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Darcy Wakefield Obituary

Darcy Gammon
    Wakefield, 35
     CAPE ELIZABETH - Darcy Gammon Wakefield, 35, died from ALS on Saturday, Dec. 10, 2005 at her home in Cape Elizabeth.
     A native of Livermore, she attended local public schools until 1986; she graduated from the Waynflete School in Portland, in 1988. She then attended Bates College and Smith College, where she graduated in 1992. She earned her MA from SUNY/Buffalo in 1996, and her MFA from Emerson in 2003. From August 1999 until January 2004, she taught English at Southern Maine Community College, where she thoroughly enjoyed her students, colleagues, subject matter, and work setting.
     Before getting ALS, she was extremely active, and loved walking, running, hiking, and swimming. Throughout her life, she was a feminist, and firmly supported women's right to choice. She also enjoyed hanging out with friends and family. Her interests included reading and writing, and her stories and essays appeared on Maine Public Radio and National Public Radio, and in numerous publications. She also wrote two books, I remember Running: The Year I Got Everything I Ever Wanted - and ALS and No Flies on Bill.
     After getting ALS, she was extremely committed to raising ALS awareness. She hoped that awareness would lead to a cure so that no one else would have to die from this awful disease.
     She is survived by her fabulous friends; her extended family; her maternal grandmother, Billie Gammon; her parents, John and Nancy Lee Wakefield; a sister, Betsy Wakefield and brother Jonathan Wakefield; a beloved son, Sam; and her true love and partner, Dr. Steve Stout.

     In lieu of flowers, donations may be sent directly to:
    The Robert Packard
    Center for ALS Research at
    Johns Hopkins University
    www.alscenter.org
    or
    The Darcy Wakefield
    Scholarship Fund
    SMCC
    2 Fort Rd.
    South Portland, Maine 04106

     A memorial service will be held Wednesday, Dec. 14 at 2 p.m. at the First Congregational Church, 301 Cottage Rd., South Portland.
     Arrangements made by Hobbs Funeral Home.
    Darcy Gammon
    Wakefield

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Published by Portland Press Herald/Maine Sunday Telegram on Dec. 12, 2005.

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Marybeth Judy

August 5, 2025

Fast Forward to 2025 and I am just finishing her words in "I remember running." She still inspires and Darcy´s words speak to me clearly of a life full of living. My simple way of being grateful for small things has expanded greatly and I thank her for this. Her Spirit lives on.

Sandra Christiansen

February 10, 2021

Darcy Wakefield was my professor at SMCC in the early Aughts. It was only for a short time because this was post her diagnosis. I attended her funeral. I often think about her and this is what brought me to this page. I hope all her friends and family know that she touched many lives including mine.

April 4, 2015

I have not yet read Darcy's book - I just discovered it online while searching for something else. My sweet husband had ALS and passed away about 5 months ago. Once we received the diagnosis we got busy crossing items off his bucket list - similar to what Darcy did. We didn't accomplish them all, but we sure had fun with the ones we did accomplish, until my husband was too ill to travel. This is a horrible, relentless, devastating disease. I join you in hoping and praying for a cure.

Joanne Walton

August 20, 2014

So sad to learn of Darcy's death. I was fortunate to be her Junior Advisor her first year at Bates. She was such a wonderful person and made everyone feel good. I just ordered her book and will read it while sipping a cup of tea and remember our fun year together in Parker Hall. Big hugs to you all. I have several photos from that year. If you would like me to send them to you, contact me at [email protected].

Kristen Hodges

January 7, 2014

Thank you for Darcy's book. My mom passed from ALS two months ago, and I promptly bought and read this book. If only I had read it earlier and had her read it as well. Darcy - you lived a beautiful life, so true to yourself, and I'm so happy for all of you that Steve and Sam came into the picture as well. I truly hope to meet you some day. Thank you, thank you.

Jen Stuart

December 10, 2013

Darcy was my English professor and friend. She taught me much more about life than writing, and I will always miss her spirit.

C. Phillips

May 29, 2013

I just finished reading "I Remember Running" - what a beautiful, sad, inspiring book. I am saddened that Darcy has passed on and grateful for the inspiring thoughts she left for us. I think her book provides a blueprint for life that we can all benefit from. My condolences to her family and friends.

Tomas Gimenez

November 7, 2012

I just finished reading her book "I remember running". I wish I would have met such an extraordinary human being. Darcy continues to teach us not to give for granted the simple things in life.

Michelle Berlin-Lowe

December 4, 2006

I was looking for something on NPR and came across today's "This I Believe" commentary. Since that piece is about ALS, Darcy's pieces came up as well.
As a long-term NPR listener, I recognized Darcy's voice in her piece on losing the ability to run, and then Betsy reading another of Darcy's pieces.
Please do know that, as disconcerting as it may seem, Darcy's voice and vision do live on.
Take care.

Karen Alves

October 5, 2006

I just finished reading Darcys book, and as read it I kept wondering "How is Darcy doing now?". Well, I just did an online search and was upset (but not suprised) that Dacry has passed. My father was just diagnosed with ALS. What a terrible disease, it takes the young and old. I keep thinking of her statement "living a fast-forward life". God Bless Darcy's family & friends.

