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DAVID PATTERSON Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jul. 11, 2014.

BANGOR - David Patterson, 50, passed away peacefully on Thursday, July 10, 2014, surrounded by his wife and two sons, at a Bangor hospital.

Known for his love of coaching soccer, stunning photography, and award-winning blog, David dedicated his life to his family, friends, and youth soccer players.

David was born to Miriam and Jack Patterson in Lurgan, Northern Ireland on January 27, 1964. David received his B.A. in Sports Studies from the University of Ulster in 1986, and his Master's in Education from Lenoir-Rhyne University in Hickory, North Carolina in 1994. From an early age, David was a gifted soccer player. One of his proudest accomplishments was when he captained the Northern Ireland Schoolboys soccer team to victory in the 1979 European Championship. At age 16, David left home to apprentice in England with Luton Town F.C. He channeled his love of playing soccer into his coaching -- training young women players at Lenoir-Rhyne College and the University of Maine, and young men at Maine Maritime Academy. He also loved coaching the Bangor High School boy's team. While coaching Bangor, David was named Maine Soccer Coaches' Coach of the year twice, and was awarded New England Coach of the Year in 2010. David loved few things more than watching his teams play under the lights on crisp fall evenings at Bangor High School. David was most recently employed with the Maine Department of Education as an Education Specialist working closely on the distance education program, AP For All.

David met his wife, Lori, at a YMCA camp in Sandwich, Massachusetts, where they were both camp counselors. They fell in love the summer of 1986, and were married July 2, 1988 in Locust Valley, NY. Their first son, Sam, was born on May 15, 1992, in Hickory, NC; their second son, Jack, was born on April 1, 2004, in Bangor. When he wasn't coaching soccer or snapping photos, David was blogging on Stories from Home, cooking, and walking with his family and their beloved dog, Oliver.

David was predeceased by his parents, Miriam and Jack Patterson of Lurgan, Northern Ireland. David leaves his wife, Lori, of 26 years; his sons, Sam and Jack; his brothers, Ronald and John; his sister, Joan, all of Northern Ireland; and many friends near and far. The Patterson family extends its heartfelt thanks to the greater Bangor community for its breathtaking support. They also extend their gratitude to the nurses and physicians of Grant 6 at EMMC and CancerCare of Eastern Maine, and to the nurses and volunteers of Hospice of Eastern Maine.

A service celebrating David's life will be held 3 p.m. Saturday, July 12, 2014, at Brookings-Smith, 133 Center St., Bangor. The family invites relatives and friends to share conversation and refreshments at the Family Reception Center of Brookings-Smith, 163 Center St., Bangor, following the service. Those who wish to remember David, the family welcomes contributions to David's most treasured cause, Friends of Acadia, P.O. Box 45, Bar Harbor, ME 04609. Condolences to the family may be expressed at www.BrookingsSmith.com.

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August 8, 2014

David had that remarkable quality that, after you met him, you did not forget him. Always a gentleman, interested in you and just plain old Nice! He left a very long trail of good will. My thoughts go out to his family. You have been so lucky to have had a remarkable Husband and Dad. RIP David.

July 14, 2014

AnnMarie Guerrette

My deepest sympathy to the family losing a very nice person. My thoughts and prayers to you All.

July 13, 2014

Andrea Mages

Dearest Lori, Sam, and Jack,
Gone too soon and way too fast. I can't believe he is no longer with us on this earth. His spirit is in each one of us who had the pleasure of knowing him. My memories of David are all good ( something hard to say In these times). I've shed many tears but have also smiled and laughed a lot thinking about the little things the past couple of days. He has and will always have a special place in my heart. Take some peace in knowing he was so loved.
Love to you all,

July 12, 2014

Mark Cyr

My sincerest condolences go out to the entire Patterson family. I had the honor of knowing David from our work at the Department of Education. May the sorrow and emptiness you now feel soon be replaced with happy memories of the times you shared with each other. Thoughts and prayers continue to go your way.

