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Tera Rhoades Obituary

Tera L. Rhoades
September 26, 1975 - April 4, 2017
York
Tera Lynn Rhoades, 41, passed away Tuesday, April 4, 2017 at Memorial Hospital. She was the wife of Lashad Rhoades.
Born in York on September 26, 1975, Tera was the daughter of Cheryl L. (Whetzel) Knouse of York and the late Scott E. Schroeder.
The Celebration of Life Service will be 11 a.m. Monday, April 10, 2017 at the John W. Keffer Funeral Homes and Crematory, Inc., 2114 W. Market St., York with the Rev. Dr. S. Philip Covert officiating. Viewings will be 6 to 8 p.m. Sunday evening and one hour prior to service. Burial will be in Prospect Hill Cemetery.
In addition to her husband and mother, Tera leaves to cherish her memories, her mother in law Lori Rhoades; two stepchildren, Keaoni Bair and Lashay Mapp; brother, Rick Knouse Jr. of York; stepsister, Tracy Ruby; goddaughter, Jaiana Marie Hughes; as well as numerous aunts, cousins, nieces and nephews that will miss her dearly.
Tera graduated with her Masters Degree from Lincoln University, she was also a Licensed Counselor through the Commonwealth of Pennsylvania. She was employed as a Clinician at Laurel Life in York and in private practice. Tera also provided supervision to other clinicians working on their state licensing. Tera was a kind, passionate, generous and loving person. She spent her career channeling hope, guidance and inspiration to the children, adults and families she provided counseling to and without question made a significant impact on those lives that she touched. Some of Tera's fondest moments were those she shared with her brother Rick (RJ). She was a beautiful and loving daughter. Tera was proud to be Mrs. Lashad Rhoades, as Lashad was her best friend as well as her husband and she shared freely about her joy and blessings regarding her life with him. Tera also loved her precious dogs, Chinx and Gotti.
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Published by York Daily Record on Apr. 8, 2017.
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I was one of her clients and I guarantee that she was the best person to talk to or to go to for advice..i had two therapist at once and tara was the only one I was comfortable with...i miss you miss tara.

Aleah Davis

February 25, 2018

You been in my thoughts....I ❤
And miss you my friend ❤

Amy Chance

Family

August 4, 2017

Sherry, RJ, and family. I send my deepest condolences. You are in my prayers

Roni Holland

May 17, 2017

Sherry just seeing this about your daughter. You and your family will certainly be in my prayers.

Margie Orr

April 14, 2017

Alicia Kennedy

April 11, 2017

Shad, i'm so sorry for your loss. Praying for comfort for you and the family during these times. sending my condolences.

Christine Scott

April 10, 2017

My deepest condolences to the whole family. Rip Tera.

Jack Valdez

April 10, 2017

RIP Tera . Shad, I'm praying for you during this time of sorrow, but please remember its hard to see the sunshine through the storm. Its always there though. Let memories comfort you and guide you through. I remember our conversations, and I know she's in her glory. God will see you through your sadness.

Alicia Kennedy

April 9, 2017

I'm so deeply sorry for your loss Sherry. Praying for you & all who loved Tara...may God bless you with comfort and peace.

Amy Smith

April 9, 2017

I can't believe you are gone. You always made me laugh in school and to hear you have departed way to soon leaves me heartbroken. I know the Lord has gained a faithful Angel into the kingdom. Til we meet again my friend....

Roderick Artis

April 9, 2017

I love u Tera, we formed a connection thru work at Tindall House n became friends from them on,i will miss ur quick wit ,honest conversations and fun times .Prayers for a peaceful transcendence, my mom will be there to guide u along the way .

Angel Beard

April 9, 2017

Lucy Downey

April 9, 2017

RIP

Joy Toomey - Brenner

April 9, 2017

My sincere condolences to her family. She was a beautiful woman. She will truly be missed by all. Praying God will give you, strength and guidance in the days ahead.

Karen Rideout

April 8, 2017

My heart goes out to all of her family. She was one of a kind and will never be forgotten! Too Young--Too Soon!

ann Downs/Johnson

April 8, 2017

You'll be missed very much Tera:(
R.I.P
Love Madi
You'll always be in the families hearts forever. Say hi to Grandma and Grandpa for me

Madison Sweitzer

April 8, 2017

Prayers for the family and friends Tara had a very big heart and will be missed

Deb Burke

April 8, 2017

My best friend,....I will never say good bye. I will keep your spirit alive in me. Till we meet again,...my sweetest angel I love you! I love you! I love you!

