Jeffrey HORNER Obituary

HORNER
Jeffrey John Horner, age 53, died on Thursday, the 24th of March 2011. Jeff was born on the 22nd of March 1958 in Omaha Nebraska. He soon moved to Hanover, Indiana, where he spent his childhood years. In high school, Jeff was elected class president and lettered in five sports. He was also class valedictorian. He enjoyed a memorable childhood living on the Hanover College campus among the foothills of Southern Indiana.
Jeff then ventured to college at Vanderbilt University, where he majored in history and graduated summa cum laude in 1980. He was a member of the Phi Beta Kappa academic honorary. He also served as president of Phi Kappa Psi Fraternity and president of the Intramural Board. Jeff cherished his time at Vanderbilt, and remained active in college activities throughout his life.
After college, Jeff attended law school at the University of Virginia School of Law, where he graduated in 1983. He received the Sion Bass Smith honorary scholarship, served on the Virginia Tax Review and, more importantly, was appointed a softball commissioner. A law school clerkship in Houston convinced Jeff to move to the Bayou City.
Jeff moved to Houston in 1983 and never left. He joined the law firm of Bracewell and Patterson (later Bracewell and Giuliana LLP), representing educational entities. He became known as a national expert in the area of educational law. He served as the head of the firm's Public Law Section for several years. In 1995, he served as chairman of the TASB Council of School Attorneys, the statewide organization for school district lawyers. In 1998, Jeff was president of the Education Law Association, a national school law group. He also served on the NSBA Council of School Attorneys Board of Directors from 2005-2009. In 2003, ELA honored Jeff by giving him the McGhehey Award for excellence in education law. He published over 50 articles, books, and monographs on education law. Jeff also served as the firm's hiring partner for four years.
Of greater importance, Houston is where Jeff started and raised his family. He married Laurie in 1990, and their children were born soon thereafter. He could not be happier for or prouder of his family, and he cherished the time spent with Laurie, his family, and close friends.
Jeff was also active in civic affairs. He served on the South Texas College of Law Board of Directors for nine years. He also served as an adjunct professor at South Texas for many years. He held the position of board chairman for the Faithful Fathering Initiative in Texas, a group which advances father issues. He remained true to his alma mater by serving as Houston Vanderbilt Club president in 1992, and was a member of the Vanderbilt Alumni Association Board of Directors from 2006-2010. Jeff was a long-time member of the Houston Club, and served as vice president in 2006. He was also a long-time member of The Houston Country Club. He was an active participant in the Post Oak Little League, serving both on its Board of Directors and as Secretary/General Counsel. Jeff attended St. Michael's Catholic Church for many years.
More importantly, Jeff loved the simple things in life. He enjoyed the company of his wife and kids, jogging and playing basketball for exercise, coaching youth sports teams, a semiannual birdie on the golf course, and an occasional drink with friends and family. He also traveled extensively, and lived in Greece for eight months as a child. Jeff tried to enjoy each day as if it were his last.
Jeff was predeceased by his daughter, Lillie Anne Horner. He is survived by his loving wife, Laura Horner; his children, Alec, Emily and John Cameron Horner. He is also survived by his parents, Anne and John Horner; his sisters, Joanne Woerner and Heather Hohlt and her husband, Dwayne; and his brother Scott Horner and his wife Jenny.
Friends are cordially invited to a visitation with the family from five o'clock in the afternoon until eight o'clock in the evening on Tuesday, the 29th of March, at Geo. H. Lewis & Sons, 1010 Bering Drive in Houston.
The Mass of Christian Burial is to be offered at ten o'clock in the morning on Wednesday, the 30th of March, at St. Michael Catholic Church, 1801 Sage Road in Houston, where the Rev. Sean Horrigan is to serve as celebrant.
The Rite of Committal is to follow, via an escorted cortege, at Memorial Oaks Cemetery.
In lieu of customary remembrances, the family requests contributions, in honor of Jeff, be directed to the Post Oak Little League, 914 Briar Ridge Dr., Houston, TX, 77057; Vanderbilt University, PMB 407727, 2301 Vanderbilt Place, Nashville, TN, 37240; or to St. Michael Catholic Church, 1801 Sage Rd., Houston, TX, 77056.

Published by Houston Chronicle on Mar. 27, 2011.
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I had the honor of growing up in Hanover with Jeff. A kind heart and beautiful soul will always be remembered when I think of him.

Narci Burress

School

March 21, 2022

A GREAT GENTLEMAN. I MISS JEFF. THINK OF HIM OFTEN.

