Daryl F. Gates

Daryl F. Gates

Daryl Gates Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Apr. 16, 2010.
LOS ANGELES (AP) - Daryl F. Gates, the polarizing former police chief whose 14-year tenure ended amid widespread criticism over his department's response to the city's deadly 1992 riots, died Friday. He was 83.

Gates died at his Newport Beach home, according to a police department statement.

Current Police Chief Charlie Beck announced earlier this year that Gates was seriously ill. A February blog posting attributed to his brother, Steve Gates, said he had bladder cancer that had spread to a bone near his hip.

Gates was a "one-in-a-million human being," Beck said in a statement. "He inspired others to succeed and, in doing so, changed the landscape of law enforcement around the world."

"He's the end of an era at the LAPD," Joe Hicks, a former executive director of the city's Human Relations Commission, told KNX NewsRadio. "I came to respect him a great deal ... I'm really saddened that the chief has died. I came to believe he was a good man who did what he thought was right."

A tart-tongued career cop with a short fuse and a penchant for making controversial statements, Gates was a flashpoint for controversy long before the riots that broke out after four white police officers were acquitted of most charges in the beating of black motorist Rodney King.

He once told a congressional committee that drug users should be shot.

Although often at odds with civil rights activists, the mayor and other political figures, Gates was well-liked by rank-and-file police officers and could be charming when he was in his element. He was responsible for numerous police department successes that came to be overlooked when he was forced into early retirement after the riots.

He was credited with developing the policing plan that brought off the 1984 Los Angeles Olympics with not so much as a traffic jam, let alone serious criminal disturbances. He also created the department's popular Drug Abuse Resistance Education, or D.A.R.E., program for youth.

As a member of the Police Department's command staff in 1972, he formed Los Angeles' first Special Weapons and Tactics Team or SWAT, an achievement he pointed to with pride throughout his life.

He also shut down one of the police department's intelligence units in 1983 after learning officers were using it to spy on the American Civil Liberties Union and other organizations.

Minority groups several times called for his resignation after incendiary comments they interpreted as racist. As early as 1982, Gates came under fire for saying more blacks died than whites during the use of carotid chokeholds because "the veins or arteries do not open up as fast as they do on normal people."

Forensic experts said there was no such difference between races and a black community leader said the only reason blacks died more frequently was because the chokehold was used on them more often than on whites.

Gates later apologized.

In 1991, when a policewoman was killed in the line of duty, Gates labeled her accused assailant as "an El Salvadoran drunk who doesn't belong here."

Gates' police career began to unravel with the 1991 beating of King, which was videotaped by a bystander after King was pulled over for speeding. Audiotapes of the officers making racist remarks about the incident were released and the videotape of the prolonged beating televised.

Although he criticized the officers' actions, Gates dismissed them as an aberration. Critics said they represented a pattern of abuse directed at minorities that had been allowed to flourish for years under Gates' watch.

Under pressure to resign, Gates announced his retirement in the months following the beating. He was just two months short of leaving when the four officers were acquitted on April 29, 1992, a verdict that triggered one of the worst outbreaks of civil unrest in Los Angeles history.

Four days of rioting throughout the sprawling city left 55 people dead, more than 2,000 injured and property damage totaling $1 billion. Entire blocks of the city were reduced to cinders by fires the rioters had set.

Gates came under intense criticism from the mayor, fire chief and others who said his officers were slow to respond to the violence. Mayor Tom Bradley said Gates had "brought Los Angeles to the brink of disaster just to satisfy his own ego."

Gates shrugged off the criticism, calling his department's response to the riots "beautiful" and blaming underlings for what errors he did acknowledge. An investigative panel later faulted him for failing to properly prepare the department for such trouble.

After retiring, Gates worked briefly as a radio talk-show host and later as a consultant for various companies.

He also wrote the memoir "Chief: My Life in the LAPD."

Years after his retirement, he was still responding to his critics.

"There were two beatings. There was one of Rodney King, and then there was the beating of the Los Angeles Police Department. And that one lasted a whole year," he told The Associated Press in 2002.

He called the rioters "hoodlums" and said they were out to loot and steal with little concern for Rodney King.

