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debbie johnson
September 5, 2008
may god bless you. you are loved very much.
Tony Acosta
September 13, 2007
I haven't seen Rich since he graduated from USC in 1984, but I remember that he was a very good editor and passionate journalist. I am very sad to hear about his passing, but it was good to know that he was working for a prestigious newspaper such as the Merc. My heartfelt sympathies go to his wife and the rest of his family. God bless.
harry james
September 2, 2007
Sorry
The Official Pacific High Alumni Forum
August 12, 2007
On Behalf of The Official Pacific High Alumni Forum, I wish to express our feelings of deep loss at the intimely death of Richard. He,his family and co-workers will remain in our thoughts and our prayers.
David Perlman
July 13, 2007
As an old, old, very old reporter, I'd just want to send my sympathy to Rich's family and to all of his colleagues. We're all saddened when any one of us goes, and these days are tough. Rich's family will know what a highly respected journalist he was --much loved by everyone who knew him.----Dave Perlman, SF Chronicle
Casey Wian
July 11, 2007
I was Editor at the Daily Trojan a couple of semesters before Rich. He was then, and remained until the end, a gentle soul, a friendly face, a consummate journalist and truly a nice guy. Two memories stick with me. The last time we exchanged e-mails, back in October, Rich asked if I was coming up to SF for the Stanford game and offered an extra ticket. We hadn't seen each other in years, but that's the kind of generosity Rich always possesed.
Then there was the time back in the late 1980s when Rich needed a place to stay on a trip to LA. I was living in an apartment above my brother's garage in Malibu and told Rich I would leave the door open for him, because I was going out and he would be arriving late. When I returned home, no Rich. The next morning, there was a knock on the door. It was Rich in his underwear. He had gone into the wrong house and spent the night in our neighbor's spare bedroom.
I pray Rich is resting somewhere comfortable tonight.
Marie Johnston
July 10, 2007
It was surreal when I found out and it remains surreal today. There's no real describing the huge, beautiful heart that Rich has. Without hesitation he always listened when I had a woe and knew the most encouraging words to pass on to me. It's a gift to make people smile and Rich has that gift. I'll miss him and all the guidance he provided in and outside of work.
Ruth Carlson
July 10, 2007
Rich was one of those rare journalists who took the time to be nice to public relations professionals. I'll never forget my first days working at Cal State Hayward (now Cal State East Bay) when I was talked into holding a news conference about our workshop for Russians. Rich was the only journalist who showed up! He still wrote a great story and didn't hold my learning curve against me. When I wrote a freelance article for the Merc on visiting Paris he called me to say he didn't know what he liked better; my article or my photos and asked if the little girl in the pics was my daughter-she's my niece. He was always happy to share his knowledge and advised me on how to get more journalists at future news conferences. I will miss him very much.
rahni barker
July 10, 2007
i dont know what i supposed to write but anyway....
Al Reyes
July 7, 2007
I had been busy on a project and didn't see the email about Richard's death. Unknowingly, I sent him and the NAHJ conference committee a thank you and congratulatory email about the San Jose convention. I immediately received a number of emails back giving me the bad news. Before the conference, I only knew Richard as a name on a email distribution list. Since I had expressed an interest in being involved in some of the conference planning, I received the messages from the planning committee. Whenever I had questions about the conference, a Mr. Ramirez would always find time to respond to me, though we had never met--like a good ambassador for his city of San Jose. When the conference started, I went to pick up my registration and mentioned my name. Richard recognized my name and introduced himself. He went out of his way to get me extra help I requested for my Thursday workshop at the conference---something he didn't have to do considering the many needs at the conference. I never had a chance during the conference to talk to him just to learn more about his work. I last saw him on Friday night at the closing reception joking with a former colleague who works at the Sacramento Bee. Vaya con Dios, Richard. I guess this a reminder to all of us that life is precious. We should treasure every day of our lives and the good people who cross our path like Richard...
Jim Gensheimer
July 6, 2007
When Rich was my roommate in the late 80’s, we rode our bicycles across California. In 2001, we did a miniature triathlon. I kept thinking we’d do another athletic adventure. Where does the time go?
IVLP Team at Institute of International Education/West Coast Center
July 2, 2007
It is with sadness and regret,both personal and professional, that we note the passing of a very special person and an invaluable resource in our efforts to foster international understanding through professional, cultural and educational meetings of the minds between emrging forgein leaders and members of the Bay Area Community. Mr. Ramirez took the time, on numerous occasions, to make himself and colleagues at the San Jose Mercury News available to meet with guests from around the world,providing testament to the benefits derived from a free press and professional journalism at its best-facilitating communication and with that understanding. He will be missed....
Oscar Hernandez
June 30, 2007
Rich was living proof that Latinos, can be a successful and productive as journalists. I met rich during the convention I was a volunteer it only took me 4 hours during a Sunday morning to consider Rich a role model, for me and every Hispanic in the pursuit of becoming professionals.