Laurence Watts

Friend

March 21, 2020

Thinking of you Laurie and hope you and family have found peace with Gods promise I think of you and of course your Dad, Bob whom I still miss but have wonderful memories. God Bless. June Buongiorno

June Buongiorno

Friend

March 21, 2020

I met the Indiana baseball lawyer when he first was brought to BP by Kelly Frels. He quickly became a friendly opponent and then more a FRIEND. I look at his photo at my 40th birthday party frequently--he as with Kelly and new and realize how much I still miss calling and talking to Jeff about case law, and life, and his laughter. Oh, Jeff, we hardly knew ye..

Larry Watts

Friend

March 21, 2019

I am indeed saddened to learn of Jeff's passing. He was one of my most stellar students and friends during and following his Vanderbilt years. I was blessed to have this wonderful Christian as part of my life and his wife. We send our love and prayers to his family: Love in Christ: Sam and Melanie Hirt-Vanderbilt University Campus Director-1.24.12

January 24, 2012

I have thought of Jeff often this year. He was an individual I admired greatly while I was growing up, and I know he was important to his family and many friends. My hope is that good memories of Jeff will help to dispel the darkness left in the wake of his death.

Sonya Rousseau

December 10, 2011

Laurie and Family,
I was surprised and saddened to read of Jeff's passing in the Vanderbilt alumni magazine, and I wanted to offer my condolences for your terrible loss. Seeing Jeff's photo with his obituary brought back wonderful memories of the outgoing, fun-loving guy I knew when I was a little sister to Phi Kappa Psi fraternity. Jeff was a friend to all and will truly be missed. My deepest sympathies on your loss.

Tori Thomas Mannes

September 21, 2011

Dear Laurie,
I think of you often for all the many reasons: your loss of Jeff and my/your loss of my dear "best friend" and your Dad, Bob Cooksey. May they both rest in peace. My thoughts are always with you and your family. I still go back to the delicious birthday lunch you prepared for Bob in your home. That was was my first meeting with you and Jeff and family. Both of you were very gracious hosts and Jeff was so easy to talk to and seemed always interested in others. He will be missed by so many. I hope you are doing well, Laurie, and never forget I am always thinking of you as the sweet daughter that her Dad loved so very much!

June Buongiorno, Houston, Texas

September 16, 2011

Dear Horner Family:
I was incredibly fortunate to be at Vanderbilt with Jeff-and a fraternity brother of Jeff's-in the late 1970's. He was a wonderful person, full of the juices of life. He was a mentor in times of strife, a leader and an enormous amount of fun. Jeff helped define the great experience I had at Vanderbilt.
My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Tim Kebbe

September 14, 2011

Your husband/father was a wonderful man. A man that I think of often as the epitome of a good mentor and a great lawyer. Though I have not had the pleasure of seeing him in many years, he still holds a place in my heart. I am so sorry for your loss. Kirsten Cohoon (former Bracewell attorney)

Kirsten Cohoon

May 24, 2011

Dear Laurie:

May God enfold you and your children with his Divine love, Eternal peace and Infinite comfort. Jeff made me smile with his great sense of humor. God Bless you all.

Katrina Grider

April 18, 2011

My thoughts and prayers go out to the Horner family and friends. I was friends with Jeff when we both lived in Greece. I had not kept in touch but my parents stayed in touch with Jeff's parents.

Kevin Harris

April 17, 2011

I will always remember our lunches together in the Heights. My thoughts and prayers are with you

Michael Wiesenthal

April 16, 2011

To Laurie & family
Our prayers go out to you. In time you will find peace as you have faith in the good lord. May god bless you in this difficult time.

Maria & Faysal Haddad~~~ Smoothie Island

April 13, 2011

Laurie,
My prayers and thoughts are with you, your children and family. May God comfort you and give you peace during this most difficult time. May God's loving arms surround you with love and keep you in his care.
With deepest sympathy,
Kemilee K. Rainey (CLS~Suzanne Jungman group)

Kemilee K Rainey

April 8, 2011

To The Horner Family: I was a Phi Psi brother of Jeffs at Vandy and a smarter, finer, funnier, more compassionate soul cannot be found on this earth. You have my deepest sympathies at his passing. God be with you in this troubled time.

Bob Beard

April 8, 2011

We want to share our deepest sympathy at this difficult time. Please know that Jeffery and his wife and chldren are in our thoughts and prayers.

Walt and Eileen Horner

April 5, 2011

To the Horner Family:

My deepest condolences for your loss. I am so very sorry to hear of Jeff's passing. I hope your cherished memories of him will sustain you at this difficult time.

I first met Jeff when I was a law clerk at Bracewell. He was so incredibly nice and thoughtful. He then became my colleague during my tenure at Bracewell. Although we were practicing in different sections, he never hesitated to give advice or a smile. I truly enjoyed working with him.

