Kylene Marie Privett

Kylene Marie Privett

Kylene Privett Obituary

Published by News & Messenger on Aug. 16, 2007.
Dec. 14, 1983 to Aug. 13, 2007 Kylene Marie Privett, age 23, of Manassas Park died Monday, Aug. 13, 2007. Kylene was born Dec. 14, 1983, in Charlottesville, Va., daughter of James W. and Vonna Hoffer Privett. While she endured 57 surgeries and needed a wheelchair, her loving tender nature was what everyone knew. She never met a stranger and everyone who met her was better for knowing her. She volunteered at Manassas Park Parks & Recreation three days a week and was a member of the Disabilities Services Board. Survivors include her loving parents, James W. and Vonna L. Privett; her grandparents, Freda M. Privett, Lacyne and Jack Kaufman and Orlando and Cheryl Hoffer; four uncles, Roy A. Privette and wife, Shirley, Ronnie Privett and wife, Robin, Scott Hoffer and wife, Beverly, and Tim Hoffer and wife, Lavina; two aunts, Millie Niccolls and husband, Gene, and Sherry Cormier and husband, Mike; and numerous cousins and extended family. The family will receive friends from 2 to 4 p.m. and 7 to 9 p.m. Friday, Aug. 17, 2007, at Pierce Funeral Home, 9609 Center St., Manassas, where funeral services will be held 11 a.m. Saturday, Aug. 18 with Pastor Denver Turner officiating. Interment will follow at Stonewall Memory Gardens, Manassas, Va. Condolences may be sent to www.piercefh.com. Sign the guestbook at PotomacNews.com. ManassasJM.com.
This obituary was originally published in the News & Messenger (Woodbridge, VA).

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December 14, 2023

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August 10, 2022

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James Privett

December 14, 2023

Happy 40th birthday, Kylene. It's hard to believe it's been four decades since you blessed us as you came into this world, and continued to bless us for over two decades. You are as much loved now, and missed now, as ever before. And your memory and our love for you burns as bright now as it ever has. As it always shall.

Mom & Dad

Vonna Privett

August 10, 2022

Saturday will be 15 years since you left us for your eternal sanctuary. In December, you would be 39! How is this possible?
I was always concerned with what would happen if daddy and I were no longer here.
The Lord decided to take that concern away from me, only to break my heart for the remainder of my life on earth.
We did so many things together. You were so much like me with your tenacity. You had a lot of my mannerisms. But, you were more beautiful inside and out than I could hope to be.
I continue to hear stories about things you said or did to straighten someone's attitude. I can just picture you with your hand on your hip, telling someone they needed to fly right. And while you were sincerely concerned for others wellbeing, you gave joy and laughter, too.
You loved watching "Monk" or the "Three Stooges" with daddy. You never missed an opportunity to go to the cinema to see Walt Disney's newest flick. And then daddy would find it and you could watch it for ages.
There are so many memories! They flood my brain and crush my heart with unanswered questions.
When you went home to be with our Heavenly Father, my reasons for living went with you. I am trying. You are the best part of me. You were not disabled in my book. You had more spunk, compassion, and foresight than anyone I ever knew.
You are not here physically, but you will never leave our hearts and minds. I love you, my girl.

Sue Ireland

August 10, 2021

Although I never met Kylene in person, I am so happy to have 'known' her. I miss seeing her and knowing she is giving her gentle spirit to all but I like to think she is watching over her family, especially her mom and dad.

Vonnie & Jim Privett

December 14, 2013

Happy 30th Birthday, Kylene.

You graced us with your attendance three decades ago today. And although you physically passed from this earth six years ago, your presence resides with us still.

You were an inspiration to us as we comprehended your insurmountable physical challenges. Instead of dwelling on yourself, you aspired to give service to others. You loved and embraced everyone in your family, then reached beyond to accept, without judgment, those good souls who just needed a friend. You so rarely complained, giving a smile to every person who deserved one and some who did not. You wanted little in return. Actually, all you required was what others already possessed: respect, appreciation, dedication to others, and love in return for love given.

You set a shining example, one that continues to sparkle to this day, and which shows no sign of fading. So many have so much more than you started out with; a fully functioning body being the most obvious. And yet, they do so much less with what they have, than in the short 23 years you possessed. Oh that we would all take a lesson of compassion, unwavering love, and a true tender devotion to others. What a better place this world was when you were in it!

