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Mary Coates Obituary

Mary Caroline Coates of Lowell, active in the community; 70 LOWELL Mary Caroline (Stark) Coates, a Lowell resident died unexpectedly Thursday, September 25, 2008, at the Saint Medical Center. She was 70. She was born in Tewksbury on March 31, 1938, a daughter of the late Frank and Selina Stark. Mary Caroline was a resident of the Newton Wellesley area for many years prior to moving to Lowell. Mary Caroline was a member of the United Church of Christ in Lowell, and in earlier years was active in many programs there. She was involved in community activism, including volunteering for several CTI of Lowell programs. Mary Caroline enjoyed swimming, camping, and simply being with her family and grandchildren. Survivors include six children and their spouses, James and Irene Coates of Lowell, Kevin Coates of North Chelmsford, Leona and Steven Panas of Londonderry, NH, Donald and Mary Coates of Seabrook, NH, William and Birget Coates of Los Gatos, CA, Gregory and Diana Coates of Dracut; including more grandchildren and great-grandchildren than she could count using all fingers and toes; her former husband, Ronald F. Coates of Dover Foxcroft, Maine. She was also the mother of the late Mark M. Coates and John P. Coates. COATES Mary Caroline. It being her request, visiting hours have been omitted. Her funeral services will be private. Donations in her memory may be made to Lowell Senior Center/Council on Aging, 276 Broadway St., Lowell, MA 01854. For condolences please visit, www.mckennaouellette.com

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Published by Lowell Sun from Sep. 28 to Sep. 29, 2008.

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June

October 1, 2008

To all the Coates family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of sorrow. Carol is a very thoughful and kind woman.

John & Stephanie Callery

September 29, 2008

Don
We are so sorry to hear about the loss of your mother. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family
John & Stephanie Callery

Kit Goins

September 29, 2008

I've known Carol (as she told us to call her) about 4 yrs recently and earlier when I was in High School.
I didn't know her that well, but did party with her sometimes. I wish to acknowledge her passing and send condolences to those her loved her and known her best. My only hope is that we'll see each other in heaven again.

Jackie Goins-Ferguson

September 29, 2008

My condolescense to the family. I remember Carol from High Street. Her children went to school with my children - Kit, Kim, Kathy and Kelly. In recent years we had shared many memories. I fondly remember tanning in my yard with her and going up to Lake in Dracut and coming to visit me at Salisbury beach on vacation. May you rest in peace, Carol,
With love,
Jackie (Goins) Ferguson

Faulkner Family

September 29, 2008

The loss of someone so close is difficult to bear. We share your grief.

KATHY murphy

September 29, 2008

I'M SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS . I REMEMBER YOUR MOM SO WELL . WE LIVED ON HIGH STREET . AND HER AND I WOULD SIT OUTSIDE AND TAN , I WAS ALSO A FRIEND OF JOHNS , I MISS HIM TOO . AGAIN I'M SO SORRY . AND MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU
KATHY MURPHY

VINCENT (BUDDY) GOFORTH

September 29, 2008

VERY SORRY TO HERE ABOUT YOUR MOTHER I WILL KEEP HER IN MY PRAYERS

JOANN (ANDERSON) CALHOUN

September 28, 2008

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

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