Morgan Anderson

September 26, 2006

I feel like I have a lot in common with Darcy. I'm 33, live in Portland (OR), am a vocal and proud feminist, and on September 15, 2006 also got news that ALS struck my family. Sadly, my mother was diagnosed 3 years to the day when Darcy had her first EMG test and was told she likely had ALS. I'm grateful to Darcy for writing her book as it is difficult to obtain information on the progression of this disease. We are just beginning our battle, but I'm touched by the courageous way Darcy lived and will take her messages to heart as I support my mother through her ALS journey.

Steve Gotlieb

July 19, 2006

Though Darcy passed away some time ago I still think of her as both a colleage and a friend. Darcy and I were SMCC's graduation speakers, she in the morning and mine in the afternoon. Darcy's speech was motivating while mine was the culmination of thirty plus years as a teacher with a few jokes thrown in. I could never have competed with Darcy because of her energy and sheer class. I miss Darcy's smile and laughter. I miss teasing her through inter campus e-mail. I can't understand why the "good one's die young." Sleep softly, Darcy.

Kay Oestreich

May 13, 2006

This entry is from my parents as well as myself, as we all have enjoyed reading the book. Our sorrow is in the family's loss of Darcy, but rejoice that she wrote so beautifully. My parents are contemporaries of her grandmother, Billie, and I am an old childhood friend of her mother, Nancy Lee. How blessed they all were with her life and her writings.

Christine

May 11, 2006

I am half way through her book and today I decied to see if she has a site to write to her... only to find that ALS took her life. I am so sorry for her family and friends and to all us how take something from her strength. My cousin is now fighting this dreaded disease and I have my own fight - for 30+ years - with another form of muscular distrophy that starts out the same way as ALS.

I just want to say that her life has inspired me to always look on the bright side of things.

Take care and be strong.

Timothy Haiss

April 28, 2006

I started crying when I heard the familiar cadence of your words on NPR and had to pull over. We loved your class, you made it so special. I've read over your numerous marginalia on my papers, the strength of your voice shines. I remember you kept that poem I wrote for/about, you next to your computer all semester. Thank You for being so gifted and generous.

Magen Petit, 22

April 5, 2006

I am currently reading Darcy's book, "I Remember Running..." My grandfather fell victim to ALS when I was in 8th grade. He later died my freshman year in high school. I never knew what this horrible disease was until he was diagnosed with it. I then did research to familiarize myself with the disease. After having read an article in the Portland Press Herald about Darcy and her having ALS, my mother and I purchased her book. My mother just finished it and I am now halfway through the book. It's incredible how fast this disease progresses and at the same time, extremely sad and difficult to deal with. I do not wish this upon my worst enemy. Darcy seemed to have been so full of life and anxious about her everyday activities. Even though I've never met her and know nothing about her besides through this book, I can sense she was an amazing, hard-working woman. I'm sure her friends and family miss her deeply, as I do with my grandfather. April 26 will mark eight years since he's passed on from this horrible disease.

Hopefully one day we will find a cure, as Darcy has wished.

Life's a fragile thing and can be taken from you at any moment. Let's enjoy each day as it's presented to us.

Debra Lotstein

March 5, 2006

I met Darcy when we were both at Bates College. While we were friends for a relatively brief time, her outspokeness and joy in living have stayed with me. I'm inspired by the brave life she lived.

Daniel Lavoie

March 2, 2006

I met Darcy when I was 15 years old. She was a counselor at UMF's Upward Bound program. She was a great person to be around. She had a great sense of humor and no matter how bad I was feeling, she was able to make me laugh. I only spent two summers with her, she has had an impact on my life. I have thought of her over the years and always wondered how she was. I found this website at the beginning of December. Little did I know that a couple of weeks later, I would not have a chance to let her know how much she meant to me.

Good bye my friend.

Anne Borden

February 21, 2006

I will always remember Darcy's beautiful laugh.

Jacqueline Pixley

February 18, 2006

Peace to you all and strength to live for Darcey. I also live with the challenge of ALS. I know how hard she fought to live. We all play the hand we're dealt and I have no doubt she did her best.

Carla Landers

January 23, 2006

I was lucky enough to have Darcy be a part of my life at a crucial time. Darcy was not only a teacher of mine at UB Farmington, but she was my advisor. For a person who had been through a lot of pain Darcy was a shining light of hope and joy. She made me see rainbows again and not just the rain. She helped me be a better student and respectively a better teacher. I was sorry to hear about her struggle and eventual death from this horrible disease. She meant the world to me, and I am thankful to have know her.

Naomi Lescohier

January 8, 2006

During the fall of 2002, I was in a nonfiction workshop at Emerson. It was my first class back at grad school, after three months spent in the hospital recovering from a serious neurological illness. Darcy was one of my classmates.

I had only recently begun walking again, with the aide of leg braces and crutches, and attending this class was my only real activity besides attending physical therapy. I came to this class feeling a heavy burden of self-consciousness, anger, sadness, and confusion. I desperately wanted to share my experience through my writing, and yet I was terrified of being perceived as sick and disabled.

