Ruth Graham

Ruth Graham

Ruth Graham Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jun. 14, 2007.
MONTREAT, North Carolina (AP) _ Ruth Graham, who surrendered dreams of missionary work in Tibet to marry a suitor who became the world's most renowned evangelist, had died in North Carolina. She was 87.

Graham died at 5:05 p.m. (20105 GMT) on Thursday at her home at Little Piney Cove, surrounded by her husband and all five of their children, said a statement released by Larry Ross, Billy Graham's spokesman.

''Ruth was my life partner, and we were called by God as a team,'' Billy Graham said in a statement. ''No one else could have borne the load that she carried. She was a vital and integral part of our ministry, and my work through the years would have been impossible without her encouragement and support.

''I am so grateful to the Lord that He gave me Ruth, and especially for these last few years we've had in the mountains together. We've rekindled the romance of our youth, and my love for her continued to grow deeper every day. I will miss her terribly, and look forward even more to the day I can join her in Heaven.''

Ruth Graham had been bedridden for months with degenerative osteoarthritis of the back and neck _ the result of a serious fall from a tree in 1974 while fixing a swing for grandchildren _ and underwent treatment for pneumonia two weeks ago. At her request, and in consultation with her family, she had stopped receiving nutrients through a feeding tube for the last few days, Ross said.

The family plans a private interment ceremony and a public memorial service. Those arrangements had yet to be made on Thursday.

As Mrs. Billy Graham, Ruth Graham could lay claim to being the first lady of evangelical Protestantism, but neither exploited that unique status nor lusted for the limelight.

Behind the scenes, however, she was considered her husband's closest confidant during his spectacular global career _ one rivaled only by her father, L. Nelson Bell, until his death in 1973.

''She would help my father prepare his messages, listening with an attentive ear, and if she saw something that wasn't right or heard something that she felt wasn't as strong as it could be, she was a voice to strengthen this or eliminate that,'' said her son, Franklin, who is now the head of the Billy Graham Evangelistic Association.

''Every person needs that kind of input in their life and she was that to my father.''

Bell, a missionary doctor, headed the Presbyterian hospital in Qingjiang, China, that had been founded by the father of author Pearl Buck. Ruth grew up there and spent three high school years in what's now North Korea.

''What she witnessed in her family home, she practiced for herself _ dependence on God in every circumstance, love for his word, concern for others above self, and an indomitable spirit displayed with a smile,'' said the Grahams' youngest daughter, also named Ruth.

Despite her reluctance to be a public personality herself, Ruth Graham met many of the powerful and famous through her husband _ who was a spiritual adviser to presidents for decades. President Bush and first lady Laura Bush called her a ''remarkable woman of faith'' who ''inspired people around the world with her humor, intelligence, elegance, and kindness.''

She met Billy Graham at Wheaton College in Illinois. He recalled in 1997 memoirs, ''If I had not been smitten with love at first sight of Ruth Bell I would certainly have been the exception. Many of the men at Wheaton thought she was stunning.''

Billy Graham courted her, managing to coax her away from the foreign missions calling and into marriage after both graduated in 1943. In 1945, after a brief stint pastoring a suburban Chicago congregation, he became a roving speaker for the fledgling Youth for Christ organization.

From that point onward she had to endure her husband's frequent absences, remarking, ''I'd rather have a little of Bill than a lot of any other man.''

Ruth Graham moved the couple into her parents' home in Montreat, where they had relocated after fleeing wartime China. She stayed in western North Carolina mountain town the rest of her life.

The young couple later bought their own house across the street from the Bells. Then in 1956, needing protection from gawkers, the Grahams moved into Little Piney Cove, a comfortably rustic mountainside home she designed using logs from abandoned cabins. It became Billy's retreat between evangelistic forays.

Though the wife of a famous Baptist minister, the independent-minded Ruth Graham declined to undergo baptism by immersion and remained a loyal, lifelong Presbyterian. When in Montreat, a town built around a Presbyterian conference center, Billy Graham would attend the local Presbyterian church where his wife often taught the college-age Sunday School class.

