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Hunter Ruthven Obituary
Shane Ruthven, 43, and Katie Ruthven, 34, had just landed some new contracts and their small business, Mountain Lion Glass, was expanding. Both have been confirmed killed.
Son Wyatt, 4, is missing, said Katie's father, retired Snohomish County sheriff's Sgt. Thomas Pszonka.
Shane Ruthven wanted his mother and stepfather, JuDee Vandenburg, 64, and Lou Vandenburg, 71, to be close to their grandkids and moved them from Spokane to the place next door. Both have been confirmed dead. Lou, who had served in the Marines, worked for the state before retiring. JuDee had operated a bar in Spokane.
The Ruthvens had "found their dream home" along the river, "a little A-frame they rebuilt from scratch," Pszonka said. "They had 150 feet of water frontage. It was a beautiful spot where no one bothered you."
Courtesy of The Seattle Times
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shad misbach
October 24, 2018
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Marcia Haworth
September 22, 2018
Safe in the loving arms of our Heavenly Father
Mistina Branham(Ruthven)
July 26, 2018
It's been a few years & the pain is still like new! Going through these posts & comments still touch my heart like they did on the day I Ist read em. I miss you so much my Dear Nephew! I will carry u in my heart forever & until I see u again! RIP my Angel
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Dustin Redd
April 19, 2014
You were and still are my friend Hunter - I miss you. We all miss you .. at lunch .. at recess .. Dad says that you are with Jesus now and that everything will be alright and that I'll see you again someday. Rest in peace Hunter
Stepfanie Hoiosen
April 15, 2014
I don't even know what to say. .. I am SO sorry for your loss. My son was in class with him they were good friends and he sat next to him. .. I also read with him weekly, he was so smart and Always happy. We will miss him so much. He is forever in our hearts. Praying for peace and healing for you. Take comfort in the Lord, he is always there for you. Let us know if you need a thing.
Ann L.
April 12, 2014
Condolences to All of the surviving family members:
We feel your tears of grief and have shed many ourselves for the sudden and tragic loss of your loved ones. Please, please draw comfort in knowing that they are not suffering and are in God's memory. It will help you day to day in finding endurance. Draw close to family and friends for support during these difficult times.
Remember the love your dear ones had for you and allow those positive memories to keep you moving forward in the seconds, minutes, hours, days, months, and years ahead.
Grieving Your Loss
April 10, 2014
My heart is deeply saddened by the death of your son Hunter. I pray that the God of all comfort provides you with peace in abundance according to your need during this difficult time. As you remember Hunter with fondness, may you also reflect upon this time of year that reminds us of the sacrifice Jesus offered so that our loved ones, like Hunter, can have the opportunity to enjoy endless life free of pain, suffering, and death. In loving memory of Hunter Ruthven today and in the days to come
Jessica
April 10, 2014
I'm so sorry for the loss of Hunter and his family. My sincere condolences.
Zay
April 9, 2014
It's heartbreaking seen this picture and knowing the reasons of it. Please accept my sincere condolences. I imagine there is no pain more deeper than loosing a child and your loved ones in such an unexpected setting. May God grant you comfort to deal with your pain - for "He can become a secure refuge in times of distress".
T
April 3, 2014
Sweet child, schoolmate of my own children.... Rest in peace with your beautiful family.
S Yhann
April 3, 2014
My heart breaks whenever I see the photo of this family. To the family members who have to carry on without them, may you find a little peace in your heartbreak knowing that many have you in their thoughts.
April 3, 2014
SO SORRY FOR THE LOSS,MAY GOD LEAD AND GUIDE YOU IN THE FUTURE.SINCERE CONDOLENCE TO YOU......
DStallings
April 3, 2014
May the hearer of prayer comfort your family in this time of pain and sorrow.(Psalms 65:2)
Tracy Dalton
April 1, 2014
Please accept my deepest sympathies and know these family is in my prayers and thoughts.
April 1, 2014
My heartfelt sympathy goes out to this family. God is sensitive to outcry of his people. Stay strong.
April 1, 2014
May the family draw comfort from God's word, which promises & gives hope to those who have lost their offspring. Isaiah 65:23
Scott Chamberland
April 1, 2014
Please accept my Deepest Sympathies
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