Becky Hainz-Baxter
June 29, 2007
My deepest sympathies to Rich's wife, family and colleagues. A few years ago, I wrote a letter to the Mercury News complaining about some changes that were being made. I wrote about how much I loved the paper and how it bothered me to see the changes. Well, Rich didn't just write a "thank you for your comments" email. He invited me to visit the Mercury News and sit in on an editorial meeting! It was an experience I will never forget. He was a very kind person who obviously loved journalism and loved the San Jose Mercury News. If a newspaper can have something resembling a soul, I think the Mercury News may have lost some of its soul with the loss of Rich Ramirez.
Patricia Patterson
June 28, 2007
Rich was part of the PM Desk that became our extended family when my husband and I came to the Merc as transplanted Midwesterners in 1985. He attended the baby shower for our first son and contributed to the rocker that still graces our living room 19 years later.
When our boys were little one of their favorite outings was a visit to the newsroom, with its keyboards to pound on and long hallways to run down. Rich's was one of the welcoming faces that always made first Andrew and then Dan feel right at home.
Rich, I wish I had had the chance to catch up with you in the last year or so. I know you would have gotten a kick out of learning about Andrew's triathlon training at Cal and finding out that Dan (despite his Buckeye blood!) has USC on his top 10 list.
Guess I'm telling you now. I'll miss you, Rich.
To all who attended the service today, thanks for all the heartfelt remembrances.
Jim Braly
June 27, 2007
I met Rich in about 1984, when we were both copy editors on the p.m. paper. I remember thinking, "Wow, they hire teenagers here. He sure is smart and dedicated for a 16-year-old kid." Well, Rich was really in his early 20s, but he sure looked young! I knew him for more than 20 years, and I cannot think of anyone who was nicer, friendlier, more easy-going or more dedicated to good work and helping young journalists get their start in the business. This is a sad, painful, tragic loss for the Mercury News family.
Oie Lian Yeh
June 27, 2007
Rich, I always enjoyed seeing your friendly face in the newsroom and admired your professionalism and grace. I'm so sorry you're gone.
Rigo Chacon
June 27, 2007
Our lives are enriched because we crossed paths with Richard. Much of what he learned is in the minds of the young people he helped along the way becuase he was always willing to share his knowledge and experience with them. His enthusiasm and his sincerity were trademarks.
We will miss you Richard.
Janet, our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Sincerely,
Rigo Chacon
Bart Naito
June 27, 2007
My condolences to Janet and Rich's family - this is truly sad news.
A lot of people have written about Rich's quick wit and quiet demeanor - qualities that endeared him to many both personally and professionally. They also perfectly fit his role in one high school club that never made the paper or yearbook. Everyone knows about Rich being voted "Most Likely to Succeed" or Editor of the school paper, but very few know that Rich was also once the President of the Pacific High School Absurd Poster Club.
The APC was an underground club - with only a handful of members and exactly one possession: the key which opened every display case on the Pacific High campus. The purpose of the club was to design and create fake posters or notices and hang them in the locked display cases. Rich and his writing talents contributed greatly to these oddball (and rare - didn't want to raise too much suspicion) posters, which covered anything from fictitious fundraisers to meetings of non-existent clubs to a simple welcome of a new (sometimes real, sometimes not) student. And Rich's low-key personality was perfect for remaining anonymous when administrators stood by the displays scratching their heads.
He will be missed, but it will be impossible for me not to smile when I think of Rich. I thank him for these memories.
Monica Ayala-Flores
June 26, 2007
Janet, I am so sorry for your loss. Although I never met your husband, after reading everyone's comments it is obvious that he was a kind and caring person. What a legacy he leaves behind.
Carla Cunningham
June 26, 2007
Janet, Hubbell and I actually laughed tonight when we pictured Rich smiling at you from across the room when Bailey did something wonderful and the chuckle when he did something not so ... wonderful but loving and funny nonetheless. We missed you tonight and our prayers are with you. Come back when you're ready ... Hubbell and Bailey have unfinished titles to acheive .... We are sorry for your loss and no words can ever express ... but we're thinking about you and Bailey.
Stacey Soares
June 26, 2007
I just found out the news today from another high school friend of Rich's death and was shocked as many were.
I remember Rich from Pacific High School. We lost touch through the years and getting caught up in life's crazy pace. He was that kind of person as many people already have noted with that kind smile, gentle soul, very easy to talk to and determined to make it in the newspaper world. He succeeded.
I was so impressed but not surprised to how many people he made an impact on. He sure has made a difference all over the world by his presence on this Earth. He will be remember by many.
My condolescent to his wife and family.
Jody Calendar
June 26, 2007
Rich, a gentle, generous, talented and humble soul, will no longer walk among us, but he will linger in every conversation we have about excellence and diversity in newsrooms and online sites. My sincere condolences to Janet, his family and to all of us who wish we could have just one more conversation with Rich.
Paul Van Slambrouck
June 26, 2007
Rich used to remind me at a time when I was trying to make sense of Mercury News budgets that he was "the go to guy," And that he was. He was the guy to go to for a kind word and generous sentiment. He and his family are in my prayters.