Due to her husband's travels, she bore major responsibility for raising the couple's five children: Franklin (William Franklin III), Nelson, Virginia, Anne and Ruth.

Ruth Graham was the author or co-author of 14 books, including collections of poetry and the autobiographical scrapbook ''Footprints of a Pilgrim.''

In 1996, the Grahams were each awarded the Congressional Gold Medal for ''outstanding and lasting contributions to morality, racial equality, family, philanthropy, and religion.''

Crime novelist Patricia Cornwell began her writing career with a Ruth Graham biography that depicted many deeds of personal charity. Cornwell said as a youth in Montreat she thought Ruth Graham ''was the loveliest, kindest person ever born. I still do.''

She helped establish the Ruth and Billy Graham Children's Health Center in Asheville, and the Billy Graham Training Center near Montreat.

Ruth Graham will be buried at the new Billy Graham Library in Charlotte _ a source of apparent discord within the family last year. This week, Billy Graham said he and Ruth had decided ''after much prayer and discussion'' they would be laid to rest at the foot of a cross-shaped walkway in the library's prayer garden.


Copyright © 2007 The Associated Press

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steve fortosis

October 17, 2019

Though I was an unknown, Ruth Graham treated me like a friend. She always, without fail, answered my letters with a note. How many famous Christians would take the time to do such a thing. She placed her blessing on a book I wrote about Jimmy and Sophie Graham, missionaries in China who were like the dearest of grandparents to Ruth when she was a child. I look forward to see Ruth in that better place. I have a feeling that she has already met my mom who passed far too young from cancer.

ERICKA PHARISEE

March 22, 2018

TO ANGELS LIGHT UP HEAVEN NOW

Kathy Wood

March 11, 2018

My name is Kathy Wood. I live in Oakland Ca with my mother
at a retirement place. I always believe inJesus Christ, I was baptized,confirmation, communion. I am a catholic is my religion. I read the bible in all of the gospels at my church at Our Lady of Lourdes Church every Sunday Mass and Church Holidays like Good Friday, Eqster, Assensionj. She will be deeply missed my her family and friends. Beautiful coffin for RIP Billy Graham!. Beautiful coffin for Ruth Graham to. Both together eternity!.

Beth Odom

March 5, 2018

Together again.

Johnny Perry

February 25, 2018

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.

Barb Woodroof

July 4, 2017

I WILL MISS YOU SO MUCH.
YOUR BOOKS AND INTERVIEWS
MAKE ME REALIZE GODIS REAL.

gail sutton

May 14, 2016

you had the most wife i am very sorry for your loss..I met you Mr. graham at the London fair in London Ontario Canada where I gave myself to the London Again am very sorry....gail

Shirley Blair

May 7, 2016

I loved Bro.Billy & Sis. Ruth so much. I was a 7 yr old girl when my G/Father showed a Billy Graham film to the youth group. I accepted Christ into my heart as a result of that movie. Thru the yrs I have read everything I could that was authored by them. Very precious Souls, Rev Billy &
Sister Ruth. They so helped me.

margaret kelly

October 4, 2015

A lady never will be forgotten a heart after Gods own heart

Theresa Williams

September 10, 2015

Ruth Bell Graham was a Godly lady .♥

Randall Taylor

June 23, 2015

Ruth Graham was great lady and with her husband inspired the world! Sincerely: Randall Taylor

Wanda Logan

June 5, 2015

Thank You God for such an awesome illustration of a true Proverbs 31 Woman who lived her life with purpose; focused on You and The Lord, Jesus Christ. She will be forever loved and missed!!

Lois McCoy

April 12, 2015

As a child, I grew up watching the Billy Graham Crusade. I remember thinking what a powerful husband and wife ministry. The gift of God's Word from this ministry has been a part of my life. Ruth Graham will truly be missed. With the love of Christ.

Bethany George

February 10, 2015

Ruth Graham Is and always will be remembered and I hope I can lead a life that's as amazing if not more as amazing as hers. God is so great! ??

Grady Youngblood

October 28, 2014

Ruth Bell Graham is the wife of the Greatest Evangelist Dr.Billy Graham; for
Jesus Christ all to the Triune God.

