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Roberta King Obituary
King, 72, was teaching English to immigrants at the community center when the gunman invaded her class.
Dr. Jeffrey King, one of her 10 children, described his mother as brimming with interests ranging from the opera to the preservation society to her doll collection.
She and her husband, the late Dr. Abraham King, sent all their children to college, five of them to Cornell University in Ithaca.
Her son remembered telling her in a recent conversation to retire and enjoy herself.
"I said, 'Mom you're in your 70s,'" King said. "She said, 'What? You don't think I enjoy working?'"
Copyright © 2009 The Associated Press
264 Entries
Jean Hecht
March 31, 2024
Lew and I often think of Bobbie. It is hard to believe it has been 15 years. I am sure that her kids have seen many happy events during that time, but that they were not complete without their mother there.
Peg Marr
March 31, 2019
Missing you, Bobbi---your enigmatic smile; your effervescent spirit; your all-encompassing love. Shalom, dear friend.
Darlene May
January 5, 2010
The King Family ,
It has been 9 long months since you have lost your Mother, and I have lost my friend . There is not a day that goes by that I don't think of her and smile .....Although I am sure the pain is still very fresh in your minds , take comfort in knowing how much people loved and respected her . She was a wonderful friend ,and every time I hear her name, and it is often, I ache for all of you .
Every time I see a doll I know she would have liked she is in my thoughts and always will be . I miss her terribly . I repaired so many of her dolls over the years I miss all the times she came to visit , and all the doll talk and laughter we shared .
May God Bless all of you and in time heal your hearts . She is at peace it is us that are suffering from her loss .
Millie Huntley
September 5, 2009
Dear Dr. King and family -- I was stunned and horrified to learn it was your Mom that was killed in the senseless massacre in Binghamton. My heart goes out to you and your family. She was a beautiful, wonderful, caring person and everyone loved her. She will be remembered in my prayers. Millie Huntley, California
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Peter Allen
July 22, 2009
Dear Dr. King;
I believe that I may be a distant cousin of your wife, who I never met. At the the moment i am seeking to contact your brother-in-law, Dr. Joel Badaines of Australia. My name is Peter Allen, son of Dr. Harriet (Herbits) Allen, granddaughter of Ellen Herwitz who was Bobbie's grand Aunt and Aunt of her father, Dr. Nathaniel Badines, who was a graducate of Williams College and later a Director of the VA medicial Center in Sycracuse NY. Thank you and may your wife rest in peace.
Sara Colwell
April 30, 2009
Dear King family,
I knew Bobbie when we were both members of Broome County Doll Club. Bobbie was one of the most delightful speakers in the club. Her programs were a wonderful treat. She had a great sense of humor and used to joke about her tendency to be late. When the club had pot luck dinners, Bobbie always brought dessert and joked that by the time she got there it would be time for dessert. It was a pleasure and a privilege to know her.
David Gold
April 28, 2009
Please accept my most heartfelt condolences. Roberta's hard work and dedication to family and community will live forever in the hearts and minds of the many people her life touched. As a fellow teacher and a graduate of SUNY-Binghamton 20 years ago, I felt moved to write to you and offer my prayers.
Haleigh Smith
April 25, 2009
I am so sorry for your lost. Mrs. King was a great women! I loved alway seeing the dolls in MacArthur library. I am sorry again.
Elaine DeCastro
April 22, 2009
I am deeply saddened by the recent loss of Mrs. King. I worked with her in Windsor for many years with students of special needs. She was always the best medicine whenever she came through the door. One could never think of Mrs. King without a smile coming across the face. It is in this way that I will forever remember her compassion and great gift of humor. She truly was a very remarkable woman with whom I shared some of my best memories at Windsor. You, and she, will all remain in my thoughts and prayers.
Herb and Cathy Munson
April 21, 2009
Bobbie King was a sweet, generous and gentle lady who gave much to the world, and our lives touched too briefly. We are deeply saddened by this tragedy, and our hearts go out to our daughter in law Laura, to her brothers and sisters, nephews and nieces, and so many more who will miss Bobbie so very much. Our granddaughter will not have the joy of knowing her, but she will know of her and remember her with love.
Bobbie was renowned as a doll collector, but I saw first hand that she didn’t just collect dolls; she knew the where, when how and why of their history, and when she visited the doll museum in Bellevue, I got in depth lectures on their history – when heads, arms and legs became articulated, how their costumes reflected the culture of their maker, when eyes began to flutter – both at the beginning and end of that day. It was something I could smile at the time; now it is something I will treasure.