Jon Ann Steinmetz
June 26, 2007
Rich, my heart aches for you, for your wife and other family, and for the Mercury News that we were all so proud to be a part of. We were lucky to have been at the Merc at its prime, and I'll always associate you with that time. I can't imagine the place without you.
Jim Bettinger
June 26, 2007
When
Rich was in his early years at the Mercury News, we both worked on the
PM staff. He was dedicated, ambitious in the very best sense of the word, and as conscientious as an editor could be. We kept in sporadic
touch after I left the Merc, and saw each other last week at the NAHJ
convention. Everything I knew already and have heard and read about him in the last week shows that he was one of the true good guys. He will be missed.
Mayra Meza Zulayka
June 26, 2007
I had the honor of sitting next to Rich during the NAHJ gala dinner. He was courteous, amicable and genuinely interested in our conversation. Like the great journalist he was, he asked me questions regarding my work and our presence at the convention. That evening he not only left me with his business card in my hand, but also with a firm hand shake thanking us for supporting NAHJ. He smiled and pleasantly excused himself after dinner. He left me with a tremendous impression of professionalism, gratitude and devotion to his work. I wish I had known him longer. God bless him and his family.
Nadine (Eugenio) Tom
June 26, 2007
My heartfelt sympathy and prayers to Rich's family and friends. I will always remember his smile and his witty humor. At Pacific High, our senior year, Rich was voted "Most Likely To Succeed". He met and exceeded this expectation in so many ways, not just in journalism but by the sheer numbers of people whose lives are better for knowing him.
Thank-you Rich. I"ll miss you.
Evelyn Richards
June 25, 2007
It is clear from all these pages of memories that Rich had a tremendous positive impact on so many people in so many important ways. To me he was the steady, honorable, reliable newsroom professional who got so much done yet had time for every one of us who came knocking (which we often did). My sympathies to his family and to the newsroom where he will be sorely missed.
Annie Gregg Skeet
June 25, 2007
Some of Rich's magic, to me, was his ability to make a connection with anyone and sustain it. Several years after my first job at a newspaper as assistant to the executive editor, Rich moved into the role. And then the real fun began. I have delighted in his regular and always humorous inquiries about some relic of the ‘90s still hanging around the newsroom budget, even years after leaving the Mercury News myself. We shared more than a chuckle about the special experiences of doing “newsroom math” with journalists. For Rich, there was nothing better than “finding” an FTE in the budget and saving it for the newsroom. I will miss the special moments when he would find me and say "now about that budget that you and I know and love so well...." with that smile so many of you have also cherished.
A class act always, there is much I learned from Rich about presence, in every sense of the word. Janet, though we've never met, you and Rich are in my thoughts and prayers.
Avni Nijhawan
June 25, 2007
I can still remember my ears perking up at the name "Richard Ramirez." As fledgling high school journalists, my classmates and I always looked forward to the visits of our good friend and experienced mentor from the San Jose Mercury News. He always had something insightful to tell us, in that relaxed and gentle manner of his.
His feedback on my own articles held immense personal value to me; I will never forget his praise on my opinion piece about vegetarianism. It meant then, and means now, a great deal to me. His words were inspiring and uplifting, and made me feel as though I really did have the ability to make a difference in the world through my work.
I can never thank him enough for that feeling.
We will never forget you.
Gail S.
June 25, 2007
Rich-
Thank you for taking such good care of my sister.
Paul Hertelendy
June 25, 2007
Rich made the stress of newspper life a lot more tolerable with his outgoing personality and reflecive nature. Though I retired from the Merc eight years ago, I still feel the sting of loss, of a colleague, of a friend. The Merc will not be the same without him. My sympathies to Janet and all family members.
Christi Chidester
June 25, 2007
I knew Rich only through emails he sent me regarding volunteering at the NAHJ convention, but all were extremely cordial and thoughtful. I was greatly looking forward to meeting him in the future. I am stunned by the news, and I send my best to his family and friends.
Patricia Marroquin
June 25, 2007
I have known Rich since he started as a copy editing intern in the 1980s at the Mercury News, where I was then a copy editor. We have stayed in touch all these years, his family and mine exchanging Christmas cards with notes on what each of us was up to. I heard from him by e-mail earlier this month, when he wrote to ask if I would be attending the NAHJ conference. He said he wanted to show me photographs he had taken. I had told him a while back about my passion for photography, and he had told me he too was very interested in it. I kept asking him over the past couple of years to let me see his photos. But after seeing mine at my Web site he said he didn't feel his photos were good enough and he wasn't yet ready to share his images with me or with members of a photo-sharing Web site I encouraged him to join. When he asked if I'd be at the NAHJ conference, he wrote: "I actually have some photos pulled together, so if you are attending, let me know and I'll bring them along. If not, I'll send them to you later this month. Janet and I spent three weeks in Paris-Vienna-Salzburg-Munich in April. Weather was great and so were the people. But I wish I had a better camera." I could not attend the conference, and I am so sad that I never had a chance to see his images. But I have a feeling that the angels in heaven are flipping through his wonderful photo album right now. Janet, my sincere condolences to you. Rich was a wonderful, caring man with a great smile. Rich, I love you and will miss you. --Patricia, copy editor, Ventura County Star
Jim Trotter
June 25, 2007
Rich was a sweetheart of a guy who would help you anyway that he could. I'm saddened to learn of his passing. My condolences to his family, and to his extended Mercury News family.
