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Nick Erfle Obituary
One hour later, the suspect was shot and killed by another officer.
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Jerry Erfle
July 4, 2020
Nicki my dear baby brother miss you everyday, Today being the 4th of July I know how you loved fireworks. But remembering you also for protecting this country from evil. Love and respect always , looking forward to the day God brings us together again for our long hug Brother Jerry
Bob Rodarme
September 18, 2018
Thinking about you today Nick, as I often do. Taken too soon.
Bob Rodarme
Colorado Springs CO
Jerry Erfle
September 18, 2016
Miss you my dear brother love you always miss your dearly !! My heart aches daily love always. Brother Jerry
Gerald Erfle
November 19, 2014
Love you Nicki. Miss you tell I see you again!
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Laurie Cruickshank
August 22, 2014
Miss You
corinne beasley
July 23, 2013
I have never in my 18 years of life been aware of this officer nicki, his death, or grave. However tonight July 22 2013 on a full moon my husband, a friend, and myself ended up in the cemetery where Nicki rests. While we were near his grave and memorial bench I told my husband and friend, "I'm drawn to this grave stone!" Pointed then walked straight to his grave... when I read the stone I was frozen and began to cry. Today would have been his 39th birthday. I immediately told my husband and friends something bad happened to him he was a young police officer, someone killed him. And that's when I looked up his story, and this is the only place I found to share my story. I had to let someone who might have known him know about my experience. I sat on nicks bench talking to him and we all wished him a happy birthday. I hope you are at peace nick, and I hope you're loved ones will find peace as well.
K.C. Lehr
November 30, 2012
To my fellow brother... I think of your service, your sacrifice and of your family often. "Honor. Pride. These things are key. WE the Class of 323."
Jerry Erfle
May 3, 2012
The tears still flow wishing you were here. Nicki! The love for you will never leave my Heart! Wish i could hold you and laugh with you again. Love and miss always. Brother Jerry
Sherri Meikle
December 23, 2010
Checking in to remember and thank a True Hero and Angel. Thinking of all who love and miss him. Blessings...
August 27, 2010
To the family: May the comfort from family and friends continue to strengthen you, and may you find comfort in the words found in the Holy Scriptures: "And he will wipe out every tear from their eyes, and death will be no more, neither will mourning nor outcry nor pain be anymore. The former things have passed away."
LARRY R. USRY, SR.
August 2, 2010
SAVANNAH, GA POLICE DEPT/RETIRED
January 3, 2010
Please know that Nick is still remembered even as the days pass into this new year. He is in our thoughts often & sorely missed.
Family of Phx PD brother
Sherri Meikle
October 6, 2009
Still remembering Nick all the time. Grateful for his service. Still sad for his, and his familie's sacrifice. Most grateful for his friendship to my brother and protecting his life.
Thank you forever. Blessings...
sister of partner
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July 24, 2009
Nick, I have a lot of good memories from when we worked together. I think of you all the time. May God watch over Julie and the boys.
Your service to your fellow officers and community will never be forgotten.
stacy erfle
December 31, 2008
happy news year day
baby brother
jerry
December 21, 2008
thoughts of you everyday my dear brother. Nicki your smile and laugh is played in my heart daily.Love you tell i see again! merry Chistmas Jerry
tracey
September 18, 2008
thinking of Nick today, also am thinking of Julie, Collin, and Brody. I hope you guys are doing ok. I know that there is a lot of others thinking of you and wishing you well today as well.
Ralph Erfle
March 23, 2008
My deepest sympathy to the Erfle family on this tragic loss. There are several Erfle's including myself with Ottawa Police Service in Canada. We didn't hear about this tragedy until recently and unfortunately never knew Nick.
March 12, 2008
u always will my hero.
