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Stacey Ahern Obituary

Stacey P. Ahern of Chelmsford, writer and author; 29 CHELMSFORD Stacey P. Ahern, 29, of Chelmsford, died on Thursday, March 20, 2008. She was a beloved sister, daughter, and Godmother. Stacey was born on February 28, 1979, in Lowell, a daughter of Carol Gendron-Ahern of Chelmsford, and Brendan M. Ahern of Lowell. She received her early education in the Chelmsford School System, and went on to attend Chelmsford High School, and graduated from Nashoba Valley Technical High School in 1997. She attended Middlesex Community College prior to attending Sarah Lawrence College in Bronxville, NY where she was a senior studying Writing and Literature. She enjoyed writing and had recently completed her first novel. Stacey was a disability activist who spoke publicly for maximizing potential for people with disabilities, as well as a member of Beyond Compliance, a disability awareness group at Sarah Lawrence College. She enjoyed helping others, and had recently donated her own hair to the Locks of Love. In addition to her loving parents, she is survived by her grandparents, Albert Gendron and his wife, Priscilla of Lowell; a brother, Brendan Ahern of Hawaii; a sister, Kate Ahern of Haverhill; a godchild, Anthony Torres; her boyfriend, Gilbert Escamilla of Manhattan, NY; her father's dearest friend, Diann Hamblett of Chelmsford; and many cousins, aunts, uncles, and close friends. AHERN Stacey P. Ahern, 29, of Chelmsford, died on Thursday, March 20, 2008. Visiting hours will be held on Tuesday evening from 4 to 8 p.m. at the BLAKE FUNERAL HOME, 24 Worthen St., Chelmsford. A Funeral Mass will be offered on Wednesday morning at 9 o'clock at St. Mary's Church, Chelmsford. In lieu of flowers donations may be made in Stacey's name to the Sarah Lawrence College, College Resources, 1 Mead Way, Bronxville, NY 10708. Please include In memory of Stacey Ahern in Check Memo. Arrangements by BLAKE FUNERAL HOME, Chelmsford. www.blakefuneralhome.com
Published by Lowell Sun on Mar. 24, 2008.

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kim parker

April 1, 2008

Brendan...my dad just called me from Florida...i am so sorry about Stacey. i know there are no words, no answers.....nothing any one can do for you...this is your grief to feel; but please know you are not alone. thinking of you, kim

Liz Sinnott

March 31, 2008

Dear All,

Stacey was the one and only person who ever came up to me to say hello on her own initiative at Sarah Lawrence College. I met her when we were both part of the CCE program and she was an inspiration to me as a writer, a poet, a woman of great courage and great beauty inside and out. I will never forget the sadly brief but lasting impressions she has made on me.

I am still surprised not to see her around campus. She will be missed.

Kathy Hatfield

March 31, 2008

Carol, Brendan, Katie & Brendan;
Spike and I were truly sad to hear about Stacey's passing. As her Godmother my heart is heavy with grief. Stacey was a beautiful girl and will be missed by the Hatfield family. May you be comforted by the treasured memories that will always be in your thoughts, and the special love that will always be in your hearts. Love to all,

Michelle Bishop

March 28, 2008

The Ahern family,
I will always have such wonderful memories of us all growing up together next door to each other. Stacey will never be forgotten and forever in our hearts.
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.


With deepest sympathy,

Brendan Ahern

March 28, 2008

SA,
I know you wouldn't want me to but I can't stop crying. I am so sad that my favorite person in the whole world is no longer here. It really touched me meeting so many people at the wake that you had touched and inspired. I am honored and priviliged to be your brother and have never been prouder of you. I am trying to take comfort in the fact that you have found eternal comfort in the arms of an angel. I'll think of you everyday until we meet again... I love you!!! I love you!!! I love you!!!

Kate Ahern

March 27, 2008

Stacey,
I was only given one sister and I am so happy that sister was you. Who I am I going to call on Christmas to wish Happy Groundhogs Day to? Who I am going to sing St. Mary's Children's Choir songs with and fight over the lyrics? I can barely stand how sad I am and then I get sadder (more sad? why aren't you here to talk grammar with?). I keep listening to the last three voice mails you left on my phone and I love you too.

Lee D.

March 27, 2008

We know Stacey is at peace now. May she be blessed. May God grant us peace and strength to help one another at this difficult time.

Lucille Surprenant

March 27, 2008

Brendan and family: You have to know how much your beautiful daughter meant to so many people and how much she was loved. Her inspiration will never die as she will remain in our hearts forever. My prayers are with you. God Bless you Stacey. I know you have a very special place in heaven.

Bruce Linstad

March 26, 2008

To The Ahern Family,
My thoughts and prayers
are with you.
May you find the strenghth and
courage to help you through this
time of sorrow.Memories will always
keep her near to all the hearts that
loved her.
May your mermories of her bring you
peace and reassure you that beauty
and love endures forever.