April 8, 2017

Though I only knew Tera for a short time, I mourn the loss of her life. Tera will be greatly missed by many. Her charismatic personality and playfulness were endearing qualities. She was always ready with a smile and a listening ear.

Cecile Achwarzkopf

April 8, 2017

Rest in peace Tera

Ervin Gwynn (uncle Pnut)

April 8, 2017

Rest in peace Tera (uncle Pnut)

April 8, 2017

Hugs & Prayers

Ju Ju

April 8, 2017

Tera was the best counselor there was! She helped look for my daughter for 5 days when she ran away and took her own time to do that! She was so non judgemental and alot of "her kids" looked up to her. As a friend she was always there no matter what. She will be greatly missed!

Heather

April 8, 2017

Undoubtedly a phenomenal counselor who embraced all the blessings of life and guided countless others on how to do the same. More so than heeding her call to be a true beacon of hope in the helping profession, Tera was a woman of her word. She'd set goals and there was no two ways about it, they would be achieved, and usually before her target date. She never backed down from a challenge. Her spark and determination to be a successful therapist led her to the top, and she didn't hesitate for a second to assist others in reaching their dreams too.
Tera was inspirational, charismatic, intuitive, optimistic, giving, loyal, uplifting, unique, loving, fun, a classy, sassy fashionable tend-setter, an advocate, a leader, the girlfriend everyone wanted, kind, and a friend and mentor to so many. And boy could she rock the beautiful, bright shades of lipstick with confidence and sparkle. She lit up the room she entered with her welcoming smile and her bubbly, tell-it-like-it-is humorous personality.
I will forever be grateful on how Tera unselfishly helped my sister through a dark time in life - - giving her hope, building her esteem, & making her laugh throughout the journey. That relationship was priceless to witness & Tera had a heart of gold. So selfless, strong, and empowering. We sat side-by-side in an all-day professional growth training and during breaks she had me laughing so hard with her on-point impressions and witty jokes. I'll never forget the family trip to Ocean City. Tera could sport a gorgeous tan with some sweet bling, jeweled sandals, cute, one-of-a-kind outfits, and of course, to complete her look, some rich, rosy lips. She was the life of the party and could make even a taxi ride become the highlight of an adventurous evening. Her giving spirit was unmatched. One evening at her home I simply commented on the adorable slippers she was wearing and the next moment she had placed them on my feet. She was just that type of person that found true joy and peace in making others happy.
Lashad, Sherry and RJ, and to all those whom been touched by Tera, be it by the grace of her smile, her lending you an ear to vent your frustrations, the hearty chuckle from her jokes, the friendship she provided to so many, and the pure love that poured from her heart, may you know that this loss of an angel that we were fortunate to know here on Earth, has been called to fulfill a bigger purpose. GOD makes no mistakes so I can only draw upon one conclusion on why our Sun was taken so soon, so suddenly. HE needs her to shine in HIS PARADISE, by HIS throne, on a much larger scale, a much bigger platform, to help numerous others from above. Yes, that is it...her work is not nearly done...in fact, it only just begun. So when you witness blessings right before your eyes -- a caterpillar evolving into that pretty butterfly, that baby bud blooming into a lovely red rose, or you feel unsettled but your sadness is overcome by a relaxed sense of "I got this, I CAN do this", and inner peace, well, that's Tera looking over you and out for you from the loving arms and protection of the Lord's presence. Indeed HE requires Tera for HIS master plan as HE recognizes beyond all others her genuine gifts, talents and qualities, HE knows her heart, and knows how best to use her to serve ALL mankind.
Missed so dearly, always remembered, NEVER forgotten...fly on Tera, wear your halo proudly, and continue to make miracles. ❤

Jennifer iturmendi Murray

April 8, 2017

R.I.P. TERA

BRENDA KING-MILLE

April 8, 2017

Teresa Williams

April 8, 2017

Fly angel fly

Laura and Don Toomey

April 8, 2017

Brenda Frey

April 8, 2017

My heart goes out to the family. Grew up with Tera, was a great person. Shocked and stunned by her passing. I pray that her family find comfort at this very difficult time, and may the wonderful memories continue to shine and show her wonderful being.

Chaz Arnold

April 8, 2017

I knew Tera since we were kids and in school. I got to know her even better after she became my daughters therapist. She spent a lot of time helping my daughter. We remained friends over the years. Tera was one of the realest and most compassionate person I know. Praying for all of her loved ones.

Danielle

April 8, 2017

Only the good die young

Theresa

April 7, 2017

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