Jack and Mary Conaty
April 20, 2009
To Dr Jeff King and family.Our condolences on the loss of your mother
Lloyd Hood
April 19, 2009
To the family ---I am so sorry about the lost of your Mother. I had the privilege of meeting her at the weddings of Debbie and Becki Badaines (I'm Leslie's Friend from Knoxville)---I am so saddened by this. If you all needed anything at all please let me know. I know that Leslie and her daughters loved her very much.
Joe Roma
April 19, 2009
Brian and Jeff,
My heart goes out to you as you deal with this senseless tragedy. I'll always remember your Mom bringing Brian every week to his drum lesson. She was a lovely, patient and cheerful woman whom I always looked forward to seeing. The fact that you two have turned out so well is, of course, due to the loving upbringing of both your Mom and Dad. I'll be thinking of you, and please feel free to contact me.
Annemarie Ramirez
April 19, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Vikki Vallone
April 16, 2009
You were all so kind to me!! I will remember Mrs. King forever ... as she exercised to music, cleaning the offices.
We had a great time, enjoyable time.
Ashley Jackson
April 15, 2009
King Family,
The world has lost a warm and loving person who made a special difference every day,Yet all those seeds of love so gently planted leave blossoms that will never fade away.
Mrs. King
Thank you for being a friend! Thank you for being so kind! So many thanks go out to you! I will never forget those bright eyes and your loving smile : )
Your Student
Mary
April 15, 2009
When I told my stepson about the terrible tragedy that was going on at the Civic Center he told me that Mrs.King was there.He kept praying it wasn't her but unfortunately it was.He loved it when she was his sub at Windsor.My daughter,who has been out of school for 5 years, also was very upset.They both said she was so sweet and kind.She cared about all of the students.She will never be forgotten.Our thoughts and prayers go out to all of you.
melanie griffith
April 15, 2009
mrs. king was the best substitute teacher any one could ask for. she was so kind she will be deeply missed by all who knew her and had her as a substitute. she subbed for many of my teachers many different times she knew almost every one in my classes by name and always put a smile on our faces.
Nancy Griswold
April 15, 2009
Margaret and the King Family,
Knowing you and your mother, working together in volunteer tasks in Binghamton truly brightened my life. I remember the fun we had together and always will. You mom will never be forgotten, I remember her strength and I know you have it too.
I continue to pray for all of you and wish you peace.
Jill Kline Lichtenstein
April 14, 2009
Dear Tamar and the King family,
I can't stop thinking about you all. I have wonderful memories of growing up in Binghamtom and visiting with Tamar. The King house was cool... so many nooks and crannies, so many rooms and floors... it was a house that always buzzed with activity... you'd never know what you'd find and I truly marveled at Mrs. King's gentle manner. She always made me feel as if I were the only person in the room even though there would be little Kings here and there trying to get her attention.
My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Dirgins Family
April 14, 2009
To Margaret, Mark, Jacob and Max (and to all of the King siblings and grandchildren):
We are so sorry for your loss and are here to support you though this awful time. Over the past week we've read about your mother and how wonderful she was and are sad that we never had the privilege to have met her. Our sympathy goes out to you and your entire family.
John Mauro
April 14, 2009
My deepest sympathy to your family. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Sandy and Bruce Denham
April 14, 2009
Dear King Family,
Our hearts go out to you all. The loss of your mother is felt by us all. Just thinking of Bobbi makes us smile: for her kindness toward others, her enthusiam for life and her countless funny stories of your family. She shared her life with us all and will not be forgotten.
Julie Dantini
April 13, 2009
Dear King Family,
" A life well lived will last forever." There is no more perfect example of this saying than your mother. Her legacy is with each of you and all the lives that she touched and enriched. You all will remain in my thoughts during this very difficult time.
Fred and Jane Gold
April 13, 2009
Please accept our deepest sympathy for the untimely loss of your beloved Mother. Bobbie was a uniquely thoughtfull and caring person who will be missed by all who knew her. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family during this difficult time.
Ruthie Levy-Seablom
April 13, 2009
Bobbie was kind, loving, friendly and always had a smile. My fondest memories of her have to do with the pride she took in her family. Whenever I saw her at my brother (Ben Levy) and sister-in laws (Rosemrie King Levy) home, she would give me an updated photo of the entire King family with everyone's name on it. She would tell me what the event was and I would ask what everyone was up to. She was so happy and proud of everyone. I am heartbroken for the King family and offer sincere condolonces and lots of love.