I have many memories of Darcy from that class. I remember one day she brought in these wildly decadent cookies – something with pieces of candy bars and nuts and chocolate chips – and others in the class begged her to bring in the recipe. I remember a tall, striking woman with one of the most beautiful smiles I’ve ever seen up close. I remember a writer who read her work with charm and confidence, and a writer who so gracefully communicated the humor, emotions, and music of both the mundane and extraordinary doings of life.

It wasn’t until late November that I learned of Darcy’s struggle with ALS, after happening upon the information of the publication of her book, and then realizing what it was about. I planned to read the book and then send a letter to Darcy. At the same time, I pulled out my workshop notes from that class. I was particularly struck by one note she wrote to me –

“...On a personal level, I am painfully aware of [how] hard it would be for me to survive such an experience, and to write about it as gracefully as you do –

Darcy”

I have thought a lot about Darcy for the last six weeks, not knowing until today that she passed away less than three weeks after I first learned about her illness. I wanted to tell her that her kindness and respect towards me then helped me find the confidence to share my story.

My deepest sympathy goes to all of Darcy’s friends and family. I will remember her with admiration and fondness.

Ashley Kent

January 7, 2006

It's been a little while since her memorial service. But as I walked into the living room tonight I noticed the TV program on HBO about ALS. Instantly I thought of Darcy. She was more to me then just a professor. She was an inspiration even before I was aware of the illness. I think of this situation and remember an essay I wrote for one of her classes (the very first one in fact). I just simply thought how is someone so loved and respected given this terminal illness. It always made me question my faith in God. My first class with Darcy she assigned a free write. The subject was "when I heard the song blank by blank I was blanked" We had to fill in the blanks. She helped me immensely. I grew up that day I read my essay allowed. It was a sad essay about a friend that I lost in High School. Darcy taught me how to cope and how to move on. I honestly think that was her intention with her book. She knew little Sam wouldn't be able to remember her as she aged. And unfortunately won’t have the memories that so many of us have today. So she took it upon her self to say its okay Please pick up the pieces and keep going. I admire her, Steve, Sam, friends and family for dealing with this so graciously. The very last essay I wrote was about Darcy and ALS. I read the essay allowed to the class, it was my final essay for Professor Drake. I made it through it because Darcy taught me how to cope. For that I’m thankful and honored to have had the privilege of meeting and listening to her, her sister and maternal grandmother.

Thank you Darcy! You will be forever missed.

Love, Ashley

Heidi Kueber Wilson

January 5, 2006

Darcy and I were both writing instructors at the Edwards Learning Center, during our graduate school days in Buffalo. I remember her fondly for her infectious enthusiasm, her mega-watt smile, her keen sense of humor, and her passion for living. Darcy had a genuine warmth and empathy for others, and she will sorely be missed.

Though I had lost touch with Darcy over the years I was incredibly saddened to hear the news of her passing. Her vibrant spirit lives on in her writing and her words. Steve, Sam, my thoughts and prayers are with you.

Brenda Barron Turner

January 4, 2006

Dear John and Nancy(and the rest of Darcy's family),

As an old friend of the Wakefield family, I thought I'd pay my respects by attending Darcy's Memorial Service. I didn't expect to be so moved by what an incredible woman Darcy was. Of course it was very apparent by the number of people there. I'm about 2/3 of the way through her book now and am even more amazed at how she dealt with her ALS and her ability to share all her feelings in her book. What a courageous woman!

You must be so very proud of her.

Love, Brenda Barron Turner

Lucinda Mahoney

January 2, 2006

My most heartfelt sympathies to you all...If only we all could have Darcy's insight, grace and courage! Everyone should read her book!My prayers are with you all.

Tim Bechtold & Karen Knudsen

December 30, 2005

We're on the other side of the mountains now, Steve and Sam Stout, but we're with you still.

George, Dominique, Jack, Sarah Lightbody

December 30, 2005

We remember Darcy. We always will. We lookforward to being with Steve and Sam over the coming years.

Much love.

Steve and Darcy in Taos in August, 2003

December 30, 2005

Elizabeth Houk

December 24, 2005

Darcy was an incredible person whom I am so blessed to have known. We grew up in the same town, and she quickly became a beloved "big sister" to me while I was growing up. I have so may fond memories of her. We would go cross-country skiing on the trails around or homes, and go to summer festivals. We stayed in touch for years, and I have to this day every letter she wrote me. I regret not keeping in touch more as we grew older and apart in distance. I too was going to write to her and tell her how much I loved her book and how much of an inspration she is. I will forever remember her infectious laugh, her insight, her smile. She lived such an incredible life I will miss her immensly.

Amy Kimball

December 23, 2005

I never met Darcy in person, but I feel blessed to have gotten to know her through her stories on NPR and in the Press Herald as she bravely fought ALS. She was an amazing woman who in the face of a terminal illness never lost hope. She focused her energy and talents outward to share her story, when others in her same state would have retreated inwards. Thank you Darcy for sharing your story and reminding us to never give up hope whatever life may bring. My thoughts go out to your family and friends this holiday season.