Again, my deepest condolences to your entire family. Jeff will be greatly missed.

Angela Abney

April 5, 2011

Dear Laurie and family,

I wanted to add to the long list of those whose lives Jeff has touched. I first met him in 1987 at the Virginian in Charlottesville. He offered me a summer clerkship with Bracewell and was one of the reasons I moved to Houston. I'll always remember his fun-loving sense of humor, generosity and energy in the office and out on the POLL fields. I am so sorry for your loss.

Judy Linse Little

April 5, 2011

To the Horner family:
I just today heard the news about Jeff and wish to extend my condolences. I worked at Bracewell for almost ten years, and will always remember Jeff for his great sense of humor and for always having a smile on his face. My favorite memory of Jeff was him playing Santa's elf during the holidays. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

Mary Anne Jay

April 4, 2011

Jeff was my friend and fraternity brother. I learned of his death while attending a sorority function for my daughter and immediately began to recall a time when Jeff and I were 30 years younger. My heart goes out to his family and all of his friends.

Gary Abrams

April 4, 2011

Our deepest condolences to the entire Horner family in this time of sorrow. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Cindy & Michael Kane

April 3, 2011

Laurie,

I just saw John and heard of the saddness that has fallen upon you and your children. I know there are no words at this time that can truly help. Devin and I will keep you in our thoughts and pray that your family will find the strength to pull upon the wonderful memories and love that Jeff surrounded them with as they begin to heal. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Melanie (Young) Heasley

April 2, 2011

I knew Jeff at Vanderbilt and truly enjoyed every minute with him. He always had a smile and a great sense of humor. I am saddened with the news of his passing.
Please know you are in the thoughts and prayers of many people during this difficult time. Jeff will be greatly missed.

Maggie Aven Alcorn

April 1, 2011

Dear Laurie and Family,
I was devastated last night when I first heard. Jeff was a friend and mentor. I never heard Jeff say a bad word about anyone...even when it would have been easy. I miss sharing a cocktail on the plaza with him and will never forget what a great person and influence he was on me. Tracy and I will keep you all in our prayers. The world is a lesser place without him.

Tim Brightman

March 31, 2011

My deepest sympathy and prayers are with the Horner family. May God be with you now and always.

This is such a devastating loss for his family, and also for Bracewell, and the Vanderbilt community he loved so much.

I think I first met Jeff at Calhoun Hall sometime in the late 70's. Jeff and I were both history majors. He was a year behind me. He was one of the most brilliant people I'd ever met, and at the same time such an amazingly friendly, funny person. I did not participate in Alumni events and lost touch with Jeff until I ran into him on the sidewalk in Houston in the early 90's. I would see him pretty often in those days as our offices were close and we both went to the Houston Club and the Texas Club. By no means was I a close friend, but Jeff always took the time to catch up and talk Vandy basketball whenever we ran into each other. He had that very special gift of making anyone he met feel welcome and comfortable. I can still see him replicating the Barry Goheen shot that beat Pitt and sent Vandy to the NCAA Sweet 16-- Jeff running and heaving an imaginary basketball in front of 600 Travis with a huge grin.

My prayers are with the Horner family. God Bless you and keep you in his love and grace always.

Ed Carstarphen

March 31, 2011

To the Horner family: I wish to express my most profound condolences to the Horner family. I knew Jeff "on the periphery" of the Education Law Association. I attended the seminars he presented and he was always an engaging and enthusiastic presenter. He was able to strike a nice balance between the gravity of the topic he was addressing but never taking it too seriously. I know that he was highly regarded in that community and his support and enthusiasm will be missed. My thoughts and prayers are for your family at this very difficult time.

Al Merkley

March 31, 2011

Jeff was a remarkably intelligent,and congenial professional. From the time he arrived in Houston, and I first met him as a professional adversary, I found him to be more of a professional friend. He proved to all to be a good soul and a gifted lawyer. Vicki's and my prayers go out to you.
Larry and Vicki Watts

Larry Watts

March 30, 2011

Dear Heather,

Even though I did not know Jeff that well personally, I have in reading his Guestbook, come to know Jeff for all the kind, generous and loving thoughts so eloquently expressed by those who shared a part of his life. I can see why you loved him so as a brother and for the remarkable human being he was to his family and to so many friends and colleagues across this country. Jeff led an exemplary life which makes his death even more poignant.

My heart is deeply saddened for you and your fine family. In the midst of grief, I pray that you find peace and comfort that only comes from our Lord Jesus Christ. May the Easter message be especially meaningful to you this season knowing that Christ died that we may have the promise of forgiveness and the assurance of everlasting and eternal life with our loved ones.

