."
Al, you kept your promise. God bless you, God bless those you trained and God bless those who follow you.
To the Habelman family and loved ones: May God grant you peace in this most difficult time. Our prayers and thoughts are with you.
John and Tauline Rutherford
Pine, AZ
[email protected]
MAJ Dennis E. Welch
April 11, 2005
CSM Habelman, you are and will continue to be the epitomy of "A Soldiers Soldier" I shall always remember you!
George Jozwiak
April 11, 2005
Here in the States when we think about the war we tend to get the feeling that the reality of it is something that will happen to the other guy, kind of like a car wreck. We also tend to forget that for every soldier serving, killed or wounded in Iraq there is at least one, often dozens and sometimes hundreds of people concerned and praying for their safe return and deeply affected by what happens to them. Being veterans we never forget. All the same this reality hit me like a Mac truck yesterday when I was notified of the death of a very close personal friend, Al Habelman. Telling my boss and co-workers about it brought it to them as well. In some ways I'm sorry about that, but in other ways I'm not, as none of us should ever forget about our troops and citizens serving and working in Iraq and elsewhere in the world with the primary goal of making America a safer place to live for us all.
I knew Al for 31 years in civilian life and as a soldier. He was a damn good friend and as good a soldier as there ever could be. Shane, a friend and co-worker, summed it up when he said, "Al was my friend and I'll miss him." My heart goes out to you Bonnie.
"De Opresso Liber” “All the Way” Al
Team Leader ODA565
5th Special Forces Group Airborne
Cheryl Weatherly Binnie
April 11, 2005
To Al's Family,
My grateful thanks to you and your beloved Al for his dedicated service to our country without which I would not be sitting here, able to freely write to you! My deepest condolences on your (and our country's) great loss, sounds as if Al had a remarkable career with the Army and was eveything we think that a great soldier would be. That he lay down his life for his country was the ultimate sacrifice and honor, though it is the ultimate pain for you.
Great love makes the heart soar, great loss makes the heart ache. God bless you through your grieving and heartache and know that many pray for you, Al (and all our Armed Forces) daily whom you have never met...
I knew Al at Spring Woods, though not well, as he was 2 years ahead of me and in those days 2 years was a big gap!! I remember him as quiet and very nice. Proves still waters run deep.
Love and thanks,
Cheryl Weatherly Binnie SWHS '71
William Splawn
April 11, 2005
I served with Al on ODA-215 20 years ago. We had many laughs together as well as many rough times. You couldn't help but respect him. I think he brought out the best in all who knew him. I lost track of Al the last several years, but it does not surprise me to learn of all he had accomplished since I last served with him. We will miss you Al, but we have fond memories and great experiences we can recall. Thanks for the job you did for us.
Claudette Brown
April 10, 2005
Thank you soldier for sacrificing your precious life for our country. My prayers are with the family and friends of this American hero.
Ed Farris
April 10, 2005
It was my honor and privelige to serve with Al in the 1st Brigade, 75th Division. He was one of the best soldiers I ever knew, and I will never forget him. My condolences to his family.
LeAnne (Wilson) Rigsby
April 10, 2005
Dear Habelman family and friends,
I was devastated to hear of Al's death at our Spring Woods HS reunion on April 1st. He was such a wonderful person through-and-through. Everyone liked Al! It was such an honor to have known him throughout our junior high and high school years. And like the others have said, he was doing what he loved to do.
He will truly be missed by all who knew and loved him. He touched many, many lives and made a lasting impression with his quiet greatness. His accomplishments, in his short life, are monumental. Our country has added another hero to our history books.
(Like Debbie Hall Thorworth asked, save me a spot, too, Al!!)
Vera Weston
April 10, 2005
I never met Al, just wanted to say thank you and God Bless to his famly. Then, read the guest book entries and now feel like I knew him. What a wonderful person God needed. Your earthly loss is felt sincerely. We Americans will always remember him. Vera Weston
Denby Stutz
April 10, 2005
My heart goes out to your family in the loss of such a wonderful loved one. Some people have jobs that make a difference in their community. Al made a difference in the WORLD. How many people can say that? I appreciate his years of service and the sacrifices he and his family made on behalf of our country. It is men such as Al who my son looked up to when he decided to join the Marines. I was blessed that my son returned from Iraq. I wish so desparately that Al had also. God bless you all and lift your spirits in knowing he died doing what he loved best. I am sure it is hard to see now, but that really is a gift.