Jessica Nathanson

December 23, 2005

Darc and I were good friends in Buffalo. I remember that she was always busy doing something and pulling the rest of us into her plans -- making soup on cold winter nights, sending handmade Valentines to friends, hiking, hosting parties to create a sense of community among the students...Darcy was always looking out for everyone, and she was at the core of our community.

I had been out of touch with her for a couple of years until a professor of ours directed me to her book this fall. We (her friends from Buffalo) are all so saddened at losing her, and our hearts go out to her family.

I know you're running, Darc.

Tricia Brooks

December 23, 2005

I was deeply saddened to learn of Darcy’s death. I am so happy that I was lucky enough to call her my friend. I will always cherish memories of sharing tea and stories in her room at Smith College, as well as the invaluable support she provided me while I was in graduate school. My love and sympathy go out to her family. I hope that you may find some comfort in the knowledge that the inspiration of her spirit will stay with all those whose lives were touched by her friendship, teaching and writing.

Michele Sturgeon

December 22, 2005

For Darcy's family and friends. I am sooooo sorry for your tremendous loss!!!! I wish to extend my sincere, deep sympathy to Darcy's family.

I was a student of Darcy's 3 years ago and she and I had become friends, outside of class. She had a profound effect on my learning experience at SMCC, as well as my life and I will miss her terribly! Her infectious enthusiasm for life was unique.

I feel honored, as many, that I had the opportunity to know and work with her. We shared many laughs and a few tears. She clearly loved life, working as an instructor, sharing what she loved so much ~ poetry and literature, and cherished her family.

She will be missed by everyone fortunate enough to have known her! My recipe for "one in a million" has changed forever ~ Main ingredient is now: See definition of DARCY!

In loving memory ~ all my best to her family and friends!!

Michele Sturgeon

Emily Mattina

December 21, 2005

My sympathy and thoughts go out to Darcy's family. Memories of Darcy's friendship out in Minneapolis, MN is something I will always treasure.

Hilmar von Strunck

December 20, 2005

Dear Darcy, I met you at SMTC when I was a student there and also taught German. I always loved your positive attitude towards life and your free spirit. I only heard of your suffering on ALS this summer and was shocked to hear about it. Yesterday I found out you passed away and it saddens me a lot. Sometimes I wonder how bad it must be up there in Heaven that God always takes the good people first. Perhaps he needs strong people like you to help him and that is why he led you come home now. I wish you a save journey and I will always remember you as a very special and warm person that I have met in my life. Thank you so very much! Be well and my prayers are for you and your beloved family!!! Good journey Darcy! My best, Hilmar

Barbara Hintze

December 20, 2005

I am so sorry to hear of Marcy's death. I am part of the running community who loved her. My sympathy and regrets go out to her family. Barbara

Karen Barritt

December 20, 2005

For Steve, I am so sorry to read about Darcy's death. You and Sam are in my heart and in my prayers.

Megan Hurst

December 19, 2005

I received an email with the subject line "Darcy Wakefield" from a women's studies listserv I subscribe to. While I haven't been in touch with Darcy since she left Smith College, I was saddened to hear of her passing, and heartened to read of her accomplishments and spirit since our last contact. I remember Darcy's effervescence during the time we both lived in Baldwin House, how she was always glowing after a workout, and her generous, kind and warm spirit. One woman with very positive energy! I will be picking up a copy of her memoir and thinking of her family and friends this holiday.

Peace,

Adam Rowe

December 19, 2005

I wanted to let Darcy’s family know how much she will be missed. I went to High School with Darcy, and, although I had not seen her in years, when I just learned the news, I was struck with a great sense of loss. In high school, she was a genuinely happy person, who had an infectious sense of humor and optimistic outlook on life. She also had a strong sense of justice, and, where others might shirk responsibility, she possessed the courage of her convictions. She was not afraid of standing up to adversity or championing a cause – not out of any desire for self gain, but merely because it was the right thing to do. I have not doubt that although this insidious disease may have taken its toll on her body, it never conquered her indomitable spirit. I am proud to have known her and to have a considered her a friend.

With deepest sympathy,

Christine Norton-Blais

December 19, 2005

I remember Darcy. She was the strong one, the one who wasn't afraid to speak her mind and stand up for what was right. She was the inventive one, making her point with energy, humor and grace. She was the kind one who shared her beautiful smile equally with all. This was Darcy in middle school and the one I remember. I lost track of her, only to find her again in the grip of this terrible disease. Like the Darcy I remember, I see that she lived her life fully, in a way that many do not. I see her life made a difference in the lives of so many others. It is with great sadness that I think of her passing and the loss to her family and friends. I will always remember Darcy and feel blessed that our paths crossed so long ago.

Linda L.

December 18, 2005

Hi there Darcy - we in the BCRR running club remember you and hold you an an inspiration to everyone. I know you are running up there! Take it easy - Linda

Lynn Ploof-Davis

December 17, 2005

Run Darc, RUN!!

