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Gary Grafe Obituary
Born in Union City, Mr. Grafe lived there for 19 years and then in South Jersey before moving to Little Falls in 1995. He was a mail carrier for the U.S. Post Office, Lincoln Park, for 25 years.
Services were Friday at the Festa Memorial Funeral Home, Totowa. In lieu of flowers, donations may be sent to the American Heart Association, 7272 Greenville Ave., Dallas, Texas 75231.
Mr. Grafe also is survived by his wife, the former Marietta Petrozzelo; his other children, Jamie Grafe of Ocean Grove, Casey Grafe of Point Pleasant, and Samantha Carter of Little Falls; his sister, Kathleen McSweeney of Parlan; and a grandson.
Memories and Condolences
for Gary Grafe
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David Adelhock
February 16, 2013
We were in total shock to hear of Gary's passing. Sadly,we did not see Gary in awhile but have the best memories of him. Dave went to high school with Gary and he was an old/good friend. He was so much fun to be with and both of us enjoyed all the great times we spent together in the Hiller years and thereafter.
Our deepest sympathy to Gary's children and family. He will be sadly missed.
Regards,
Mary and Dave Adelhock
February 15, 2013
My sympathy to the family, went to high school with Gary, also has been my mailman in Lincoln Park, great guy, funny,good friend, will be missed, may he rest in peace, sincerely John Waddilove
February 15, 2013
My sincere sympathy goes out to your entire family. Gary was my brother's Brother- in -law.I will pray for him and your family. May he rest in peace.
Love,
Peggy Tassiello
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