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Brittany Custer Obituary

Brittany Lauren Custer, 18, of 745 Mudham Road, died Thursday, May 8, 2008.
Brittany was born in Wake County on October 26, 1989 to Walter Craig and Wanda Creech Custer. She graduated from East Wake Academy in 2007 and had just completed her freshman year at East Carolina University. Brittany was an avid dancer, and attended Massey School of Dance for 12 years.
Funeral service 3:00 p.m. Sunday, May 11, 2008 at Baptist Tabernacle Church, 1599 NC Highway 231, Wendell, NC 27591. Burial, Baptist Tabernacle church cemetery.
Surviving: parents, Walter Craig and Wanda Creech Custer; sister, Brooke Ashley Custer; maternal grandmother, Rochell Creech of Wendell; paternal grandfather, Charles H. Custer of Ft. Lauderdale, FL; aunts, Debbie Kearney and husband, Alan of Youngsville, Sue Custer of Tampa, FL; uncles, Derwin Creech and wife, Faye of Wendell, Charles H. Custer, Jr. and wife, Lynn of Beaufort; cousis, Matthew, Russell, Joanna, Emma, Ethan, Amanda, Amber, Veronica, Julie, Jeffrey.
Brittany was preceded in death by her maternal grandfather, L.Z. Creech and her paternal grandmother, Hazel Fulcher Custer.
The family will receive relatives and friends from 6:00 to 8:00 p.m. Saturday, May 10, 2008 at L. Harold Poole Funeral Service and Crematory, 944 Old Knight Road, Knightdale, NC 27545 and other times at the home.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Baptist Tabernacle Church Building Fund, 1599 Highway 231, Wendell, NC 27591.
Condolences to the family may be made at www.poolefuneral.com under Obituaries.

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Published by The News & Observer on May 10, 2008.

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Taylar bunn

June 2, 2008

on Saturday night Brooke danced really good. I will keep yall in our prayers I'm sorry this happend to yall .she was really nice TO ME I tHANK her and Brooke got along together really welll I will never forget her when I think of dancing I will always think of Brittany I really missed her as my helper this year.love Taylar Bunn

Sarah Dearstyne Kistler

May 16, 2008

Our heart cries out for your family. She is a beautiful angel who is loved by all who have the privaledge to cross paths with her. Our prayers will remain with your family forever.

Sarah Kistler and Cate Critcher (Dearstyne)

Della McLamb

May 15, 2008

To The Custer Family:
I want to say I am praying for your family. I met Brittany several times when she was with Tommy (Jamal Thomas El-Ferkh---MY nephew). She was always smiling and was very friendly. I could see why Brittany and Tommy "clicked". It is so very hard to see two young lives taken from us. They were both so loved by everyone they knew. Please know that your family is in our prayers. May they both rest in peace with our God in Heaven above. A sec,min,hour,day at a time, Della McLamb (Aunt of Jamal "Tommy" El-Ferkh)

Terri Hogston

May 14, 2008

Wanda, craig, & Brooke
This is terri sue's best friend. My codolences go out to you and your family in such a difficult time in your life. Brittany was a beautiful girl and she is being taken care of by angels above her. May god watch over her and your family .
with much love and condolences
Terri Hogston

Jennifer Lamm (Coppedge)

May 13, 2008

Wanda,
All I keep thinking about are all the times me Brooke, and Brittany played together at the pool when we were younger. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Kristen Caputo

May 13, 2008

I love your family so much and I will miss Brittany dearly. All I can think about is when we would spend so much time together when we were kids. I wish I could go back and re-live those times over and over again. I love you guys and if you need anything, you know my number.

Mike & Lisa Kiorpes

May 13, 2008

Our hearts are broken for you and your family......

Sheila Ellington

May 12, 2008

Wanda,
I heard your sad news today about your daughter Brittany. You and Craig are great parents and I remembered how much you loved your girls. You were a busy mom taking them to practices, school events, etc, . Please know that you and your family are being prayed for and thought of often. May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

jenny carroll

May 12, 2008

Crossing the Bar

Sunset and evening star,
And one clear call for me!
And may there be no moaning of the bar,
When I put out to sea,

But such a tide as moving seems asleep,
Too full for sound and foam,
When that which drew from out the boundless deep
Turns again home.