October 22, 2014

I will always hold you, your wisdom, and your sense of humor dear to my heart. So sorry construction ended for you, but please know the road you paved to travel on through life have it easy for many women to walk in your footsteps, but we will never be able to completely fill your shoes. I am one of them--
R Council

joyce busch

May 25, 2014

You are definitely God's gift from Heaven, thank you for all you have given and will continue to give.
Joyce

jody snad

May 17, 2014

yo were an angel from heaven you will be misse

A GREENE

March 27, 2014

GREAT EXAMPLE OF A GODLY WOMAN

Barbara Armann

January 12, 2014

Your husband is waiting to be with his life-long love again! You guys were Gods blessing to the world. Thank you so much Ruth!

October 19, 2013

I can't imagine a better wife for Billy Graham. She kept him grounded, raised his 5 children, provided a loving home for her family and him, wrote books and poetry, and had a spunky sense of humor. Both Ruth and Billy are gifts from God to a hurting world, and will never be forgotten. I love you both. Thank you so much for the joy and inspiration.

Becky Mccray

May 4, 2013

You are a beautiful angel.

Becky Mccray

May 4, 2013

You will be missed.

Donna Johnson

July 30, 2012

I am so touched by her life story. Her life was so real, so dedicated, so meaningful and so loving. I believe because of her wisdom and positive influnce to her husband, Billy Graham, to light the world for Jesus like no one has ever done by pulling down barriors and uniting people. I love the strength to be a Loving but strong Mother taking care of the home so her husband could make a difference. And by the way, her name is so special and from the Bible - her Missionary parents must of felt her calling by giving her this powerful name!

Wanda Dailey

July 26, 2012

What a beautiful, and glowing face Ruth Graham has in her memorial photograph, the outward burst from her heart filled with our Lord & Savior, the Lord Jesus Christ! May she continue to bless her beloved husband, Billy, as he remembers her devotion and love for him and their children. May we all recall and follow her footsteps in the way of the Lord!

loretta morris

May 12, 2011

i know you're in heaven right now with your jesus & waiting for your beloved billy to walk through those pearly gate's,..

March 23, 2011

what a wonderful , Godly and Christian woman that inspired many. thank you for being a shining light in this darkened world. My husband and i have 6 teenagers and they do not leave the house without our prayers. Praise God for all his glory and allowing us to have someone like Ruth Graham on this earth.
D&M Estienne-Suffolk, VA

k l

January 25, 2011

I know that God is blessing you in heaven right now and because of your work your family will be blessed.

Michelle Dawson

January 24, 2011

Ruth you were a very wonderful lady and i really appreciate all you have done. May god bless you. Your waiting for us in heaven. Remember you didnt die, you just changed your address.

robert bullock

December 22, 2010

I WOULD LOVE TO SAY THAT I AM VEARY SORRY ABOUT THE LOST OF MRS GRAHAM SHE WAS ONE CHRISTIAN LADY WHO WALKED THE WALK AND TALKED THE TALK YOU COULD SEE THE LORD ALL OVER HER FACE.SHE SURLEY IS MISSED ROBERT BULLOCK CARY N.C.

Colleen Elizabeth Seibert

September 28, 2010

A friend, a wife, a mother,she was born of God,a great woman of God.

Vernon & Lisa Rathbone

July 29, 2010

We know that Ruth is missed greatly by family, friends and many others. We pray that her family will continue to be blessed for their service to Yeshua

Teresa Whitson

June 30, 2010

No one will ever be as special as Ruth Graham was. She was a saint, and loved by so many. I miss you Ruth everyday, Teresa

Sandra Miller

June 2, 2010

What an inspiration she is. A lucky lady as well, I think she had a very handsome, wonderful husband.

Sheila Shaw

May 1, 2010

Proverbs 31:10-31 says it all about this wonderful christian woman. Rest in peace.

Rob J

August 23, 2009

Blessings and Light to all.
The beacon of this beloved spirit reflects a life well lived. She shines on for eternity as an inspiration to those left behind.

