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J.R. Welch Obituary

J.R. (JONATHAN RUSSELL) WELCH JUNE 22, 1966 - JAN 20, 2009 J.R. Welch was an artist - a talented musician who was able to express himself in a number of different media. His palette might hold paint one day, ink on another and chords and scales on the next. He also was a skilled technician and craftsman, devoted to the care and nurturing of musical instruments of any kind. By day, J.R. served as manager of Gottschalk Music Center Instrument Repair Center. He had repaired musical instruments for more than 25 years. Previously, the Repair Center had been owned and operated by Richard Squires, J.R.'s mentor. By night, J.R. made music, when he wasn't enjoying a baseball game. Go Giants! He performed in a wide array of community-based musical groups. He was equally at home playing jazz with Ernie Bucio's Little Big Band and the Barkin' Dog Jazz Band - he was Bucio's regular bass player in those groups -- or show tunes and marching music with MoBand (The Modesto Band of Stanislaus County). Though J.R. had been seriously ill with cancer for several years, his passing Tuesday night, Jan. 20, 2009, at the age of 42, still came as a shock to his family and many friends. He is survived by his wife, Dolores Welch, and mother, JoAnna Welch, both of Modesto; father- and mother-in-law, Joe and Lillian Ramirez; sisters-in law, Dot Ramirez, Linda Rainey and Brenda Ellsworth; brothers-in-law, Joey Ramirez and Kevin Ellsworth; nephews Travis Ellsworth and Zachary Rainey and nieces, Jessica Ellsworth and Brittani Mortan. He will be missed by all of us. But the incredible courage and quiet strength he showed in the face of a vicious illness will never leave us - nor will his smile, quick wit and that steady bass line many of us had come to depend upon. He loved the outdoors - the beach; the mountains; biking; hiking. He had a special place in his heart for animals, all kinds of animals. And Disneyland was a sort of Mecca for J.R., he would propose to his wife, Dolores, there; the happiest place on earth.'' Music took center stage in his life, however. He just couldn't seem to get enough. In addition to the Bucio groups and Mo Band, J.R. also performed regularly (as bassist) with the New Horizons Jazz Band, the Gottschalk Concert Band and various other Gottschalk Music Center ensembles, as well as the Modesto Junior College Community Band and Hughson barn band. J.R. began his musical journey at an early age. His first instrument was the trumpet. He also became proficient playing the French Horn, tuba, baritone and trombone, as well as the saxophone. He even took bagpipes lessons for a time As a result, J.R. became a musical jack of all trades,'' playing whatever instrument was most needed by any given musical ensemble at any given time. Mr. Dependable,'' that was J.R. He always could be counted upon to make the necessary repairs to an instrument, or play the difficult passage, whenever and wherever it was needed. He delivered. Still, he always made time for others. He was always ready to offer a helping hand and words of encouragement. J.R's life will be celebrated Saturday, Jan. 24, at Lakewood Memorial Park and Funeral Home, 900 Santa Fe Ave., Hughson. The service will begin at 9:30 a.m. Arrangements are under the direction of Lakewood Funeral Home. A visitation for J.R. will be held from 4 p.m. to 8 p.m. on Friday, Jan. 23. In lieu of flowers, J.R.'s family asks that donations be made in his name to the Modesto Band of Stanislaus County, 1021 Shaftsbury Ct., Modesto 95350.www.modbee.com/obituaries

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Published by Modesto Bee on Jan. 22, 2009.

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Arlene Abel

January 25, 2009

I was so fortunate in knowing J.R. He made my old Schreiber bassoon playable more than once, even learned to play one, I think, so he could repair this difficult instrument! A good man!

Zach Rainey

January 25, 2009

My fondest memory of J.R. is when the two of us hiked a 4 hour hike around Pinecrest Lake. My mom and Dolores were worried sick about us.

Laurie Rydelius

January 24, 2009

I was fortunate enough to have the opportunity to get to know JR when he started dating and then married Dolores. Then, when he started playing French Horn, I got to sit next to him in the same section. It was then when I realized how talented he was and how many different instruments he could play. He was such a wonderful person and he will truly be missed. Our horn section in band will not be the same without him. We even had an extra chair for him with us in our horn section at the memorial service!! We ALL miss you, JR!!!!!

Heather Williams

January 23, 2009

J.R. was a wonderful friend. He was always asking me how I was doing and how my house was coming along. He gave me sound advice when I was looking for a teaching position in the Modesto area and would always keep an ear out for anything that would come open. He always had a smile and right up to the end was making us smile. Ernie, Karen, Dolores and I were sitting there keeping J.R. company a week or so ago and we were discussing something about milk and how it calms some peoples stomachs and Dolores asked J.R., "Why do you drink milk?" because J.R. used to drink a lot of it. J.R. called back from the couch, "Because it tastes good." I just really got a kick out of that answer and the way he said it was hilarious. I wish I had been in Modesto earlier so that I could have known him and his family longer. I am thankful that I knew him when he was alive and I will never forget him. I am always willing to help in any way that I can.

Melanie Skinner

January 22, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with Dolores and the family. J.R. was very very dear to me and he leaves a hole that simply cannot be filled. A great musician, a wonderful friend, a caring husband, a lover of nature and music, JR was all this and more. He was one of those rare people in your life that no matter how long between the times you spoke, you picked up the conversation as though it were but a few minutes ago. Godspeed my dear friend, until we meet again.

Herb Petty

January 22, 2009

Only knowing J.R. from past outings with the Modesto Datsun Roadster group, he always offered a warm hand shake & a friendly smile. We a
lways looked forward to his showing up, & we'll miss him deeply. Have a great drive J.R., hopefully we'll see you again.

Herb Petty
Modesto Datsun Roadster's

Sheila Robinson

January 22, 2009

Oh, how he will be missed. I enjoyed playing with him in different bands and having him keep my instruments repaired. If I had a question about music whether it was musical or about one of my instruments, J.R. always had the answer and never seemed to get tired of my endless questions. I will miss his smiling face, his wise counsel and his perfect bass line in jazz class. Rest in peace and may God Bless you and your family.

MARGARET BLOODGOOD

January 21, 2009

A life lived to short, but to the fullest.
JR will live on in many, many hearts.

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January 21, 2009

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