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PATRICK PATWELL Obituary

PATWELL- Patrick T. of West Islip, NY, on February 28, 2015. Beloved husband of Jackie Patwell. Loving father of Kevin, Carley & Timothy. Cherished son of Richard & Catherine Patwell. Adored brother of Eileen (Russ) Tornabene, Richard Patwell, Nora Savastano & Peggy Williamson. Reposing at the Fredrick J. Chapey & Sons West Islip Funeral Home, 1225 Montauk Hwy. (1/4 mile west of the Robert Moses Cswy.). Celebration of the Liturgy of Christian Burial, Thursday 9:30 AM, at Our Lady of Lourdes R.C. Church, West Islip, LI. Cremation to follow. Visiting Wednesday 2:00 PM until 4:30 PM and 7:00 PM until 9:00 PM. In lieu of flowers donations may be made in Patrick's loving memory to, North Shore-LIJ Health System Foundation, 125 Community Drive, Great Neck, New York 11021

Published by Newsday on Mar. 2, 2015.
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Can't believe it has been almost a year!! Rest in Peace Pat.

Siobhan Martin

February 14, 2016

Rest in peace Patrick We will always remember his bright smile.
God Bless all the Patwells.

SJB Alumni Class of 1979 (the best class- because you were part of it)

March 10, 2015

I've known Pat for only 11 years, yet it feels like a lifetime. We became great friends instantly, after meeting at a WI football fundraiser. I knew right away this was one great dude. We coached our daughters' lacrosse team for 8 years and he became one of my all time best friends. He had the heart of a lion, a smile as bright as the sun and a laugh that could be heard for miles! To say that I'll miss you is a huge understatement. Rest in peace, my great friend and may God give you wings. See you in the next life!

George Brady

March 7, 2015

The memories i have with Patwell are endless... Friends since 3rd grade up until the day he passed away. I was so proud to be a friend of his. May God watch over Jackie,Kevin, Karly and Timmy as they go on without Pat. My love to all the Patwells.

MaryEllen Bruckner

March 7, 2015

My heartfelt sympathies to the family and extended family of the Patwells. It is amazing to see how many people's lives that Pat has affected. Rest in peace, Pat, and my prayers are with the entire Patwell family.

Michael Barrett

March 5, 2015

A great father, a great family. My love to you all, always.
Mr.McManus

Ted McManus

March 4, 2015

My deepest sympathies to the Patwell family. Pat was a true gentleman and one of the greatest most stand up guys around. May God watch over his family and may he rest in peace.

Nick

March 4, 2015

Our heart felt condolences to Nora and the entire Patwell Family! We only met a few times but he has left us with a ever lasting impression!
Jane & Milton Altschuler

March 4, 2015

I was saddened to hear of Pat's passing. We went to high school together so many years ago but those memories are still so vivid and meaningful. He was a great guy and I don't think I remember a time when he didn't have a smile on his face. That's how I'll remeber him. God bless you all at this difficult time. Maureen Flanagan Sneider

March 4, 2015

Love & Prayers to the Patwell Family.
With love,
The Lundies

Vicki Lundie

March 4, 2015

Sending my deepest sympathies to the Patwell Family. You all hold a special place in my heart and I am deeply sorry for your loss.

Peggy Flynn Anderson

March 4, 2015

Thinking of Pat and my deepest sympathies to all of you. Many great memories with all the Patwells.

Peggy Flynn Anderson

March 4, 2015

RIP Patrick Patwell
May God give your family streghth and peace in this time of sorrow.

Julia Ann Rivera

March 3, 2015

So sorry for your loss. God Bless Patrick 's family. He was as nice as his smile was huge! Rembering how nice you were to me at SJB, your parents raised you well. Rest in Peace

March 3, 2015

Deepest sympathy to his family and most especially his parents. Believe Pat is with the angels. He was truly a nice guy during our years at SJB!

March 3, 2015

I could not have asked for better memories, Pat, Slats, Mark completely took me under their wing and shared their friendship. Miss you all. Never met a group that had bigger hearts. To the Patwell Family I can tell you one thing Patrick lived with passion and love like no other. He is and always will be missed and remembered.

Peter Anthony Wynn

March 3, 2015

I was saddened to hear about Pats passing. I hope and pray that you and your family will have the strength during this time of loss. What a kind, fun, funny man.... All our love, Donna Mike Robbie and Ashley McSweeney

Donna Mcsweeney

March 3, 2015

So so sorry, feels like yesterday we were working at The Golden Leaf together. You are in my prayers.

March 3, 2015

Our deepest heartfelt sympathies to the entire Patwell family. So sorry for your loss.

sandra cutting

March 3, 2015

The entire Michaels family extends their condolences to all of the Patwell's. We were saddened by the news and all of us thought back to what a genuine guy Pat was. He was a friend to our entire family and we enjoyed living next door to him and to have called him a friend. Thanks for everything Pat.

Mark Paul MaryAnn Walter Michaels

March 2, 2015

My deepest condolences to Jackie and your children ...and to Kate and Dick , his Mom and Dad ..such a wonderful guy I am so very sorry for this great loss in your Lives XO

March 2, 2015

Such a sweet guy. Someone you will always remember. Rest In Peace

Rosemarie Borgia-Loor

March 2, 2015

Deepest sympathies to the Patwell family. Sitting here remembering the great times from Holy Family through meeting up in West Islip during high school. God's speed my friend.

Kevin Healy

March 2, 2015

This is sad news, I knew Wells well @ SJB. My condolences to his family.

Pete Martin

March 2, 2015

I was in Jackie and Pat's wedding party and lost touch with Jackie years ago. My thoughts and prayers are with Jackie and the rest of family and friends.

Debbie Daly-Drywa

March 2, 2015

Our deepest heart felt sympathies to the Patwell family. West Islip lost a true friend & s genuinely good soul. He always had a smile on his face... We miss him terribly already!!

Buquicchio Family

March 2, 2015

So many happy memories and fun times with "Patwell" and the gang from SJB. Good times and friendships that never faded. Love and friendships that will live on - may the light shine on in all of us in your memory.

Laura Eble Siegel

March 2, 2015

My deepest sympathy to Jackie, Kevin, Carley, Timothy and family. I didn't know Pat well, but he was a great guy and a great father. My heart goes out to you. Pat Petersen (cousin of Robert Larsen)

Pat Petersen

March 2, 2015

Couldn't be happier that Pat let me stay when I snuck into his bar at fifteen. From then on we've had countless memories as best friends. We started bar tending together and the good times have been coming ever since. I will never forget seeing him get married, and start his family. The Vilardi's have cherished spending family vacations and holidays together. Most of all, I will miss sharing a backyard beer with my brother. You truly were the best friend I've ever had and will be seeing you when the time comes.
All my love,
Jason Vilardi

Jason Vilardi

March 2, 2015

My deepest sympathy to the Patwell family. Pat was one of my best boyhood friends growing up in Hicksville. Many great memories of those times. The Patwells moved to West Islip and my family moved to Texas in 1976. Saw Pat last in 2001 at our Holy Family reunion. My prayers are with Pat and his family for his sudden passing. God Bless you all!

Kevin Mannion

March 2, 2015

We remember Pat from our days at SJB, may the love of friends and family support you at this time.

Eble Family

March 2, 2015

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