Always in my thoughts and prayers,

Love,

Carol Grossman

March 30, 2011

Dear Horner Famiy, Jake and I are so sorry about your loss. We were teachers of Jeff, Joanne, Heather, and Scott. We enjoyed your family and the campus of Hanover College with Dr Horner and his wife Anne greeting all guests. They also took on the role very well as parents of high school students. Heather chose to study Spanish, and I got to know her the best. Jake and I loved your family and have all of you in our thoughts and prayers. May God give you the strength you need.

Shirley Kloepfer

March 30, 2011

Dear Horner Family,
Jeff was a customer at Skyline Deli in the tunnel downtown. We never really knew each other but I alway recognized him when he came in the store. It was always a pleaser serving him because he would let you know that he appreciated the service. He will be missed here at Skyline Deli. May God bless you and your family in this time of sadness.
Skyline Deli Family {811 Rusk}

Matt Baba

March 30, 2011

Dear Horner Family: I knew Jeff for over 25 years, mostly in connection with litigation involving school districts, but I also got to know him when I sought him out for advice on one matter or another. He was a gentleman in the truest sense of the word and possessed the redeeming qualities of good humor and a happy temperament. PEACE BE WITH YOU Jeff and with your family and friends.

George Kirk

March 30, 2011

May you find comfort and peace among your many friends, family and happy memories. You are in my thoughts.

Marte Benge Griffith

March 30, 2011

Dear Laurie and other Horner family members--Jeff was one of the first lawyers I met at Bracewell when I started to work there. His kindness and sense of humor was a bright light to us all--our prayers are with you. Phil and Pattie Chapman

Patricia Chapman

March 30, 2011

Dear Horner Family,
Jeff will always be Santa's elf here at B&G for all of us who have known him for so many years. We both were employed the same year and worked on the same floor for several years. He always had a greeting whenever I saw him. He has left a whole in our hearts. My prayers are for your hearts now.

Phyllis Delehanty

March 30, 2011

My sympathies to the entire Horner Family. Jeff was such a great person and a true Gentleman. I am so sorry for your loss.

Heidi Craft Dotson

March 30, 2011

Dear Horner family -

I am so very sorry for your loss.

Jeff and I were fraternity brothers together at Vanderbilt and he was always a joy to be around. I will always remember his amazing sense of humor. One of his missions in life when we were together at Vandy was to constantly invent new derogatory nicknames for me that began with Mc. And, of course, all the Phi Psi's from that era will never forget Jeff's multiple performances of Rapper's Delight.

Although we have not spent much time together since college, we spent a lot of time together during our four years and I will miss him terribly. I realize what a tremendous loss this is for you.

Please know that I am thinking of you at this time of sorrow.

Sincerely,

David W. McCoy

David McCoy

March 30, 2011

Dear Horner family,
My deepest sympathies go out to you. I pray that you lean on the Lord during this most difficult time.

Michael Van Gilder

March 30, 2011

Though our kids are at St. Michael, I did not know Jeff until we had a case against each other last year. These things can get heated, but Jeff was nothing but professional...a true gentleman lawyer. Amici, Jeff and may God now protect you. Veronica and I will be praying that your family has all of God's comfort and peace.

Charles Peckham

March 29, 2011

Laurie,
Mike and I are saddened beyond words about Jeff. He was just the best and we both were hugely fond of him through my years at Bracewell and many great basketball games at the Texas Club. Every time we saw him over the years was a treat. Our hearts go out to you, your children and Jeff's parents. You will all be in our thoughts and prayers during this deeply difficult time.

Merrill Rome

March 29, 2011

Dear Laurie and Family: Jeff was my first boss when I joined Bracewell in 1991. He was an amazing mentor -- so very brilliant, encouraging and kind. He was a wonderfully talented lawyer who made it all look easy (it wasn't) and fun (thanks to him, it was). I will always remember his good advice, abundant humor and quick wit. May all the good memories ease the pain of this devastating loss.

Vianei Lopez Robinson

March 29, 2011

Mrs. Horner and family,
I want to express our deep sadness at Jeff's passing and offer our sincerest sympathies to you all during this unspeakably difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you as we trust the Lord to give you comfort and strength.
Jeff was always available to offer his abundant wisdom when we called. We will miss that. And we will miss his wit, kindness and patient counsel...his character and integrity.
Several years ago I spoke with Jeff almost daily for several weeks as we plodded through some very difficult issues in our school district. He always responded promptly and provided just the help we needed. Many districts could repeat that story, I'm sure. We will all miss him.
God bless you.