Jay Slotnick
April 13, 2009
My heartfelt condolences go out to the family. I just recently found out I had connections to Bobbie, which is not surprising since I also grew up in Syracuse. Besides a cousin of yours who is a close friend of mine from childhood, I remember Joel Badaines with great affection from many years together at the JCC, Bradley Brook Camp, etc. From the articles and letters, it is clear that Bobbie was an extraordinary person and I am so sorry for your loss.
Marilyn Silberstein
April 12, 2009
Dear Kings,
I actually just learned that your mother was a victim of this unbelievable tragedy in Binghamton (of all places).
I and my family lived there for 6 years during the '70's when Ed was the Director of the JCC. My daughter, Heidi, was friends with Laura, and we have so many pictures of the two of you together! (Heidi says that together you showed Rosie no mercy!)
Bobbi was a friend to me and was never too busy to listen, laugh, play with the kids - hers and others -, take care of new kittens, or even to cook for Hadassah! Even after leaving Binghamton almost 30 years ago, I think of her often. Now I can't get her voice out of my mind.
My most sincere condolences to all of you. What a wonderful legacy she has left!
Marilyn, Heidi (Limareff), and Adina Silberstein
Ann Levy
April 11, 2009
April 11, 2009
Ellie and family:
My deepest sympathy to you and all your family for your tragic loss of Bobbi. Certainly her smile and humor will be remembered by all who knew her.
My thoughts are with you
Ann Levy
Bruce Reitenbach
April 11, 2009
My deepest condolences to Tami, Jeff, Georgia, and the whole King family. Your mom was such a kind, loving person.
rosalind (snyder) paaswell
April 11, 2009
My memories of Bobbie (and Aaron)are from 55 years ago, when we were in Nottingham high school together, but reading the messages here brings to mind a line from a poem by William Wordsworth: "The child is father of the man". In this case, the child was mother of the woman: every wonderful thing that people remember about her as a woman, a mother, a teacher, could have been said about her back in those years. She was warm, loving, kind, and yes, even wise. She would never join in the mean gossip that is so common among teenagers, and Aaron & Bobbi (I'm not sure, but in those days, I think that's the way she spelled it) were always the idolized couple. Their love and admiration for each other was truly unique and way beyond the adolescent silliness that often passed for love in those times.
I probably saw her not more than once or twice since that time, but I always thought of her with fondess and admiration.
Your loss is huge, but your family's legacy is even greater.
Keith Nelson
April 11, 2009
To the King family - take comfort in how many lives Bobbie touched and the profoud effect she had on everybody. The fact there are over 45 pages of guest book entries as I write this is a testament to her memory. Her name shall be inscribed in the Book of Life many times over.
Paula Gabello Edwards
April 11, 2009
Jeff, Georgia, and extended family members,
You're all in my thoughts and prayers.
With Sympathy
Paula Gabello Edwards (BCHS class of '80)
George Slilaty
April 11, 2009
Dear Beth and the entire King family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in these most difficult times. May God Bless you all.
Christa Corcoran
April 10, 2009
My heart is broken over the loss of your very special mother, Bobbi King.
Margaret and Laura danced with my daughters, Maureen and Elease, at Goundry Dance Studio. Bobbi and I laughed at ourselves because we would both cry, with pride, as we watched our daughters dance so beautifully at every recital.
I also knew your mother, as well as your father Dr. King from the Clinical Campus. Both were such genuinely kind and warm people. If we will all carry just a little piece of their character with us, we will all be the better for it. The community’s loss is great, and yours is greater still. My sincerest condolences.
Sue and Ed Miller
April 10, 2009
Dear King Family
I remember Bobbie so well. Our girls went to school with Ellen and Margaret and we both lived on the southwest side of Binghamton. Whenever I met her,she would ask about the children. She always had a great smile and kind words to say. She was a wonderful member of the community and involved in so many activities. She will be missed very much. Dr. King was a colleague of my husband and removed Kim and Debbie's tonsils many years ago. They were a wonderful couple. We wanted you to know that our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
April 10, 2009
Dear King family,
I am a retired teacher from Windsor High School. I had the pleasure of knowing Bobbie when she substituted for the special ed teachers and was in my class. She was a lovely woman and always had a kind word for everyone.
Diane Thornton
Carol-Lynn Petronaci
April 10, 2009
Beth,
My heart aches for your loss and words fail. You and your family are in my prayers.