Claudia Trejo (NAHJ)
June 25, 2007
I remember the first time I met Rich, I was unpacking my boxes and getting ready for the NAHJ convention. This was my first year to head up registration for NAHJ convention and to tell you the truth I was a little afraid that I was not going to manage but Rich stepped in with a smile and the group of volunteers and asked me," What do you need us to do?" I had only shared two or three e-mails with him before the convention so I never had the opportunity like many others to know him on a more personal level. Rich was a wonderful man and was always ready to do whatever was asked of him no questions asked. Thank you Rich for making this convention one for me to always remember. You will be missed. Rest in peace. To his wife and family, my deepest condolences.
June 25, 2007
The NAHJ convention in San Jose was one of the best we've ever had, and Rich was instrumental in ensuring that success. Like many, I have fond memories of his no doubt many acts of kindess. The most recent came during the convention when he spotted a young, eager reporter absentmindedly putting down his cell phone. The kid left in a hurry without picking it up; he's lucky Rich was there. A few hours later, Rich called over a mutual friend before we entered an elevator and privately handed him the phone, not wanting to embarrass the young man but wanting to ensure he would get the phone back quickly. In fact, the reporter was frantic and couldn't remember what he had done with it. Our friend thanked Rich, and promised to get it back to the reporter. Rich gave us that great smile and waved as the elevator doors closed. "Now, that's a class act," our friend said. Indeed he was. We sorely miss Rich, and our thoughts are with his family and friends.
Diana R. Fuentes
Editor, Laredo Morning Times
Arlene Morgan
June 25, 2007
Rich cared deeply about diversity issues, both in staffing and content and was one of the first supporters of the Let's Do It Better! Workshop on Race and Ethnicity at Columbia. I believe he was one of the reasons that the paper stood as a beacon during a time when few other major newspapers were taking on the commitment to run an inclusive paper. I will miss his leadership but most of all his eager and engaging manner. He was a sweet man who showed the best side of our industry. Arlene Morgan, Associate Dean, Columbia Graduate School of Journalism
Maureen Fan
June 24, 2007
I remember Rich's smile, gentle manner and always professional approach in each request - you could never say no and you felt guilty if you delayed for even a bit. My condolences to his family.
Ernest Sotomaor
June 24, 2007
At a time we can least afford to, all of journalism, and not just Latinos, has lost a great leader. Rich exemplified everything great journalists should strive to achieve, and our profession will miss one of its great mentors. Like Janet, we have lost a hero.
Mark Gladstone
June 24, 2007
When we were expanding the Sacramento Bureau, Rich was extremely helpful in assisting with many of the arrangements, especially for the new office. He was a top-notch pro. My condolences to his loved ones and the extended Mercury News family
Lydia Ramos
June 24, 2007
Dear Rich,
You were my former Mercury News mentor and fellow USC grad.
You helped me find my writing voice so many years ago.
You followed my career highlights because that's the kind of colleague you were.
You joined us for mojitos at an NAHJ mixer last week wearing a USC shirt, of course. We never even had a chance to discuss USC football or our personal lives.
You have reminded me that every moment is precious.
I wish we had caught up even more. I last saw you walk down the hall at the Noche de Triunfo dinner.
I was happy to have had the opportunity to see and talk to you again after so many years.
I am sorry that those moments were our last.
Love,
Lydia Ramos
Donna Kato
June 24, 2007
The last lengthy conversation I had with Rich was about a recent trip he took to Europe. He was glowing from the vacation, describing how wonderful it was to see Paris and Barcelona with Janet. He urged me to go on a long trip like the one he just came back from. That I would never regret it.
The last time I saw Rich was the Saturday night of the NAHJ banquet. I was late, the registration desk didn't have my name. I was frustrated and irritated until I looked up to see Rich, walking toward me, a smile on his face that let me know he would take care of everything.
Lara (Calvert) York
June 24, 2007
I can so easily remember Rich slapping his hand on his knee and having a good, big laugh.
Thank you Rich for fostering my love for the A's and the fun we had. After you & Janet married, I could see on your face that you were in a good place.
I'm having a hard time understanding today.
Janet, my deepest sympathy to you.
Jeff Yip
June 24, 2007
I'm blessed to have worked with Rich and others from the Merc News editorial family. I was working the PM copy desk when Rich joined our merry band. He may have been outwardly quiet (maybe a good thing when you're the new kid on the block) but it quickly became clear that here was a bright young man who took his responsibilities seriously but didn't take himself too seriously. It's a 'skill set' that some in the news business (OK, maybe a few USC grads here and there) never seem to pick up ... or they lose. :-) It's wonderful to see from the tributes here that this fellow Southern Californian found joy and meaning in journalism, brought such value to the working pros at 750 Ridder Park, Latino news communities and students, and became a good man and friend to all. Janet, we never met, but my thoughts and prayers are with you and his family. Rich, like that first-generation Mustang you treasured, you'll always be a classic.
