Jay Curtis Crimp

1951 - 2011

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Jay Crimp Obituary

Curt was born April 9, 1951 to Frank and Kay Crimp in Ellensburg, WA and died at home February 28, 2011. He attended the Ellensburg Public Schools and graduated from Ellensburg High School in 1969. He developed a passion for the theatre and arts by performing in many plays throughout his years in high school. His love and passion for the arts became quite clear to our family when he jumped out his bedroom window to go see "West Side Story" back in the early 60's despite being told "no" by Mom and Dad.

He attended Central Washington University for 3 years performing in several of their plays and then transferred to the University of Washington with the intention of graduating with a degree in drama education. He did his student teaching in Seattle and looked forward to becoming a drama teacher. But in the summer of 1973 he took a fob performing in summer stock theatre in Sullivan, Illinois. With 2 weeks left before fall semester at the UW began, Curt went to New York City with some friends to catch a Broadway play and see life in that big city. He saw a poster for an open call for 10 backup dancers for a musical called "Applause" starring Patrice Munsel. There were 200 men there auditioning and he was selected for the 10th spot The musical toured the United States for 1 year, even stopping in Yakima, and thus, this was the beginning of his career as dancer/actor/singer.

For the next 15 years Curt participated in many summer stock theatres, from Columbus, OH to Lake Oswego, OR to Birmingham, AL to Madrid, Spain. During this time he lived in New York City for 3 years and then moved to Hollywood, CA in the late '70's. He also developed a love for choreography during this time and choreographed several of the summer stock plays. He choreographed and starred in many plays: Godspell, Jesus Christ Superstar, Seven Brides for Seven Brothers, Shenandoah, Grease, Hello Dolly, Oliver, Sound of Music and many others. His film credits during those 15 years include "Saturday Night Fever" and "Grease" where he dances next to John Travolta and bit parts acting in "Jagged Edge," "The X Files," and "The Bucket List." He was also hired as dance instructor for Paul Newman in his movie "Fat Man, Little Boy."

Through his dancing and choreography skills he organized a troupe called "A Chorus Line of Care" that raised money for aids victims. They performed many times and at many events in Hollywood.

As he grew older, the dancing was taking its toll and so he sought other, less physical means of supporting himself. He became a camera coordinator/blocker for situation comedy the last 20 years. This job entailed rehearsing the episode for the director and taking the actors to the exact spot on stage where they were to perform each scene so that the director could check camera angle, sound and lighting. Many times he was also called on to be an extra in several of the scenes and can still be seen oftentimes in the background of the old reruns on TV. His sitcoms included "Cheers," "Coach," 'Wings," "News Radio," "Dharma and Greg," "Win and Grace," "That 70's Show," and "The Big Bang Theory." Curt loved to hike, camp and travel. He always returned to his beloved hometown of Ellensburg during the spring and summer months and loved to rest and swim at our cabin on Lake Cle Elum and foremost to help with the Valley Musical Theatre. He helped choreograph some of their plays and had the honor of directing, choreographing and playing the lead role in "The Music Man" a few years back. He always expressed his joy in seeing so many from the Ellensburg community play an active role in the arts and his participation was his way of giving back.

My brother and I are extremely proud of Curt's accomplishments, his caring and giving attitude and the radiance he brought to everyone's lives through his character and charm.

Curt was preceded in death by his father, Frank Crimp Jr. and his mother Kay Crimp. He is survived by his two older brothers Keith and Frank Crimp, Keith's wife Betsy and their 3 sons Randy, Matthew, and Eric, Frank's wife Erika and their children Katheryn and Robert. In lieu of flowers any donation should go to the Valley Musical Theatre.

Visitation at Steward & Williams Tribute Center, 9:00 a.m. to 12 p.m. Monday, March 7th. A memorial service and reception will be held at Grace Episcopal Church at 2:00 p.m. Monday, March 7. Internment will follow at IOOF Cemetery.

Published by Daily Record from Mar. 2 to Mar. 8, 2011.
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Enjoyed remembering Jay - who I worked with on many occasions. I lovely man.

Patricia Hill

Coworker

February 24, 2019

He was my first onscreen crush as a teenager watching Star Trek: The Next Generation in the late 80's. I tracked down his name from IMBD, then tracked down the Kurt on FaceBook in hopes of brightening his day to know that people out there were crushing on him. Instead, I discovered that he had already passed away (on my birthday). Reading all these comments its clear he was a wonderful person, and worthy of my crush -- I'm sorry I never had the chance to meet him. Sounds like he was as beautiful on the inside as the outside.