Twilight and evening bell,
And after that the dark!
And may there be no sadness of farewell,
When I embark;

For tho' from out our bourne of Time and Place
The flood may bear me far,
I hope to see my Pilot face to face
When I have crost the bar.

By Alfred, Lord Tennyson
The Poetry Foundation

Peggy(Henley) & Hoyt Cox

May 12, 2008

Wanda, Craig and Brooke-I received the news of Brittany. No words can express how I felt to hear about the accident. I am thinking of all of you and our whole family. I have been praying for you and just wanted to say to you is just take one day at a time. Sometimes you may feel that you can only go one 1/2 day at a time but that's okay. Give each other lots of hugs. We love you.

Rose Creech's Family

May 12, 2008

Aunt Rochelle, Wanda and family:
We have been praying for your family. We were so sorry to hear about your loss and cannot imagine how difficult this time must be for you. We love you all.

Dana Jones

May 12, 2008

Dear Custer Family,
Please know that you have been in our prayers over the last few days. Brittany was such a positive role model for young people. After seeing her at EWA and at dance for the past few years, our two girls admired her so much. Her sweet personality, her beautiful smile, and her ability to dance so gracefully will always be remembered in our hearts. We will continue to pray for you in the days ahead.
Clint, Dana, Allison, & Cassidy Jones

Ginger Bullock

May 12, 2008

We are so sorry for your loss. Brittnay will be in all our hearts, she was a beautiful young woman, we are blessed to have known her.We are praying for you, may God keep you always.

David,Ginger and Lindsey Bullock

Misty and Marie Hyde

May 12, 2008

Dearest Wanda and Craig
So very very sorry for your loss. She was a beautiful young lady. God is taking care of her now and she is smiling down on you. She will always be in our prayers and heart.

The Dallin Family (Raleigh)

May 12, 2008

Please accept our deepest sympathies.

Anita Bryant

May 11, 2008

Tonight when you look up, don't think of them as stars, think of them as porch lights welcoming your love onw safely home. Sending you thoughts of peace during your sorrow time. Jamals cousin

Debbie Harris Swain

May 11, 2008

Dear Craig, Wanda, Brooke, Chuck and family,
I just saw the obituary for Brittany posted in the Carteret News-Times. I was so saddened. I have been reading to find out what happened to your beautiful daughter. I read the news articles as well as Lynn's post. This has been a sad year for your families. One day last year I was visiting the nursing home and saw your mama's name on the door. I went in, told her who I was and we had a nice visit. She showed me all her pictures of her grandchildren. She shared how special and beautiful they were with me. Of course, she did not remember me, I just told her we went to school together. We had a good visit. I wanted to go to the funeral, but it just did not work out for me to be there. All of you were in my thoughts and prayers as you are now. Death is difficult, but the tragedy of an accident, so quick and so young is extremely hard. I think the quotes that Lynn said that Brittany had with you before she left said a lot! Your hearts are broken and only time, precious memories and the Lord can help you begin to heal. All of you will be in my thoughts and prayers in the coming days. Love, Debbie

Kenneth Collie

May 11, 2008

Dear brooke and family when I heard about brittany I could not belive it.She was a great person to be around and I will miss her alot. There has not be a minute that went by to where I have not thought of her or of you.I posted a prayer on god tube for you and for brittany.I love you all. You are in my prayer I love you. Let me know if there is anything that you need. I am praying for you. I am sorry for your loss.

Edna & Ray Mills & Hylton

May 11, 2008

God don't give us nothing he just loans them for awhile to make your days brighter and then he comes and recieves them and he takes them to his big plantation in the sky. Jamal (Thomas) great aunt

David Phillips and Family

May 11, 2008

Please accept our condolences on your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Ashley Hawley

May 11, 2008

I am so sorry for your loss. My sister and I were really good friends of Tommy. We did not know Brittany but she sounded like a beautiful person.God bless...may she rest in peace in a much better place

Elaine Maple

May 11, 2008

Custer Family,
My prayers & thought's are with you, for the loss of a beautilful young lady.(cousin of Tommy)

Jamie McDaniel

May 11, 2008

May the memories held deep within your heart help to soothe your spirit at this difficult time. With deepest sympathy Jamal (Thomas) El-Ferkh cousin

Christie Bryant

May 10, 2008

Wanda,
I am so sorry for your loss. I know there is nothing I can say to ease your heartache at this time, but I want you to know that I am praying for you and your family. I am sorry I am unable to attend the services.