He was no more forgiving of politicians, the media, police reformers or King himself, whom he called "a no-good S.O.B. parolee who has never been able to find himself ever since."

A month before he retired, Gates led his last Los Angeles Police Academy graduation ceremony. The crowd cheered him, guards saluted and a band played "Swinging Gates," a song written in his honor.

Gates' 43-year career with the LAPD began in 1949, not long after a two-year stint with the Navy during World War II.

A Glendale native and University of Southern California graduate, he was mentored by legendary Chief William Parker. He became chief in 1978.

Gates' personal life, like his career, was sometimes tumultuous. His marriage ended in divorce and his son struggled for years with drug abuse, suffering an overdose during the 1992 riots.

In addition to his brother, who is a retired LAPD captain, Gates is survived by two children.


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December 11, 2024

These are great memories, for a great man. He should be remembered solely for the good works he did for the LAPD, and his community, in his professional and personal life. One, a sad note, Lowell Scott Gates, commonly known as Scott, passed away the week before Thanksgiving. He, too, was a great guy, and a good friend, whom will be sorely missed. Condolences to the entire Gates family, and especially to his surviving sister, Debbie Gates.

Doug Iversen

November 26, 2021

Chief: You have been freed from the bonds of this earth for more than 20 years, yet your legacy will live on for decades to come. Your leadership and strength will always serve as a platform from with other leaders will come into service. May you rest in peace knowing that you will always be remembered by the thousands of men and women who have will become America's Peacekeepers.

Gene R. Trujillo, Jr & Family

January 12, 2011

To the Gates Family, I had the honor of meeting Chief Gates three times during my tenure as a DARE Officer. He was a special man. My sincere condolences to the entire family. May he rest in peace and continue to assist in bringing peace and safety to heaven and earth.

(Matthew 5:4) . . .Happy are those who mourn, since they will be comforted.

mdh John 5:28,29

September 15, 2010

To the Gates Family,
I am sorry for the loss of your loved one. In a society that repeatedly bows to the dictates of what is popular at that time, Daryl was firm for his views on what constituted law, and was sharply criticized and ridiculed for them.
While on earth Jesus's opposers ridiculed and even put him to death. Yet, Jesus left all (including his opposers) a model to follow to gain everlasting life 1 Peter 3:18: Why, even Christ died once for all time concerning sins, a righteous [person] for unrighteous ones, that he might lead YOU to God, he being put to death in the flesh, but being made alive in the spirit. May you be comforted by that hope during this sad time...

John Fiedler

May 20, 2010

A true leader during tough times. We should have more like him. You will never be forgotton.....

Harold P Boushell

May 10, 2010

Please accept my deepest sympathies.

April 26, 2010

Rest in Peace Chief Gates. Thank you for your service.
Judith Horvath Dinco

Joe Smith

April 26, 2010

Need more like Chief Gates, good police officer

A LEO

April 26, 2010

REST IN PEACE CHIEF, YOU ARE A TRUE AMERICAN HERO.LAW ENFORCEMENT IS A THANKLESS JOB,DONE BY THOSE WHO WANT TO MAKE A DIFFERANCE.

Waller Waterfield

April 25, 2010

My deepest condolonces. "A True American" God Bless.

Floyd Lucas

April 24, 2010

From one Chief to another: Rest in Peace my friend.

Christian Hunt

April 24, 2010

Chief, thank you for your wisdom and advice & for all of your outstanding service as a LE officer. I will never forget our meeting and will take the words we shared & share them w/the younger officers of today!!

alejandro carrizo

April 23, 2010

FROM PFA (POLICIA FEDERAL ARGENTINA)

HI, AM OFFICER Alejandro carrizo from Buenos Aires Argentina... and very sorry for this terrible lost. rest in peace chieft gates.

Tim Toborg

April 23, 2010

God Bless You Chief Gates, Finally your in a place where God won't need Policemen. Your family and friends should be proud of you! See you on the other side, Brother.

Jon DeGenova

April 22, 2010

We will miss you. You were a Great Police Chief when you were the head of the Los Angeles Police Department. Rest in Peace

Jay Vredenburg

April 22, 2010

God Bless Chief Gates and his family. I never met him but he inspired a young police officer from upstate New York to love the job and the life. Rest in Peace Sir.