Christine Praylo

May 29, 2009

I only wish that I could be half the tremendous Christian woman of faith and honor that she was. She is a great inspiration to me, especially because she was so beautifully flawed and humble.

elizabeth herring

January 13, 2009

Elizabeth Herring

rachel clay

October 30, 2008

Ruth was an amazing woman and i loved her book of poems.

maggie lopez

August 25, 2008

Ruth is so precious and an inspiration I'm sure to thousands of people. I thank God for her life here and for her gentleness and kindness to the world.

Cindy Ritter

August 23, 2008

may god bless all of you and keep
all of you in god's tender care
may all your wishes and dreams
come true for all of you and for many
years to come

may god bless all of you

Janet Waters

March 30, 2008

may God bless you and your family at this time

Carolyn Boykin

March 11, 2008

What an awesome example for all of us to follow. My prayer each day is I could leave the kind of legacy for my children and grandchildren that your wife left to you and yours. God Bless you Always for your faithfulness & obedience in all you do.

angela mckennelly

January 29, 2008

Reverend Graham,I'm sorry for
your recent loss of your wife. It's a loss to everyone who know her and the life the she lead.

Grady youngblood

January 21, 2008

I bless you all the Lord for Dr.billy graham of the cross.

TERESA ADKINS

December 3, 2007

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HAZEL AND SANDY O'NEAL

August 15, 2007

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Our hearts go out to you at this time and in the days ahead.

Bonny Gladman

August 12, 2007

What a joy Ruth must have been to you as your wife and a helpmate in your ministry. She was truly a wonderful woman and christian. The angels were singing when she left this life and she will be singing when you join her in heaven.

Robert Brizius

August 12, 2007

My grandma show me about Billy Graham in new paper when i was 13 in 1953.She told all about Billy Graham.My email [email protected]

BETTY BLAKELY

August 11, 2007

Dear:Rev.Billy GRAHAM,GOD lookeddown from heaven and smiled the day you answered the call to take the gospelto the whole worldand he said I'm gone to send billy one of my best,and he sent you Ruth,behind every good man stands a good devoted wife,which helped you thru out those years.she kept the home fires burningand raised those children that GOD had blessed you two with while you were on the field winning those for souls for him.may GOD continue to bless and keep you.

Janie Stamper

August 10, 2007

Ruth was a beautiful lady, an example to all of us. I have her book,Prayers from a Mother's Heart, and it has been such a help to me so many times. I thank God for giving her to Billy , they were such a wonderful couple, so down to earth. God bless the Graham family.

JAN CHRISTMAS

July 31, 2007

WHAT A PRECIOUS GIFT FROM GOD THAT
RUTH GRAHAM WAS, AND SUCH A GREAT
WIFE TO BILLY. SHE NOW IS WITH
HER LORD, AND SAVIOUR..IN HEAVEN
WHICH I AM SURE IS AN AWESOME SIGHT. THE STREETS OF GOLD, AND TO
SEE JESUS FACE TO FACE....AWESOME.
RUTH FOUND HER PURPOSE IN LIFE, AND
TRULY LIVED IT TO THE FULLEST. MY
PRAYERS TO BILLY, TO COMFORT HIM
AT THIS TIME, HE DID NOT LOOSE RUTH
SHE JUST WENT FIRST, AND IS WAITING
FOR THE DAY HE WILL JOIN HER. I
GREW UP WATCHING BILLY FOR YEARS,
AND STILL WATCH HIM, LOVE TO YOU
AND YOUR FAMILY BILLY. PRAISE GOD
FOR ALL THE WORK YOU AND RUTH HAVE
DONE FOR CHRIST. SEE YOU ON THE
OTHER SIDE, SOMEDAY, AND THEN I WILL FINALLY GET TO MEET YOU, AND
RUTH, AND YOUR FAMILY.MAY GOD
CONTINUE TO BLESS YOU BILLY TO CARRY ON FOR 'UNTILL THEN'

NANETTE LUND

July 29, 2007

WHAT A BLESSING FROM THE LORD JESUS CHRIST. THANK YOU FOR LETTING THE LORD USE YOU TO TOUCH SO MANY LIVES. HOW COMFORTING IT MUST BE FOR YOUR FAMILY TO KNOW YOU ARE WITH JESUS CHRIST IN HEAVEN, AND KNOWING YOU WILL ALL BE TOGETHER AGAIN ONE DAY BEFORE THE THRONE.