With love,
Christie
(Dorothy Creech's granddaughter)

Ken & Terri Moss, Meghan & Brynne Martin

May 10, 2008

The loss of a child is always unimaginable. We have been praying for you and your family since Thursday and will continue. May God give you peace in the days to come.

Anna Coppedge

May 10, 2008

Wanda, Craig, and Brooke,
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I still remember playing with Brittany and Brooke at the pool when I was little and seeing them both at church when I went with Grandma and Granddaddy. My thoughts and prayers are with you. God Bless!

Paula Willis O'Neal

May 10, 2008

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

Sharon Winstead

May 10, 2008

Hi. Your family doesn't know me but I talked with Brittany many times at Kerr Drugs when she worked there. She was beautuful, kind, and always so happy and full of life. I am so sorry for your loss and my prayers are with you all. I hope it helps you to know that Brittany was an amazing young woman that left a great impression on me. May God Bless All Of You.

Mrs. Lee

May 10, 2008

No words can console you at this time in your lives, with prayer and hope one day you can look back with peace that you brought into this world a child that was loving, caring and beautiful inside and out. She has touched so many lives in her young life time. You will become amazed at how many folks will come up to you and let you know. Of course you already know all of this but you will find comfort knowing others see this too. She will not be forgotten ever. Our hearts and prayers are with all the family at this most sad time. Most folks have not been thru the loss of a child and will not know what to say to you, just know they mean well, forgive them that they are only trying to comfort you in this time of loss. A Mom that knows your pain.

Peggy Jones

May 10, 2008

Wanda & Craig
There are no words to tell you how sorry I am to hear about Brittany. May God bless you and lift the pain off your shoulders. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Love you,

Audrey Huffman

May 10, 2008

Walter, Wanda, Brooke & Family

I am very sorry for your loss. May God be with you during this time. We all loved Brittany and her infectious smile! She will be greatly missed. Rest In Peace Sweetheart!

SUSAN HICKS

May 10, 2008

OUR SWEET BRITTANY. YOU WERE SO LOVED BY ALL.OUR HEARTS ARE BROKEN AND FILLED WITH SORROW.NO OCCASION WILL EVER BE THE SAME WITHOUT YOU.WE'LL PRAY FOR YOUR MOM,DAD,SISTER AND FAMILY EVERY DAY. WE LOVE AND MISS YOU. CRAVEN,SUSAN,ERIKA AND TARYN

Gaynell Pearce

May 10, 2008

Be Still

Be still like the grass on a melancholy summer day
Be still like desert shrub.

Be calm and you will hear your loved one speak, in the stillness, in the calm, their love resounds.

If you are still this promise I make, you will hear the voice of your loved one helping you along your way.

Pam Earp

May 10, 2008

Dear Graig, Wanda & Brooke,
I am so sorry for the loss of Brittany. Our family feels the loss too. We have watched her grow up all of the years. She would just light up the room when she walked in with her big smile because she always smiled. Jessica and I were sitting up talking about them being in Ga's, Youth, Christmas programs at BTC. Jessica was talking about Brittany teaching her to close the Cafe at Kerr Drug, them working together at Mudcats and helping Brittany at Wendell Swim Club. She has really touched Jessica and made a big impact on her life. She has touched a lot of lives and we have nothing but wonderful memories of her. Just know that we feel your loss and that your family is in our prayers. We love each one of you and if there anything that we can do please call us anytime. God Bless each one of you.

Amy Lewis

May 10, 2008

Craig, Wanda, and Brooke - We love you and will miss Brittany tremendously. Thank you for being a part of our lives and for allowing us to watch Brittany grow up into the beautiful young woman she was. May God bless and keep you through this difficult time. Brian and Amy Lewis

Kathy Lusk

May 10, 2008

We will miss you. You were such a good girl. May God be with your family through this sorrow. We love you.
Paul, Kathy, Crissy, and Kristin Lusk

martha thornton

May 10, 2008

My family sends our deepest thoughts and prayers to Brittany's family. May your wonderful memories stay with you forever of beautiful Brittany. Love, Jerry, Martha, Candler, and Hayley

Tammy and Joey Frost

May 10, 2008

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

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