Beverly Alcorn-Poon

April 22, 2010

He protected and served with integrity and honor. I will miss his humor.

"Family Farewell Picnic" Tee Shirt

April 22, 2010

Gift To Me His Last Days With LAPD

April 22, 2010

Summer 1985

April 22, 2010

April 21, 2010

Great Police Chief , wish we had more like him . I salute you

Bob Miranda

April 21, 2010

Met him at a party in San Juan Capistrano back in 1996. He seemed like a real nice guy. May he rest in peace.

Cal De Knikker

April 21, 2010

Fair winds and following seas, Chief......Semper Fortis.


Cal De Knikker

E. Diaz

April 21, 2010

I was sadden by the news of Chief Gates passing. I believe he was the best CHIEF in LAPD history and will always be the BEST. I salute the Chief, rest in peace Sir.

Jerry Christian

April 21, 2010

Rest in Peace, Brother Gates

Beth (Choquette) Moncourtois

April 21, 2010

As a daughter of an LAPD fallen officer, Chief Gates holds a special place in my heart. He was an amazing man who was there for my family. He will never be forgotten.

sal

April 21, 2010

Sorry for you loss;
In the book of Job he say's ' If a man should die can he live again. You will call and I will answer.' God will resurrect all who have died to have another chance at life. Life the way it was meant to be.

price

April 21, 2010

Sympathy and sadness but with that comes hope as the words of Rev 21:3,4 helps us to see.

george feliciano

April 21, 2010

to a MAN who said it the way it was!! rest in peace my brother.

Chief Gates and I at the International D.A.R.E. Training Conference in Orlando, Florida, 2009

April 20, 2010

Brittany

April 20, 2010

I met Chief Gates this past summer in Orlando, Fl at the D.A.R.E. International Trainging Conference and I had the priviledge to dance with him a couple dances while at the conference. He was a very nice man and I am proud to say that I met him and that I am also helping to spread the word of not using or abusing drugs as I am Maryland's Youth Advisory Board Member on the National D.A.R.E. America Youth Advisory Board. Once again, he was a very honorable man and I am so very sorry for your loss!

Frank Crescentini

April 20, 2010

Once he wrote, "will I ever become a dumb cop" No he turn out to be the best Chief for the LAPD and for the City of Los Angeles May God Bless you Chief.
Ornella and Frank Crescentini (Las Vegas, Nevada)

April 20, 2010

My sincerest condolences to the Gates Family. I had the distinct pleasure of meeting you & playing a round of golf along side of you. I knew that you were held in high esteem amongst all law enforcement throughout the U S & World for being the Pioneer of SWAT, & instrumental in the DARE program. You will always be remembered as a man of honor & conviction & I am honored that I had the privilege of meeting you. You also played one heck of a round of golf Sir. May God Bless You & hope to play another round of golf with you in Heaven. AJ, Ontario, California

AL "AJ" Johnson

April 20, 2010

My sincerest condolences to the Gates Family. I had the distinct pleasure of meeting you & playing a round of golf along side of you. I knew that you were held in high esteem amongst all law enforcement throughout the U S & World for being the Pioneer of SWAT, & instrumental in the DARE program. You will always be remembered as a man of honor & conviction & I am honored that I had the privilege of meeting you. You also played one heck of a round of golf Sir. May God Bless You & hope to play another round of golf with you in Heaven. AJ, Ontario, California

1988 Merit Awards

Terry Whittaker

April 20, 2010

Chief Gates inspired many to reach a higher standard; to serve our fellow man. Los Angeles is a better place in which to live because of Gates' leadership.

We who knew him personally are fully confident he will find rest and peace in the room the Lord has prepared for him in heaven.

Dean

April 20, 2010

Sorry for your loss he was a credit to his badge

katherine Epie

April 20, 2010

God Bless you Chief Gates.I know you are now Rejoicing in Heaven. My deepest prayers and condolences to the Gates family.