Greg Aldrich

Acquaintance

February 4, 2019

The smile, the energy, and the spirit, that's what I think about when I think about Jay. We had so much fun, he was so much fun. Peace to his family.

Lenny Garner

April 1, 2011

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March 31, 2011

So many fun times on the set with Jay! We read lots of day player parts together on It's All Relative. Many times we sat in the bar set being misogynistic and homophobic old men, great memories!

Carey Goldstein

March 31, 2011

Jay was a big help to me on a number of pilots, he seemed to know everyone who was of the stand-in persuasion and whether they were available to work. Sorry I never got to see him dance. I'll miss his presence and positive attitude on set. A sad loss for our multicam community.

Brian Fong

March 28, 2011

I love you Jaybird!

Lori

March 28, 2011

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March 27, 2011
Curtie Curtie Curtie, how much we miss you, the sunshine and spice, your smile and sparkle. Soooo many memories. Love you always always always

Ginny & Harlan Moyer

March 27, 2011

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March 26, 2011

An open facebook page has been dedicated to Jay Curtis Crimp--please feel free to share photos or memories...Thank you! facebook.com/jaycurtiscrimp.ripjaybird

March 25, 2011

I remember working with Jay on "Wings." He was a pro in every way. He did his job well, he did it with a smile, and he never failed to lift the spirits of those around him. May he rest in peace.

Dave Hackel

March 25, 2011

Gone, but not forgotten. The weeks are passing by... but you are still in our thoughts my dear Curt. Thinking daily of you and your loving family and hoping they are finding peace. Sending them many thanks for honoring you so gracefully and respectfully. You are missed.

March 25, 2011

Reflections of you grace my thoughts daily, reminding me how much you are missed in insurmountable ways--making me smile, laugh, cry, and wonder why you have gone so soon my dear Jaybird...my weeping heart has been etched with your beautiful, bright, generous, thoughtful and loving spirit always...Thank you for making more than a difference by being in my life--your presence is deeply missed, never forgotten and forever loved...

March 15, 2011

Curt was always one of my favorite people. When I moved to Ellensburg, he was one of the very first to make me feel welcome. We had tons of fun together and I am so happy to be filled with positive and loving memories of Curt. I will miss him, his sense of humor and great stories. He will always be in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless you, Curt.

March 14, 2011

Curt carried sunshine wherever he went - if he didn't know that then, he knows it now. God bless you, Curt. You are forever in our hearts.

Judi Thomas (Cortes)

March 12, 2011

These past few days more wonderful memories keep coming to my mind too, Keith. I thought about Grandma Kaynor and how she reminded me we'd have to pray for Curt everyday after he went to the "Big City" because he would be away from family. I remember she loved the Psalms and read them often for wisdom and comfort. In memory of her and what she would have done at this time, I read through the Psalms and picked a couple I thought she would treasure at this time. Ps.34:18 The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and those crushed in spirit. Ps. 56:8 Thou has put my tears in Thy bottle. I remember that gleam in her eye as Curt would smother her with big bear hugs and kisses and that shy little smile she would have. The euolgy was so beautiful and very hard to do I know but Frank you and Keith left nothing out, it was so honoring to him. The get together at your home afterward Keith and Betsy was such a healing time for our family to be with each other and comfort one another. Your home is a treasure of love and sweet family times as Brooke always says. Erika sweet lady that you are, my heart is with you and I'm praying for you each day and your and Frank's sweet family. much love, cousin karen

