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Harry Simpson
January 30, 2018
Godspeed John, and thank you for sharing a part of your life with us.
Walker Zhang
April 22, 2011
He will be loved forever for his short stories and as well as his master pieces!
Edwin Rodriguez
April 10, 2011
I loved his work and perhaps like most admirers came to it by way of Rabbit Run. After that it was a decade long waiting game for the next installment while reading what he wrote in the between time. The Olinger stories are beautiful and I will never forget the chuckle I got when Reverend Wilmot (In the Beauty of the Lillies) awoke from a Sunday afternoon nap with the nagging notion that there was no God. I loved his faith and agnosticism.
December 23, 2009
For John...
WEEP NOT FOR ME
Do not weep for me when I no longer dwell among the wonders of the earth; for my larger self is free, and my soul rejoices on the other side of pain...on the other side of darkness.
Do not weep for me, for I am a ray of sunshine that touches your skin, a tropical breeze upon your face, the hush of joy within your heart and the innocence of babes in mothers arms.
I am the hope in a darkened night. And, in your hour of need, I will be there to comfort you. I will share your tears, your joys, your fears, your disappointments and your triumphs.
Do not weep for me, for I am cradled
in the arms of God. I walk with the angels, and hear the music beyond the stars.
Do not weep for me, for I am within you;
I am peace, love, I am a soft wind that caresses the flowers. I am the calm that follows a raging storm. I am an autumns leaf that floats among the garden of God, and I am pure white snow that softly falls upon your hand.
Do not weep for me, for I shall never die, as long as you remember me...
with a smile and a sigh.
© Joe Fazio
October 10, 2009
Thank you for your works.
David Stocking
February 14, 2009
In 1967, on a professional release day during my first year of teaching Language Arts at Indian Valley Junior High School in Souderton, PA, I drove to Skillington, PA where Updike had spent his boyhood. I wanted to absorb the nature of his early environment, and I was particularly interested in visiting the local high school where he had been a student. When I spoke with the English Chair there, he shared with me that Updike's works always caused anxiety among the faculty just before they were published because so many of the characters had an uncanny resemblance to faculty members in the school. It has ever since reminded me that writers often work from the realities of their own lives, however fictional a work may be.
Now, 42 years later, I have taught many times, in grades 8-college, his short short story "A + P" about a teenage cashier-clerk in a local A+P grocery store who is attracted to a pretty girl in a bathing suit as she makes her way up and down the aisles. He takes exception to his boss who admonishes her for her lack of clothing, and ends up quitting -- wanting to be a hero to the girl -- but she does not even notice him. He's left alone, feeling like a fool.
Many were the reluctant readers in my classes (usually boys) who liked reading that one because it was so familiar , so local, and so true about their human nature.
He appealed to the most literate among us, but he could also be a favorite of the less literate among us -- and for that he deserves applause also.
Betsy Taylor
February 7, 2009
I was a sophomore in college (1974) when I wrote to John Updike to tell him how much I loved one of his New Yorker short stories. To my total amazement and thrill, I received the kindest letter from him only a few weeks later: "Dear Miss Taylor, Thank you for your words, and I'm so glad you liked the story. I imagine that the forsythia are beautiful in Chapel Hill this time of year." It meant so much to me that he took the time to write to an unknown college student who was enthralled with writing, and with his work.
Over the thirty+ years following, Mr. Updike became my favorite author. He had such a rare gift of capturing the human experience so sparely, so authentically, and always revealed to us things that we sensed at some level but did not fully understand, nor know how to find the words to describe. He did.
To the Updike Family: Please know that Mr. Updike is loved all over the world. I am so sorry. I know you will miss him very much. We all will.
Leslie Thacker
February 3, 2009
Mr. Updike became my favorite writer 27 years ago when I read the first "Rabbit Book". Since then not a season went by in my life when I wasn't reading (savoring) something else he wrote. No one else could ever describe perceptions, thoughts and emotions as wonderfully and I think that in his own way he opened his readers' eyes to the incredible beauty of everyday life.
Caroline Moody
February 3, 2009
To Family of John Updike
We are all so sorry to hear of the pasing of Mr. Updike. I am of his generation and he was my favorite writer.
We will all miss John Updike
Jan Pellegrini
February 2, 2009
Thank you for all you have given us.
You are a gentle and warm person who I
feel honored to have met.
Jan from Tastebuds, Beverly
February 2, 2009
To John,
Your books introduced me to a writing genre that validated thoughts and released for me forms of expressions I never thought possible.
The creative space you have left is palpable and difficult to fill. Thank you for your honesty, beautiful rendering of emotion, and a never failing ability to touch this reader and so many others.
You will be immensely missed. Peace.
bridget donnellan
February 1, 2009
Never fell asleep reading any of your books! Fare there well, you will be missed, sincerely.
Dennis Divine
January 31, 2009
I was sorry to hear about the passing of Mr. Updike; I truly appreciate his lifetime of literary contributions. He's inspirational to both readers and would-be writers. He was fortunate enough to have earned many literary awards throughout his career, but maintained a sense of grace that remains noteworthy.
Good writing endures; great writing transcends the ages. John Updike was among the greatest.
Rick Mueller
January 31, 2009
As a writer who grew up in Shillington and attended Governor Mifflin Mr. Updike was always an inspiration to me to continue to write when moments of self doubt would creep in.
I'll miss his words.
Jean Adams
January 31, 2009
To the Updike family,
Please except my deepest sympathy for your loss. John gave me so many hours of pleasure reading his books and poems. I feel like I have lost a dear friend. RIP John.