April 20, 2010

I am sorry to hear about the death of your love one. May the "God of comfort, who comfort us in all our tribulation bring you comfort at this time."(2Cor.1:3,4)

Mary Ann C Golden

April 19, 2010

What a cop.We all loved you so much.Sorry for your families loss.I have had three police officers in my family.All in Missouri.Nothing like a COP!! Best career ever even though they don't get paid anything for all their time and trouble.God Bless you CHIEF!!

April 19, 2010

WHAT A GREAT MAN , HE WAS A LEADER, HE WILL BE MISS [ KANSAS]

Marty Wojick

April 19, 2010

First and formost, my sympathies and prayers are with the Gates family. I was privileged to met Chief Gates before he became Chief at my lieutenant's Christmas party, 1973. Even then, I found him opinionated and outspoken. I was a clerk-typist in medical records and was impressed with his being blunt even though you might not have agreed with him. People like that are more trustworthy than the ones that tell you what they think you want to hear and then do just the opposite. All that knew him may not have agreed with him, but they had to respect him because he fought for what he believed was right. LA was a much safer place thanks to him than it is today. We all should take a lesson in standing up for what we believe in and I for one was glad to serve nine years at LAPD under Chief Gates' leadership. It was the best job I ever had. He may not have always been right, but he always did what he felt was right. That is rare in any age. Thank you for the D.A.R.E. and S.W.A.T. programs, they set the first high standers of education and police protection. R.I.P. Chief Gates.

D. Mounce

April 19, 2010

I know only of Chief Gates from being involved with the D.A.R.E program developed under his watch and from reading his book. I have the utmost respect for what he did for law enforcement and the L.A.P.D. From my point of view the L.A.P.D. is a department to be envied because of Chief Gates.
A leader will always receive criticism. If not, the person isn't doing they're job. Thanks Chief for doing your job!
May God Bless your family, friends, and the L.A.P.D.

mike

April 19, 2010

Gates is an American hero and he should be remembered as such.

Chief Gates inspired many to reach high - 1988 Merit Awards

April 19, 2010

April 19, 2010

My deepest condolence to the Gates family and friends.... May the God of all tender mercies be with the family as they grieve (2Corinthian 1:3,4

Pam Woods

April 19, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers to your family...

Laura

April 19, 2010

R.I.P.

April 19, 2010

What a fantastic person who stood up for his morals and beliefs! He served his community and country well. May he rest in peace.

Karla

April 19, 2010

What a fantastic person who stood up for his morals and beliefs! He served his community and country well. May he rest in peace.

KEN&MARY O'DANIEL

April 19, 2010

WE ARE SENDING OUR LOVE,PRAYERS,&CONDOLENCES TO THE GATES FAMILY&ALL WHO KNEW MR. GATES.

Fred Wolff

April 19, 2010

One of the best, if not THE best. You will be missed. My thoughts and prayers are with Chief Gates' family.

April 19, 2010

A good old fashioned 'Copper' admired by many in the U.K.....R.I.P. Sir.

Marc

April 19, 2010

Chief, the loneliest job in the world.

May you find your just reward as you are welcomed in the halls of heaven.

I know your there, you already squared up the Hell that L.A. had become.

I salute you, Chief. I hope to shake your hand, when my call to post comes.

You truly are in the City of Angels....

Respectfully,

A retired fellow of the Badge

April 19, 2010

A hero to many, a cop all officers should look up to, we can't please all, look under cop his picture should be above. Butch [ Gallatin TN ]

April 18, 2010

Thoughts and prayers with the family. He was a great Police Chief. Lori

Mark Drennen

April 18, 2010

RIP Chief Daryl Gates. You were a great Police Chief and an honorable man. One of the greatest law officers in American history, He was highly respected by the officer he commanded and many law abiding, tax paying citizens.

Dave Maple

April 18, 2010

A damn good cop

April 18, 2010

Truly he was "AN OFFICER AND A GENTLEMAN"..Pat M..Danville, Va.

Dorothy Douglas

April 18, 2010

A finer Police Chief never lived! You will be missed. My thoughts and prayers are with his family.

Frannie Butler

April 18, 2010

RIP Chief Daryl Gates. You were a great Police Chief and an honorable man. I only knew of you, but what I knew I had come to admire you. My condolences to your family.