We keep you alive in our hearts and in our home. You have touched so many others who have vowed to keep your memories alive as long as they are still breathing. You accomplished so much more in your 23 years with your dignity and truth than those twice your age could ever hope to achieve.

You were loved from the first moment we knew of your being. You were a gift to us from the first moment we laid eyes upon you. You were the perfect addition to our family. You made us complete. You made us proud to be called "mommy" and "daddy". And we were "to the moon and back" ecstatic to call you our daughter! Whether we remember you on this day, the day of your corpuscular being or the day you went back to your Heavenly Father and made that your first angel birthday, we wish you peace from pain, happiness, but above all, love. You were and are loved for all eternity. We are told we are only given our children for a short while, borrowed, if you will. How were we to know or ever be satisfied that you would be here so briefly? We struggle with the realization that we were blessed with you, Kylene, and now we have to face the remainder of our lives without you. We will ALWAYS love you. You are our candle in the darkness called Earth. Gone too soon.


Love forever and always,
Mommy and Daddy

Travis M

December 14, 2012

Kylene,

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!! Today is your 29th birthday and I know, bless your heart, that you are watching down upon us all! Although you may have left this Earth physically, your spirit, soul and smile are just as prevalent today as if you were walking down each and every person's heart and path that you touched.
You see, you are an inspiration for me. Your mom and dad are some very cool people. Yes, trust me, they are very awesome people and if there is any ONE thing that I know about them both beyond contestation, is that they LOVE their baby girl.
Kylene, I had the opportunity to spend last Saturday with your mom and dad. Thank goodness your momma knows how to cook and your dad, well….he's a riot…so funny, like you! The time that I was blessed to know you I could see that you had your momma's roots and your daddy's wit and charm. Don't worry, I will explain when I see you and I know I will see you again, happy, loving and that beautiful smile.
It was very evident that your mom and dad love you just as if your physical presence was here on this Earth. Now I am not pretending to know the emotions that your mom and dad feel everyday with their precious baby not being right there BUT…I can say for certain that God needed you, he needed is angel. He needed all his angels to prep for what will one day reunite us all with our loved ones.
Kylene, I just wanted to take this time today to say thank you. Thank you for being you, thank you for being so true in your heart and THANK YOU for blessing us with your legacy today. You have no idea how many hearts and souls you touch. Notice, I don't use it in past tense, your physical presence has touched many but your spiritual blessing touches each and every day. I thank you for that Kylene. I wil say it now as I have not said it publicly before. Seeing you through the years, your determination, your “I CAN” attitude, well….you inspire me each and every day and I wouldn't have wanted any other person or thing to be my source of inspiration but you.
Love ya girl!
TRAV A.K.A. Chewhee ;)

Paul Dammann

February 1, 2010

Kylene,
I never knew you on earth, but it is an honor to have written a poem that moved you so much here. It makes me look forward to meeting you in eternity along with all the others whom God has given me words with which to touch. Yes, I have a broken wing myself. As Jesus walks with you, He walks with me too.
Author "God Sent to Me an Angel"

Jo Anne Tilford

December 16, 2009

Happy belated 26th birthday, Kylene!! Christmas is coming and now you get to celebrate Jesus's birthday with him for the 3rd time! I miss you but take comfort that you are with the heavenly father.

Sue Ireland

December 15, 2009

I was thinking of you yesterday Kylene. I knew it was your birthday since your screen name always stated your birthday as well. I miss the chats we had online by the way. You came across as the sweetest young lady. I sometimes thought of you and Parker being together and what it would have been like. Miss you Angel.

Vonnie Privett

December 14, 2009

Kylene,
Today is your 26th birthday and 3rd Angel Birthday. My heart is heavy with not being able to hold and kiss you. In the same token, it brings me joy to know that you are with our heavenly father, no longer in pain. I cannot, will not, ever have a day go by that I do not think of you and miss you, my sweet, little girl. You are the most precious gift I ever received. You will live forever in the hearts of all your family and friends. You touched more people in your short 23 years than most people do in a 100 years. I cannot wait to be with you again. I love you. Happy birthday, baby. Love mommy.