Karen Snyder

March 11, 2011

The funeral was so honoring to Curt, Frank and Keith and Betsy and Erika you all did such a wonderful job of remembering the warm, humorous, sensitive, caring and downright entertaining memories we all have of our Curt. I continue to have all of you on my heart, and like you said Keith, memories keep surfacing each day. I kept thinking of Grandma Kaynor and how she used to say to me, "I'm keeping Curt in my prayers because he's living in the big city now and not around our family". I remember her love of the Psalms so I read through some of the Psalms last night in memory of her and picked one I thought she might choose to comfort us all. Ps 34:18 The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and those who are crushed in spirit. and Ps 56:8 Thou hast put my tears in Thy bottle. I remember the way her face would light up and her mouth would curl in a smile at just the mention of Curt. He used to luv Grandma up so with big hugs and kisses. He was so infectious and life was one big adventure for him, you just couldn't help thinking "Anything is possible" when you were around him. The get together at your home Keith and Betsy was so healing for all of us, just our family (so many) all gathered eating and reminiscing, just being together in your warm home was what we all needed....to comfort one another and to try to laugh a little because that is what Curt would have wanted. Frank, I know it was hard for you to do the eulogy, but you did such a great job of remembering all the special things he did. I'm sure he had a grand welcoming in heaven with all our loved ones who have gone before us, and heaven will never be the same. I'm sure he is already directing and casting a play as we speak....ummmm I wonder what the play is and who gets what parts? Keith I remember when Grandpa Kaynor passed away, you commented, "Don't worry, Grandpas playing golf with Hank the Plumber in heaven. Well, Curt and your Mom are probably singing a duet and hamming it up! love you all so....much.

March 10, 2011

I remember Curt coming to our '69er reunions, excited to hear what WE had been up to. We just wanted to hear what "the star" had been doing, but that was never his style, to talk about himself.
I remember him keeping us in stitches on the bus when the tennis team had out of town matches.
I remember his beautiful voice in choir.
I remember going to a Prom with him - what a treat, as he was such a great dancer.
His life: remembered...always.

Diane Prigge

March 10, 2011

Dearest Curt,
Tonight I am back on the island you loved so much, having traveled over the mountains to share my love for you with so many others. You touched so many lives, stole so many hearts, and helped make me the person I am today. You taught me early on that this world is big and diverse and just "there" for the taking. You made my cheerleading posters, took me with you to see West Side Story, and told me when I dyed my hair platinum, that, well, I should rethink that. And that was you. Always honest, kind, wonderful.

In Keith and Frank, you have the most amazing big brothers- and you knew this. You loved them fiercely, adored their families, and you were the best Uncle ever. I will forever be grateful to have lived next door to you, your brothers, and your amazing
Mom and Dad, the best Aunt and Uncle a girl could have. There has always been a place in my heart that was just yours, and that will never change. I love you. Always. Gayle

Gayle (Haberland) Williams

March 9, 2011

I lived next door to Curt for a few years. I couldn't believe when I heard this news. He was a master at telling stories and had such an interesting, full life.

My heart and my prayers go out to the whole Crimp family during this time. He will be missed.

John Wyble

March 9, 2011

A friend who you will never forget and treasure the time you had with him. I "Applaud" his life and this friendship.

Frank Preston

March 9, 2011

Curt was one of the dearest friends of my sister and her husband, Ginny & Harlan Moyer. It is through them that I experienced the joy of knowing Curt for these past many years. Curt was such a part of us that he was considered "family." He was such a sweet, kind, loving, effervescent, entertaining, talented man who filled a room with joy. My sympathy goes out to his family at this sad time, as well as to his huge circle of friends. May our memories comfort us. Prayers. . .

Barb Ahlstrand

March 9, 2011

Your wonderful comments and memories of Curt only confirm what we all knew--that Curt was a special person who touched so many lives. Your thoughts comfort and uplift both of us. There are so many memories of Curt that have popped into my mind the last few days and every one of them bring a smile to my face. I'd like to share a couple of them with you. My wife Betsy and I were married at the Episcopal Church in Ellensburg in 1978 and of course Curt was part of my wedding party. Well, Curt knew the details of the wedding and knew that Betsy and I were going to kneel down, facing away from all those attending and receive a blessing from our minister, Father Redmon. Curt had taken pieces of white tape and put them on the bottom of my shoes with the letters "HE" on the sole of the left shoe and "LP" on the sole of the right shoe. Thank god that dad was walking behind me and saw the tape. We both laughed and shook our heads. Curt said "well I just had to try."

My brother Frank married quite late in life at the age of 49. He married a young, beautiful girl from Guatemala, named Erika. She was 17. Curt realized that this age discrepancy might be a bit uncomfortable for some. So he devised a plan, to break any tension that might exist and, to my surprise, got Frank to go along with it. It went like this: Whenever we were with a group of friends or cousins Curt would say "You know Frank, with you being so much older aren't you at all worried about your sexual lives? You know, it could prove to be fatal. Frank, without missing a beat would respond, "well if she dies, she dies." Vintage Curt and only he could of thought of something like that. Yes, memories, the passage of time, and laughter are the best medicines. Thanks all again for your caring thoughts.