My prayers are with you,
Denby Stutz
Memphis, TN
Dan Denham, MSG (A/2/12 & C/5/19 SFG(A), Retired)
April 9, 2005
I have several fond if not interesting memories of Al on training missions or social occasions in various locations in the Lower 48, Alaska, and overseas. Everyone always knew when Al was around. You couldn't miss him. He was quite the scrapper and would do everything to keep his team from coming up on the short end of the deal. I vividly recall the chatter of a fire-fight a few clicks away one night while my team was on patrol. I still remember our team's response, "That's probably 215." Later on we learned that it was. Al always drove his ODA to take the initiative.
Al was also very expressive. I remember his remarks at the review of an exercise. My Norwegian Elkhound had spotted him laying in the weeds from about six feet away, but I never realized it. Al told me, "That was the biggest @&#*%! dog I ever saw!"
I understand he made the ultimate sacrifice to keep a comrade from coming up short at his final calling. He was always there, always living the moment, and I'm sure that's how he took his last breath. I am proud to have known and served with Al.
Henry Boschen
April 9, 2005
Al and I first met in boot camp and served in the 5th Special Forces Group together. We became instant friends and shared many experiences and a friendship that spanned over 30 years. I will miss you greatly my brother. You were truly one of a kind. A great soldier, a great son, a great human being, and a great great friend. It won't be the same without you.
De Oppresso Liber
Jack Farr
April 9, 2005
SGM Al Habelman, Warrior- recently gave his final measure of Honor, Integrity and sacrifice to our country, as few others have done. He was without equal as an exceptional standup/standout soldier who always lead from the front while serving America as a Sterling example of Superior Service and devotion to duty. Al, "One of America's Best" will truly be missed (but never forgotten) by all who knew him.
Respectfully,
Gina (Scarbrough) Dickinson
April 9, 2005
Al, a true hero, friend and brother. It is wonderful to read so many nice things about Al. He was a man with a good heart. A big heart. Big enough for all he met. I have a picture of Al that my Dad captioned 'Super Bro' and that is what he was to all of us Scarbrough kids. It looks like he was "Super Bro' to many others as well. Al will be in my heart forever. Rest in peace Super Bro. We love you and dearly miss you.
Nicole Roman
April 8, 2005
Al,was a great HERO and he will always be remmembered!Mrs. Bonnie, youre in our families prayers. If you need anything were right next door.God Bless You.
Gary Spitzenberger
April 8, 2005
I was saddened to hear about Al. He was a distinct personality and I was lucky to be his friend since junior high. You could always depend on Al Habelman. I didn't know many details about his military career until his death, but I am very proud of his accomplishments. God bless Al's mom and may he rest in peace.
Pat McQuinn
April 8, 2005
I was shocked to see Al's picture on the local news on April 6th and to learn of his death. As an old friend from the class of 1969 Al was a hero then and is now. Whenever I see my old class mates someone will ask, where is Al? We have lost an American Hero while he was defending our freedom. God bless you Al.
James Mahrer
April 8, 2005
Al was a great guy during high school.I really enjoy the classes we
had together and the times at football.I
know he will be truly missed by all
that knwe him.
Billy Melcher
April 8, 2005
Thanks Al for your service to our country. You will not be forgotten.
Bill Melcher
Spring Woods Class of 1969
Ross Asher
April 8, 2005
Farewell and God speed to another fallen hero.
Rod Burcaw
April 8, 2005
"He is no fool who gives what he cannot keep to gain what he cannot lose." Thanks Al for giving it all.
Rod Burcaw
Faira Percic Gilbreath
April 8, 2005
I was saddened to hear of Al's death. What accomplishments he has done in his life. Al's family and friends are in my thoughts and prayers. May God Bless you all.
Geoff Barker
April 8, 2005
Al was a true soldier. His word was his bond, and he never backed down from a mission. There was no doubt in my mind when I moved him from Operations Sergeant to Team Sergeant on ODA-215 - he was already a leader and highly respected by all that knew him.
I am proud to have served with Al Hableman. His loss is a loss to our great nation. He will be missed, but he will always be remembered.
LTC Joseph Caire
April 8, 2005
CSM Al Habelman,
I will miss you. Thank you for all the help over the years. You always seemed invincible to me and it down right hurts to know that you are gone. May God bless you.