Michelle Theriault

December 17, 2005

In 1999 I was dreading my upcoming English Composition class at SMTC. I really thought it would be the worst class I'd ever take, nothing but a waste of time. I didn't enjoy writing and wanted nothing to do with it. Ironically, that class was one of my fondest experiences. Darcy always bounded into class and had all of us turn our desks into a circle to ensure that we were ALL involved. She made sure that she had everybody’s attention and she sure had the right to. She had so much to offer and anyone that didn't grasp the opportunity to learn from her is a fool. She inspired me to write with truth and showed me how much there is to learn about myself through written word. Darcy chose the book, "Tuesday's with Morrie" to read as a class. I find it too coincidental that Darcy was teaching about ALS through that book even before she knew she would fall victim to the disease herself. It makes one stop to think about weather ones life really could be mapped out from birth. Hmmm… Anyway, at the end of her class she asked us to write about what grade we thought we deserved and why. After thinking about it, I didn't believe I had any right to justify a grade for myself as I had given nothing and only taken from Darcy’s class. Darcy gave a gift to me every time I saw her. She gave me inspiration, awareness, confidence, courage, insight, motivation, truth, memories, validation, hope, curiosity...I could never list all of the gifts she gave me. How could I write a paper about what grade I should get when she is the one who deserves the A?? I wrote, instead about how she had affected me over that brief time that I was granted with her. I am glad that I took that chance to tell her what she meant to me. Every time I think of her and that incredible bounce in her step, I smile. Thank you Darcy. To everyone that was part of Darcy's life, you know how blessed you are. You are one of not enough, that had the privilege of knowing her.

Sue Hilgendorf

December 17, 2005

The Wakefield Family

I never met Darcy and only met the rest of the Family one time. We are distant cousins and have often thought of the family. My husband Bruce and I are very sorry for your loss and will keep you in our prayers.

Brenda Kertis

December 17, 2005

My thoughts are with all of you as you mourn and celebrate the passing and life of your precious Darcy. I chose Darcy's book for a paper due for a palliative care nursing course this fall. I was amazed by her positive attitude, resilience, and love for life. She seemed to be a remarkable person who knew how to live life to the fullest. If only we chose to live a life half of what she did. I am trying to live my life with her statement of "I don’t want to waste time today worrying about what tomorrow might bring.” Thank you Darcy and happy running unhindered!

patient of Dr. Stout

December 16, 2005

Dr. Stout, my thoughts and prayers are with you, Darcy and your son Sam, as well as all of your family.

While I did not have the privledge of knowing Darcy personally, it is obvious what a wonderful young woman she was. I am so sorry for your loss.

Nikki Figueiredo (Guimond)

December 16, 2005

First things first, my heart and thoughts go to the family, friends, all of those who knew Darcy and who were granted with charm, love and spontaneity. I met Darcy through Upward Bound and she taught myself, along with so many students how to be accomplished, have self esteem and to positive in life, living to the fullest. Being at the service a few days ago, I felt is was truly, Darcy. She was there with us, making each of us smile and remember her for who she was and who she is, a loving friend to everyone. I, just like everyone else, are blessed to have had her in our lives and our hearts. God Bless.

Heather Royal

December 16, 2005

I met Darcy in college and over the years I have been lucky enough to cook with her, travel with her and even run with her, I loved her spirit and envy her determination. Last March I had the opportunity to meet her wonderful partner Steve and her beautiful son Sam. My thoughts and prayers are with her family and loved ones.

Heather Pool-Royal

Antonio Olmos

December 15, 2005

with sympathy from a co-worker at MHCD.

Benjamin Ray

December 15, 2005

Dearest Wakefields,

As a cousin of Darcys I have such fond memories of our younger years spent laughing and goofing around at family gatherings. People have always remarked on my big smile and I always said back that it is just half the size of my cousin Darcys. What a smile.

It has been some time since I have seen any of you and wanted you all to know that I miss you very much. I sit here looking a photos and re-listening to her stories and find myself crying and laughing all over again. I regret not taking the time to visit and laugh and goof around. I feel incredibly bad about not being there now. Please know that I am thinking of you. Ben

Tina Knight

December 15, 2005

I was honored to have met Darcy and especially blessed to have been in the delivery room for the birth of Sam as one of her nurses. Darcy was a remarkable person who has a wonderful family that I am so happy to have met. I am so glad that I went to see her at her book signing in November. I will always remember her fondly.

Sarah Grantham

December 15, 2005

To Darcy's family:

I went to high school with Darcy, but really got to know her, and her spunky energy while we were at Smith together. I have vivid and colorful memories of spending time in the dorm and in the gym, where Darcy had a job... I am so pleased by the amazing woman that Darcy became, and wish I'd had the chance to meet Steve and Sam while she was still here.

Please know that I am with you in thinking of Darcy constantly.

Sincerely

Bobbie Ingraham

December 14, 2005

To the Family of Darcy,

I am sending you my sympathy in the passing of your daughter, partner, sister and Mother.