Keith

March 9, 2011

...Jaybird in his element--smiling and loving always, appreciating the warmth and beauty in the smallest of things. Jay's caring, vibrant friendship is deeply missed and forever loved...

March 9, 2011

I just wanted to comment on Curt's service. Frank and Keith, others....you did justice to Curt with such a wonderful service. Frank's comments hit home with me. I listend with great interest and could have sat there for hours to hear people's experiences and stories of Curt. So many great memories. What a great human being. I experienced great comfort by being around family members that loved Curt so much. Frank, Keith and thier families, all Curt's cousins that I hadn't seen for quite some time. Even though I am so sorry for the Crimps for thier lose I now see the start of celebration of a life well lived. Rest in piece for ever Curt and make sure you tell Grandma and Grandpa Kaynor I love and miss them.

Gary Keyes

March 9, 2011

Frank and Keith, my prayers and thoughts are with both of you and all your family. Oh, the memories will last forever especially the Bridge Club outings up at Lake Cle Elum. Curtie was always getting us younger ones into mischief. I will think of Curt always when a song from "Saturday Night Fever" or "Grease" is played and I will think of him dancning away. I will miss following up with you on his coming and goings. He will be truely missed by everyone his touched.

Jimmer Gibbons

March 8, 2011

I knew him as Kurt Kaynor - met him doing "Chorus Line of Care". when I went into casting at "General Hospital" I would call on him frequently. He was professional and talented and I could always depend on him. He will be missed.

March 8, 2011

My cousin Curt was the most sensitive and compassionate person I know. He was unbelievably talented, but one of his greatest gifts was that he truly appreciated the little things. The smell of the ocean air, the taste of fresh fruit on his cereal or the beauty and fragrance of a fresh cut bouquet of lilacs. I was lucky enough to have enjoyed all of these things with him. While I will miss him terribly, as we came over the mountain pass last night, returning home after his service, I looked up to the sky to see something I had never seen before. It was a crescent moon, but the crescent was at the bottom like a big smile in the sky. It occurred to me that it was a sign from Curt telling me that he was at peace.

Tami (Haberland) Smith

March 8, 2011

Frank III, your reflections of Curt at the service today were marvelous and heartfelt. Brother Stu already shared the anecdote I had in mind so I will simply say that Curt's passing feels like the end of our childhood at the cabin. He is the first of our bridge club generation to go, but we all have some great memories of him.

Scott Pearl

March 7, 2011

Ken and I were so saddened to hear of Curt's passing. What a wonderful and caring man he was to all. I have known Curt since childhood, our folks were friends, especially our mothers. I think the most important thing, about Curt, was his unconditional love for everyone. He was kind, considerate and loving to everyone he met. It was so exciting to see him at some of the reunions. He would share with all of us what was happening in his life at the time and what movies or TV shows he was working on. What a great guy, he will truly be missed by so many. Please know, Keith, Frank and families, that you are all in our prayers. God Bless.

Ken and Linda Eaton

March 7, 2011

Curt was totally amazing. He could dance he could sing, he could stage, he had everything a production could wish for. Last time I saw him was at Freddy Meyers Store in Ellensburg, Memorial Day Weekend 2010. He was just coming back to stay at Ellensburg for awhile and he spotted me with my mother, Trudy Rodine as we chatted with Cliff Wolfsehr. I hade seen this gorgeous man when we entered Freddy's that moved like a dancer but could not remember his name even though I Knew he was from High School. Then I heard a "Debbie Rodine" how GREAT to see you, you look great! His eyes were sparkling like only Curt's could, and he plied me with questions after saying, "You were the big Choir hot shot pianist, do you maybe remember me? Curt Crimp" It was so wonderful because I left the artist world and am now YMCA. Here was this huge Hollywood Hotshot that defied all odds and won in a brutal business yet remained kind and normal. He told me what he was doing as if it was no more than what I was doing....which it definitely was. He looked so alive, healthy and vibrant. Was staying for the summer and is now deceased. Curt, may you fly with the angels and say Hi to my dad, yours and your mother...all total favorites of mine in school..

Wish we could clone you Curt...Fondly and with the GREATEST admiration....Debbie Rodine (Mountain View. California..EHS69

Debbie & Trudy Rodine

March 7, 2011

Curt was a wonderful young man when I knew him in high school. He was a senior leader on the tennis team when I was a sophomore wanna-be. He was exceptionally nice to all of us. Like most from Ellensburg, I proudly followed his career. My thoughts and prayers go to his family.