Morna Baird
June 24, 2007
I am really sorry about your loss. Rich was a good friend. I will miss him.
Douglas Lytle
June 24, 2007
Rich hired me as the Editorial Director for the semester when he was Editor-in-Chief. He probably didin't know what he was taking on at the time and if he later felt he made a mistake he never showed it. I spent the semester happily pushing everyone's buttons on campus regardless of whether they were on the Left or on the Right and through it all Rich never said a word. He once edited an editorial of mine by saying ''That is the model of a well-written, concise opinion piece'' and was very pleased. Later on, I wrote a longer, more digressive opinion that he DIDN'T edit and got a phone call from him tacitly informing me that the material was long-winded and poorly thought out. "Call me next time,'' he said. He was right, of course, and in his way was the MODEL for what "Fair and Balanced" journalism ought to mean. By the end of the semester I seem to recall that Rich was still friends with almost everyone on the staff - a feat that was not always accomplished by the top editors. This I subscribe to his winning personality and good judgment. Sadly, I hadn't seen him in years but had kept up with his progress via friends at the Merc or elsewhere. My thoughts and prayers are with his family.
Melinda Rios (Foley)
June 23, 2007
I'm at a loss for the right words. Our newsroom misses you already, Rich.
You were the kindest, most gentle, patient and professional manager a lowly editorial assistant could ever ask for.
My thoughts and prayers go out to your wife, your loved ones and my fellow colleagues, who can't imagine life at the MN without you.
May you rest in peace.
Bob Ingle
June 23, 2007
Rich
was one of the nicest people I worked with at the Merc, and I'll miss
him greatly. If he and Janet were considering a trip, he would always
call to see if I had been there and get recommendations. Never failed
to send a postcard during the trip.
Kathryn McClelland . Katherine Conrad . Julie Sevrens-Lyons
June 23, 2007
Us guys miss you sooo much.
Joy Gim
June 23, 2007
It is amazing to think how many years have passed since our days at Pacific High School. Richard was always kind, sincere, thoughtful and always welcoming. I think I saw him once since graduation, but for some reason, we always kept in touch through our once a year Christmas card.
Rich, I will miss you.
Janet, I'm so terribly sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family and with Rich.
Cindy Liu
June 23, 2007
Rich exuded such warmth and caring in the newsroom that it hurts to know that he's gone. I wish I'd known him better, and my heart goes out to his loved ones and my former MN colleagues during these difficult times.
Jeff Burnside
June 23, 2007
To Rich's friends: Unlike you, I never knew Rich. But please be aware that your journalism colleagues nationwide are saddened by your stunning loss.
Theresa (Viloria) Poon
June 23, 2007
Rich was one of my very first editors when I wrote for the Merc as a kid of 19. It seems such a long time ago since he assigned me stories that led me to county fairs and car shows. I suspect he thought it was great fun to know I was a USC undergrad.
He was a fantastic mentor to me. It was a great comfort to witness his work in the newswroom at a time when my status as minority scholarship winner was not taken well by some veteran reporters.
"Just do what you do, Theresa. Your work will show people that you belong here," he quietly told me once when we heard some of the less kinder remarks made of me while we were both within earshot.
Rich was a kind, thoughtful person, and a firm editor. He taught me how to pen articles that I was most reluctant to write. And it is with great reluctance that I find myself writing in this book. I can not believe that Rich is no longer in the newsroom helping others who have subjected themselves to such a tough business.
It is good to know that colleauges are working on a scholarship in his name. What a fine way to honor such a great person.
My deepest condolences to Rich's family and friends.
Sincerely,
Dawn Garcia
June 23, 2007
I was stunned and saddened to hear from Rich's colleagues with the tragic news that he was suddenly gone. It felt surreal; I had just chatted with him briefly a week earlier at the registration table at the NAHJ convention in San Jose -- and he was his usual attentive, unassuming, professional self, with that wry Rich smile and twinkle in this eye. I have good memories of Rich from our very busy years working together at the Mercury News when I was State Editor and he was Assistant State Editor. He always cared deeply about making the paper the best it could be. He jumped in head first to help me coordinate our coverage of everything from fires in Southern California and floods in the wine country to invasions of killer bees, the Heaven's Gate cult and O.J. Simpson's slow-speed chase & later trial that seemed to last forever. He was a force for calm in a crazy, newsy time.
My heart goes out to Janet, especially, and to all whose lives were touched by Rich. He made all of our lives richer and easier for his presence on the planet.
Karon Ybarra
June 23, 2007
I wish that I had one more day to share your smile..........
Beloved friend, USC Fan, Devoted husband to Janet and father to Bailey. We will keep you in our hearts forever.
Josh Susong
June 23, 2007
Rich was such a kind and thoughtful colleague. My thoughts are with all my friends at the Mercury News, and, especially, with Rich's family.
Jeannie Wong
June 22, 2007
Like many others here, I first met Rich at USC/Daily Trojan, where I stood in awe of the "big man on campus." A few years later, at the Merc, Rich became a good friend of my then-fiance, now husband. Small world.