Kristen McGeown (Nashoba Tech)

March 26, 2008

Ms. Ahern,
I am so sorry to hear about Stacey. My thoughts and prayers are with you!!

Ken Miller

March 26, 2008

Dear Brendan & Family,

My Heartfelt Condolences on Stacey's passing. She touched many in her life that we will never know. Many persons have touched my life but Memories of her I will hold Dearly.

Ken Miller

Jen Sweet

March 26, 2008

Kate & Family,

I am so sorry. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Renee Roberts

March 26, 2008

Carol & Family-
My heart is aching for you. I am so sorry to hear about Stacey. May all the beautiful memories you have bring you comfort at this time and always.

Denise Sullivan

March 26, 2008

Brendan,
There are no words to express the sorrow I feel. My thoughts and prayers are with you and yours.

Liz Bennett

March 25, 2008

Carol,
You are in my thoughts and prayers. I am so sorry for your loss.

Bob M

March 25, 2008

God Bless Stacey. My thoughts and prayers for you and your family.

Chris Lyle

March 25, 2008

Stacey,

I didnt get to know you that we'll but you were always an inspiration around the Halls and to hear you speak with such enthusaism and honesty. God Speed. Namaste

Jackie & Ed Hayes

March 25, 2008

Brendan & Family,
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. Our deepest condolences are with you as you grieve. Stacey's smile and laughter will be missed!

vanessa burns

March 25, 2008

Stacey - I will never forget how hard we used to laugh together and all of the silly things we did as kids.

The world lost another great one.

Much love and strength to your family during this awful time.

Sarah Rose

March 25, 2008

To the Ahern Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. Stacey will never be forgotten...

Sheri Denk

March 25, 2008

I met Stacey while she was a student at Middlesex Community College. She came to my office to learn about our Service Learning program, which she signed up for and completed in an exemplary manner. Her compassion and caring for others are two of the things I remember most. In addition, her delightful personality and sense of humor will always be remembered.

Julia Mirras

March 25, 2008

I was saddened to hear of Stacey passing. She was one of my favorite students at Middlesex Community College. She was a joy in class and an inspiration to all. My heartfelt sympathy.

Prof. Julia Mirras
Middlesex Community College

William Martin

March 25, 2008

"You touched our Lives but for a
moment,you will live in our memories
forever...."
With sympathy,
Betty & Bill

Mary DeCicco

March 25, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time.
Stacy we had a special bond.

March 25, 2008

Brendan,Carol and Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. I have many great memories of Stacey in junior high and high school. She was a great friend to Alison. My prayers and thoughts are with you.
Joan Kelly

Allison- Greater Lowell Tech H.S

March 25, 2008

Carol,
I'm so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers

Paula Sydlowski

March 25, 2008

One of my most loved and admired students Stacey, you will be sorely missed. The memories of the times and conversations we shared will keep you in my heart forever. My prayers are with your family and friends.

Shelagh Santry

March 25, 2008

I will always remember Stacey's laughter from when we were younger. Although I didn't know her through her later years, I have heard amazing stories from my father. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. May your many memories get you through this difficult time.

Bethanne DeStefano

March 24, 2008

Stacey you will be missed but never forgotten, I will always cherish our days living togehter and all your help with Kayla! My prays are with your family, God Bless

Tammy Dobrosielski

March 24, 2008

Kate and family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you. Stacey was a lovely young woman and she rose to every challenge life offered her. Be comforted by your memories, know that you are in the thoughts of many whom she touched.

LAURIE Lager

March 24, 2008

Stacey,
We are all blessed to have known you during your short time with us here. Spread your wings and fly for you are free. Fly with the angels.
I will miss you and think of you often.
My thoughts and prayers are with the family.
Laurie Lager
Maynard Tues. Night.

Erin Doherty

March 24, 2008

In My Pocket

I have memories in my pocket.
They rattle among the change.

My memories of you are treasures I carry wherever I go.

They are stored in bits and pieces, parts of a beautiful whole
They give me comfort when I think I am alone.

Yes, I have memories in my pocket, like so much other stuff I keep there.

But of all the treasures I have, it’s the memories of you that are the most precious.

Diane Medeiros

March 24, 2008

My sincere heartfelt condolences.

Diane Medieors (friend of Brendan's)

Alison Nikonchuk

March 24, 2008

Stacey
You will always be remembered and loved.

Mary Gallant

March 24, 2008

Kate and family;
The world has lost a wonderful person with such a gift for helping others. May your memories and the legacy of her written words sustain you during this sad time. Mary Gallant

Meghan Stanton

March 24, 2008

My thoughts & prayers are with the Ahern family. May you rest in peace Stacey. I'll always think back and laugh at all of our crazy memories from when we were kids. Thinking of all of you.

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