Alison Cone

March 7, 2011

I am two years younger than Curtis but I remember him in high school in E'burg and my parents were good friends with Frank and Kay. I remember the gentle, fun'loving spirit Curtis had with people and I knew he left E'burg to follow his passion. Wow, did he! Sounds like his life was full! I don't know if you two brothers, Keith and Frank remember me but I am Harvey and Dorothy Vaughan's youngest daughter Lisa (the twin). My heart goes out to you at this difficult time. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Feel blessed
in knowing the love will be with you always in your heart.

March 7, 2011

Curtis was a joy to be around and his laugh will be missed! Curtis had so much talent - he was a pleasure to watch perform, have a conversation with, or just kick back and have lunch at the cabin with the Craft Ladies! What a very special person and may he be at peace.

Peggy Underwood

March 7, 2011

I'll never forget the gentle and caring tribute that Curt delivered when a baby nephew passed away. Also I will never forget his loving nature toward my mom during her visits to family and friends in Los Angeles. I will never forget his warmth and friendship during Thanksgiving visits with family in Los Angeles. I will never forget those wonderful homemade from scratch lemon bars and peanut brittle for which he was so famous. I will never forget Curt. May his family find peace, comfort and blessings in having someone so special in their family.

Kathie Zatarga

March 6, 2011

I have known Curt and family all of my life, our family owned the cabin on the lake together until the Crimp Family bought it from everyone.
One of Curts greatest joys was his times at the cabin.
Growing up we spent most 4th of July holidays at the cabin, hoping the wind would go away so we could spend time swimming but also loved playing music on the crank record player .
Curt was one of the first creators of our local, Valley Musical Theatre group, and we loved it when Curt could make it home in the summers to help us with our productions.
The summer we did "The Music Man" Curt was the lead and it was so great to see him on stage sharing his talents with all of us. He was our local "Star" come home to help us to create the most professional production we could in little old Ellensburg.
We love you Curt and thank you for sharing your love of theatre with us here at home.
loving wishes to Frank, Keith and the rest of the family.
Sincerely, Billie (Woods) & Larry Thornton & Family

Billie (Woods) Thornton

March 6, 2011

I was saddened and shocked to hear of Curt’s death. I feel privileged to have known him. I was fortunate to have worked, laughed and learned with him. He had a profound influence on my life. One of my fondest memories was a trip cross country. Colleen and I left NYC, picked Curt up in Ohio where he was performing and traveled across country eventually arriving at his family’s home in Washington. I regret not keeping in touch with Curt during the last years of his life but I find great joy and comfort in my memories of many good times with him.

Isam Culver

March 6, 2011

Curtis was a delight to us at Town & Gown Theatre. We enjoyed being directed by, hanging out with and sharing the stage with him. I'm so sorry to hear of his passing, but Heaven will surely have a grand theatrical troupe that he will join.

Kitty Kessler Reagan

March 6, 2011

We now have a wonderful angel in Curt. His gentle spirit will always be with us. Curt and I were good friends in high school and we shared the love of skiing together. We had so much on the bus. I had both his parents as my teachers and loved them both. Curt got all their good qualities! I am deeply sorry Keith and Frank for your loss and pray that you soon find peace.

Carol Powell Jackson

March 5, 2011

The Crimp family,three other families and our family shared a cabin at Lake Cle Elum. One time when all of us kids were elementary/junior high age and the Moms were there, Curt's Mom asked him to sing a song for us he was performing somewhere. He didn't want to do it as he thought he would start laughing if he saw us looking at him. Finally he did it by sitting on his knees, looking out the window.

One time he told me that he was naturally left handed but his grandmother converted him to right handed as she said the world was set up for right handers. So he played baseball, tennis and did everything as a right hander.

My Mom and I visited their house when I was little and his Mom and he were there. He was nice enough to hang out with me even though I was two years younger. We rode around on a bike with me on the seat and he peddling and steering.

He had a great laugh that I still remember, even though I haven't seen him since high school. He was a great guy.

Stu Pearl

March 5, 2011

I am shocked and saddened to see Jay's passing. We worked together on Cheers and Coach & many more shows. Whenever I saw him it made my day

patricia hill

March 5, 2011

I am shocked and saddened to see Jay's passing.
We worked together on Cheers and Coach & many more shows. Whenever I saw him it made my day.

patricia hill

March 5, 2011

I worked with Jay since 1997 when he was on Dharma and Greg. What a fine professional. Over the years through Still Standing and The Big Bang Theory we became friends and I'm so happy he came to one of my parties last year where he was a most gracious and enthusiastic guest. I am so sad for our loss.