KEVIN SMITH

April 18, 2010

One of the greatest law officers in American history. He didn't fall for political correctness and that is why he is so respected by his troops and many law abiding, tax paying citizens.

Roger Dickson Sgt.(Houston PD) retired

April 18, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are with the Gates family during this time. God Bless you Chief.

Chris Price

April 18, 2010

I was 8 years old in 1977 and I read an article about you and the Dodgers. I wrote you a letter because I was a big Dodger fan too. You sent me a set of Dodger baseball cards and I have treasured them all these years. I became a police officer myself. I admired you a great deal. My condolences to your family. They have lost someone very special.

Patricia Curtis Ostler

April 18, 2010

Take comfort in knowing people from everywhere remember your father, husband,friend as a good hard working and fair police chief, he did California and our society alot of good.. God bless his family . may peace be with you everyday of your lives and may you find comfort in knowing he is at peace in heaven...

Kristina Bailey

April 18, 2010

To Family OF Daryl Gates:

I have just recently heard that you lost Daryl and this must be a hard time for y'all. The bible provides comfort for times like this. At Revelation 21:4 it says, "He will wipe out every tear from their eyes and death will be no more neither will mourning nor outcry nor pain be anymore." This scripture is very comforting to know because it provides hope for the future.

KAREN LONGO

April 18, 2010

FOR ALL THE YEARS I LIVED IN LA WITH MY FAMILY, I ALWAYS FELT SAFE WITH YOU AS THE POLICE CHIEF! YOU WERE THE BEST LA EVER HAD! RIP!

Rodney

April 18, 2010

RIP

Scott Zeller

April 18, 2010

A true "legend" in Law Enforcement. Your book was an excellent account of life in the LAPD and what you endured over an amazing career. Rest in Peace Sir.

D M

April 18, 2010

RIP.. I lived in LA from '76-'96 so got to experience alot during those years. I appreciate the hard work to keep us safe....and for the DARE program. I worked with your son for a few years in a drug rehab program and saw alot of progress thanks to the program. May you help the Angels protect Heaven. God Bless you with rest and your family during this difficult time ...sympathy to your family..

PAT ROBINSON

April 18, 2010

MAY GOD BE WITH YOUR FAMILY.

April 18, 2010

good bye

Rob Hunter

April 18, 2010

Chief Gates was a fine man who served during turbulent times.

Pat

April 17, 2010

We need more leaders like you Mr. Gates. Rest in Peace as you take your place in eternity.

Darrell Cook

April 17, 2010

"Take no guff, give no slack, hook-em and book-em and don't look back". Thanks for all you did Chief.

Patrick Howard

April 17, 2010

It was my very distinct prvilege to know and work with Chief Gates, as a fellow General Manager for the City of Los Angeles. He not only was a charismatic leader, who had the courage of his convictions, but he was always willing to step forward as a leader among his fellow GM's. Despite the tremendous responsibility of administering the LAPD, Chief Gates readily and willingly accepted the role as President of our management association, which was often at odds with the City's political leadership. I consider it an honor to have known and worked with the "Chief."

Patrick D. Howard
Director
Bureau of Street Maintenance (1987-97)
City of Los Angeles

April 17, 2010

rip

clay pruett

April 17, 2010

Your leadership in lawenforcement will be missed and your handling of the LAPD was wonderful. We need more leaders like you ijn lawenforcement.
clay pruett city worker street dept.

Loyd Boykin

April 17, 2010

I did law enforcement work years ago. I could not put up with all the politics, or false accusations toward police officers. There are bad apples in every line of work. But most officers are concerned, hard working, dedicated people. I did not know Daril Gates, but I beleive he told it like it was. His family has my deepest sympathy.

LARRY FORD, LAFD ret. '73-'93

April 17, 2010

Rest in Peace Chief, You've earned it! You served the City of L.A.,and your Dept. well. Condolences to Family, Friends, and LAPD.