2010-2011 President of the Board of Trustees, Deer Park ISD

Ken Donnell

March 29, 2011

Dear Horner Family:
My thoughts and prayers have been with you since I received the news of Jeff's passing. I remember how kind Jeff was to my parents in Hanover. During his summers in high school, he would help my Dad with the yard. Jeff was an honorable, bright, and ambitious student throughout his years at Southwestern and certainly afterwards at Vanderbilt and Virginia. My heart especially goes out to his sister, Heather.
With sympathy,
Janet Green Washburn
Greenwood, IN.

March 29, 2011

Laurie and family,
We are so very sorry to hear of your great loss. May God bless and keep you all close during this difficult time.
All our love,
Vernon, Christine, Emily, and Abby Hegwood

March 29, 2011

With deepest sympathies. God bless and keep you all.

March 29, 2011

Jeff was a professor of mine at STCL. We were about the same age and my career has been in education before, during and after law school. He was very encouraging and a great guy. Very sorry the education world has lost a true advocate and a great person.

Richard Powell

March 29, 2011

Having known Jeff and the entire Horner family since 1971, and having attended both Vanderbilt and UVA while Jeff was also at each, I cannot picture Jeff at any point over all the years without a smile on his face (and a big one, at that). When I showed up at Vanderbilt a couple years behind him he treated me like a kid sister, giving good advice and introducing me to people who would become life-long friends. When I showed up again at UVA a couple years behind him, he did the same thing - even when he had exams to study for. And through all the years since, each time our paths have crossed when business took me to Houston or when I found myself working on a case with one of his partners from Bracewell, Jeff extended himself graciously and generously - helping me in any way he could. Jeff will be missed but never forgotten as he has touched many, many lives with that smile of his and with his boundlessly generous spirit. My thoughts and those of my family are with all of you.

Rebecca McLemore Lamberth

March 29, 2011

Laurie and Family--
I was shocked and saddened to hear of Jeff's passing. We met when he was just a baby lawyer 30 years ago, but he grew into a giant in the field of education law. His intellect, his humor, and his humanity will be sorely missed.

May the peace that passes all understanding sustain you in your loss.

Cheryl Mehl

March 29, 2011

Dear Laurie, Alec, Emily and John Cameron,

There are no words to express our sadness and how much our hearts ache for all of you. Jeff always had a smile and a witty comment to share! May God bless you and may you feel his presence through this very difficult time. You are in our prayers.

Julie, Bryan and Nicole Stankus

Julie Stankus

March 29, 2011

To the Horner family,

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. You will be in my prayers. Jeff was a valuable friend and colleague.

Gary Hansel, Reals Estate Manager for HISD

Gary Hansel

March 29, 2011

Dear Dr. and Mrs. Horner,
I graduated from Hanover in 1972. I always appreciated your presence on campus and all the work you both did to make the college such a wonderful place to grow and learn. My heart is breaking for the two of you. Please accept my sympathy and prayers for your family to heal after this incredible loss. I will not forget you.
Love, Janie Wittich Tock

jane tock

March 29, 2011

To Jeff's Family: It was with great personal sadness that I learned today of Jeff's passing. Over the past 30 years, I had many opportunites to handle cases against Jeff and when he had a conflict he kindly referred cases to me. At all times Jeff was gracious, considerate, thoughtful and professional. His smile and engaging personality were contagious. Jeff was a joy to be around, even as an adversary. While I cannot begin to understand your present state of feeling and emotion because of this very personal loss, I trust that with time the Lord will provide each of you with comfort and peace regarding Jeff's untimely graduation. As it is written in Romans 8:38 " For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in creation, will be able to separate us from the Love of God that is in Christ Jesus Our Lord."
May your memories of Jeff be cherished.

Allyn Hoaglund

March 29, 2011

My thoughts and prayers go out to the Horner family. It was truely an honor to have called Jeff a friend.

HJ Donovan

March 29, 2011

'Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding' - Proverbs 3:5. May the Lord surround each of you with family and friends grounded in His strength to walk with you through this time.
God bless and know that prayers continue daily.

Rick Wertz

March 29, 2011

Dear Laurie, Alec, Emily and John Cameron,

Jeff was a neighbor and dear dear friend to the O'Neill's. As soon as we moved in across the street from the Horner's. Jeff reached out and welcomed us to the neighborhood. Our families grew to be very close and we will never forget the great times we had together. Jeff was always willing to really get to know people and always had room in his life for new friends. One of our best recollections of Jeff is how he always got peoples "story". It's an example of how he welcomed people by showing true interest in them. Another thing we loved about Jeff is how he always gave people Nicknames. He made people feel special. We will always remember the great times we had with Jeff and the Horner family: hanging out at your house, hanging out at our house, New Orleans trips, ski trips, playing basketball and golf, coaching little league. Jeff will be sorely missed by us and all those who knew him. Our prayers are with Jeff and the Horner family.
Love, Brenden, Heather, Nora, Andrew, Ellen, and Lydia O'Neill