Sheryl Frankel
April 10, 2009
Dr. King and Family,
May God Bless your mother on this day. I am so sorry for your loss. I did not know your mom, but after reading about the horror that went on that day and also how much your mother was loved, it does not surprise me at her unselflessness. She raised a loving family and you should always be proud of that.
God Bless You.
Anne Marie DePalmo
April 10, 2009
Dear King Family,
It was my honor to know and teach with your mother in the Binghamton School district. If anything can be learned from this tragic event, let it be that we all live by her example, be as kind as Bobbie was and care more about each other. God bless all of you and may you have comfort in knowing she touched so many lives.
Lisa Burch
April 9, 2009
Georgia - my heart goes out to you and your family at this very difficult time. Unfortunatley I know what you are going through and I am here for you. Will be in touch when you get back to Long Island. Be well.
Robert Fucinato
April 9, 2009
Dear Beth, Tammi, Dr Jeff and the entire King Family- we were so saddened to hear about the tragic loss of your mother. Words fail to express our sorrow for you. Tammi & Beth– it has been many years but we attended UB together and Dr Jeff– you operated on my daughter Emily when she was 14 months old. Your father removed my tonsils when I was seven. I do not know all the King family, but my mother Ann Fucinato has known your mom & dad her entire life. The reach and kindness of your family has touched many lives and your mother was an amazing, giving person. We hope the many fond memories of her will shine in your hearts and help you as you heal. Please accept our deepest sympathy to one and all of you.
Bob, Susan & Emily Fucinato
Martha R. Acero
April 9, 2009
Dear Georgia
My heart and prayers are with you at this difficult time. Please accept my sincere condolences for your lost.
A PATIENT
April 9, 2009
DR KING AND FAMILY, MY DEEPEST CONDOLENCES ON THE LOSS OF YOUR MOTHER. I AM A PATIENT OF DR KINGS AND HE IS THE GREATEST DR. I HAVE. SO YOUR MOTHER MUST OF BEEN A AWESOME LADY TO RAISE SUCH A FINE DECENT MAN. MAY GOD BLESS YOU ALL.
Jacqueline Colon
April 9, 2009
Dear Georgia,
My heart felt condolences go out to you and your family. The tributes have been beautiful and your mom will always be kept in spirit.
Charles McGill
April 9, 2009
You mother raised strong children. The pride and love with which you remember your mother is evident the strength you've all shown in the wake of this unfathomable event. She has touched the lives of countless people and will be missed by those who were blessed to have known her. My thoughts and prayers have been (and will continue to be) with you in the days, weeks and months to come.
Sincerely,
Charles Mc Gill
Class of 1982 - Binghamton Central High School
Chris Pilotti
April 9, 2009
Dear Jeff,
My deepest condolences on your mom. I'm sorry I was unable to get in to see you before the service on Monday. What a great tribute to her.
Laurie Goodheim Levine
April 9, 2009
The horror of watching the events unfolding last friday from a dementia residence in Seattle, WA was compounded on Sunday as I sat stunned after seeing Bobbie's face on NBC Nightly News.
Babs Bischoff encouraged me to read the nice article published in the Press, and I am so glad I am able to share the first healing steps with my community.
Bobbie was a sweet, sweet person and I pray that as time goes by, Adonai helps her family to move from the memory of grief to the memory of love and happy times.
Paula Steinberg-Goodman
April 9, 2009
To the King family:
I was so sorry to hear about your Mom. She was an amazing woman, so truly kind and genuine. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Martha Edmonds
April 9, 2009
Dr King,
We were deeply saddened by this tragic event, even here in Southern California. Please accept our deepest sympathy. A former patient of you and your father~~
April 9, 2009
I knew Roberta King's daughter, Laura, as a talented and energetic teacher at Kellogg Middle School in Washington for several years. Throughout this time I remember her warmly sharing about her family, and her mother, and looking forward to each visit home. Her mother raised a terrific daughter and teacher...an on-going legacy to be proud of.
Linda Miller
Ed Cohen
April 9, 2009
Dear Beth,
I was deeply saddened when I heard about your Mom. Please accept my deepest sympathies.
Glenn Fosdick
April 8, 2009
Dear King Family,
I am truly sorry for your loss. What a wonderful person your mother was. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
G-d be with you always. Shalom.
April 8, 2009
Mrs. King was the substitute you prayed to have every time your teacher was out. And though most of us hate to admit it, we took advantage of her kindness at times. She loved every student she came in contact with and, miraculously, remembered everyone's name. She definitely made a lasting impression and will never be forgotten.
