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Raley Kirby Obituary

PHILO – Raley Lynn Kirby, age 7 weeks, of Philo passed away Friday, June 13, 2008, at Children's Hospital, St. Louis, MO.

Funeral services will be held at 10:30 a.m. Tuesday, June 17, 2008, at Freese Funeral Home, 202 W. Main, Sidney, with the Rev. Ken Hutchens officating. Burial will be in Locust Grove Cemetery, Philo. Visitation will be from 5 to 7 p.m. Monday at the funeral home.

Raley was born April 26, 2008, in Urbana, the daughter of Lucas and Leslie McGraw Kirby.

She is survived by her parents of Philo; her paternal grandparents, Dale and Judy Kirby of Philo; her maternal grandparents, Mark and Jill Runck of St. Joseph and Terry McGraw of Philo; her maternal great-grandparents, John and Marge Seaman of Urbana, Robert Corray of St. Joseph, Robert and Fay Runck of St. Joseph and Janie McGraw of Urbana; her paternal great-grandparents, Harold and Pat Kirby of Thomasboro; her great-great-grandma Clara Runck of Sheldon; her great-great-grandpa Bobby Sloman of Ceadertown, Ga.; three aunts, Kari Kaisner of Philo and Ashley Runck and Taylor Runck of St. Joseph; her uncle Andrew McGraw of Philo; and two cousins, Sophia and Abigail Kaisner of Philo.

In Raley's short life, she melted many hearts, and she will be dearly missed but never forgotten.

Published by The News-Gazette on Jun. 15, 2008.

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Bob & Sally Goetting

July 10, 2008

Luke & Leslie:
You don't know us, but our son Micah passed away June 8 on his 8th day on this earth. We know that these days are overwhelmingly sad and tiring. May God grant you His Peace as you go thru this time. It is true that Micah and Raley are in a much better place than we are, but it sure does hurt for us to be without them here.
We are going to be attending a support group called Empty Arms in Champaign - one of the founders is Bob's co-worker Meghan, who lost her son at 22 days old a few years back. Let us know if you are interested in learning more about that.
PS: Bob used to be one of the auditors from Champaign that audited Luke's Mom at the Bank :-)

Sara Smith

June 25, 2008

Dear Luke and Leslie, Little Raley captured my heart on her very first day. Such a sweet and beautiful little girl! Take comfort knowing she is being held in the loving arms of Jesus, awaiting your reunion. I will continue to hold the two of you in my prayers. You are such a special couple. God's Peace. Love, Sara Smith (Breastfeeding Clinic)

Nicole Hopper

June 24, 2008

Luke and Leslie,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Phillip & Melanie (Cain) Reinhardt

June 19, 2008

Luke and Leslie, I am so very sorry to hear about Raley. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family during this difficult time.

Felicia Hartsock

June 18, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with you through this hard time. I hope the best through this rough time.

Stephanie Helfrich

June 18, 2008

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I know your pain so very well. I lost my infant daughter, Breylie, in January. I can not take away your pain but I can truly relate to how you feel. I'd be glad to talk if you ever need someone who knows what it's like. You All are in my Prayers!

Stephanie Eckstein

June 17, 2008

Luke and Leslie, I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my prayers.

Christine (Richardson) Clemmons

June 17, 2008

Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.

Andrew & Kari Black

June 17, 2008

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. Our deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

Stacy Woodworth

June 17, 2008

Luke and Leslie,
Your are in my thoughts and prayer's. I am so sorry to hear about Raley's short time with you. Know you have a special angel in heaven watching over you.

Kelli Calcari

June 16, 2008

Dear Luke and Leslie:

I am so sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Mindy Allen

June 16, 2008

Luke & Leslie, Its hard to understand why children are taken from us, but find comfort in knowing you were a special part of such a precious life! Please know we have been thinking of you often.
Toby & Mindy Allen

Cherie Cain

June 16, 2008

Luke and Leslie,
As a butterfly graces our lives with one moment of fragile beauty, so too has Raley's presence blessed you and all those that surround you with her love and her unique spirit. May you find peace, and joy with each butterfly that passes, knowing that Raley lives on in the hearts of all she touched.

Denise and Greg Lewis

June 16, 2008

Luke and Leslie,
Please know that a day didn't go by that I didn't include you and your little girl in my prayers. Our hearts break for you. It is so hard to understand why things happen at times. Lean on others for help getting through this rough time and hold those memories of Raley close. She will smile down on you for you made her brief life here on earth very special and I am sure she knew how much she was loved. Let us know if we can do ANTYHING to help. I am keeping Amanda's boys so she can come to the visitation tonight - but my thoughts will be there too (you are a very special couple).

Bryant and Courtney Weller

June 16, 2008

Our deepest sympathy sent to you and your family at this time. We are truly sorry for your loss.

John and Michelle (Donoho) Matthews

June 16, 2008

Luke and Leslie,
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. You are in our prayers.

katie bloom

June 16, 2008

May the Lord bring you strength and comfort in this difficult time. You are in my families thoughts and prayers.

Kelli Daugherty

June 16, 2008

Luke and Leslie - I am so sorry to hear about Raley. Leslie, I was one of your nurses in the hospital after she was born. My thoughts and prayers are with your family during this time.

Stacie Langendorf

June 16, 2008

Im so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Amy Fiscus

June 15, 2008

You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Steve, Amy, and Kenna Fiscus

Aaron and Jennifer (Cloud) Clark

June 15, 2008

We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Please know you and your family will be in our thoughts and prayers

Penny Shadden

June 15, 2008

To all of Raley's family:
We were deeply saddened to hear of your loss. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers; may God bring peace and comfort to your hearts.
Mark and Penny Shadden, Stacy and Stephanie Buck St. Joseph, IL

Hannah Cain

June 15, 2008

Luke, Leslie, and family,

I am so sorry to hear this news. . . you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Lisa Denno

June 15, 2008

I am so sorry to hear about Raley. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Love The Denno's

Matt and Erin (Maloy) Stratton

June 15, 2008

I am so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Katie Pieczynski

June 15, 2008

I am so sorry for your loss. Many prayers go out to you and your family.

Melinda Schaefer

June 15, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you in this difficult time.

malea rogers

June 15, 2008

i am so sorry, i thought that she will be miss and i did not know her or see her but i still love her and my heart and prayers are with her forever

Randy & Madonna (Black) Brady

June 15, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

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