Nigel Stewart

March 5, 2011

Jay was a sweet gentle man. I worked with hin the entire run of the television series: "Still Standing" as well as other productions. He was a true professional and I will miss him dearly.

Tony Banks

March 5, 2011

I was so saddened to hear of Curt's passing. He was a kind and loving gentleman. I don't recall ever seeing him without a huge beautiful smile on his face. He had a sparkle in eyes that's for sure. I was always very proud of him for "making it in Hollywood" and proud of the fact that I knew him. I remember watching him in school plays and just knowing he was going to succeed. I was in a theater in Spokane watching the movie Jagged Edge with a friend. All of a sudden Curt's face was taking up the entire movie screen. I jump up from my seat and shouted CURT CRIMP !!!!! I was so thrilled to see him in a movie. What a wonderful person he was. God bless him, his family and everyone he touched.
Vicky Rehaume Campbell

Vicky Campbell

March 5, 2011

I met Jay on the television show Dharma & Greg and we worked together often over the years. What a kind, conscientious and talented gentleman.
It was an honor to know him.

Don Foster

March 4, 2011

I worked with Jay for over 25 years in the business. I will forever remember him as a Kind, Caring and Gentle Soul. Always a smile on his face. I, and many others here in Los Angeles will miss him. Such a Loss, of a Wonderful Man, who made this world a better place.

Richard Newkirk

March 4, 2011

Curt was a shining ambassador from our little valley to the world of show biz...I'm proud to have shared some of the growing up years with him. "May light perpetual shine on him."
Mary Bird Wood

March 4, 2011

I loved you for the friendly, hilarious, and caring person you were and for the wonderful friend you were to my baby brother Edmond. We will miss you but always have you in our hearts.

tookie forsyth

March 4, 2011

The best we can hope for is an interesting life - he succeeded in that!

SUSAN VIETZKE BAXTER - LOS MOLINOS, CA.

March 4, 2011

What a terrible shock to hear you’ve left us, Curt. No one who knew you is ever going to forget you. You were the inheritor of your mother’s warmth and sparkle. You lit up the world wherever you went, and I have no doubt you’re lighting up the world you now inhabit. How could a spirit as bright as yours ever lose its radiance? Shine on.

Ruthi Erdman

March 4, 2011

Like many others, we came to know Curt through Valley Musical Theatre. We were always grateful for his time and talent that would "save the day". Over the years we too were able to get to know and enjoy his spirit and kindness. We are saddened by this loss but are happy to have been touched by his life.

The Rawlinson Family

March 4, 2011

Frank and Keith:)

I had the pleasure of knowing Curt at his best. Participated in a few Community theatre productions with him. He was definetly Ellensburg's "Star" in Hollywood. I visited him in LA in 2001 and he got me on the "set" for a live Greg and Dharma taping at Fox Studios. I still remember him as Einstien (kicking his heels) in that Pepsi commercial. What a great talent!! He will be terribly missed by all that knew him.

Jeff Hocker

March 4, 2011

I too was in a play with Curt. He was a wise and caring friend, as well as incredibly talented. I had the honor of writing his profile piece "Our Music Man" published in the Daily Record (6/10/00). The interview was just an excuse I dreamed up to get to know him better - and he knew it! That interview led to a friendship that I will always treasure. He was beautiful. I am heartbroken.

Sherrye Wyatt

March 4, 2011

My friend Jay :)
Of all you have given to this world, one thing I took notice of in thinking about you all day today, is that you have single handedly taken a couple of months worth of absolute insanity in your business, our business, television, and shown those of us who are left behind, what is truly important in this world, and what is absolute nonsense !!
You have left, at least me, with a sense of smallness, smallness to think that I am apart of anything worthy of even sharing with others!!
Worthy of prime time news!! Worthy of 24/7 coverage!!
Jay. Thank you for putting our world in perspective!!
Jobs, come and go. Attitudes, come and go. But great people, great friends like you Jay, are the true treasures in this life !!
And I for one, have learned the lesson you left me with!!
That we are but a mere spec in the awesomeness that is life !!! And the time we spend here in this world, needs to be spent caring, loving and cherishing our friends, loved ones and total strangers :)
Thank you my friend!! Thank you for your gift to me !!
Rest peacefully and say hello to my Dad for me ;)
Brian :)