Sherry Cormier

April 27, 2009

I was just going through things today and thought of you and your Uncle today. Hard to imagine you have been so long gone. Seems like yesterday we were enjoying telling stories with Dad, Mike and Mom. But, then again it seems like eternity since I saw you. How we always think there is tomorrow, sad. I am sure you and Uncle Tim are having a blast up there in the Heavens. Look forward to the day when we all see each other again. You are always here with me. Sweet girl (I know, young woman) But, just as Jolene is my sweet little girl. You will always be as well. Love you, Aunt Sherry

Jo Anne Tilford

May 1, 2008

Time has passed and I still miss that lovely young woman, Kylene. I know she had great parents that loved her very much, too. I wished I knew her better but I saw her when she was newly born at my mother in law's house and recently at Red Lobster. When you see this young woman, you instantly fall in love with her. She enjoyed life and always had a smile on her face. You can't help but like her. Now this angel is smiling down from Heaven at us. She threw away her wheelchair and having a ball flying around with no pain. She will be missed but she sure is in a better place.

Sherry Cormier

January 4, 2008

Hard to believe the holiday came and went without you Kylene. You were in my thoughts and my heart was with your Mom and Dad. They are doing a beautiful job of making sure we who love you have a place to come remember you. Always as close to me as my heart dear niece. Love Aunt Sherry

Bob Moje

December 25, 2007

Kylene,
One of the bravest little girls I have ever met. You dealt with so many surgeries with a smile on your face and an attitude that we all should learn from. Although your life here on earth was shorter than any of us could wish, your impact will go on forever. Pizzaman

Cynde Gardner

December 21, 2007

Kylene, I didn't get to know you as well as I would have liked to, but you were a very loving and happy young lady. I remember you telling me the story of the man who told you he would ride you on his motor bike and how he never did. How that seems so trivil to us was a big thing to you and should have been. It didn't take much to make you happy, but when someone upset you they really hurt you. You were and angel on earth and now you are and angel. Merry Christmas Touch Jesus for me!! Love Cynde

skip berry

December 19, 2007

I WILL NEVER FORGET YOU KYLENE,AND YOUR PRETTY SMILE AND THE LAST COVERSATION WE HAD. YOU LEFT US IN LIFE MUCH TO SOON. MAY YOU REST IN PEACE. YOU ARE LOVED AMD MISS BY MANY WHO'S LIVES YOU HAD TOUCH.

Millie Niccolls

December 14, 2007

Kylene,
We've all been celebrating your birthday on December 14th every year since 1983. What a blessed day that turned out to be. None of us could have known what a special angel you would turn out to be, and none of us ever truly realized just how lucky we were to have you in our lives. This year is different - you won't be here with us in body but we know you will be here with us in spirit. Help us to celebrate with you without feeling the loss of not feeling your special strong hugs of love. We can see you dancing above us as we all know that "You've Got Rhythm"! And like your Mom and Dad said, you traded your chair in for wings. We can picture you up there, perfect and pain free flitting about. Help us to be happy for you instead of sad for ourselves as we remember December 14th in honor of our special "Angel Baby".
From your always loving Aunt Millie and Uncle Gene and Grandma Privett.

Sherry Cormier

December 14, 2007

Happy Birthday Kylene. I have thought about you all week. Knowing that today you would have celebrated another year of your beautiful life. You are so sadly missed here on earth, but I know that the angels are feeling the blessing of having you with them now. Say hello to the great-grandparents for us all. And know that not one day goes by that you are not a part of our thoughts. You will live forever in our hearts. Love you, Aunt Sherry

Lacyne Kaufman

December 14, 2007

Today is your Birthday Kylene and we are missing you so much. We will always love you and keep you alive in are hearts. Grandma Kaufman

Vonna Privett

November 13, 2007

Kylene,
My dear, sweet, little girl you have been gone from this earth for 3 months now. You feel so close to me some days and so far away other days. I miss your smile, your kisses, your constant affection and your powerful presence. I long for those lazy days when we played Bookworm on the computer, when we went out to eat at your favorite restaurant after I picked you up from Parks & Rec. How you were smarter than anyone I ever knew, yet so innocent in your dealings with those who were less. I shall never fill this huge blackhole in my heart. You are light, you are life even in your passing. I miss you, I love you more than words will ever transpire.
Love, Mommy xoxoxoxoxo

Oh, so that is a nose!