I so wanted to write Darcy, as late as last week---I wanted to tell her how very much I enjoyed reading her book. After reading Darcy's story in the Portland Sunday paper, I rushed to Border's to buy it. What a lesson she brings to us all---to go on and take all that life sends to us, the good and the bad. Please know that she and you all will be in my thoughts always and that Darcy did make a difference.

Please take care.

Kim (Do) Goding

December 14, 2005

To Darcy's family,

As a former Upward Bound student of Darcy's, I was blessed having known her. To this day, I consider her to be one of the most inspirational people I have met in life as she truly helped shape me into the young woman I am today. She gave me self esteem and strength that has led me through the last ten years of my life. I remember feeling so empowered whenever she was near.

I had the pleasure of telling her so in an e-mail right before Samuel was born, but I thought you should know that her legacy will live on through students like myself.

Everything about today's service was typical Darcy. It really felt like I got to be with her one last time. We are all blessed to have had her in our lives and I will always remember her infectious smile and love for life.

Lindsay Thibeault

December 14, 2005

To Darcy's Family - My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. As I read through the amazing entries in this guestbook from folks from all over the country, I realize just how many people's lives Darcy has touched. She has given so many folks a truly great gift, that of inspiration and hope. Through her strength and grace, she inspired us all to be the best person we can be. I am thankful to have had the opportunity to have crossed paths with Darcy. In hearing her beautiful essays on NPR, she has made me pause on many an occassion and give thanks for all of life's little blessings. I will always remember this truly great woman and the mark she has left on the world. My sympathy to all that loved her.

John Olore

December 14, 2005

I consider myself truly blessed to have had Darcy in my life -- first as a teacher, then as a friend -- these past four years. I will miss her enthusiasm, her smile and her beautiful spirit. It's tragic that such a vital person could be struck down so young by such a disease, but she somehow turned her misfortune into something wonderfully positive. Would that we all could exhibit such grace in the face of adversity.

Elaine

December 14, 2005

Darcy,

Thank you for reminding us of the glorious gifts of we enjoy every moment of our lives. I pray that you are running freely now.

Deb Dumond Fielding

December 14, 2005

Darcy, you are no longer a prisoner of the savage beast ALS. You met it with such courage and strength - as Sam grows older he will learn of your strength and courageous battle and he will know that you fought the good fight and he will know how much you loved him and loved life. Though you had so little time with him you have given him love to last his entire life and he will be very proud of his mother. You left this world much too soon, but gave it more than many who spend twice the time that you spent here. My thoughts and prayers are with you Steve, Sam, and family. Darcy my dear, you will be forever loved and missed, your colleague, and friend - Deb

Meg Haskell & Barb Ames

December 13, 2005

My partner and I have been following Darcy's commentaries and essays on public radio for many years now. We would stay closely tuned in, when we knew she was going to be on. She had great insights into everyday life and such a sense of humor. While I'm not a runner and barely a reader I do love walking and being outdoors; her writing was so honest and encouraging that it has made me appreciate all the little things I normally take for granted. We went to one of Darcy's book signings a couple of months ago and I had only heard Darcy's readings before I went to the book signing, but something about her presence there affected me and I haven't been able to shake it. She was funny, well prepared (being an English professor), yet peaceful... she just glowed with love. She will be greatly missed. Run like the wind, Darcy. Our deepest sympathies to her family and friends.

Maria O'Hara

December 13, 2005

I have listened to Darcy's writings read aloud in her beautiful voice on NPR. I was saddened to hear of her passing. I am put in mind of this quote, "We have loved the stars too dearly to be fearful of the night." Author unknown. God bless.

Dannette Killinger

December 13, 2005

I was just reading the guest book and I am even more inspired by all the people's heart and souls you touched thorughout your life. This reassures me of how you were an extremely special person. I knew it when you touched my broken heart but I am in awe of how many people have written in this book that didn't even know you that you touched them with your writting, words, your bounce, and your beautiful smile. No one will ever forget you. I can see you up there running, bouncing, smiling, and enjoying ever lasting life.

Melissa Thayn

December 13, 2005

I heard your story last night on NPR. Rest in peace sweet Darcy, this year when I try to finish the marathon I will be thinking of you.

Cheryl Clark

December 13, 2005

I know Darcy only through the love of her life, Dr. Steve Stout, with whom I had the privilege of working for 6 1/2 years. I also recently read Darcy's book, I Remember Running......While I never knew her, I know Steve and that only a remarkable woman would capture his heart. She had such courage and grace. We all love you here in Denver, Steve, and through you we loved Darcy.