Joanie
April 8, 2009
I did not know her but now I feel like I did. My nephew just spoke to her at Windsor high school last Thursday.She just kept giving to humanity.A true Saint.I hope some day that her children are able to write a book about her life. It will be a best seller for sure.
Maureen Ferro
April 8, 2009
Margaret and Family, So many years have passed since we danced together at the studio. The memories from there will last forever. There really are no words to express how saddened my family was to hear such terrible news of your mom. I just saw her again recently when she was with the doll club, and without surprise, still looked the same as she always did. I occationally bumped into her and she's the same soft spoken, sincere, gentle lady as always.
I hope you can find comfort as time goes by remembering her. My heart goes out to you and your family. May she watch over you, and protect.
~ Maureen ( Corcoran ) Ferro
Jolynn Barton
April 8, 2009
Mrs. King was truly an amazing person. I've had her as a substitute teacher since I was in kindergarden. I am now a sophomre at Windsor High School and can speak for the whole school when I say that she will be in our hearts forever. And the work she did for us has touched us all. I will never forget her loving and caring personality and smile that never left her face. She will always be in my heart and prayers.
Deby Wood
April 8, 2009
We didn't know Mrs. King, but from what we have heard she was a wonderful woman. We pray for your family as well as all the other victims families and surviors.. May god bless you all!
The Wood Family,
Steven, Deby, Breanna, & Joshua
T. Smith
April 8, 2009
The Bible reads at Ecclesiastes 3:1: “For everything there is an appointed time, even a time for every affair under the heavens. Verse 4 of that same chapter reads: “a time to weep and a time to laugh; a time to wail and a time to skip about.” This is indeed that time and I wanted to offer my condolences. At Revelation 21:4 we read about a time when weeping, sadness and all things that make life difficult will be gone. Revelation 21:4 reads: “And he will wipe out every tear from their eyes, and death will be no more, neither will mourning nor outcry nor pain be anymore. The former things have passed away.” Take care and I will keep you in my prayers.
Linda Faughnan-Fravala
April 8, 2009
The memories of Mrs. King and the years spent at the King house are endless! I was always amazed at how willing she was to do anything for her children, always putting their needs first, and never appearing to be aggravated by doing so. She was a role model for us all! She will be greatly missed. My Mom and Bobbie would meet on the street or at the grocery store and would talk for hours. She would start by asking about each of us kids, our spouses, children and amazingly she remembered us all by name and also what we were doing from previous conversations. Michael and I joked that she called me by my first and middle names and really she was the only person who could get away with it! She was an amazing person with a lot to teach, not only in the schools and community, but in day to day life. I hope that all these wonderful memories and support will help to comfort the family during this time of loss. My family is still in shock over this tragic end to a beautiful life. When we learned of the news, although we are spread from Florida to Conneticut to Minnesota to New York, we were all praying for strength for you to get thru this time and be able to focus not on the ending of your Mothers life, but the incredible journey that she led! With much love, The Faughnan Family
Lori (Marchell) Carlsen
April 8, 2009
To The King Family,
Words cannot express my sadness for the loss of your wonderful mother. She has touched countless lives and has left a living legacy in your family, friends and students whose lives she touched with her sweet kindness. May God strengthen you all through this most difficult time.
Michele
April 8, 2009
Dear King Family,
I am truly sorry for your loss. What a wonderful person your mother was. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Phil Notick
April 8, 2009
Janna, Melinda and myself feel horrible . I always thought of her as the nicest sweetest person. My memories of her as calm and unruffled in the middle of swirling children. I've thought of her off and on as inspiration as I try and raise our three. We will say a prayer for your loss tonight during the first night service.
My condolences to you and your family.
Shelli VanDeMark Kendig
April 8, 2009
To my very dear friend Ellen, as well as the rest of the King family,
I am so sorry to learn of your mother's passing and for the tremendous loss you must be feeling. Please know that my thoughts are with you all.
Carol Hunter
April 8, 2009
To Laura and all of her family,
I wanted to let you know that I am so sorry for your loss and that my heart is truly with you all. Just knowing Laura tells me that she was raised by a truly warm, loving and giving mother who was a gift to all who knew her.
Marilyn Harb
April 8, 2009
I knew her when she came to work as a substitute at Windsor High School. I work in the library and she would always stop by and chat for a while. We would talk about the students, books, the teachers, anything under the sun. Every time she walked through the door I was always so happy to see her. She was indeed a wonderful, happy, interesting, kind women. All the kids and staff loved her. I remember last Oct. she had to sub on Halloween and she came dressed up like a Hippie. When I saw her come into the library I said to her - Look at you - you great looking old hippie. She got a kick out of that. I will miss her dearly and will always hold that image and her beauty dear to my heart.