February 14, 2008
I never could have dreamed how 5 months could feel like 5 hours or 5 years all at the same time. I still hear your laughter and feel your presence as I continue my watch. Watch over us all Nick, the pain is unbearable at times. Continue to rest in peace pal. your friend forever cm7847 (703E)
January 1, 2008
Happy New Year to you and your family. You are missed by everyone.
Sean Qualy
December 17, 2007
To the Erfle Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Just heard about this tragic event in an Alumni Newsletter from Alexandria Technical College (MN). Nick served his department well. From a fellow 1998 ATC graduate.
Mel Erfle
December 13, 2007
As the geneologist for the Erfle family, it is with great regret that I must add the date of death for this fine young and well respected police officer. My sincere condolences to his wife and children.
Maria Prom Ramthun
November 20, 2007
Dear Julie and boys,
I think and keep you in my prayers every day. Words can't express how sad I am for you. I hope you are surrounded by friends and family this Thanksgiving. Remember how much your family loves you!
Dan Prom
October 30, 2007
Julie,
God bless you and your family at this very difficult time.Our deepest condolences.
Love,
Dan, Jodi, Adam, and Maddie
Heather Eakin
October 28, 2007
My thoughts and prayers go out to your family at this difficult time.
Family of a Police Officer
October 18, 2007
My deepest sympathy goes out to you and your children. I know that God will carry you through these rough seas. Please know that you are in my prayers and thoughts.
Scott & Barb (Risovi) Granger
October 18, 2007
We are so sorry to hear about your loss. God took a great guy home. Our prayers will continue for you and your families.
Cynthia Dupra
October 14, 2007
There are no words to express such a loss. Please know that you and your family are in our thoughts and prays.
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Linda Martarella
October 13, 2007
My prayers and thoughts are with you Nicki. It was my son, a Phx Fire Fighter, who became a close friend to you during that tragic day. Our hearts will be forever touched by the courage of those working together side by side. You are truly an angel who now looks over my son. For that..I love you!
drawing by niece Michaela Erfle
October 11, 2007
drawing by niece Colleen Erfle
October 11, 2007
joe volkay
October 9, 2007
My thoughts and prayers are with Nick and his family!!! I am with the Probation department and I know how dangerous a job it could be. God Bless Nick!!
Jalene
October 9, 2007
Julie --
Unbelievable. Unacceptable. Unsurpassed strength and love to you and the boys.
Steve Robinson
October 9, 2007
We are so grateful for the service and commitment of police officers, please accept our deepest condolences.
Jo Ann Henry
October 9, 2007
My deepest sympathy. My thoughts and prayers are with you. XOXO Jo Ann
Hoffman Estates Police Department
October 9, 2007
The Erfle family will be in our thoughts and prayers - from your brothers and sisters in blue - Hoffman Estates Police Department.
The Mann Family
October 9, 2007
God Bless the entire Erfle family. I heard of Nick's story here in Chicago, IL and he seems to be the epitome of the word hero.
Joanna Hollick
October 9, 2007
My deepest condolences to your family. God Bless you. I will keep you in my prayers.
Jennifer Eshelman
October 9, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.
Sales Family
October 9, 2007
I am sorry for your loss and I hope for the best for you and your children. I will keep you in our prayers.
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Ken Anderson
October 3, 2007
I just wanted to say that my family is praying for you and your children. Sincerely Ken and family
DCSO MN
October 2, 2007
Candace & Valgene Kreiter
October 2, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers are extended to you and your sons, sisters and brothers of Nicki-He was our neighbor out on the farm by Heaton. I always knew him as the little guy who drove the 3 wheeler thru the ditches-Always full of life. I can't imagine your pain. Please just realize that God will carry you through
Cory Olson
October 1, 2007
My deepest sympathy goes out to your entire family. I gaduated from Alex with Nick. The world is a lesser place without Nick.
Robert Perrin
October 1, 2007
My heartfelt thoughts to Nick's family and to his fellow officers.