Linda McCarty

July 28, 2007

what an inspiration you have always been to women everywhere.God used you in the best possible way to advance his ministry. See you in heaven.

Andrew Jagessar

July 24, 2007

Angels were singing as another soldier entered her rest with her Master.
We will join her not too long from now.
To Rev. Graham and the entire family: We will see her in glory. We will finish this race in victory,

Barbara Teal

July 23, 2007

What an inspiration Ruth has been through the years and what a great example for all wives and Mothers to follow. She has blessed so many in her own way and been such a helper for Billy's service to the Lord. We send our sympathy to all her family.Our loss is heavens' gain .

Cindy Mathis

July 22, 2007

My family and I are saddened for each of you. If it weren't for Jesus we would not have a reunion for eternity one glorious day. We called our Mom and said Ruth met Daddy today in Heaven! In Christ, The Edwards family. Thank you Billy for telling the story of Glory!

Mr and Mrs George Pangelinan

July 20, 2007

Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.

Cheryl Byrd

July 19, 2007

Ruth was someone I felt I knew , even though I had never met her. It was at one of Bill's crusades in Asheville, NC (back in the 60's),that I accepted Christ. I thank Ruth for allowing her husband to be available to preach the gospel. I know that there were times when she must have felt alone, but God gave her the grace to carry on in spite of her husband's absences. What a legacy!
Sincerely, Cheryl

Kenneth and Sharon Webster

July 15, 2007

Billy,
God bless you as you grieve. We grieve with you, but also rejoice that Ruth has found the eternal purpose for which God created her. She is greatly missed, but is resting with the saints. What a glorius thought to know that she is celebrating eternity with my many family members who reside with Christ in heaven. Thank you, both for sharing your lives with us all.

Barbara Goodson

July 14, 2007

THE WORLD WAS A MUCH BETTER PLACE BECAUSE OF RUTH. NOW HEAVEN IS EVEN MORE BLESSED WITH HER WONDERFUL PRESENCE. WE SHALL ALL, THAT ARE CHRISTIANS, MEET HER SOMEDAY IN THE SWEET BYE AND BYE. IN HIS NAME, OUR PRAYERS TO ALL THE FAMILY. BARBARA GOODSON

Gayle Beckner

July 12, 2007

Dear Billy Graham and family, I am saddened to hear of the loss of Ruth who was such a remarkable woman; one who exemplied a true Christian woman's attire - she wore it so well and graciously. She was so unselfish in giving up some of her dreams to make room for her husband's calling, which she supported with all her heart enveloped in love. And to Billy Graham, I would like to say, "thank you for submitting to God's calling in your life and for all the unselfish extra hours you put in to the reach so many lost souls. Perhaps T.V. was invented specifically with you in mind, so you could come into our homes and reach those from all corners of the earth!" God bless....

Van & Patty Cottom

July 12, 2007

Thank you for living, giving us healing laughter from time to time, and for sharing you husband with the World.

Dortha Knotts

July 11, 2007

Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.

Terri Lustig

July 11, 2007

You are a beloved woman of God in the hearts of all of us who have seen your life through your husband's very public calling but have cherished your godly example through our own private lens.

Rosalie Colli

July 11, 2007

Rev Graham, God Bless you, I know he has you in his loving arms.

Bobbi Ligon

July 11, 2007

I hope you meet my grandmother there. You would be great friends.

Wilma Springer

July 11, 2007

Thank you for being an inspiration to me by the godly life you lived.

Susan Grovogel

July 11, 2007

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2007


Dear Graham family,
One day you too will arrive to be reunited with your loved one. What a blessing the Graham family has been in my life for many years. I was only a child when I remember my parents turning on the Billy Graham Crusade, and to this day I still catch one of the messages when it is on. My deepest sympathy's to you and Ruth will be missed.

Jean Tobinski

July 11, 2007

What a remarkable woman. I have read many of her books, and enjoyed them all. She will truly be missed.