Michelle Beckley
April 8, 2009
Bobbie was a 20 year "acquaintance" I knew through her substitute work in the Binghamton City School District. Her sincere kindness and patience made her an exceptional lady. In all the years I knew her, Bobbie never failed to ask about my family. I'm so glad I had the opportunity to see her at our school last Fall. She will be missed. May her family find peace and comfort in this most difficult time.
Melissa Willa
April 8, 2009
To Rosemarie and the entire King family: We were deeply saddened to learn of your loss. Your mom was clearly a very dear lady, highly respected and much loved by her friends, family, and community.
April 8, 2009
I was a student of Mrs. King's numerous times over the course of my childhood. As a student of the Windsor Central School District, Mrs. King was a notorious substitute. She was known for being one of the nicest teachers, and it was sure to be a good day when you turned up in class to find Mrs. King sitting at the desk. I recall her being very patient and kind with us always. Being a substitute is never easy, you have to deal with all kinds of situations that children do not try with their regular teachers. I remember one time our class gave her quite a hard time (it was probably somewhere around 4th or 5th grade, I cant remember). We were so nervous the next day when our teacher came back and prepared to read us the note the substitute had left about our behavior. Surely the whole class would have recess privileges taken away. However, Mrs. King did not leave a note speaking of her troubles, instead, our teacher read us a note that highlighted all of the good things that happened. I believe that day many students were affected by Mrs. King's kind words despite our bad behavior, and perhaps her "kill them with kindness" lesson stung worse and stayed with us longer than a missed recess ever would have.
My thoughts and prayers are with the King family at this awful time. I just cannot believe that this woman was taken from the world in such a hateful way. May her legacy live on...
Cathy French
April 8, 2009
My thoughts and prayers go out to the entire King family. I met Bobbie many years ago when she substituted in the Windsor School District. She always had a cheerful smile and a warm friendly attitude with students and staff.She exhibited compassion, kindness and understanding of the students who reciprocated with love and appreciation. I always knew my students were in good hands whem she substituted for me. It is difficult to comprehend such a senseless tragedy but please know she touched the lives of many people and will live on in the hearts of all who knew her.
kassie lamphere (anderson)
April 8, 2009
we well miss mrs king she was the best sub ever my prayers are with her family all the anderson kids loved her
India Walker Clark
April 8, 2009
To the King family,
I was sadden to hear of your tragic loss. My family and I have many wonderful childhood memories of your family and dear mother. I will never forget her kindness and sweetness.
With my deepest sympathy, you are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Terri (Phillips) Al-Shimary
April 7, 2009
Dear King Family:
Mrs. King was one of my substitue teachers when I went to MacArthur Elementary School in the 1st grade (Mrs. Holly's class) and she taught me a lesson I will never forget. One day I had overheard some of the other teachers calling her Bobbie and therefore in my infinite wisdom at 7 years old thought it would be okay if I did the same. It was around the Christmas time and we were making gingerbread houses and I needed help so I said " Bobbie will you please help me?" I have never seen someone whip around with such a stern look as quick as she did and I thought to myself I'm in big trouble now! She came over to me and said in a nice but I mean business voice and said "Never let me hear you speak to another adult by their first name again, I am Mrs. King not Bobbie. What do you need help with sweetheart?"
Needless to say I always to this day address people by Mr. or Mrs. When my friends were calling each others parents by their first name, I was calling them Mr. or Mrs. So and So (even as an adult and even in my place of employment.)
Many years later I happened to run into Mrs. King again when I worked at the Giant on Penn Ave
(from 1995- 1997-who hasn't worked at the Giant!) She immediately remembered me as one of her students and she always came through my line or asked that I take her groceries out to her car so that we could just talk. My parting words everytime I seen her: Have a good day MRS. KING and she would walk away with a smile.
Moral of my story: When you speak to people with respect they will respect you back.
Mrs. King: Thank you for a lesson learned. You will always have my have my respect!
Respectfully Yours,
Terri
Mike Trovalli
April 7, 2009
Dear Beth, Tammi, Jeff and all of the King children and grandchildren,
My deepest condolences are with each of you on the loss of your beautiful mother and grandmother. Although time and distance has separated all of us, each time I’m back in Binghamton and I drive by your house on the way to my parent’s, I fondly remember many of the gatherings we had there… and the warmth that Bobbie showed to each and every one of us even if she didn’t know us that well. She warmly touched many, many people and while words alone could never console you during this difficult time, know that her love and her spirit have touched many people in many places and each of us have your entire family in our prayers.