Freda's Daughter
October 1, 2007
I go to the cemetery every Saturday to my mother's grave. She died just before Christmas last year. It is hard. Your husband is buried not very far from my mother in the Garden of Devotion. I was so sad when I saw his grave this Saturday. I know I will be sad every Saturday not only for the loss of my mother but for the loss you have suffered. Mother had lived her life span but Officer Erfle still had so much to give, so much to live for. There is an old Irish saying - "Grieve not too long that he is gone, but rejoice forever that he was." My heart goes out to you and your sons. God bless always.
Heidi Hakanson
October 1, 2007
My sympathy goes out to all of you. I went to High School with Julie and Nikki... my heart and prayers go out to his family and his two little boys and his wife... he will be so greatly missed... he was one guy that if I was having a bad day in HS he could always make me feel better and make me laugh... You will be greatly missed Nikki.... God Bless You!!!
Sherrilynn Capritta
October 1, 2007
My prayers go out to the Erfle Family and Friends. May the Lord Bless and Comfort you during this time.
gail zimmerman
September 30, 2007
my deepest sympathy to his family and department, god as a peaceofficer in heaven his department has the best . what this man as gone though is unbelievable he is a hero.
Julie, Jacob & Jeremiah Erfle
September 30, 2007
Our deepest sympathy to the Nick Erfle Family and the Phoenix Police Department. You are all in our prayers. Remember that Nick is now with God and God is with all of you.
Shawna Frisby
September 28, 2007
My deepest sympathies go out to you and you and your family. Losing a spouse and a parent are very hard.My children and I experienced this two years ago. My husband is buried on the other side of the tower. Cherish the memories you have and may God Bless you and your family.
Jo Capritta
September 28, 2007
Dear Erfle Family....I am a former resident of Phoenix and happened to be in town when this tragedy happened. May we never forget who Officer Erfle was and may you and your family always know that he will be remembered for all the years ahead. May his legacy live on with his young sons as they grow and with his family, friends and all the people of Phoenix who respect and honor these officers for what they do. May God Bless all of you in this time of great sorrow and know that the love of the people of Phoenix will always shine upon you and your loved ones.
September 28, 2007
"For those who pledge to uphold it, Freedom requires a sacrifice the protected will never know."
Officer Ryan Konken Jordan Police Department
September 27, 2007
I was a classmate of Nick's at the Alexandria Technical College class of 98. I am so sorry to hear of your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Nick was a good man; I hope the memories you shared bring you comfort in your time of grief.
Diana Taunton
September 27, 2007
My deepest sympathy to Nick's family, sisters, brothers, and friends. Though I did not meet Nick, I got a sense of who he was when listening to wonderful stories told to me by Patty and Larry Hager. And thank you for sharing your photos with the thousands of people, like me, who will hold you all in our thoughts and prayers. Nick is with God and He is with you.
Irene Dupra
September 27, 2007
i am a wife of a phx police officer so my thoughts and prayers are with you and your precious boys at this time. this is something we all have in the back of our minds. he trully was a hero for all he overcame with cancer and still went back to the streets he will always be remembered.
Brandon Hirsch
September 27, 2007
My condolences to Nicki's family. Nicki was a student teacher in my 5th grade class, and I've always admired him.
-Brandon, originally from Fessenden
Mike Monroe
September 26, 2007
I'm sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and the Phoenix Police Department.
A Sister of a Phoenix PD Officer
September 26, 2007
To The Erfle Family, Phoenix PD Officers & Friends of Officer Erfle- Words cannot describe the grief you must be feeling over the senseless loss of a fallen hero like Officer Erfle. Please take comfort in knowing that all of you now have a special guardian angel to watch over you and protect you... and I pray that he will take care and watch over my brother, a Phoenix PD Officer who works in Officer Erfle's Precinct. May the Good Lord Bless each and every one of you.
Keith Lacy and Family
September 26, 2007
Erfle and Prom Families:
May the Lord Bless you during this time of need and God Bless the Fallen Hero!!
