Paul A. SMITH Jr.

1942 - 2016

Paul A. SMITH Jr. obituary, 1942-2016, Hilton Head Island, SC

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Paul SMITH Obituary

SMITH, Jr., Paul A. Paul A. Smith, Jr., 73, of Hilton Head Island, South Carolina, passed away on April 27th, 2016, lovingly surrounded by his family at St. Joseph's Hospital in Atlanta, the city he loved to call home for over 47 years. The funeral service will be held at 2:00 PM on Sunday, May 1, at H.M. Patterson & Son Oglethorpe Hill, 4550 Peachtree Road, Atlanta, GA 30319 with Reverend Mark Krimm of Houston, Texas officiating. Burial will immediately follow at Arlington Memorial Cemetery. Visitation will be held at the funeral home on Saturday, April 30, 2016 from 4:00 PM 6:00PM. Paul was born in Columbia, South Carolina on November 30, 1942. He graduated from Dreher High School and received his Bachelor's of Science Degree in Business Management from the University of South Carolina. He was married to his college sweetheart and the love of his life, Betty Simpson Smith for almost 49 years. He was predeceased by his father, Paul A. Smith, Sr. and sister, Jane Smith Staton. He is survived by his mother, Elizabeth Smith, and two daughters, Shannon Meyring(Robert) and Brittany Esparza(Ryan), three grandchildren, Eliza and Jack Griffin and Alexander Meyring and his beloved yellow lab, Clancey. Pallbearers are: lifelong friends Francis DuBose, Mike Campbell and Alex Miller; Vinings neighbor and friend for 40 years Charlie Land; brother-in-law Bill Simpson, and nephews Chris Station, Allen Simpson and Marty Simpson. As a successful Agency Owner with Allstate for 40 years, he received numerous awards and qualified as a National Conference Champion multiple times. He was once recognized as the #1 Agent in the State of Georgia in several categories of issued policies. His customers valued his honesty, and his easygoing demeanor gave him an edge when helping people with their coverage needs. This was the essence of his success. His longtime associate told anyone who would listen that he was the "best boss" she ever had. One could usually find Paul beside, in, on or under the ocean with his family who were all certified SCUBA divers and just recently with his grandchildren who became Junior Divers in 2014. He adored his family and loved when the house at Hilton Head was filled with fun and laughter from his family, friends, relatives and dogs. He was a voracious reader and knew and loved everything about World War II especially the aircraft and ships of that era. Paul had a passion for cars, anything and everything about them, and his family loved to tease him about his many sports cars and not so many 'practical' cars over the years. He had an amazing sense of humor and amused himself with his silly nicknames for loved ones including Nutty Buddy, Kitten, Pooh Bear, Snarflefinger, Jackbo Buddy and Zander Zooter. He was a very proud past member of The Rotary Club of Vinings serving as an officer in various positions but most of all enjoying his role as the Web Master. After Betty and he moved to Hilton Head last year, he became a member of the VanLandingham Rotary Club, Hilton Head Sail & Power Squadron and Hilton Head "Yacht" Club. He was enjoying making new friends in those organizations and looking forward to getting his boat out for the spring water activities of The Low Country. Usually dressed in his crisp pull over Polo shirt, khakis and loafers without socks, Paul could be found shagging with Betty to South Carolina beach music at any opportunity. Most friends and even acquaintances commented that when he was speaking with you he made you feel as if you were the only person "at the party." He was ever famous for his quick and witty one-liners, especially to diffuse an argument or a negative situation. When Paul spoke, though he was a quiet unassuming man, people listened. He was taken too soon and will be missed by all whose lives he touched during the time he was with us. Flowers or donations to the Winship Cancer Institute of Emory University, or the National Pancreatic Cancer Foundation in his memory will be cherished by his family.

Published by Atlanta Journal-Constitution on Apr. 30, 2016.
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Betty, it was with great sadness to learn of Paul's passing. Please accept our heartfelt condolences. We pray that the love of family and friends will comfort and strengthen you in the days ahead.

Bob & Madeline Philson

May 5, 2016

Betty,

Gail and I were shocked to learn of Paul's passing. Please know that we have you in our thoughts and prayers. We hope to see you in the fall when we return to Hilton Head. You have our phone number.
Smitty Haller

Smitty Haller

May 4, 2016

May the God of all comfort strengthen the family during this time of deep sorrow. Those who pass on, God keeps in his memory because they are precious in his eyes. My sincerest condolences. Psalms 116:15.

S Wilson

May 2, 2016

Betty, yours is a marriage to emulate. Your love for each other lit up a room. Paul will be missed by us all. We pray for your family.