July 11, 2014

Chuck Shepley

Lori, so sorry to read of Dave's passing. He will be remembered as a great teacher and coach ,but most importantly a great dad and husband. Keeping you and the boys in my thoughts. Sincerely, Chuck

July 11, 2014

Dawn Walker-Elders

Dear Lori, Sam, and Jack,
I'm so terribly sorry for your loss, for all our loss in David's passing.
I had the great good fortune to benefit from his Moodle Brilliance while I worked for Lewiston Adult Ed. David was quick, diligent, and extremely generous with his help and guidance as I worked to set up online programming for my classes. I did meet him in person at the MAEA conference a couple of years ago and was delighted to find him even kinder and funnier in person. An absolute gem who will be sorely missed by all who we're lucky enough to know him, even just a bit.
My deepest condolences,
Dawn Walker-Elders

July 11, 2014

Dana Ochs-Hamilton

Lori,
John and I were sad to hear the news today. As I drove past the soccer field this morning at Lenoir-Rhyne I could only think of happy memories. Our field is beautiful and soccer is now the center of campus - due partly to the risk that Davey & you took coming to a small university and having a vision. He will be missed by many. I have had many alumni call already sharing stories with me. I can only hope that my dad was there to greet him in heaven. May God's peace be with you and your family. - Dana and John Hamilton.

July 11, 2014

Joan McKane

David's courage and humanity shone brightly throughout but his fight is over. Sleep peacefully wee brother. You will always in our hearts.

July 11, 2014

Tom Melville

My wife Tanya and I went to college in NI with David and later we coached college soccer together at LR. He was a lover of many things; his family, soccer, nature, photography and people as a whole. He always saw the better side to everyone. Coach Davey touched many young people through coaching and was one of the best coaches I have ever known. I will treasure our time on the field together, our time on the driving range on game days before the game to relax. The special time our families spent together at Acadia. He was a truely special person, a one of a kind. Our thoughts and prayers are with Lori, Sam and Jack. RIP old pal.I will see you on the sidelines down the road.

July 11, 2014

Deanne Lavallee

I only worked near Dave for a short time. He always met everyone with a smile!
Speak of Dave often with tears and in laughter and he will be with you for generations to come. Sincerely,

July 11, 2014

Chad Tracy

No clue what to say so I am posting what I know to be one of David's favorite spots to shoot... Boulder Beach in Acadia National Park... it is safe to say that everyone that was within Davids reach woke up a heavy heart.

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July 11, 2014

Dessie Gamble

Lori, Sam and Jack. Everyone in Lisbellaw send their condolences at passing of David. We all have very happy memories of our times with you in Maine. The beautiful photographs that David took in Fermanagh are proudly displayed in our hall and they will be a lasting memorial to a true gentleman.
Gods blessing to you all.

Dessie ,Jennifer, Sam and Cathryn. Enniskillen Northern Ireland.

July 11, 2014

Michelle Conway

Lori, Sam & Jack I am so sorry to hear of the loss of Dave. He was such a special man. He was more than a coach to the boys, he was a friend and more importantly a mentor. I know he impacted the life of Cameron greatly and he will be forever treasured by us all. Love and prayers to all of you.

Michelle, Eric & Cameron Conway

July 11, 2014

Lisa Bullard

Lori, Sam and Jack-so sorry to hear of the loss of your beloved husband and father. Dave was such a sweet man-a true pleasure to know. I will always think of him whenever I make my "blue stuff"-he loved that salad and it was always a pleasure to make it for him because I knew how much he enjoyed it. Thinking of you all.
Lisa,Stu and Boys

July 11, 2014

Mark Graffam

It is with great sadness of Dave's passing. I am thankful for the opportunity to have known him not just as a fellow coach but as a person who treated you as a best friend. Rest in peace my friend.

July 11, 2014

I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers. I regret not being able to attend the service on Saturday in person, but I will be there is spirit.
Denise Simoneau

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