Deborah & Jane Ponti
April 7, 2009
To th entire King family; our heartfelt sympathy for the loss of your Mom. Oh my... the memories of Bobbie as she dropped off the girls at the Dance studio; and the love and pride over all her children. Another link to a special time in our past is gone. Our hope is that you are comforted in the knowledge of Mom and Dad together again; and they are forever your "Guardian Angels". Be at peace, and our love always. Debbie and Jane Ponti. "Goundrey Dance Studio Family - Forever"
Arnie Fertig
April 7, 2009
It has been many years since I left Temple Concord, but my memory of Bobbie King's inherent goodness and generosity of spirit remain strong. She was a joy to be around, and an inspiration for the community.
My deep conviction has always been that there are only two kinds of people in the world: those who basked in her friendship, and those who did not know her.
May her family and friends be comforted by the remembrance of her myriad deeds of love, kindness, and compassion... and may her memory remain an abiding blessing.
Rabbi Arnie Fertig
Newton Centre, MA
Cauchy Alemzadeh
April 7, 2009
Dr. King and family,
I was extremely saddened to hear about your loss. After reading these entries it is obvious that your mother was an incredibly special person that touched many lives. My thoughts and deepest sympathies are with you and your family.
Marty Richman
April 7, 2009
My deepest condolences to the king family. bobbie will always be remembered as a wonderful women. I can remember aunt rose and uncle ned saying such wonderful things day after day about bobbie and aaron as we were growing up as kids. I remember seeing the pictures every year as your family would grow and grow. She was a such a phonemenal women. My heart goes out to the whole family. My deepest sympathy. She will always be in our hearts. - [email protected]
The Benders
April 7, 2009
Jeff and Family,
Our family was deeply saddened to hear of your loss. Her successful life is in all of you. I hope her wonderful memories will overshadow this tragic event. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. With deepest sympathy.
Becky and Chris Balchikonis
April 7, 2009
Dear King Family,
We are very sorry to hear of your loss. Your mom was a wonderful person and had such a sense of humor. Please know you are all in our thoughts and prayers during this most difficult time.
Becky Smyk Balchikonis
Susan and Brian Prew
April 7, 2009
Dear King Family, There are no words that can properly express our condolences upon the untimely passing of your beloved mother. We feel blessed for having known her. Bobbie had the unique ability to uplift everyone around her. She welcomed our children into her home and so inspired them with her warmth and wisdom. What a lasting legacy she has left in all of you! As a fellow Binghamton sub, I so admired her enthusiasm and love of children of all ages. She was always smiling because she loved what she was doing. May her amazing spirit live on in all of you.
Shawn Collins
April 7, 2009
To Margaret and the King Family,
I want to express my deepest regrets and sorrow for the loss of your Mother. It is hard to capture in words how great of a person your Mom was and the influence she had on me as I spent time around you and your family. I have extremely fond memories of that time in my life.
Although young, my memories of your Mom and the King clan go back to days when I attended day camp at the Jewish Community Center. My sister Patty spent the night at your home numerous times, hanging out with Georgia. I just remember the white castle on the hill when we were picking her up...I was young.
I particularly remember packing the King's groceries, at least once a month, because your Mom religiously picked up the rations for the week on Friday's at the Giant on Penn Ave. Your Mom always took a moment to ask me how I was, and my family, even though she had a bazillion other things to take care of, and the sun had already gone down.
Your Mom was, and still is, a very special person. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
kyla kelly
April 7, 2009
Mrs. king was by far the nicest, sweetest person ever. she always went out of her way to make other people happy. she'd walk up and down the hallways with a big smile on her face and make everyone feel good.
i dont understand how anyone could ever hurt someone this loving.
R.I.P Mrs. King, we all love and miss you<3
Jill (Grummond) Adams
April 7, 2009
Tami,
I was so saddened to hear about the tragic loss of your mother. I have a vivid memory of being in the kitchen at your house at lunchtime. With kids clamoring around your mother, telling her what they wanted, your mom was smiling and calming telling each one she would get it in a minute. Please accept my deepest sympathy to you and your family.
Don Sindon
April 7, 2009
Dear King Family,
I was deeply saddened by the news of your mother's passing.