Brian Armstrong

March 3, 2011

Mere words alone cannot express the deep sadness of losing an unconditionally loving friend of 20 years time--allll else becomes insignificant...Thank you 'Jay Curtis Crimp' for touching my life with your vibrant, loving spirit, you will be missed by many friends and colleagues, and always remembered in my many precious memories of you...you are now free to dance amongst the angels and rest with infinite peace...Your loving friend always, Maureen Tamblyn from Los Angeles, CA & Spokane, WA

Maureen Tamblyn

March 3, 2011

My husband Robert and I are profoundly saddened by Curt's death, and by the loss of our dear friend and next-door neighbor. We became very close to Curt after first meeting him almost 3 years ago, and shared many meals, movies, and peaceful moments outdoors with him. Most of all, we enjoyed hours of wonderful conversation, and we were always touched by his curiosity about people, politics, and the natural world. I'll never forget the spark in Curt's beautiful eyes, nor the gift of laughter he brought to those around him. Each night as we prepared for bed in our own household, we would glance down at Curt's bedroom window to see if he was up late watching television (often he was). Although the room is now dark, we'll remember him with love and affection for evermore.

Paula MacKay

March 3, 2011

Thank you, Curt, for adding so much joy to our many memories of times shared with you. Your joy and passion for life were contagious and made us love you even more. I see your smile, the twinkle in your eyes, and hear your delightful laugh. You will be remembered well. Love and prayers to your family. You are missed.

Kay Evenson MacKenzie

March 3, 2011

Dearest Curt,
Thanks for sharing a life full of memories. I remember little league and I think you still have your name sprayed on our garage inside wall. I can picture you and Annette Broughton singing on a piano bench, so cute together. I appreciate all you have done for our community. A real Hollywood actor right from the Burg, we were all so proud of you. I know the craft group (our mothers) were so proud of you and they use to watch the movies and Television shows that you were in with great pride. They were your biggest fans. You were a good friend, son, brother and Uncle. R.I.P dear Curtis. Peace,
Nancy Fraser

Nancy Fraser

March 3, 2011

I am so saddened to hear of Curt's passing. I, too, have fond memories of high school days. He was fun, friendly, and always inclusive. We were co-captains of the tennis team our senior year, & our bus trips were quite memorable. He remarkably followed his passion, accomplished much, yet remained so unassuming. Rest in peace fellow 69er! Deepest sympathy to Keith, Frank & families. Patsy Johnson Bacon Vancouver,WA

March 3, 2011

Like so many others I am very sad to learn of Curt's death. I have many fond memories, including being in the audience at a taping of Dharma and Greg, and then being introduced to the cast at a birthday party immediately following. He was so kind, sensitive, thoughtful, creative, talented, and fun to spend time with, and I was blessed to have his friendship. He will be greatly missed. My thoughts and prayers are with the family.

Kiki Devney

March 3, 2011

I am deeply saddened by the news of Curt's death. I went to school with Curt and we were friends! I have really fond memories of our high school days. My sincere sympathy to his family and the friends he left behind.
Kathy MacDonald Plath - Renton WA (formerly Ellensburg WA)

March 3, 2011

Well, I have enjoyed reading this guest book because Curt was a great guy who had alot of friends and cut a swath in life. I am sure as the blog grows we'll here some more stories that begin "I was in a play with Curt."

I was in a play with Curt.

It was "Harvey," produced at EHS in the Fall of 67. John Dearing played Elwood P. Dowd and Linda Alley was Vida Simmons. Curt played the Cabdriver. He played it to the hilt, with a Cabbie's cap tilted sideways (like Gomer Pyle) and a broad midwestern accent.

Some people see the Cabdriver in Harvey only as comic relief, but in fact he delivers the most important speech in play. It is the Cabbie who convinces everyone to leave Elwood alone; that Elwood may be an eccentric guy (his best friend is a giant rabbit after all!) but folks should stop trying to control his behavior and not lock up such an amiable free-spirited guy.

Curt nailed that part; he was great. And he was fun to work with, fun to grow up around. Curt is a credit to his community and the EHS Class of 69.