Keith Barr
January 30, 2009
About a year ago I read all the Rabbit books straight through, one after the other, including the novella "Rabbit Remembered." My thought at the time was how glad I was that I didn't have to wait anxiously all those years as each book came out one at a time. Now, I'd be glad to read whatever he would have written had he lived longer. It's true, you don't know what you've got till it's gone. I got to see Mr. Updike at the dedication of the new Library at Illinois Wesleyan some years ago. It was a memorable occasion. Thanks for many wonderful hours of entertainment.
W Davis
January 30, 2009
To Mr. Updike's Family,
You have my deepest sympathies for your loss. Having grown up in Shillington, I was so proud to be able to say that my home town was his, and while I was growing up, I attended the same church he had attended when he was growing up. He will be greatly missed!
God speed, Mr. Updike, God speed.
Dave Phillips
January 29, 2009
Updike turned me into a reader. (Especially Rabbit) Reading turned me into a teacher. Teaching led me to my wife and my children. As I reread I continue to see myself anew- older. I owe him (and others) so much. Thank you, Mr. Updike.
Scott
January 29, 2009
I am so very sorry to hear of John's passing. May God's promise to bring an end to death comfort you.
(Revelation 21:4) And he will wipe out every tear from their eyes, and death will be no more, neither will mourning nor outcry nor pain be anymore. The former things have passed away.”
Diana Henn
January 29, 2009
Good luck Mr. Updike on your next journey. Such a talented man that left his mark in this world. I come to know John's work through Mr. Chet Hagan, another talented individual we all miss. My thoughts are with your family.
January 29, 2009
Blessed be God, even the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies, and the God of all comfort;
Who comforteth us in all our tribulation, that we may be able to comfort them which are in any trouble, by the comfort wherewith we ourselves are comforted of God.
II Corinthians 1:3,4
Theresa Skobel
January 28, 2009
As a memeber of the community where John grew up, we are always proud of the achievements of the locals. Few have struck it as big!I will continue to re-read his books and think of the fine man that the world has lost.
Jacki Moriarty
January 28, 2009
My deepest condolences to Mike and his family. Mike, you were always a generous and kind person, whose smile I won't forget. I'm sorry for the loss of your father.
From a fellow Lawrentian and Beta Theta Pi "sister,"
Donally Harrison
January 28, 2009
John was my favorite author, and I grew up reading almost everthing that he has written (I'm 47 now). No other single writer could pen such exquisite passages that flowed seamlessly like a river in thaw. May God bless you and your family.
Gloria Holmes
January 28, 2009
I will always treasure and re-read the stories that Updike has left as his legacy.
A true giant in the literary field who will be missed by many.
John D. Parod M.D.
January 28, 2009
John Updike my favorite author! Almost weekly I would search the library for a new Updike novel.Sympathy to the family and all John Updike lovers.
Paula Greenberg
January 28, 2009
My sympathy and prayers go out to the Updike family. His writing brought out such emotion in the reader. May his memory live on with the many wonderful stories he provided us over the years and for many years to come.
Idella Cantrell
January 28, 2009
Mr. Updike's father was my teacher in Birdsboro PA. He was so very proud of his son's achievements. The Centaur had just been published and he was honored and a little embarassed to be the subject. Mr. Updike was the first man I ever heard speak with loving pride and joy about his child. Thank you for wonderful reading.
M R
January 28, 2009
What a terrible loss! Death is truly an enemy that no one can escape from. As a lieterary genius, Mr. Updike would certainly appreciate the following words and how they help us have a bright hope for the future: "Death is swallowed up forever. Death where is your victory? Death where is your sting?..." (1 Corinthians 15:54,55)
Jon Scott
January 28, 2009
I heard the news John Updike was gone and I was saddened. He was a genius. I loved his work. Who can say they readi it all? I did read much of it, both his prose and poetry. Rabbit made me laugh and laugh again and again. God bless Mr. Updike.
stephanie malaspina
January 28, 2009
I am so sad I will not be able to read any of your new books. You were always inventive and honest.
Brian
January 27, 2009
My sincerest condolences to the Updike family. John has left an amazing legacy behind that will last for eternity.
Brian Fagan, M.D.
January 27, 2009
My deepest condolences to the Updike family. As a lifelong reader, and a literacy teacher, I attach tremendous importance to writers and writing. Mr. Updike is one of my very favorite authors, and his books have given me great joy. Rabbit is truly at rest.
Brian
January 27, 2009
Goodbye
Lisa DeForest
January 27, 2009
My favorite author. RIP
Richard Cummings
January 27, 2009
God broke the mold when he made John Updike. He made us proud to be Americans because our country could produce a writer as great as he was. That he was never awarded the Nobel Prize in literature was a terrible injustice. His work will be part of the global cannon that literature is in the process of creating.
Philip Terzian
January 27, 2009
The finest American novelist of the second half of the 20th century, and a great man of letters. His novels, criticism, stories and poetry are of a distinction unmatched among his contemporaries.
Lisa Marino-McIntosh
January 27, 2009
RIP Mr. Updike. God bless you and yours always.
nash Mitchell
January 27, 2009
You left a gift on this planet that will far exceed you. Thank you in more ways that I can say.
Brad W
January 27, 2009
I never grow tired of reading Johns work.
Ted Carey
January 27, 2009
Another terrific classmate of Harvard 1954 gone to his reward. Rest in peace with Rabbit.
Jeanne Armstrong
January 27, 2009
So sorry to see you go - I am really going to miss your tales!
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