Like so many others, I will never forget your mother's kindness and hospitality. From our conversations during her lengthy shopping trips to Schuster's Supermarket, to her late night feedings of hungry teenage boys, she was always so pleasant to all of us.
My sincerest condolences to all of you.
Don
Kim Reigada ( Sparks )
April 7, 2009
Laura & family,
Very sorry to hear of your loss.
Your mother was a wonderful,kind woman and will be remembered always.
Germán Ospina
April 7, 2009
To the wonderful King family,
I’m sincerely sorry for your loss. Your family has touched many people and although I have moved away, not a day goes by when I don’t remember the great times I had in Binghamton. It was soccer and school with Brian, track and field with Laura, life guarding with Rosemarie. I want you to know that a lot of what my life is I owe to people exactly like your Mom, who reached out to new Americans, who loved to teach, who put smiles on people’s faces. This news has deeply affected everyone in my family….my parents used to go for English classes at the same center…all my brothers knew the King House by Macarthur. We had the pleasure and honor to call members of the King family our classmates, our colleagues, our teachers, our friends. My heart and my prayers go out to you all. May God bless you all.
Karen Saettel (O'Boyle) (Class of '77)
April 7, 2009
Beth, Tammi, & all of the King Family,
It has been many years but please know that my heart goes out to you at this most tragic time. Your Mom was such a sweet lady. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Please accept my deepest sympathies.
Hilbert Maloff
April 7, 2009
Although I was not fortunate enough to know any of the children, I did know Bobbie and Aaron for over fifty years when I lived in Syracuse. I must say I have never met anyone as peaceful, patient and accepting as Bobbi. It is sad that something like this could happen to a woman of her nature. Hopefully, her goodness will never be forgotten and be passed on through her children.
Bill McMurray
April 7, 2009
Laura,
At this most difficult of times, solace comes in knowing that your mother's goodness and loving energy lives on in the lives of so many. I hold you close in thought and prayer.
Linda Fuhrman
April 7, 2009
To the entire family of Bobbi King,
Our heartfelt thoughts and prayers are with you. Bobbi just called about a month ago to offer condolence to us and sent a lovely note mentioning some wonderful memories she wished to share. We are so saddened and in shock to learn of her sudden senseless passing. Bobbi was a warm wonderful giving person. She brightened everyones day. We shall sorely miss her.
Our love to you,
Linda Fuhrman, Brenda and Mark
Judith (Schwartzberg) Bernal
April 7, 2009
To Bobbie's siblings, Joel and Ellie who I knew well in our youth, to two of her nieces, Beth and Janet, who are my nieces too, and to her children who I never met,
When our dearest loved ones die they move inside of us. So here's to your beloved Bobbie and the light in her eyes and in her smile. May that light shine from your eyes, glow from your smiles and light each one of your paths.
I am so sorry she's been wrenched away, so sorry you are torn and suffering. You will heal, and she will be with you, inside you, smiling out at life as always.
I add my condolences to the support and good wishes flooding in, and send my deepest sympathies for your loss.
Marie Hurtado
April 7, 2009
Laura (and Family),
I was so sad to hear about this tragic loss of your mom. After meeting your family at your wedding it was easy to see the spark of your mom in you and your siblings. I hope you will somehow find peace as you work through this sad time of your life.
Nilda Ricard
April 7, 2009
My dearest Georgia and family,
I cannot find the words to express my thoughts. I can only say my prayers are with you and your entire family for your loss. May God Bless her Soul.
Valerie Elsheikh
April 7, 2009
I am so sorry for your lost. My prayers are with the family.
Ann Engle
April 7, 2009
Dear Jeff, Monique, Tammy, Beth and the entire King Family,
I loved talking with your Mom because she really made everyone feel special. She had such a gentle demeanor and was such a lovely woman. Her spirit will live on in her wonderful children and grandchildren. We will all miss her. May you find peace at this difficult time.
-Ann (Mangan) Engle and Family
Tony & Claire Fiato
April 7, 2009
Jeff & the Entire King Family,
We were truly shocked and saddened to hear of the loss of your beloved mother.
We have a fond memory of her, on a beautiful fall afternoon last year, visiting the orchard to pick apples.
Please accept our prayers and sincere sympathy.
Stephanie Cady
April 7, 2009
Laura and family,
Your family at Kellogg was so saddened to hear about your mother. She was a teacher we would have all wanted to work with. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Paula Antonevich
April 7, 2009
I am so sorry. The loss of a parent is so hard, and my thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Nancy Warfield
April 7, 2009
Dear King Family,
I would like to express my sympathy for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
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