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Guide to Writing an Obituary

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How to find the right words and write a beautiful obituary tribute

An obituary is a published notice of death, typically seen in a newspaper, that includes a short biography of the life of someone who recently died.

Obituaries are an important way that we remember the people who matter to us. More than a simple death announcement, the obituary is where we record a loved one’s life story to live on forever. So it's no wonder that the task of writing an obituary can be daunting.

Whether you need to write an obituary for a family member who has just died, or are planning ahead by writing an obituary for yourself, Legacy can guide you step-by-step through the process. Click below to find the information you need about how to write an obituary.


How to Write an Obituary

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An Easy Online Obituary Writing Tool

Create and share a lasting obituary for someone you love (for free).