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Shirley Macdonald Obituary

Shirley M. MacDonald Tewksbury, longtime resident; 74 Tewksbury Shirley M. (Booth) (Mackey) MacDonald died August 20, 2007 after a short battle with cancer. Born to Raymond L. Booth and Mildred C. Blair on October 24, 1932 at Tewksbury State Hospital in Tewksbury, MA, she spent her childhood summers socializing on Silver Lake in Wilmington. She met her high school sweetheart at the Tewksbury / Wilmington Thanksgiving football game. She was a cheerleader for Tewksbury and he a Wilmington football player. She graduated from Tewksbury High School in 1950 and went on to marry that football player, James E. Mackey of Wilmington on September 16, 1950 at Saint William's Church in Tewksbury. They set up a home in Boston but came back to Tewksbury to raise their six kids. The family home on Edgewood Road had a constant flurry of activity - the door was always open and all were welcome. She took in foster children helped many that were down on their luck and in need of a loving home, home cooked meals and a comfortable, loving place to rest their head. Shirley worked for decades as a waitress at the Tewksbury Inn, where she built countless loving and lasting relationships and fell in love with her second husband, Edward D. MacDonald, who she married on June 17, 1977. She went on to work at Purity Supreme Headquarters in Billerica for many years as well. She enjoyed her bowling nights with her girlfriends, going dancing, playing bingo, and many New England getaways with her friends. Her favorite get-away, by far, was East Shore Beach in Naples, Maine, where she spent her summers with her husband, children, grandchildren and three generations of her friends' families, mostly from Tewksbury and Wilmington. She cherished visiting her daughter at her home in Las Vegas and their many trips to Hawaii and Mazatlán. Her love of New England and its lakes stayed with her throughout her life and she spent all her summers on them in addition to East Shore Beach, she spent a decade of summers at Salmon Point Campground, also on Long Lake, until her husband passed in 2003. Her recent summers were spent at her son's summer home on Suncook Lake in Barnstead, NH with her children, grandchildren and wonderful friends and neighbors. She leaves behind too many broken hearts to count, but all will eventually mend by way of our wonderful memories of her. Shirley is survived by six children, James Mackey of Las Vegas, NV, Diane Mackey of Lowell, Donna Mackey, Robert Mackey and his wife Debra, and Maureen Mackey all of Tewksbury, and Michael Mackey and his wife Debra of Methuen; nine grandchildren, Sean and Jay Mackey, Roy Fabila, Justin and Jason Mackey, Peter Shelzi, Kelan, Ryan and Aiden Mackey; three great grandchildren, Ashley, Allison and Emily of Las Vegas, NV; one brother, Robert Booth and his wife Hilde of Virginia; two step-children, Edward MacDonald and Maureen Mann. She was the sister of the late Donald Booth. MacDONALD Shirley M. (Booth) (Mackey), age 74, of Tewksbury, August 20th, a Funeral Mass Celebrating Shirley's Life was held Friday, August 24th, at St. William's Church, Tewksbury. If you care to make a donation in her honor, her favorite charity was St. Jude Children's Research Hospital. Arrangements were entrusted to the Farmer & Dee Funeral Home, Tewksbury. www.farmeranddee.com
Published by Lowell Sun from Aug. 21 to Aug. 28, 2007.

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Paula Macallister

August 25, 2007

Michael,Debbie, and the "mackey boy's." Your mom will always be in our hearts! What a wonderful legacy she has created and passed on to her children and grand children. What great parents you are and Michael, what a loving son and Deb what a loving daughter-in-law you are... so kind and patient and through it all- always thinking about her needs and feelings. She will live on through not only the both of you but through your children and how much she adored all of them. Always here for you, Love Bud,Paula Abigail, and Ella

Susan Jones

August 24, 2007

Diane.. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
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Denise Beek

August 24, 2007

Dear Mackey Family,

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. You had a great lady for a mom and I'm sure you'll miss her dearly. It does get better though and you'll be able to share great memories of your life with her. My thoughts are with you at this time of sorrow.

Love,
Denise

Lisa & Rob Johnston

August 23, 2007

Our hearts go out to you at this time and in the days ahead.

Barbara Field-Elwell

August 23, 2007

Donna - I was so sorry to read about your mom. I now live in Florida. I will always remember how sweet your mom was and all the fun times we had growing up and all through school.

My deepest sympathy,
Barbara Field-Elwell

Debbie Mackey

August 23, 2007

Dear Donna, Bobby, Diane, Maureen, and Mike,
My deepest sympathy and condolences to all of you. Shirley was the BEST Mother-in-Law of all times. I will always carry with me the good times and laughs we shared over the years. Shirley was a very special lady and will be missed by all.

My Mom, My Friend at the Lower Falls, Kangamangus River. I will fill the huge whole in my life with my wonderful memories of you. I Love You and will miss you everyday of the rest of my life. Maureen

August 22, 2007

Terrie Peterson Snodgrass

August 22, 2007

My you be blessed with many wonderful memories of your mom and find peace within yourselves to help through this hard time

Nancy Wood

August 21, 2007

Moe and family
So sorry to hear of your moms passing.I remember her from growing up on Algonquin Drive and
the Tewksbury Inn. She was a wonderfull woman.

Debbie Olson

August 21, 2007

My thoughts and prayers are with you Moe and your family. It was joy to have known your mother. We had such a good time when we waitressed together at the Tewksbury Inn. She was such a wonderful person and I will miss her always.

Angela Lyons

August 21, 2007

Mike, Debbie & Mackey Family,
We are so very sorry. She was one of the sweetest women we ever met. You are all in our hearts.
Love,
Auntie Angela & Uncle Joe

Kat Leslie

August 21, 2007

Moe, my deepest condolences in the passing of your Mom. I remember her from the good old Tewksbury Inn days...she was a great lady.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time.

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