Mac McElligott
April 8, 2005
Al gave me a call and I agreed to take one of his Battalions to Iraq,(Could anyone ever refuse AL?) and the plan was that we would switch after his ride in Afghanistan. Plans sometimes get changed. It looks like you'll be 'On Point' to The Pearly Gates, bro. You are leaving a legacy.
Pati Yarian
April 8, 2005
Saddens the heart to heart that another wonderful soldier has fallen. May the Good Lord watch over and keep the family strong.
Pati
Lynn Sawyer Jordan
April 7, 2005
Dear Habelman Family,
It seems like only a brief time since I ran into Al at our 35th high school reunion. I was amazed that he was going to return once again to the middle of the conflict after having already spent 30+ years with the military. But that seems to be just the kind of person Al was, and it was very apparent to all of us who visited with him at that reunion that he believed that he could make a difference by taking just one more assignment. Al will be missed by all those whose lives he touched and by those whose freedoms he helped to ensure throughout his long and illustrious career. Please know that your family is in my prayers during this time of loss. Blessings to all of you.
harold lillibridge
April 7, 2005
Hey Al When we were growing up back in the spring branch area we never had heard of all these wonderful places our country would be sending us someday. I cried friday night at our Spring Woods alumni meal when i got the news of your promotion to the HONOR GUARD in HEAVEN for CHRIST JESUS. Al after reading about all you had done here in this tired old world i can see why our FATHER looked around and knew he needed you more with him than with us here. If you could have served in EL Salvador I believe we could have gotten out of that mess sooner. Tiger Power ! nothing compared to AL Power ! Life is to be lived to its fullest all who knew AL knew he did not waste a moment. It was a honor to know YOU AL and to the wonderful LADY who gave you life our LOVE and Thoughts are with you.
REV(col)H L Lillibridge (USJD)retired fellow TIGER forever
Lori Barthlow
April 7, 2005
I am deeply saddened by your loss. Although I did not have the opportunity to meet you I feel I have through my husband Captain Michael J. Barthlow USMC. He tells me that you were a mentor to him and guided him on his journey into the Marine Corp. The respect and admiration we have for you will forever be constant. Thank you for touching my husband’s life so deeply and protecting our countries freedoms! God Speed Al….
Angela (Scarbrough) Hurbrough
April 7, 2005
Al was a true gentleman, soldier, and family friend. My family and I will miss him dearly. We have many cherished memories of Al and will hold them deep in our hearts. God Bless Al.
John Hoyt
April 7, 2005
We will all miss you Al. You were a great friend, brother, soldier, and leader. The White Cross has gained new luster by your life.
John Hoyt
SGT Frank Carrillo
April 7, 2005
I met CSM Hableman when he came to the 321st CA BDE. He was the epitome of what a senior NCO should be. He was a leader that lead from the front who truly cared for his soldiers and looked out for his "Joes". While in Afghanistan during our unit's first tour several of us would get together at Bagram AF when in from the field. Lance Hinds would say " 'Dad' is in town, Let's go see him". We would spend the evening talking 'bout the war and home. He will be missed and remembered. God Bless you Sergeant Major(Dad).
LTC Thomas Goodfellow
April 7, 2005
Sergeant Major, it was my honor to serve with you in Afghanistan, you are a true professional soldier. The Army, our unit and myself will miss your dedication and leadership beyond belief. My prayers go out to your family and our bothers at the Kabul compound will think of you often. God bless.
Tom Donovan
April 7, 2005
Friends and Brothers, If you have pictures of Al with your family please post them for Bonnie.
Ann Sheridan
April 7, 2005
I served with SGM Habelman in the 75th in Houston. He was the quintessential SGM and an inspiration to all who knew him. It was a privilege.
Robert Yarberry
April 7, 2005
It was my Honor and Privilege to know and serve with Al while a member of the 2 BN, 12SFGA. He was a true warrior, a good man and friend.
"De Opresso Liber"
Ken Starr
April 7, 2005
CSM Habelman we all will miss you! You are a true "WARRIOR". You live on through the many lives you touched. GOD BLESS THE AMERICAN SOLDIER!
Curtis McLilly
April 7, 2005
May God Bless Al's love ones. I was in the 321st Civil Affairs Brigade. I did not know Al, but it sounds like he was an outstanding soldier. I did not know him, but I wish I had known him.