On the night that we heard, I flashed on an image of the "big man on campus" at my wedding, wearing a big smile and the goofiest-looking high tops.
Rest in peace, Rich. Our prayers to your wife and family.
Nick Masuda
June 22, 2007
Rich was an absolutely amazing man. He was a man that made every word count and his actions could never be questioned. He had a calming effect over everyone that came across him. I knew him for only a short time, but his impact on me was far greater than he could ever know. It seems, Rich liked it that way. He wanted to offer help, but never get credit. As of this day, USC just became my favorite college team. Rest in peace, Rich, and my thoughts and condolences go out to my former colleagues and to Rich's family.
Heather Urquhart
June 22, 2007
Rich Ramirez was a young pup when I met him 20 years ago on the PM edition of the Mercury News. He trained me to do the Metro section layout job and was very clear about what I should tell editors who asked for changes between editions: "It can't be done." But that wasn't Rich at all. I can't forget his sly smile, wry wit and loyalty to the Oakland A's. The last time I saw Rich was September, when I stopped by the paper. He and Gary Richards walked into the Features newsroom with bottles of wine for me. I had won our A's pool and they were paying me off before the season had ended. That's my memory: a smiling Rich holding a bottle of a nice white wine. My heart goes out to Janet and to my former colleagues who are facing dark days indeed.
Steve McClary
June 22, 2007
I will always remember you growing up at Clevland school. You were donuts and I was snow bunny. RIP my little buddy.
Mark Moreno
June 22, 2007
Rich, you were one of the first people I knew at the Merc, and one of the nicest guys around. I still remember your witty quips. This is truly shocking. Rest in peace, friend.
Jim Kruger
June 22, 2007
I knew Rich from his first day on the P.M. copy desk where his wit and intelligence stood out amid what seemed then to be a collection of cynical, though highly talented, veterans. He was a ray of sunshine whose youthful exuberance made us all feel a bit younger. We were better for knowing him – and so was the Mercury News. We’ll never know why he died, but we can be confident that those in whose company he now stands will find him just as enthusiastic and eager as we did all those long years ago. So long Rich. See you soon. –Jim Kruger
Darlene Tenes
June 22, 2007
Rich was one of the sweetest nicest people I have known, He always thought of others first. I can't tell you how many times I would make a simple request and he would treat it as if it was the most important thing in the world. To me he was always the warm beating heart at the Mercury. I remember when we were first convening a breakfast meeting for the Latino Advisory Board at the Merc I casually mentioned that we should have pan dulce which he of course made sure we did and then made sure to save me my favorite kind a "cuerno". Rich you have always been such a sweetie. I will miss you.
Mona Cravens
June 22, 2007
I'm deeply saddened by the news of Rich's passing. I remember him as the very bright young editor of the Daily Trojan, who demonstrated tremendous news judgement far beyond his age as an undergraduate.
He set a fine example of professionalism for those who followed in his footsteps.
Lina Broydo
June 22, 2007
I am very grateful for many opportunities I had to work with Rich on numerous programs, conventions and special local, national and international projects involving our city as well as The Fairmont San Jose. He was always extremely organized, professional, friendly, polite and willing to share his expertise and vast knowledge. It was a true honor and a pleasure to be on his team and I cherish his continued support and devoted friendship. Our life was enriched by having him as our community's partner in promotions as well as in bringing business to San Jose.
How I wish my dinner with him at last Saturday's NAHJ Awards Gala evening at The Fairmont Hotel was not our last supper.
With warmest personal regards and sincere sympathy to his family, his friends and his colleagues.
Lina Broydo
Director of Public Relations
The Fairmont San Jose
Karl Kahler
June 22, 2007
I was honored, along with Tracy Seipel, Brandon Bailey, Tracie Tso, Sue McAllister and a few other co-Mercers, to be a member in good standing of Rich’s pantheon of Very Important People -- for the sole reason that we all graduated from USC.
To Rich, this made us blood brothers forever -- thicker, if possible, than blood, thicker than thieves. The rest of us might have been tempted to forget where we went to school two decades ago -- but not with Rich as captain of our crew.
I think Rich’s loyalty to his alma mater was emblematic of his loyalty in general -- to his friends, to his family, to NAHJ and to the Mercury News, where he worked for 23 years.
He was exceptionally loyal, extremely reliable and relentlessly outstanding at everything he did.
Rich, my brother, I hope you have landed in a happy place. I suspect that at this very minute you are leading the fight song in heaven.
Jeannette Sanchez
June 22, 2007
I'm stunned at the news. I recently met Rich at the NAHJ convention in San Jose. I was one of his volunteers for the event. I can't get over recently reveiving a "Thank you" email from him on Sunday and now hearing of his death. My heart goes out to his family. I'm so sorry for this loss.
Terri Vitar
June 22, 2007
I met Rich when we were in our early twenties, fresh out of college. While I have many stories to tell about Rich, I'm sure he would prefer I was entirely silent, so I will be :> But, one story that I know he wouldn't mind me recounting is when he took care of my father after "the guys" took him out for a night on the town and got him perfectly drunk! Rich got my dad home, which was no easy feat (and I'll spare everyone the details!), while allowing the other bachelor party boys to continue in the festivities. He was unassuming, giving, and solidly loyal, always.
