Rod McKuen

1933 - 2015

Rod McKuen

1933 - 2015

BORN

1933

DIED

2015

Rod McKuen Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jan. 29, 2015.
NEW YORK (AP) — Rod McKuen, the husky-voiced "King of Kitsch" whose music, verse and spoken-word recordings in the 1960s and '70s won him Oscar nominations and made him one of the best-selling poets in history, has died. He was 81.

McKuen died Thursday morning at a rehabilitation center in Beverly Hills, California, where he had been treated for pneumonia and had been ill for several weeks and was unable to digest food, said his half brother, Edward McKuen Habib.

Until his sabbatical in 1981, McKuen was an astonishingly successful and prolific force in popular culture, turning out hundreds of songs and poems and records, including the Academy Award-nominated song "Jean" for the 1969 film "The Prime of Miss Jean Brodie."

Sentimental, earnest and unashamed, he conjured a New Age spirit world that captivated those who didn't ordinarily like "poetry" and those who craved relief from the war, assassinations and riots of the time.

"I think it's a reaction people are having against so much insanity in the world," he once said. "I mean, people are really all we've got. You know it sounds kind of corny, and I suppose it's a cliche, but it's really true; that's just the way it is."

His best-known songs, some written with the Belgian composer Jacques Brel, include "Birthday Boy," "A Man Alone," "If You Go Away" and "Seasons In the Sun," a chart-topper in 1974 for Terry Jacks. He was nominated for an Oscar for "Jean" and for "A Boy Named Charlie Brown," the title track for the Peanuts movie.

Frank Sinatra, Madonna, Dolly Parton and Chet Baker were among the many artists who recorded his material, although McKuen often handled the job himself in a hushed, throaty style he honed after an early life as a rock singer cracked his natural tenor.

McKuen is credited with more than 200 albums — dozens of which went gold or platinum — and more than 30 collections of poetry. Worldwide sales for his music top 100 million units while his book sales exceed 60 million copies.

He was particularly productive in the late '60s, releasing four poetry collections, eight songbooks, the soundtracks to "Miss Jean Brodie" and "A Boy Named Charlie Brown" and at least 10 other albums.

Around the same time, his "Lonesome Cities" album won a Grammy for best spoken word recording and Sinatra commissioned him to write material for "A Man Alone: The Words and Music of Rod McKuen."

With his sharply parted blond hair, sneakers and jeans, McKuen was recognized worldwide in every medium: movies, music, books, television, stage.

When not writing or recording, he appeared on "The Tonight Show" with Johnny Carson and other talk show programs, formed a film production company with Rock Hudson and toured constantly until he took an extended break in 1981.

"I was tired. I peaked. I left when I was on top," McKuen told the Chicago Tribune in 2001. "One year, I did 280 concerts. I was all over the world. I went to cities I never saw. I'd go to sleep and then it was time to get up and be in the next town."

McKuen sometimes wrote a poem or song a day. He had no formal musical or literary training and prided himself on writing verse that anyone could understand.

Among his most quoted phrases were "Listen to the warm" and "It doesn't matter who you love, or how you love, but that you love."

McKuen, however, didn't receive universal acclaim. Newsweek dubbed him "The King of Kitsch," while the magazine Mademoiselle preferred "Marshmallow Poet." And a National Lampoon parody interspaced mock verses with dollar signs.

McKuen's childhood was as hard as his lyrics were soft. Born in Oakland in 1933, McKuen's father left when he was a baby, and he was terrified of his alcoholic stepfather.

By 11, McKuen had run away. He spent his teens doing everything from ranching to roping horses in a rodeo, and he wrote poetry in his free time.

After serving as a propaganda writer in the Korean War, McKuen wound up in San Francisco, where his friend Phyllis Diller helped him find work in the growing nightclub scene.

He went on to sing with the Lionel Hampton band, acted in a handful of movies and TV shows, read poetry on the same bill as Jack Kerouac and other Beat writers and had a minor hit single in the early 1960s with the dance parody "Oliver Twist."

While living in France, he met Brel and began a friendship that set him on his way to superstardom. His English-language adaptations of Brel's songs included the hit "Seasons In the Sun" and the pop standard "If You Go Away."