LARRY FORD

April 17, 2010

Thanks for your years of service to LAPD,and the citizens of L.A. You are a giant among men Chief Gates. RIP. You will never be replaced. Condolences to Family and Friends, and LAPD. LARRY FORD LAFD ret. '73-'93

Linda Murphy

April 17, 2010

Chief Gates Family,
I visited LAPD one summer; it was a well run operation thanks to Chief Gates. My wonderful late brother-in-law Daniel Lund was one of the early
SWAT members. You did a great job Mr. Gates, and I admire your "telling it like it was". We need more like you today. The "PC" in this world has made it tough to tolerate. You deserve your rest in Heaven...........say "hi" to Dan for me, we still miss him so much.
Our sympathy to your family and police department.
Linda Murphy - a Police Officer "Mom"

Brother Lee

April 17, 2010

I thought alot of Chief Gates of L.A. He had to deal with alot out there. Wish we had a police chief like him in Macon,GA God bless his family.

April 17, 2010

May you rest in peace now and forevermore. You were an icon, Chief.

Akron, OH

April 17, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are with the Gates Family in their time of grief.
At times like these, drawing close to God in prayer is what will "sustain
you." (Psalm 55:22) I hope this will bring the family a measure of comfort.

A Friend
(Chicago, IL)

April 17, 2010

Rest In Peace,Chief Gates.
I professionally benefited from some of your organizational policies. Thank you very much.
Robert Arnold,retired,San Francisco,Calif.

robert arnold

April 17, 2010

Rest In Peace,Chief Gates.
I professionally benefited from some of your organizational policies. Thank you very much.
Robert Arnold,retired,San Francisco,Calif.

April 17, 2010

To Scott & the rest of your family,

You lived with us briefly in the early 80s & I will never forget the motorcycle ride up Decker Canyon.
We send our most sincere condolences & will keep positive thoughts for all of you. Help each other.

Becky
XO
OX

Art Lahote

April 17, 2010

You kept us safe when you were our Chief during many difficult times. Now you are in a better and safer place and will always be remembered. My sincere best wishes to your loved ones.......and a "big thank your".

April 17, 2010

REST IN PEACE

lisa jarrell

April 17, 2010

thank you for great job in la his legacy will live long after his passing.

Mary Lou Ryan

April 17, 2010

Rest in peace Chief Gates. Your work on earth is done. Rest in peace.

larry Brixey

April 17, 2010

Chief Gates, you will always be in our thoughts and prayers. You did a great job with the LAPD and will forever be remembered for a job well done! May you rest in peace.

John Delaney

April 17, 2010

I mourn the passing of Chief Gates. I had an opportunity to meet the chief 25 years ago in L.A. and I found him to be a very warm and engaging man and someone I would have like to have gotten to know better. I never found him to have the horns that some of his detractors believe him to have, but I found that he was a professional man doing a fantastic job when everybody is against you. His legacy will live long after his passing.

Jasmine

April 17, 2010

Dear family of Daryl,
I am terribly sorry to hear about the loss of your loss. Please find comfort in the words here at Rev.21:4:"HE WILL WIPE EVERY TEAR FROM THEIR EYES..AND DEATH WILL BE NO MORE. NEITHER WILL MOURNING, NOR OUTCRY, NOR PAIN BE ANYMORE.THE FORMER THINGS HAVE PASSED AWAY". I really hope that this scripture gives you all comfort that you all will soon be able to see your dear Daryl again.

April 17, 2010

Say what you will about him, the man was loved by many people and will be missed by many. He angered many, but achieved a lot in rising through the ranks.

However, no matter how accomplished someone is, they cannot escape man's greatest enemy: death. Death hurts because we weren't created to live only a few years and then die.

We know that there is someone even more powerful than death and that he will soon act. We have the power of the resurrection hope thanks to Jesus Christ. We forward to the time when he will reunite families who have lost loved ones in death.

April 17, 2010

Thanks Chief for a great job, in a job that you can
"Never" be right to everyone!

Retired Police Sgt
Cape Cod.

Terry J. Clark

April 17, 2010

Chief Gates was a super person.

Thomas Grube

April 17, 2010

To the family of Chief Daryl F. Gates please accept our deepest condolences on his passing,may he rest in peace.From F.O.P. lodge #10 Ocean County Toms River New Jersey Emailed by Former Chief of Police Thomas Grube Island Heights Police Deptment N.J.08732

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