Sherry Cormier

October 7, 2007

Vonnie and Jim. My heart absolutely breaks and my tears flow freely just thinking that we can never again sit around and have such a wonderful time as we did at the dinner table that night. This pic I entered is of her touching Jo's nose and these precious girls fell in love and became not just cousins, but loved deeper than some sisters do. Find peace, if you can, knowing she is in the arms of our grandparents waiting for us all to be reunited someday. Love you - "Aunt" Sherry

Susan Ireland

September 19, 2007

To the parents of such an extraordinary young lady- we will miss Kylene's presence here on earth but we were blessed to have known her for awhile. I will always remember her beautiful, gentle spirit. I will think of her every time I hear "To Where You Are". Love you, Sue and Parker

Janet (Glass) Plevniak

September 3, 2007

Dear Vonnie~I am sorry to hear of your loss. I have very fond memories of Kylene at the bowling alley many years ago. She was always such a delightful child. I didn't know her as a young woman but I can only imagine the wonderful person she became. Now you have a special angel in heaven.

Bill Squires

August 21, 2007

Jim & family,
I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of your daughter. It sounds as if she was a very big part of your lives. I hope that you are able to find comfort with family and friends. It sounds like she had a hard life, but I'm sure it was much better with the care and love you showed her and that showed in the way she lived her life.

Messina Cumberland

August 20, 2007

My heart goes out to the Privett Family.

Matt Weber

August 20, 2007

Kelli and I were so sorry to hear of your loss -- she sounds like a very special young woman. Please know that you're in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

Trudi Rosenblum

August 19, 2007

I am so, so sorry for your tragic loss. Reading your eulogy, I can see what a wonderful, beautiful, loving and inspirational young woman Kylene was, and how she enriched the lives of everyone around her. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this very sad time.

Janet Clark

August 18, 2007

I was so fortunate to be one of Kylene’s teachers at Osbourn Park for 4 years. I can see her now, racing around the halls and cafeteria in her little electric wheelchair. We never thought of Kylene as a child with a disability – Kylene was a young woman with more courage, more spunk, and more heart than any person I’ve ever met. Her many accomplishments were amazing! Jim and Vonnie, thank you for sharing your remarkable daughter with all of us at OP. The service was so touching; Kylene would have loved it! Jim, you gave the most beautiful eulogy I have ever heard. And the song “My Girl” reminded us that Kylene always knew how very much she was loved.
Especially appropriate was the parked wheelchair with the sign:
Equipment Obsolete
Owner Upgraded to Wings

Laurie Miehm

August 17, 2007

Kylene was such a joy to be around. She will be missed along Manassas Drive. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Carol Ferro

August 17, 2007

Jim and Vonna,

A memory is a keepsake of time that lives forever in our hearts. May your treasured memories bring you comfort. My thoughts are with you during this time of loss and sadness.

Fran Kassinger

August 16, 2007

Jim and Vonnie,

SK and I send our deepest condolences for your tremendous loss. We pray you will find some small measure of comfort in knowing how much the MP community admired and loved Kylene. Let me know if there is anything that we can do.

Fran

Gloria Carbin

August 16, 2007

Jim and Vonnie my thoughts and prayers are with you. May God keep you in his hands and truly welcome Kylene into his kingdom no more pain or suffering will she ever endore any longer.

Karen Mulac

August 16, 2007

To the Privett Family, I want to send to you my sympathy on the death of Kylene who was the most wonderful girl in the world. She meant alot to me and was a very special person. She will always live in my mind and heart for eternity. I will miss her and you all will too. But she is with God now and forever. She is at peace and living forever and will be waiting for us when we get there.I love you both very much. I am always here for the both of you. I am just a phone call away. Keep in touch always.

John Murphy

August 16, 2007

Dear Jim and Vonna,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. Although we did not get the opportunity to meet Kylene, she sounds like someone who blessed and encouraged others through her giving spirit. We hope that you and your family are comforted by the knowedge that Kylene is a child of God.

Psalm 27:4-5
One thing I ask of the LORD, this is what I seek: that I may dwell in the house of the LORD all the days of my life, to gaze upon the beauty of the LORD and to seek him in his temple. For in the day of trouble he will keep me safe in his dwelling; he will hide me in the shelter of his tabernacle and set me high upon a rock.

Please let us know if there is anything we can do.

Sincerely,

John, Renie, and Josh Murphy

John Milburn

August 16, 2007

To the Privett Family, Very sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Reggie Cooper

August 16, 2007

May the Lord bless you and give you comfort in your time of sorrow.

Sheila Buhl

August 15, 2007

The Privett Family: Iam so very sorry for your loss. Kylene was a special girl with a big heart! I always thoought of myself as her nurse through her years at Manassas Park schools. She has touched so many hearts. She will continue to live in mine. During this sad time I will keep all of youur family in prayer. Much love, Nurse Sheila Buhl

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