Brenden O'Neill

March 29, 2011

A spectacular man in every sense of the word, but my favorite part of Jeff was his sense of humor and of course, his smile. Our paths seemed to cross many times over the years. We first met at Vanderbilt as part of the class of '80. I remember Jeff, Dave Meaden, Charlie Marsh and Bruce Kenworthy always up to something with Jeff leading the pack. We later met up again in Houston in the early eighties. We lost track for a while until, much to my surprise (and good fortune) I saw Jeff at a Strake Jesuit parents function when our boys were freshmen. I feel fortunate to have known Jeff and am greatly saddened by his death. My thoughts, prayers and love are with Jeff's wife and children.

Harlee McCourt

March 29, 2011

My thoughts and prayers are with the entire Horner family.

Jim Brennan, Austin, Texas

March 29, 2011

I met Jeff when I was a student at Hanover College. When he was home for visits, he spent a lot of time visiting at the Fiji House. Even though he was the smartest guy I ever met, he fit right in with the rest of us. He was always friendly and cheerful, and people just enjoyed being around him. My thoughts and prayers go out to the entire Horner family.

Don White

March 29, 2011

Our thought and prayers go out to the Horner family. We have heard so many things about Jeff from Heather and know what a wonderful person he was. He will be greatly missed by all who knew him.
Dina and Denis Smith (Houston, Texas)

March 29, 2011

Although Jeff was a few years ahead of me in school at Southwestern, he was always a class act and represented himself with honor and dignity. In reading what others have written about him, it seems like nothing changed once he left Hanover. He definitely left a positive impact on the world.

My thoughts and prayers go out to the Horner family.

Scott Thompson

March 29, 2011

My hearfelt and deepest sympathy goes out to the Horner family. Jeff was an incredible individual who was a friend to everybody. He was truly a man of outstanding character, intelligence, and a genuine leader. May God Bless Jeff and his entire family during this time of grief. You will all be in my prayers.

Jeff Green

March 28, 2011

Dear Laurie and Family --

Jeff was one of my favorite partners at Bracewell. As a new attorney, he made me feel so special and welcome in a large firm. He used to tease me about my fear of passing the bar and my registration on the Professional Barrel Racing Circuit as a back-up plan. So much so, that when I passed the Bar, with flying colors, he gave me a copy of "The Little Engine That Could." His smile bright, his humor contagious, and his intellect humbling. He made me a better person and a better lawyer. What a wonderful life, a wonderful man, and a wonderful heart. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this tender time.

With much love, Jennifer Piskun Johnson

Jennifer Piskun Johnson

March 28, 2011

I knew Jeff in the late 80's, we used to all run around together. He was always a very nice guy. So so sorry for your loss.
Robin Loyd Schwalb

Robin Schwalb

March 28, 2011

The Collier Family extends our deepest sympathies to the Horner Family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you as we fondly remember Jeff, including many memories at Lynn Gym.

March 28, 2011

I am so sorry for your loss. I had the pleasure of knowing Jeff for may years working as a public school superintendent and always valued his counsel.
May God bless you.

Don Hillis

March 28, 2011

To the Family of Jeff Horner,

I greatly appreciated the time my life was touched by Jeff. I want to leave you with this thought during these trying times...Phil. 4:8 "...whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is amirable-- if anything is excellent or praiseworthy--think about such things."

In Him
Ralph Draper
Supt. Spring ISD

Ralph Draprer

March 28, 2011

Laurie and family,

My first memory of Jeff was just after I had moved to Houston to join Bracewell & Patterson. Jeff put together a group to take me to dinner to help me meet people and feel welcome. That thoughtfulness and goodheartedness were ever present with Jeff. I haven't seen him in 20 years but was devastated to learn of his death. A great loss for us all but especially to you. My deepest sympathies.

Tom Woodman

March 28, 2011

Laurie and family. I want to express my deepest sympathy for the loss of Jeff. Not only was he a great friend, but I worked in the private labor section of the firm and could always count on Jeff for guidance on how to handle difficult employment matters. He also made me laugh like no other. When we were much younger, we would take July 4th weekend trips with Tim Cooper to South Padre Island and those vacations hold some of my favorite memories and funniest moments. I will miss Jeff greatly. God bless you and your entire family. Many are praying for you.

Tim Lothe

March 28, 2011

Dear Laurie and Family,
Our hearts are broken for you. We will always remember Jeff for his kindness towards Lauren. He always spoke to her and playfully challenged her with a spelling word, when Lauren was competing in the St. Michaels spelling B. He cheered her on. Gods peace to your family. Much love from La Grange. David, Tomi, and Lauren Laigle.