You were a kind man, Rich, and I am thankful that you were in my life. And, a big thank you to "the guys" for introducing me to Rich.
Rob Carpio
June 22, 2007
What a sad day for Rich's family, the San Jose Mercury News and its faithful readers.
I'd like to share a story I have related to Rich:
When I was still an undergraduate student at UCSB in 1994, I had the opportunity to briefly work with him. I was in the middle of writing an article in the sports office of my college newspaper (The Daily Nexus), when my boss came in to ask if anyone would be interested in writing a freelance article for the San Jose Mercury News (about traditionally raucous annual Halloween festivities in the neighboring college community of Isla Vista). Needless to say, I jumped at the chance.
It was a tremendous opportunity that I valued then, and continue to appreciate today. Rich gave good guidance and feedback. Even though I was paid for the two articles I wrote (the main article, plus a follow-up a week later), it was more about the experience than the money. In my mind, he helped validate me as a writer.
I never got the chance to meet Rich in person, but I continue to be thankful for the chance to be credited for bylined articles in my hometown newspaper. Because he was once editor of his school newspaper, he probably called the office of my school paper to give an aspiring journalist a chance to write for a major daily. In retrospect, he was essentially giving back to the college newspaper community. For that, I'll always be appreciative.
God bless you, Rich.
Laura Castaneda
June 22, 2007
I had the pleasure of working with Rich at the Daily Trojan in the 80's, and we kept in touch over the years. He was a kind, hard-working and funny man. I saw him last summer, when he tried to convince me to "give" him some USC football tickets I had won. No dice. He will be missed. My deepest sympathies to his family and friends.
Jose Luis Villegas
June 22, 2007
I've been reading page after page of notes from friends from all over the country who were touched by Rich Ramirez. He was very much endeared.
Rich holds a special place in my heart. Almost 20 years to the day, he was out with me the night I proposed to my wife Ruth. We danced and drank champagne through the night, a moment in time I hold dear in my heart.
We played on some really average skilled Mercury News softball teams, he was always at his best when we played the pressman.
Janet my families prayers are with you. My heart is with you Richie. Love you.
Susan Robles
June 22, 2007
I was stunned to read this. I was fortunate enough to meet Rich last week during preparations for the NAHJ convention. He greeted me with a smile and made me feel welcome. I'm sad that I won't have more opportunties to get to know him. May he rest in peace.
Jessica (Friedheim) Faulkner
June 22, 2007
I, too, have fond memories of Rich from the Daily Trojan. Late nights, drink of the week club, wrestling matches, references to Jack, more late nights and many many more. Rich you will be missed. Condolences to your family, co-workers and friends.
Fight On and On.
T Monroe
June 22, 2007
Rich,
You absolutely made journalism better - I hope you know that.
I also pray that you, and all those who have been blessed by your warmth and kind heart, find peace.
I'll miss you.
Jane Stueve
June 22, 2007
I met Rich through APME. Although we only met a couple of times at conference meetings, instantly he was a friend. His professionalism, helpfulness, friendliness... an all around nice guy. I'm sure no one was a stranger to him for very long. I am so sorry for your loss.
Yomi Wronge
June 22, 2007
I'll miss our long talks about our dog capers and seeing your face light up when showing the latest pics of your pooch. You made the newsroom, and so many of my days, bright.
Karen Kucher
June 22, 2007
I first met Rich during his senior year at USC and we stayed in touch over the years via occasional emails and phone calls. As we both hit 40, we teased each other about failing eyesight and gray hair. When I was expecting my son, he suggested 'Rich' or 'Richina' as possible names for my 'future Trojan.'
We hadn't seen each other in many years, but I always figured we'd run into one another at a reunion or journalism event. I'm sad that won't be happening.
I extend my sympathies to his wife and all those who knew and loved him. We will miss him.
Rafael Olmeda
June 22, 2007
I still can't get over Rich coming to the NAHJ board and thanking us last Sunday morning. You got it backwards, man. We should have thanked you. You were an inspiration.
Tom Van Dyke
June 22, 2007
Rich had infinite patience with others.
Mary J. Andrade
June 22, 2007
I had the opportunity to meet Richard last year, during a first meeting organized by him to put together the committees for the 2007 NAHJ conference in San Jose. Last week I once again spoke with him. His warmth and approachability impressed me.
My deepest condolences to his wife, family and colleagues.
Terry (Murphy) Flores
June 22, 2007
Rich was one of my first friends at USC, and it was a friendship that lasted the whole time we were there. It breaks my heart to hear of his loss.
He was fun and supportive, and a great, great friend. He chose me to be his managing editor in our last year at school when he was editor-in-chief of the Daily Trojan. He was one of the best bosses I ever had. He was a great editor then, and from all the accolades I've read, he only got better.
I know how important working at the Merc was to him even then. I am so glad he was able to live his dream there. I'll miss his periodic emails asking me to come work with him there.
