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Alfred Nemy Obituary

Alfred Salim Nemy, of Raleigh, died Wednesday March 17, 2007 in Rex Hospital, Raleigh. He was 76 years old.
Born in New Kensington, PA on December 27, 1930, he was educated at Carnegie Institute of Technology (Carnegie Mellon) where he received his B.S., M.S. and Ph.D. in Metallurgy and Material Sciences. During his years at "Tech," he fell in love with and married Dorothy Gerlach, a marriage that lasted 52 years.
Nemy began his career in 1955 with a summer job at Batelle, the global science and technology enterprise in Columbus, OH. From there, he joined TRW, Inc. where he would spend the next 17 years supervising, among other things, the metals and material sciences lab for the development of jet airplane engines. Moving from scientific development into corporate management, TRW enrolled Nemy in a Harvard Business School intensive management program and promoted him to develop and foster a cooperative business partnership between TRW and Mitsubishi Japan, which lasted over five years.
In 1973, Nemy left TRW, to join Valve Castings Company as President of the steel foundry in Columbus, OH, creating a new operation for the production of investment- casting of industrial valves for parent company IU International.
Nemy joined Rockwell International's Flow Control Division in 1975 managing a plant in Raleigh, NC. With the success of this operation, Rockwell promoted Nemy to Vice-President and General Manager of the Rockwell Draper Division, a textiles branch of the conglomerate based out of Greensboro. He spent five years turning the division into a financially successful operation.
In 1980, Nemy was hired as Senior Vice-President of Operations for Precision Castparts Corporation in Portlant, OR, which returned him to his original field of metals and material sciences.
Following a three year stint with PCC, Nemy joined Keeler Brass Company in Grand Rapids, MI, the leading manufacturer of furniture hardware and automobile parts, where he spent six years leading the company as President and Chief Executive Officer. After successfully turning the company around, he planned to retire, but was recruited by Doehler-Jarvis/Farley Industries of Toledo, OH as Executive Vice- President and Chief Operating Officer of their plant which he ran for two years. Finally, in 1992, Nemy retired to North Carolina with his wife.
He is survived by his wife, Dorothy Gerlach Nemy of Raleigh; his sister, Selma Hardy of New Kensington, PA; his brother, Philip (Sally) Nemy of Monroeville, PA.
Also surviving are four children, Tom Nemy, Dr. Joan (Joe) Meehan Colatuno, Philip (Kathy) Nemy, and Karen (John) George; seven grandchildren, Kaitlyn, Kelly, Kedrin, and Emily Meehan, Natalie and Teddy George, and Madeleine Grace Zotnowski-Nemy.
Mr. Nemy was preceded in death by his parents, Salim and Azeezy Shamey Nemy; his sister, Edna Nemy; his brother-in-law, James Hardy; his niece, Cherie Nemy.
A celebration of his life will be held April 28, 2007 in Raleigh, NC. For details of the celebration, please contact the family at 919-676-2060.
Arrangements are by the Cremation Society of the Carolinas.

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Published by The News & Observer on Mar. 20, 2007.

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Amy Persons

March 30, 2007

I was so sad to hear of Mr. Nemy's passing. We were always happy to see his smiling face at the pharmacy! He will be greatly missed by us all.

Clare Reese

March 28, 2007

Dear Dorothy and Family,

Please accept my sincere sympathy and prayer at this time. I have such vivid and rich memories of the relationship that Al and Tom shared, along with their good friend, Gib.

God's blessing on you all!

Jim and Joyce Leisy

March 26, 2007

Dorothy, we were very saddened to hear about the passing of Al. AL was a blessing to us all. I always looked forward to him stopping his car by our yard to share a quick hello and a smile. We enjoyed our friendship during the years and have many fond memories of you both. We look forward to seeing you again. Our many prayers and thoughts are with you and your family during this time.
God bless you,
Jim and Joyce

Ted Corey

March 24, 2007

Dorothy and Family,
Al was a huge credit to the family and a personal source of inspiration.
I miss him terribly.

Kim Murray

March 21, 2007

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.
Mr.Nemy was a special person and loved by many.He will be greatly missed.

March 20, 2007

Dorothy, God's peace be with you and your family! I look forward to seeing you soon.
Love,
Susan DiNunzio

Larry and Carol Lintner

March 20, 2007

Dorothy and family,
We were saddened to learn of Al's death, but we are so glad we had the privilege to come to know him and your mother in Raleigh. What a wonderful contribution he made to so many people and companies throughout this country by using and sharing his knowledge of not only science but marketing as well. May he rest in peace and may you find comfort in recalling a husband, father, and grandfather who deeply loved his family.

Jenny Palmer

March 20, 2007

Al helped me buy the only car I've ever bought from a dealership. Al was hilarious--FULL of good-natured teasing. One of the stories I always heard was his restaurant classic response. When the server came by and asked how things were, Al invariable put on a stony face and said "It's just terrible!" Of course the server's response would be to rush to see what to do about the situation, but Al didn't let them hang for long. He had a great big smile that clued them in to his joke, and he would let it shine, just like in the picture you selected for the obituary.

One of the reasons I ended up in NC is because I knew I'd have Al and Dorothy to turn to when I needed help or company. I hope you all know I am there for you to do the same.

My heart and thoughts are with you.

Luis & Beth Dolan-Remesar

March 20, 2007

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Roberta Miller-Haraway

March 20, 2007

Dorothy,
You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

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