David Laigle

March 28, 2011

Laurie, Alec, Emily and John Cameron,

Know that you are in our hearts and prayers. The Webre's have always been so fond of Jeff and The Horner family and will never forget him.

with love,
Debbie, Johnny, Jud, Ty, Michael and Colleen.

Debbie Webre

March 28, 2011

Jeff was one of my favorite law school professors and then a great colleague. His bright smile and brilliant mind will be truly missed. May he rest in peace and his family have peace and serenity at this difficult time.

Anne Marie Odefey

March 28, 2011

Scott,
Sorry to hear about Jeff, thoughts and prayers to you and your family during this difficult time.
my deepest sympathy,

mary hertz-spry

March 28, 2011

I am so sorry to hear of the loss of Jeff. I can only say that I knew him in a professional capacity, but from the messages I have seen, can see that there is more to the man than his profession. I can only hope to aspire to be such a person, that is loved by so many. My sincere and heartfelt condolences.

Alva Trevino

March 28, 2011

Jeff will be missed by so many of us. I knew him while we both served on the Board of Trustees of South Texas College of Law. It was my honor to have known him and to have sat with him as we pondered issues raised at our Board meetings. His loss is an enormous one to all of us. His vast contributions for the welfare of our students, the law profession and community shall always be remembered.
Immy Papadopoulos

Imogen Papadopoulos

March 28, 2011

Thinking of you at this difficult time.

March 28, 2011

Laurie and kids,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you. We hope that the memories you hold and the love of everyone around you will help you through this huge loss.

Much love,

John, Laura, John and Andrew Hill

March 28, 2011

I am deeply saddened at the news of Jeff's passing. My thoughts and prayers go out to the family. Jeff's great outlook and zest for life will be greatly missed.

Marty Perry

March 28, 2011

Scott

I know exactly what you are going through. I lost my oldest brother James on Jan. 7 of this year, and its been very hard on me. If you need anything...don't hesitate to contact me.

Gene Cloyd

March 28, 2011

May God bless you. You have my deepest sympathy.

Tanya Holmes -South Texas College of Law

March 28, 2011

My deepest sympathies to Jeff's wife and children and to the Horner family, especially my old friend Scott. Our family also lost a son and brother so my heart really goes out to you. I'm also saddened to hear of Jeff's suffering. Peace and strength to you as you move through these difficult days.

Cynthia (Cindy) Newcomer

March 28, 2011

Don't have the words to express my feelings. Jeff was my friend and classmate since the fifth grade. I'll miss you " foof ". Hope you see this Heather.

Chris Russell

March 28, 2011

Dear John, Anne, and Horner family members all. What a lovely testimonial to Jeff's life. Clearly he contributed much in his few years, and you have much to be proud of and to cherish in his memory. Please accept my sympathies in your time of grief. And find strength and joy to carry on in your fine family.

Judson Haverkamp

March 28, 2011

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

Ronnie & Angela Hooks

March 28, 2011

Laurie,
I am so terribly sorry to hear of Jeff's passing. May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Pat Strong

March 28, 2011

Our deepest sympathy goes out to all of the Horners. It seems as if it were only yesterday that our children and the Horner children were playing together here in Hanover. May God comfort all of you during this time of great sorrow.

Sharon and Virgil Imel

March 28, 2011

Laurie and Horner family,
I am very sorry for your loss and our prayers and thoughts are with you. Jeff and I attended Vanderbilt together. You could always count on a smile, a great competitor, some funny antidotes, responsible, trustworthy and my pleasure to be a classmate of his. Jeff and I probably came back to VU as much as anyone from the 80's. We probably only missed a few reunions together over the years and it always seemed that Jeff was there or I came across a friend we both had in common to keep up with each other. His fun loving attitude was well intact a few reunions back when he was encouraged to take the stage at the reunion tent and gave a great version of a classic 70's tune with the band, I think it was "Brick House"...smile! He had "it" which set him apart from the masses, of course you all know that already! This creates a very heavy heart when I heard today.
I will miss his down to earth honesty and those "pick up where we left off moments" when we saw each other! I was truly blessed knowing him and will fondly keep him in my thoughts and remember him when we see those '80's VU grads! Jeff will be missed!
God Bless you and and the family!!