James Madison II
April 7, 2005
Al, you are a template of American Manhood. Strong, courageous, confident, decisive and loyal; yet also gentle, patient, kind and humble. You accomplished so much and never stopped seeking the next challenge. I've never met a man more universally respected by his friends, brothers-in-arms, and Brothers in the White Cross. I wish I could have been like you. But, if I had told you that, you would have said 'It aint over yet...go be what you want.' The safest, most interesting place on earth was near you. I can't help but feel that even Heaven is a safer place. You've finished the work. Welcome home, Al. You've earned it.
Linda Schneider
April 7, 2005
As a mother of a fellow service man, I am deeply sadden to hear of your lose. I am very greatful we have fine men and women that fight for our right to live in a free country. Although, it is a huge lose, you can be very proud. I hope you can find peace in your heart. My deepest sympathy.
Heidi DeGroot-Lewis
April 7, 2005
My father and Al served together in the Army. I remember him coming over and spending time with us often. Bonnie adopted me as one of her own and she is Aunt Bonnie. For every occasion there was there was a note and gift from Aunt Bonnie. One time when my mother was out of town Al my father and I flw his plane to see Aunt Bonnie he let me fly the plane. For the longest time I thought it was just pretend, but I reactly found out that was most likely flying it. I'll never foget that trip. Al ment so much to so many diffrent people. He will be greatly missed!
Joe Wayne Clark
April 7, 2005
I had a terrible time sleeping last night after hearing of Al's death on 4/6/05. I kept thinking about the different things I (we all) had done with Al during our college days. I remember Al coming to my Dad's funeral & how my parents really were impressed by Al when Sigma Chi played in the softball tournament in Galena Park. He spent a lot of time talking with my folks, & numerous times after that they both commented on what a good man he was. I guess they had a better perspective on things that I did at that time. Who would have thought? When I think back I beleive that I originally thought Al was a little strange, not meaning strange bad but he had a different outlook on life, liked different things, & was passionate about different things, as well as being very dedicated. Now I know that he was a MAN amongst BOYS. I can honostly say, I don't have any bad or ill memories of Al. He was a joy to be around & was a great source of knowlege about things I had never been exposed to. What a great man, protector, friend, Sigma Chi Brother & soldier. I & America, as a whole, owe a tremendous debt to Al for his service to our country & for him keeping us safe. I can remember that same feeling in college. If Al was around he would keep me safe & nothing could happen to me. I have been truly blessed to have had Al as a friend & brother. God Bless You Al. I will never forget you.
J. Ben Rhodes
April 7, 2005
"Sergeant Major", Leader, Friend, Brother.... There are so many ways to describe CSM Habelman. It was hard to hear of his passing. After reflecting on what seemed too short a time I was lucky enough to know him, I know my life was better for it. He was noble, principled, and a savvy Soldier. God bless you and keep you Al. I hope to see you again one day.
MSG J. Ben Rhodes
Christopher Gipson
April 7, 2005
I had the honor of meeting Al in Dec.04.From that moment I realized he had a commanding presence. I also had the opportunity to shake his hand an hour before he was lost. My deepest condolences to the Hableman Family and his friends who knew.
Gerald "Jerry" Dawson
April 7, 2005
I was a classmate of Al's at SHSU. We did share a few times, both in the classroom and out, the one I remember the most was attending Range School together. He was an inspiration to all of us in the course. At the time, I could not understand how he could keep a smile on his face in the very toughest and demanding of times. He will not be forgotten.
Rest in peace, Al.
Gary Cerny
April 7, 2005
Brother Al - We all make many acquaintances throughout our lifetime, but only true friends leave footprints on our hearts. Thanks for the footprints you left on mine. I know your mother must be proud to know that when you entered the gates of Heaven, Jesus who is seated at the right hand of the Father, stood and said "He is one of mine, let him in". Al, you were and always will be a true inspiration for all of us.
In Hoc- Brother Cerny
LTC Alan Devenney
April 7, 2005
SGM Habelman always displayed the warrior spirit. He was the kind of soldier you could trust with your life. A true model of courage and integrity. I have absolutely no doubt that he kept the faith! My deepest condolences to the family he left behind.
James Vincoli
April 7, 2005
I wish to say that we are all saddened from SOC-SMG with the loss of a brother. I was the last to be briefed regarding the issues on security of the new Camp here at Habbaniyah. Again, I new him briefly, but I was impressed. I was just informed our new camp will now be named "Camp Habellman". May God bless his family.
Barbara & Rodney Scarbrough
April 7, 2005
Al will always be in our hearts. We cherish the letters received from Al from all parts of the world. Bonnie, we thank you for your son. How proud you must be. Al, we will be with you in paradise.