Janet and Wayne Hanson

May 2, 2016

I was so very sorry to hear this sad news. Paul was one of my very favourite Agents that was always so incredibly kind and taught me so very much! I was his Underwriter for several years and after I was later promoted, I would often call him to get an honest opinion from the "agent's side". He always gave me the best advice and I treasured his feedback. Although I only worked for Allstate ten years (over twenty years ago), he made an enormous impact on me through those years. It was apparent what an incredible man he was; honest, kind, caring and obviously loved by so many. I feel blessed to have known him. He will be missed.

Amy Walker (previously Parker)

May 1, 2016

Wish I could have been there with you today-please know my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family

Melinda Bruce

May 1, 2016

Betty, what a sweet, likeable, person to fall in love with. I have never heard any bad comment about Paul. Everybody liked him. I do remember only one time when he was not smiling, that was when he and Francis and I got kicked out of school for a week for skipping class. I really must say I was the bad influence that time. So sorry to hear about your loss and our loss as well.
Love Rhett Eleazer. Jeanne sends you her love.

May 1, 2016

Paul was a true southern gentleman - the world has truly lost a good man.
I was also an Allstate agent and he was always there to help mentor whoever needed a helping hand. I am so sorry for your loss.

Barbara Seger (Jonesboro, Ga.)

May 1, 2016

Betty, I am just hearing about Paul's death and am so shocked. I had no idea he was in the hospital. My thoughts are with you and your family at this difficult time. Cathy

Cathy Shepherd

April 30, 2016

Sorry for your loss. May the GOD of all comfort be with the family at this time of sorrow.

S. D. Washington

April 30, 2016

Prayers and thoughts sending your way.... to all of the family and friends.....he was a great man, father, and husband.
Bob, Louise, Courtney, and Hayley Magill

April 30, 2016

Betty, our thoughts are with you all at this sad time. Paul was a wonderful, kind man who will be sorely missed. He certainly was a pleasure to have around when we all met up on HHI.
John & Jenny Hall
Austraia.

April 30, 2016

Betty, I am sorry for your loss, We will miss Paul, I will keep you and the family in my prayer.

William Ouzts

April 30, 2016

Sorry to here about your Loss, may the God of comfort be with you and the family

D G

April 30, 2016

Betty. I am so sorry to hear of Paul's passing. He was a kind and generous man that I got to know at Dreher. He will be sorely missed. Fred Pugh

April 30, 2016

I am very sorry to learn of the loss of Paul. My prayers are with the Smith family

lloyd hendricks

April 30, 2016

Dear Betty, Larry and I are so sad. Paul was one of the finest men we ever knew- a true friend as well as business associate. We had so many wonderful times together. I pray that God will give you the strength to bear this terrible loss.We love you.Larry and Kathy Wilson. Cape San Blas,Florida

April 30, 2016

Heartfelt condolences from "Our Neighborhood Gang"--Paul, Frances DuBose, John Rogers, Walter Robinson and Eddie Edwards. You will always be with us. Many prayers for you and the family, Betty.

Eddie Edwards

April 30, 2016

I was sorry to hear of the death of Paul Smith, a high school classmate and friend from Columbia, SC. May he Rest in Peace. May God bless his family and friends he leaves behind.

Bruce Geibel

April 30, 2016

Betty and family, I want to express my sincere sorrow and condolences in the loss of Paul. May God grant you the strength to carry this burden with your families help. Although Paul and I were not very active together while at Dreher we were friends and I know he will be missed. Bobby Cowsert

Bobby Cowsert

April 30, 2016

Paul was always a joy to be around and work with. He was an asset to the Allstate family and was always willing to help anyone who needed help.
So sorry for your loss

Hallene Minter

Hallene Minter

April 29, 2016

Betty and family,
Words fail me at this time. I always thought you and Paul were the cutest couple...still do. May God hold you in his fold and give you peace until you two meet again. We are so sad.
Our love,
Ed and Jan oliver.

April 29, 2016

Betty, we were shocked to read your facebook post on the loss of Paul. We can't begin to imagine what you must be going through. Hopefully God will provide some peace to you in the days ahead. Please remember that we are close by if you need us for anything at all.
Love,
Grace and Henry Beach

April 29, 2016

So sorry for your loss! We always enjoyed talking with you and Paul and your fur babies. He will be greatly missed! Love you, Sharon and Mitch Rabon

Sharon Rabon

April 28, 2016

We are so saddened to learn of your loss but hope that you will all be comforted by wonderful memories of such a special person.

With love,

John and Laury Griffin

April 28, 2016

So sorry to hear about your loss. My prayers are with your family.

Sincerely,

Tawnya Davis

Tawnya Davis

April 28, 2016

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