Terry Moore & family

Terry Moore

March 28, 2011

Laura: I'm so sorry to hear about Jeff. If there's one thing I most remember about him, it's his smile. He always looked like he was up to something. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Kathy Brandenburg

March 28, 2011

Jeff was a senior when I pledged Phi Psi freshman year at Vandy. He was a leader in the fraternity and a mentor and friend to the younger members. He had a surprisingly good jumpshot, but I guess with his Indiana background that should have been expected. With Jeff at guard and fellow Houstonite Dave ("Meathead") Meaden anchoring the low post I believe Phi Psi won the IM basketball championship his senior year (even if we didn't, I will remember it that way). Best of all about Jeff, however, was his friendly, fun-loving spirit. He was just a guy you liked to be around. He picked everyone else up. My class will always remember his "Rapper's Delite" renditions at every band party he attended, including several when he returned to see us after his graduation. I was not surprised that he had a very successful legal career--you knew Jeff would succeed wherever he went and whatever he decided to do. Following college, it was always great to run into him every couple of years at homecoming or a reunion. Just last October, Beth and I ran into him at when we crashed the Class of '80 Reunion tent, and, of course, Jeff snuck us a couple of drinks and greeted us with a big smile and we reminisced for a while. I can not believe he is gone. My heart goes out to Laurie and his children and the rest of his family. You will be in our prayers.

Rob Williamson

March 28, 2011

Dear Laurie
Not enough words to express my sorrow and grief of your loss. Jeff's passing comes as a great shock!
Your late-Dad and my special friend, Bob Cooksey was so very proud of Jeff and his many accomplishments. He spoke often of him. I will always remember Jeff's great kindness and friendly manor.
You and your family's loss is a loss for all of us---privileged to have known Jeff.

May God's grace comfort all of you, dear Laurie.

June Buongiorno

March 28, 2011

My toughts and prayers are with you during this very difficult time. I hope that you can find some peace in the weeks to come....

John Pregulman

March 28, 2011

Please accept our condolences. He was a great guy and will be missed.

Craig Hutchens

March 28, 2011

Jeff was a fraternity brother, but moreover, I was privileged to call him a friend. His passing fills me with unspeakable sadness. Laurie, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Sid and Mary Frances Wright

March 28, 2011

Lauren has known Emily since Pre-School at the Oaks at Briargrove. Jeff was there at every occasion and even at other kids birthday parties! He was a doting and loving dad. We were so saddened to learn of his passing. Our prayers for your family is that the Lord will give you peace that passes understanding.

Yvonne Sanders

March 28, 2011

Horner Family,

Our heartfelt sympathy goes out to you at this time. We have fond memories of Jeff while at Hanover College.
You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Bob and Beth Baylor

March 28, 2011

My sympathy and thoughts and prayers are with the family and especially with Emily.

Mitzi Sisk

March 28, 2011

Mr. Horner will truly be missed. He was a wonderful individual who inspired an attitude of caring & acceptance of others in the workplace. Although I did not know him on a personal basis, I was a grateful recipient of his kindness as an employee of Bracewell & Giuliani. My thoughts and prayers are with your family at this time and in the diffcult days that will follow. God bless and keep you.

Pat Adams

March 28, 2011

Jeff was my direct boss at Bracewell when I joined the firm fresh out of law school. He was generous with his time and his advice on both law and life, especially with young lawyers. I will be forever grateful for the opportunity he gave me to argue at the 5th Circuit when I was just a 2nd year attorney. Thanks to Jeff, I have this lasting memory where my father was able to meet me in New Orleans to watch my argument and spend the rest of the day with me strolling through Audubon Park and hanging out on the veranda of the Columns Hotel. Jeff was my hoops buddy, golf buddy(most accurate banana slice ever), mentor, and friend. We will all miss his gregarious nature and his sense of humor. Laurie and her entire family will remain in my prayers.

Ben Barlow

March 28, 2011

When my dad became the basketball coach at Southwestern High School the first two people I remember meeting were Bubba Beatty and Jeff Horner. I spent a lot of time at Jeff's home and found him to have a great wit, strong leadership skills and very good at many different sports and games. Fortunately, while in college I was able to stay with him a couple times when the NC State basketball team would play the University of Virginia. Each time he was the same great person who was a pleasure to be around. My wife Karlene and I were at a loss for words when we heard the news Sunday of Jeff's passing. Our hearts go out to Laura and their children and Dr. and Mrs. Horner and their family. May God bless you all.

Max & Karlene Perry

Max Perry Jr.

March 28, 2011

Horner family:

I am very sorry for your loss. I work for NSBA and knew Jeff in his role as a member of the COSA board. My last memory of him is him advising me on what to do about my ankle which I sprained on a walnut while running in Kansas City. I did not know Jeff was a coach which explained his knowledge of sport injuries (or perhaps in my case just general clumsiness). Jeff will be missed.

Lisa Soronen

March 28, 2011

Laurie,Alec,Emily,and John

Our thoughts and prayers are with you all

Love
Aunt Mary and Uncle Bob

March 28, 2011

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