Nick Leach
April 7, 2005
Al was a warrior in the truest sense of the word. All who knew or met him were better of from the experience. He will be missed by all of us.
"De Oppresso Liber"
SFC Bobb Christian
April 7, 2005
Al was my brother, my friend, my mentor and one of the greatest men to walk the face of the earth. I will miss you my brother, go with God.
Shelton Riggins
April 7, 2005
Al was a great guy and friend; he will be missed.
Dennis Smith
April 7, 2005
My son was seriusly wounded But Al has given all. You will not be forgotten! God be with those who are left behind.
scott, patty mitzel
April 7, 2005
we are deeply saden for your loss of your son, but deeply thankful for the service that one gives. may God richly bless you in His peace, in His comfort, and in His understanding.
Lisa (Scarbrough) Collins
April 6, 2005
It was very hard to hear the news of Al today, although I knew that I could hear of this at any time. He was always ready and willing to serve his country. Al will always have a special place in my heart as he will with my whole family. His visits home to Houston on leave in the early 70's are a wonderful memory. He was just "Al" to us, not the soldier or leader, but a great friend. It is wonderful to hear from all his friends and people that served with him or under him. He was always very humble when it came to his accomplishments. It is obvious why Al was put on this earth. God bless all of those who serve our country so willingly. My heart and prayers go out to his Mom, I know how much she loved Al and how proud of him she was. How sweet it was to receive a Christmas card from her on Al's behalf this year. Al will truly be missed.
Alfred C. Habelman, Godfather to C.Alfred VH
April 6, 2005
Ronald Garrison CSM(R)
April 6, 2005
Al was a good friend and soldier. I, as we will miss him until the big muster.
Jimmy Seltzer
April 6, 2005
My thoughts and prayers go out to the Habelman family.
Gregg Peterson
April 6, 2005
"For none but the shades of Cavalrymen
Dismount at Flddlers' Green"
Just a short tribute to an honest and a good man. Just knowing that CSM Hablelman was out there inspired me to live a better life. He will be missed.
Robert Okamura
April 6, 2005
Thank you CSM Habelman for your selfless service, guidance and counsel.
You will be missed but not forgotten.
Joan Appleton
April 6, 2005
Al believed in living life to the fullest and doing what he loved most.
God's blessings and peace to his Mom and friends.
Amy Scarbrough
April 6, 2005
To Al, a long time family friend who we are all so proud of and will miss very much. Al I remember many Christmas Days with you at my family's home in Houston. You always walked up the dirve way with flowers for my mother, an example of what a thoughtful kind man were, always giving to others. We think of you every Christmas and the fun times we had playing games and laughing together. We always thought of you as part of the family and always will.
John Hoyt
April 6, 2005
Al has to be one of the most interesting roomates I have ever lived with. I remember one summer in College when he returned from summer camp SF training and had lost about 15 lbs. He looked like he had been starved. When I asked him what happened he went on to tell me how he had spent the last two weeks living in some swamp. Then he went on to say "It was Great." Thats the kinda guy Al was. He loved a challenge.
Brian Leighton
April 6, 2005
I didn't know Al very well personaly, but I knew of his legend. He was a student at Sam Houston State in the mid '70s. Campus life, and the otherwise tame ROTC program was a little more exciting thanks to a Viet Nam vet named Habelman (as he was known to us). He had legendary status both on and off campus. The college pranks always seem to have a bigger impact, thanks to Al's military background and combat experience. For the next 25 years, I would hear "war stories" about Habelman's exploits from numerous people around the world.
Deeply saddened at his loss.....
Nick Leach
April 6, 2005
Al was a warrior in the truest sense. All who knew him were better off for the experience. Rest well, fellow warrior.
"De Oppresso Liber"
George Mabry
April 6, 2005
I served with Al in the 1st SFG on Okinawa. We left active duty about the same time and I later served with him in the 12th SFG Reserve. Al was a top soldier and a top friend. There is an old saying that to have a good friend, you must first be a good friend. That being the case, Al had a lot of good friends. CSM Al Habelman will forever be in my heart and my prayers. God Bless you Al. You're one of the good ones.
Terry Barton Bennett
April 6, 2005
I have many fond memories of Al's kind and gentle nature from Sam Houston State. You'll be missed dearly. My thoughts and prayers are with Al's family at this time.
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