Cheryl

Jen Stuart

December 13, 2005

Darcy was my advidor, English professor, and friend while at SMCC. She has given me so much inspiration that a simple "thank you" could never suffice. She helped me get into the University of Maine at Farmington where I am currently a Secondary Education major. Darcy was my mentor, friend, muse, teacher, and all around hero. She forever will be missed and I hope to someday be half the woman she was. My sincerest sympathy to her family and friends.

larry king

December 13, 2005

I TRAVEL ALWAYS WITH MY RADIO ON NPR,ON 12/16/03, BIKING OVER TO THE BEACH FOR A RUN AND DISTANCE SWIM,YORR VOICE BROUGHT TEARS TO MY EYES I DEDICATED MY RUN AND SWIM TO YOU, AND ALL MY RUNS AND SWIMS TO YOU,THANK YOU FOR YOUR WISDOM,SAVE ME A PLACE AT THE GREAT STARTING LINE IN THE SKY, REST WELL, MUCHO LOVE LARRY KING, AGE 50,

James Parker

December 13, 2005

I heard Darcy's commentary last night on NPR and had to stop my car. A few years back I lost a woman friend, a feminist and social activist to ALS before her time. I can only extend my deepest sympathy to her family and friends for the loss which is inestimable.

Chris Morrell

December 13, 2005

I first met Darcy in the summer of '93 in my first of two summers at an Upward Bound Program in Farmington, ME. I remember the jubilant prancing and bouncing throughout Purington Hall dorm with that enormous grin of hers, "That is definitely one of those people that has too much coffee in the morning", I thought to myself. I have to say, if it was indeed coffee doing that to her, I wish I could make a cup for the world, we certainly need more of what Darcy had, to spread through the human race. I had to return for a second year of UB just from the exhiliration I knew I would get from learning from Darcy (she taught me english and so much more). I was thrilled, after living outside Maine for a few years, to discover Darcy was teaching at the small college I was then attending. Catching up with her was always a highlight of my on-campus time. She motivated so many, and left no one in her path untouched by her compassion and excitement. I feel sorry not for her, but for myself and others who will miss her presence, for I know she is now running and basking in pure happiness in another place, one that doesn't know ALS. I was privileged to meet Sam one day at Darcy's house while I moved some furniture for her. I know there will be no shortage of people to remind Sam of his mother's indelible charm and love for life. Darcy, though my feet and ears were freezing on my 4am run today, I thought of you, and always will when I watch the miracle of my feet moving. Thank you is not enough, but still I submit to you my dearest and most heartfelt thanks for being in my life. You will be loved.

Lisa McLeod

December 13, 2005

I have missed you Darcy and I will always miss you! I will be comforted by knowing you are always with us in our hearts. Watching over us!

When walking on campus at SMTC, I would often see you running to class with the largest smile on your face! You always were running and never without a smile! Though in a hurry, you would take the time to quickly stop to say hello. That's what will put a smile on my face when thinking of you! Your kindness, thoughtfullness, love of life, and courage will also be in my thougths. My prayers and love to Darcy's family.

Betty McEnaney

December 13, 2005

To those who Darcy left behind,

I am thankful to have heard NHPR's tribute last night. I had not heard her commentaries before. What a special woman! Her insight into her illness and her losses made each of us grow. May her writings stay with you all and give your strength and warm memories in the days to come.

Lee Barnhardt

December 13, 2005

I heard Darcy's Dec. 2003 commentary replayed yesterday and was very moved by her words. That same day I received a card from a friend who had just lost a friend to ALS and so I forwarded Darcy's commentary to her. Her legacy continues. My deepest condolences to her family and loved ones. Thank you for sharing her life with us.

Eric Anderson

December 13, 2005

I was on call one night listening to NPR when I heard the original commentary that was so touching. Her golden voice and beautiful thoughts inspired us in a myriad of ways. Personally, I will never look at a patient the same way again. Treating a patient is not the same as treating a disease. I will also remember that indeed, exceptional prose is a virtue! With love and sympathy, Eric W. Anderson, M.D.

Matthew Eddleman

December 13, 2005

I heard Darcy's story on NPR last night driving home from my work at a hospital. I was moved by her obvious passion for life and wanted to say how much I admire her. Thank-you,Darcy.

Chris

December 13, 2005

Darcy you were an inspiration to me when I first heard your story on NPR in September. Your life and stories brought me to tears and I am so grateful that you shared them in your books and on NPR. You have made this world a better place and taught us all to appreciate the simple things in life. You have touched my life and your inspiration will live in my heart forever.

Chris

Emily Glenn

December 13, 2005

Darcy's essays on NPR inspired me to get out there and enjoy running, the humble magic of what I can do. I was so sorry to hear of her passing. My thoughts are with her family and friends.

December 13, 2005

Last summer I attended a chamber music concert in Portland and for reasons I still don't understand, I was strongly affected by Darcy Wakefield's attendance. I didn't know who she was, or anything about her, but was moved by the profound sense of peace and beauty about her, even though it was obviously difficult for her physically. I was equally affected by the calm devotion and love those with her showed. I have remembered you all often since then with admiration for that image of closeness and peace you all exhibited, even so briefly fo me. I now find out through the newspaper and the NPR piece who she and her friends were, and am moved again with that memory. I wish her and you all peace and comfort.

Gabrielle van den Berg-Grant

December 13, 2005

I am writing you from the Netherlands. Just yesterday, my husband finished writing his book. "Specialised ALS Care & Quality of Life". I felt compelled to communicate. I often listen to NPR. It helps me feel close to home. Here in the Netherlands, they continue to work compassionately on behalf of people with ALS. Let us be greatful to people who make us happy: they are the charming gardners who make our souls blossom. Marcel Proust.