P.J. Madsen
September 26, 2007
We are so very sorry for your loss. May the Lord bless you and your family. The Madsens
Harold, Megan, and Morgan Rudnick
September 26, 2007
Eternal rest grant unto him, O Lord, and let perpetual light shine upon them him.
We keep you and your boys in our thoughts and prayers. Our deepest sympathy is felt at your loss of father and husband.
Andrea Kruger
September 26, 2007
Dear Erfle family,
I am so sorry for your loss. I knew Nick from school. We graduated Alexandria together. He was a good man. The world is a better place because he was in it. My prayers are with you all.
Sincerely,
Andrea
Brad Blake Riley & Jake Eilert
September 26, 2007
Dear Julie and family,
We are very sad to hear of your loss. Know that Nick is watching over you and the boys from heaven above.
Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.
Adeline Lloyd
September 26, 2007
As a cousin of Nick's Dad we wish to extend our Sympathy to Nick's Family Sister's and Brother's,may you find strength to carry you through this terrible tragedy,as we have a very deep hurt in our heart as well.Our Thoughts and Prayers are with you.Adeline Erfle,Heintz,Lloyd
Rachel Hanson
September 26, 2007
Dear Family of Officer Erfle,
My deepest sympathies to the family. I read about Nicki in the Fargo Forum, Fargo, ND. I am very thankful for men like Nicki who are dedicated to keeping us safe. May our Heavenly Father who has welcomed Nicki home, hold you close during this difficult time.
Sheryll Fike
September 26, 2007
I am so saddened by Nicki's death. He was a true hero. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this terribly difficult time. Life, as we know it, can change in a hurry. God bless each of you.
The Saxena Family
September 26, 2007
May God Bless you Nick and may you rest in peace. Thank you for being such a wonderful human being. To your dear family, may God give you strength to get through this horrible tragedy. Our deepest deepest sympathies to you dear Julie.
Doug Parsons
September 25, 2007
Julie and family,
We are deeply saddened for your loss. You will be in our thoughts and prayers.
Rogers family
September 25, 2007
Mrs. Erfle, Thank you for allowing the community to grieve with you. The slide shows were beautiful. It is very evident how much you loved each other and your beautiful boys. You are in our thougths and prayers and we pray that in time God will heal your broken hearts.
Gary & Mary Belson
September 25, 2007
Dear Julie,
Words cannot express how deeply saddened we were to learn about Nick. We have thought of you throughout the days since, and if there is anything we can do for you, please don't hesitate You and the boys are in our prayers, as is Nick. Your former neighbors, the Belsons.
Debra
September 25, 2007
Mrs. Erfle
I'm one of your photographers and friends from Kiddie Kandids, You may not even remember me, but I could never forget your family. I just wanted to let you know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and the boys through this difficult time. Be strong and the days will soon get easier with time. love ya guys.
September 25, 2007
"Wings"
Your life was full and had so much meaning,
you never dwelled on the chance of leaving.
Facing each day with a possible threat,
and not one moment lived with a regret.
So many people see but don't understand,
that we protect and serve in a not so perfect land.
There wasn't time for you to say good-bye,
but I can hear you clearly saying -- 'Please don't cry'.
Your life has been rich and sweet,
you'll be missed by your brothers and sisters on the street.
You don't have to face another hassle,
now you can go live in your own little castle.
Getting your wings up in the sky,
where one day you'll teach us all to fly.
By
~ m2 ~
Edward Allread
September 25, 2007
Mrs. Erfle,
As the father of a son who was also taken to early out prayers are close to our hearts for you and your family and friends.
John 15:13
A man can have no greater love
than to lay down his life for his friends.
Renee Kalenze
September 25, 2007
Julie and family; We were very saddened to hear of Nick's death. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Joe Brehm
September 25, 2007
Condolences from another member of the law enforcement community. His sacrifice was not in vain. He will be sorely missed, but he was a hero. He died doing what he loved. I hope more people make donations to the AZFCU.