Rich, I'll always treasure the memories of our friendship: hanging out in the sports office with Marshall; slipping over to UCLA for parties; driving to Stanford and Berkeley games; putting together the Bogus Bruin. Those were some of the best times of my life.
Fight on, my friend
Tina Kannarr
June 22, 2007
I hadn't seen Rich since our days at the Daily Trojan at USC. I will never watch Jack del Rio or have a much-needed foot massage without a fond memory of a dear friend. Rich was one of the good ones. Aloha pumehana.
Nancy Murrell
June 22, 2007
Rich, I just heard. This is such a huge loss. My heart is in my shoes. You always had a smile for me and you always remembered the little things.
Vickey Williams
June 22, 2007
Although I’d admired his work on behalf of various industry organizations for many years, I only came to know Rich personally when The Mercury News became a pilot in the Learning Newsroom research project I directed on behalf of the American Press Institute and the American Society of Newspaper Editors. We worked together throughout 2006 as I made about a dozen visits to the newsroom, but particularly for a period of a few months after Rich volunteered to redesign the project’s website.
That was classic Rich behavior, right? The first to offer to go above and beyond. He was quick to sign on with enthusiasm for any effort he was convinced could improve journalism or the work lives of journalists, particularly his beloved colleagues at the Mercury News. I know of no project he touched that ended as anything less than a stellar success. Just looking through these entries, it’s clear how far Rich’s impact reached and how many of us benefited from his tremendous energy and his boundless heart. NAHJ, APME, ASNE, API. I’m sure there are more. He was an inspiration. I extend to Janet, Rich’s family and his many friends my deepest condolences.
Mark McDonald
June 22, 2007
Rich was so helpful and welcoming to me when I joined the Merc as Vietnam bureau chief in 1998. He took me around the paper, showed me the city, and later solved many of the myriad problems that came with working overseas. Warm, calm, gracious, smiling --- that's how I'll remember him.
Nancy Gay
June 22, 2007
My condolences to all of Rich's family, friends and colleagues. I am still reeling from the news of Rich's death. He was incredibly kind and helpful to me during my days as a Mercury News sportswriter.
So many of us liked and admired Rich. He had friends. He was loved.
I hope he knew that.
Steve Padilla
June 22, 2007
Let me share a happy memory of Rich from his days at the Daily Trojan. When a fellow staffer learned Rich had been a standout wrestler in high school, he made it his goal to pin Rich to the floor. He would attack Rich at odd moments and they would start wrestling in the newsroom. Rich soon began springing at him at unsuspected moments, and I can still see Rich's feet flying inches from my monitor as the two of them grappled. I'll keep that memory of Rich's exuberance and his sense of fun.
Jack Foley
June 22, 2007
We just spoke, not two weeks ago, Rich. I needed something and you made it happen as you always did. You were kind and gifted and always the pro we all wished we could be. How is it true that you are gone from us? My prayers are for you and for your family. I'll be expecting great things in future editons of the the Heavenly Times. God bless you always my friend and keep you where he keeps all his best work, in his heart of hearts. I love you, ace.
Mike Guersch
June 22, 2007
Many prayers for Rich (such a gentle soul) and his family -- and also for the terrific people in the Merc newsroom now grieving. My wish is that you all find grace and peace through these tough, tough times.
Margie Duvall
June 22, 2007
Rich was one of the best people I've ever known. I met Rich through APME, and we became fast friends. I truly will miss him.
With deepest sympathy to the family,
Margie Duvall
The Courier-Journal
Mark Johnson
June 22, 2007
I knew Rich since his first day at the Mercury News, and there was never a day I wasn't glad to see him. I moved away in '96, and we haven't seen each other much since then, but we always stayed lightly in touch, most recently exchanging emails in March during the PM Hoops Pool we've competed in for the past couple of decades. Rich brought joy to everyone. I'll never forget him.
Bob Drews
June 22, 2007
I will think of you at my next Tommy's double chili burger with cheese. You knew how to live, Rich. Rest in peace. I will always remember you, my friend.
Carol Flayer
June 22, 2007
Such a tragic loss to us all. My sincere thanks to Mrs. Ramirez for sharing her husband with his readers throughout the years. Nothing and no one will replace him in her life.
Russell Contreras
June 22, 2007
Just wanted to thank you, Rich. Without you, people like me wouldn't be where we are. You helped us out by just being yourself. We'll miss you.
Russell Contreras
Reporter / Boston Globe
Yvonne Hussey
June 22, 2007
I too had the privledge of partnering with Rich during many years of Mercury News projects relating to Editorial. Rich and I would canoodle over FTE's, budgets and newshole. We always pulled on each others talents and the results were always fabulous.
My best to Janet and all of the Mercury News family.
Deanna Sands
June 22, 2007
Rich was a key player in the success of the national Associated Press Managing Editors conference that was held in San Jose in 2005. His professionalism, imagination, creativity and work ethic were invaluable. But the most memorable thing about Rich was his passion for excellence. He was inspiring and relentless. In working with him over two years, the APME team came to view him as a friend and know him for the wonderful human being that he was. We will miss him sorely.
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