Liefs, Gabrielle

An Anonymous Listener

December 13, 2005

YOU GO, GIRL!

Shane Mountain

December 13, 2005

Darcy you will be missed. Thank you for all of your support and all I learned from you. You were a great inspiration and a great influence.

-We make a living by what we get, we make a life by what we give. -Sir Winston Churchill

Kendra Hanzlik

December 13, 2005

I also heard Darcy's story on NPR and had to search out this site. I'll remember Darcy as I run. I'm thankful for the steps I'm able to take, and I send my sympathy to Darcy's family. I can tell she was a wonderful person.

REV. DAVID HACKLEY SR.

December 13, 2005

My heart goes out to everyone who knew this brave and courageous woman. There is a star in the sky with her name on it. May the Lord bless her family to keep her star shining britely.

A Flower for Darcy

David Kovacs

December 12, 2005

to run is to fly
to fly is to dream
to dream is to believe
to believe is to be free
this is joy
this is a runner's soul

JUSTIN HIGGINS

December 12, 2005

I followed all Darcy's story on WDET NPR radio. She truly was an inspiration all of us.

RUN ON, RUN ON!!!!

Paige Cane

December 12, 2005

I too heard your story on NPR and feel you truely were a special person who will be easily missed but not easily forgotten.

James and Michael Nathan

December 12, 2005

Even at the end of the world," says, the poet, "Love is something else.." Great loss can be known to others but in outline; and to speak of condolences, by necessity, never fills the measure. Our hearts go out to all who grieve.

Janet kelley-vail

December 12, 2005

I was struck by Darcy's story on NPR this evening. Her words, her voice, the passion behind the words made me pause. Made me seek out this web site. Her story, her passing, will be with in me in my long runs through these back roads this winter. My thoughts go to all who love her.

Anonymous

December 12, 2005

I will miss your sweet voice.

Gaile Amigone

December 12, 2005

I was doing a training run for a 1/2 marathon on Sunday,in Buffalo,the pellets of ice slicing sideways into my face.11 miles around Delaware Park.I will run my marathon for you Darcy,you will be running again with me in spirit.Thank you for giving me the motivation to do my best!

Pamels Pelletier

December 12, 2005

Today I ran for Darcy.

Brian B.

December 12, 2005

Keep on running.

My heart hurts.

Bill and Ruth Marstaller

December 12, 2005

We miss you but know you are whole again. You have been a wonderful example for all of us - mankind included - and by your death have showed us how to live. Our thoughts and prayers go to your family and loved ones. Love ya, Ruth and Bill

Marsha Pierson

December 12, 2005

I have followed Darcy's life through NPR commentary on WAMU. Her story and her writings always moved me. She was a true inspiration. I offer my sincere condolences to her family and to her "fabulous friends." Darcy, you are with me as I run.

Holly Kaczmarski

December 12, 2005

I was touched by the story on NPR this afternoon. I will make a donation to the ALS research fund in Darcy's name. From the story on NPR, I can tell that she was a great person and an inspiration to all who met her. How tragic that those who are so blessed with talents, abilities, kindness and caring for others have to leave us so soon. My condolences to her family as they mourn her passing. Blessings and prayers are sent to the family from the Kaczmarski family. May you cherish the memories of Darcy and keep her in your hearts forever. Sincerely, Holly B. Kaczmarski, Dayton, Washington

Camille Demeter

December 12, 2005

I heard your story on NPR tonite and it was so touching. GodSpeed.

Bob Osborn

December 12, 2005

Like many others I knew Darcy only through her essays on NPR. She has touched my life in ways that will never be forgotten. My deepest sympathies to the family and friends of a truly gifted woman. May God bless and keep you all.

Monika Nevergold

December 12, 2005

I never met Darcy. In fact, I had never heard of her before today, when National Public Radio had a feature on her as I was driving home from work. Her words on missing running struck me so deeply that I had to look her up on the internet as soon as I got home. She sounds like an amazing woman and those who were lucky enough to know her can enjoy the fact that she continues to touch people's lives that have never even met her. Sending big love to her "fabulous friends and family." From a fellow runner who is currently really missing it due to an injury.

December 12, 2005

Thanks

-A runner

Zulma Saavedra-Franco

December 12, 2005

I met Darcy briefly while she taught a writing class at Franklin Pierce College in Portsmouth, NH, in 1999. But she made a lasting impression on me. I refer to her smile and her kindness. I just heard today on NPR about her struggle with ALS and of her death.

Rosemarie Halchuk-Harrington

December 12, 2005

To Darcy's family, I am so sorry for your loss. I first learned of Darcy when I heard a repeat of her essay I Remember Running on Colorado Public Radio...it tugged at my heart all the more so because my cousin's wife, also young and the mother of a little son, was diagnosed with ALS last year. I bought Darcy's book last month and read it cover to cover in one night (first book I've finished so quickly in years). I am deeply inspired by Darcy's courage and love of life and family, and I pray that her strength will help you in these sad days.

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