Rest in Peace Curt,
Mike Allen/EHS 68/"Dr. Chumley" in "Harvey"

March 3, 2011

Curt, you were an amazing ball of light and energy while you were here. I've been singing show tunes all day in your memory...dancing around the house thinking of the times we'd sing & dance together. You had a big heart and a kind spirit that overflowed onto everyone around you. I know your presence will be felt by the Lake or Cle Elum river and anytime there is a good song and dance number ~ you're sure to be near! Stacey & Family

Stacey Ferris

March 3, 2011

I am so sorry to hear of Curt's death. Curt and I were best buds back in elementary school and he and I would walk to and from school together. His dog Coffee (I think that's what his name was!) would walk part way with us. I always looked forward to hearing and reading about Curt's accomplishments in his career. He will be missed. My thoughts and prayers are with the family.

Sandy Bailes Sperline (Ellensburg, WA)

March 3, 2011

To all of Curt's family, please know he will be deeply missed and fondly remembered. He was a gentleman, a gracious host, a charming man with a kind and gentle heart whose talents and gifts he generously shared. Our son learned to act by watching Curt as the Music Man! We are deeply saddened. Our prayers are with you all. Jerry & Sue Connolly, Chris, Michael, David and Teresa Connolly

March 3, 2011

I was very blessed to have grown up with Curtis. We had a fun time playing hop scotch, riding our bikes and in general having a good time. He will be missed by all. My prayers are with the family.

Sandy Huss-Ketzenberg

March 3, 2011

What a loss! While I was not an actor in childhood plays... I pulled the curtain a few times for Curt at College Elementary School. After Curt moved to LA we were living in NYC and remember his visits to NYC fondly. It took him about 2 minutes to be best friends with my then young children. We played Little League Baseball together for 3 years and had a blast... he was a very good Second Baseman! We both had Paul Newman in common, as we both worked with Paul at different times in our careers and had fun sharing Paul stories. Curt was kind, gentle and very caring... he will be greatly missed... he made a difference while he was here!

Rob Fraser

March 3, 2011

As Curt's youngest cousin I have many fond memories of all the kids playing in the neigborhood in the early to mid 60's. Baseball at Kiwanis Park, searching for crawdads in the nearby creek, building go carts and the annual winter fort buidling followed by rock incrusted snowballs. I am still amazed that no one got seriously hurt back then. I was close to Curt when I was a little boy in part because he would always made a point in playing with me when I got ditched by the rest of the older boys. I have always thought of Curt as a very talented artist and a close cousin that was so full of life. I will miss him.

Gary Keyes

March 3, 2011

Frank and Keith, I was deeply saddened to hear about Curt. Very sorry for your loss.
Joe Meldrum

March 3, 2011

I am very sorry to hear of Curt's death. Curt was a wonderful person--full of charm and wit--and a joy to be around. I spent several summer nights with Curt around John Wyble and Jackie Branz's firepit listening to his wonderful stories and his fabulous laugh...he will be missed.
Tess McShane, Ethan Raup and boys

March 3, 2011

Curt was my neighbor and friend in Ellensburg. He always brought over fresh flowers from his garden for our kitchen table. I remember his laughter on our front porch and always loving his company. He was a bright spot in my life. I will always love my friend Curt.

Jennifer Bennett

Jennifer Bennett

March 3, 2011

We're praying for you during this difficult time that you find strength and peace. Our love, The Carmans

Teresa Carman

March 2, 2011

I am so saddened by this news. We got to know Curt through Valley Musical Theatre, and are so grateful for all Curt gave- his time and devotion- to revitalizing musical theater in Ellensburg. I will always remember his easy laugh, his generous spirit and the way he could light up a room. My thoughts are with his family and loved ones.

Elise Herman

March 2, 2011

One of my fondest memories was Curt as the "blackeyed angel" in the Church Christmas Pageant one year. He had asked for a tricycle for Christmas, and he climbed the stairs to Auntie Kays studio and rode his tricycle down the stairs. So. ...Curt's acting career actually started with the Christmas Pageant. He was always such a "joy" to our family, and always made you feel so loved. He gave the best hugs ever and was ALWAYS so very excited to see family. His favorite greeting to me was "How ya doing sweetie. You're so beautiful! I also remember the lead part I played in the school play at Morgan Junior High School. I wore this beautiful pink southern bell dress that Grandma and I made, and Curt told me later that he thought that was just the coolest dress and he would always remember that play. To me it wasn't that big a deal, but he loved anything theatrical way back then. He had the kindest heart and so full of love! He saw potential in everything and everyone! Cousin Karen

Karen Snyder

March 2, 2011

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