Delilah Graham

July 11, 2007

To all the Graham family..I know you feel empty insde now.. But Mrs.Ruth Graham. is in a better place than we are today. Oh what a joy when you meet her on the other side..My prayers are with you..

Becky Y.

July 10, 2007

I Pray for the Graham family to give them comfort that only comes from God as we mourn the loss of Ruth Graham here on earth. But with joy we are assured that we will all meet again, through Faith; death will be no more...what a wonderful day that will be! As our Heavenly Father greets us and we are with are loved ones for Eternity. Thank you God for Ruth Graham as she was a blessing to all.
In Gods care we place our loved ones.

Elizabeth Pruitt

July 10, 2007

I am so grateful to have known Ruth Graham through her writings, and because I know Billy Graham depended on her support and loyalty to Christ and his ministry. God bless you, Elizabeth Pruitt

helen mcclendon

July 9, 2007

to the family of mrs ruth graham. this world has lost an angel here on earth but she will for ever be in GOds holy choir. i know how much it hurts to lose a mother i lost my dear mother on june ist and the pain is so raw and hurts so very much but i too know she now resides in a much better place GOD be with us all. prayers and thoughts of a beautiful lady.

Doyle Mayse

July 8, 2007

We are saddened at the loss of a Christian lady who was a great example to us all. While we are saddened at her loss, we rejoice because we know she is with our Savior Jesus Christ now.

Cindy Walter

July 6, 2007

You are in my thoughts and prayers!

Cheryl Johnson

July 6, 2007

She is in Heaven with my Mother and watching over us all. My thoughts and prayers are with your family. I know how hard it is as I just lost my mother but I WILL see her again some day!

Norma Davis

July 3, 2007

God sends his children to do his work on earth. When our work is done then he wants us to come back
home. She was truly a good person
and did what was asked of her. I know she is an inspiration to a lot of us.
My prayers are with the family.

Denise Brown

July 3, 2007

What a remarkable woman.

Marilyn Carlson-Howell

July 2, 2007

Ruth Grham's beautiful book of poetry about her life with Billy is so precious.I read it with tears and gratitude. Had she not been the incredible woman of God that she was, Billy's work might have been much less. She has been such a wonderful living example to all women. She truly loved and lived her life fully commited to further the cause of Christ. I am so thankful to have lived at a time I could be blessed by the selfless sacrafice both Ruth and Billy provided. My husband and I were both save at His Crusade in San Diego in the 1960's. Praise God!

michelle allen

July 2, 2007

A new angel reigns in heaven! No more suffering, no more pain, because Ruth is called home to reign. My prayers are with her entire family, their loss is so great, but her gain is undescribeable!

Janie Wright

July 1, 2007

Our prayers are with you, Billy Graham and family. I have read many of your books and also those of Ruth. You have been a blessing to me and my family through the years. May God continue to use you and your family in the Ministry. Sincerely, Janie Wright; West Plains, Mo

Steve Hargis

July 1, 2007

May God Bless you Ruth, and the whole Graham family... You are the greatest !!

Peggy Brown

July 1, 2007

Dear Reverend Billy Graham and Family: I know that no words can relieve the pain you are going through because of the death of such a wonderful woman as Ruth. The two of you are such a find example of what marriage should be. I first heard you when I was 18 years old and pregnant with my first child. I have never had anything touch me like you did that night at the old Atlanta Cracker Baseball Field in Atlanta, Georgia.

I just lost the son that I was pregnant with when I went to hear you that night in Atlanta, Ga. I know how much you miss Ruth because I cannot get my son out of my mind. The only thing that helps us at a time like this is to know that they have gone to a better place and someday we will join them. Bless you all. Peggy Brown (Snellville, Georgia)

Mary F. Rudd Carlson

July 1, 2007

My parents had the privilege of being in the home where Billy Graham roomed while a student at Wheaton College shortly before his marriage to Ruth. They shared with me precious memories of that time together before his ministry began. May the Lord comfort all of this wonderful family!

L.F. Fewins

June 30, 2007

Dear Family...