Tina Franco
September 25, 2007
I have a son in law in the police force,i pray ever day for God to keep all the police safe. Nick is with the Lord.
Nora Prom
September 25, 2007
Julie-
We are all so saddened by your loss. Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you. All my love, Nora
Mark Stokes
September 25, 2007
Mrs. Erfle,
I did not know your husband, but I want to thank you for sharing him with our community in helping to keep us all safe. You and your two sons will be in my thoughts and prayers.
John Piersa
September 25, 2007
Dear Erfle Family,
I deeply sympathize with you because my father was a firefighter who left us too early (unrelated to the job), while I worried for 20 years about my brother who was a frontline officer just like Nick until his retirement last year. Furthermore, Nick truly was one of Phoenix's finest, so his passing is my loss as well. However, I can only imagine what you special people are going through. My heartfelt best wishes go to you all. I wish this tragedy never happened. May God bless.
jeremy mulbrook
September 25, 2007
to the famaly im sorry for your loss but he will always be whith you in your hearts and minds.
Richard Burger
September 25, 2007
My sympathies to the immediate family and the fellow Police Officers family of Officer Nick Erfle
May he Rest In Peace!
Retired Fond du Lac Wis. Police Officer
lynne redlin
September 25, 2007
Fallen Hero
In Loving Memory of Nick Erfle
When the battle is over
cut short by hate
another hero falls
You are a hero
not because of how
you died
But
how you lived your life
Always without complaint
through ill health
Always a smile
for all you met
Love so strong
for family and friends
Today our hearts break
A loss, no one will
ever forget
Thanking God for sharing
this loved one
Even though the time was short
It was a privelege,
to know you
We mourn for all the memories
we will never have a chance
to make
A horse stands at attention
Empty boots in stirrups
Police helicopters in formation
Missing man drops away
Dispatcher speaks
Goodnight sir
Goodbye sir
Rest in peace
You will be deeply missed
Lynne 2007
Christian
September 25, 2007
My deepest condolences to the family of Officer Erfle. God bless you and comfort you!
Anne Hans
September 25, 2007
To one of America's finest! We will always honor you.
The Capritta Family
September 25, 2007
Julie Erfle & Family....My children, grandchildren & extended family & friends live in Phoenix and we feel your loss..my nephew is an officer and I am proud of him and all fellow officers/firefighters/and true heroes of that city. May you and your family always know that you will be in the prayers and thoughts of all who feel your loss...today and always. He was and always will be a true hero...God Bless all the officers and firefighters in Phoenix and always keep the memories alive of all who have served and are no longer with us.
Jennifer Walker
September 25, 2007
My Prayers are with your family at this sad time may God bless your wife and sons ...Thank for the years you have served as a officer in our valley
REST IN PEACE
Anthony Gido
September 25, 2007
I am sorry for your lose. Hold close to your heart those memories of happy times. You will allways have a piece of Nick in your hearts.May God watch over your family.
Sandy Aarsvold
September 25, 2007
My deepest condolences to the family of Nick Erfle. It truly sadens me to learn we have lost another of our finest.
Sandy
Officer11968
September 25, 2007
"999"
Nick you made the ultimate sacrafice laying down your own life to be the man most men dont have the guts to be. You will be greatly missed, stand and watch over us with our other fallen hero's.
Officer Nick Erfle Badge# 6994, 10-24, 10-7 on September 18th. Goodnight
Jeffrey Hawkins
September 25, 2007
I don't know you, you don't know me, but you are all in my thoughts and prayers. We have an unfortunate, unwanted, and yet, honorable bond.
We lost a community and family hero.
He will be missed. He will not be forgotten, I promise you that.
Bless you.
Jeffrey Hawkins
Son of Officer Rusty Hawkins
Killed in the Line of Duty, 1984
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