I am home in Heaven,dear ones;Oh,so happy And so bright There is a perfect joy and Beauty in this everlasting light.All the Pain and grief is over,Ever restless Tossing passed;I am now at peace Forever,Safely home in Heaven at last.Did You wonder I so calmly Trod the valley of The shade? Oh! But Jesus love Illumined,Every dark and fearful Glade.And he came Himself to meet me in The way so hard to tread;And with Jesus` Arm to lean on,Could I have one doubt or Dread? Then you must not grieve so Sorely,for I love you dearly still;`Try To look beyond earth`s shadows,Pray and Trust our Father`s Will.There is work Still waiting for you,So you must not Idly stand;Do it while life remaineth-You Shall rest in Jesus` land,When that work Is all completed,He will gently call you Home;Oh the rapture of that meeting,Oh The joy to see you come! My love to you all...waiting for you

Copy written by;L.Faye Fewins
Our prayers are with you all.Great Christian Lady,

Betty Tengesdal

June 29, 2007

My husband went forward at a Billy Graham Crusade in L.A. in 1972 and gave his life to the Lord. His neighbors had invited him and he said it took 5 nights before he finally went forward and surrendered to the Lord. Thanks for your great ministry and God Bless You as you mourn the loss of your beloved wife and mother.

Neil & Linda Johnson

June 29, 2007

My husband and I have been with this family for almost all of our life. We have grown up with you and your family. That's the way we feel....like part of our family has gone Home to be with the Lord. Heaven is getting closer every minute. May God continue to bless you and keep you close. Just to breathe the name of Jesus...this is the only thing to give you that peace He tells of...the One that passeth all understanding.

Karen Pollard

June 28, 2007

I came to know the Lord after hearing Billy Graham preach on TV at a crusade while I was a college student in the early 1970's.
Since then, our family has all come to know the Lord, and now, our grandchildren are being reared in the faith! What a wonderful saviour we serve.
God bless your entire family until the Lord brings you together again in His Kingdom! I know you will miss your Mom, but she's is with our most loving, compassionate savior in heaven, a MUCH better place.
Blessings to you all.

Muriel Campbell

June 28, 2007

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well-lived.

Lydia LeVasseur Lynch

June 27, 2007

My mother who is in heaven with your precious Ruth turned my eyes and ears toward the ministry of Billy Graham who played a role in my own walk with sweet Jesus. Mrs. Graham, thank you for your part in my coming into the kingdom. I look forward to seeing you there dear one.
Father God, please keep her beloved Billy strong and with remaining joy until they rejoice in your presence together.

Lisa

June 27, 2007

My sincere condolances go out to the Graham family. The angels are singing and rejoicing.

Judy Belgeri

June 27, 2007

Dear Graham family,

I can't possibly know the sadness you all must endure. Please know that you are prayerfully lifted to our Heavenly Father for comfort, His strength and peace as you go through... In Jesus' name.

Jewel Carter

June 27, 2007

My sincere expression of Love to all of the Graham Family. Your Mother & Rev.Graham,in my opinion, have presented God's mission to the world,for all of my life. I have listened or watched Rev. Graham's messages,anytime that I knew they were on,(as my Mom & Dad did) for many years. Without a doubt, Billy was given gifts from God,& his wife Ruth was part of his spiritual gift. I always felt God's spirit in every single Rev.Billy Graham's Message & know that God is with you All now. Thank You all for letting God lead you, as you have & can, to help this world be a more loving, peaceful, Christian world. In God I Trust! Blessings!

Gail Wilfred

June 27, 2007

Ruth Graham is my heroine & favorite author.I've always felt very close to her because of her honesty & openness. Once I wrote her asking how to order a copy of Prodigals & Those Who Love Them & she sent me a free copy. I've memorized so much of her poetry;her marvelous personality still speaks to me daily.

Nancy Burke

June 26, 2007

God Bless you Billy Graham and your family. I was very young when I first watched your televised crusades, with my Mom, Dad, sisters and brothers. It always left me with an incredible spiritual calmness and as always brought us closer to Christ! Thank you for your dedication, and God bless you and yours. We are sorry for your loss, as well as our loss of Ruth Graham!!!

Barbara Matthews

June 26, 2007

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

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