Without critical approval or a book or recording contract, McKuen proved that an artist could thrive on word of mouth alone. He sang in bowling alleys to promote "Oliver Twist," which cracked the Billboard top 100. His self-published collection of poems and lyrics, "Stanyan Street and Other Sorrows," sold tens of thousands of copies before Random House acquired it.

McKuen slowed down over the second half of his life, and many of his books fell out of print. However, he continued to publish poetry, remastered old musical recordings and gave occasional concerts. He provided voiceovers for the Disney movie and TV series "The Little Mermaid" and appeared at Carnegie Hall in 1995 for an 80th birthday tribute to Sinatra. Artists continued to record his songs, including the former Gene Ween, Aaron Freeman, who in 2012 released an album of McKuen covers called "Marvelous Clouds."

McKuen did at times take on social and political issues. He opposed the Vietnam War, wrote a poem about the Watergate scandal and supported civil rights and equal rights for gays.

Associated Press writer Robert Jablon contributed to this report from Los Angeles.

HILLEL ITALIE, AP National Writer




Copyright © 2015 The Associated Press. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten, or redistributed.

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Mia Flett

July 7, 2025

I miss Rod Mckuen, he represents a part of my life when I was naive,innocent,even a bit gullible I'm not ashamed to say. Rod's poetry spoke to my young soul and my heart and I learned a lot about feelings,loving and crying. Tears represent honesty about my inner heart,not ashamed to say that 55 years later I weep at hearing his voice and reading his words. Rod Mckuen will live on in this heart,held close til it stops beating. Thank you Rod and Edward.

Ernesto Reyes

June 9, 2025

Siempre presente, su voz no morirá.

tyne doyle

March 30, 2025

'this is yours too my love, as long as sometimes i too can drink of the nectar herein' said the card from my dad which came with a well thumbed out copy of 'alone' for my 16th birthday.. rod's poetry changed my life in hows and ways that are too many to detail here..suffice to say his words saved me and put me on the path to becoming a writer after purging my pain through poems inspired by him.. and then finding the joy in the seasons and the son.. he is part of the fabric of who i am today

Carol Anderson

March 4, 2025

In my 1st years off the farm and squirreled into Minneapolis living Rod's beautiful words brought me back to my rustic comfort zone. To this day Rod's music and words rock my soul to sleep. He's unforgettable.

Janice Vacco

September 20, 2023

Saw Mr. McKuen in Chautauqua, NY several years ago. Took one of his books with me and had him autograph it. It was thrilling

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April 26, 2022

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Mari LaFore

April 26, 2022

Your poetry introduced me to something I'd never known before~LOVE~and you gave me and my daughter a night to remember in 2000 at the Paramount Theater in Aurora, Illinois!

W Allen GALBREATH

March 1, 2022

In loving memory.... Thank you, Rod you saved my life with your words, music and I related to your soul. We talked and I thank you for that and your support. You saved my life

TS

January 31, 2022

Through your words you gave me hope when I didn't have any. Your words helped me to feel understood and not alone. Thank you Rod, your presence on this earth was a gift to the world. You are Forever in my heart.

C Thelander

February 11, 2020

We never wanted you to leave but you did. We shall always remember you and your beautiful words.

Sandra Graham

August 10, 2019

I will never forget Rod nor the effect of love he had on my life.

p Kennedy

February 20, 2017

Carry on Rod. You have a whole new audience! They have been waiting for you....

Jane Taylor

October 5, 2016

Thank you Rod for visiting my plant nursery in Santa Barbara.

The rows and rows of flowers must have delighted a flower and plant enthusiast like you.

Robert Russo

October 2, 2016

His poem Rock Gentley made me cry. I was one of his biggest fans His poems really touched my heart

Elly van Os

February 27, 2016

Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.

August 23, 2015

I HAVE LOVED ROD ALL MY LIFE
JDCR

July 29, 2015

Rod was my hero. His life mirrored mine in many ways.

I think surely Rod and I were brother in a different life and time.
your old friend in South Carolina

Odell

Lynnette Koval

June 9, 2015

I have been a fan of Mr. McKuens'for years. I had the privilege of attending his St. Paul Mn. concert in the 70s. I sat right up front & was thrilled. I have every book that he wrote & most of his cds.I am saddened by his death, but he has given such joy to so many & will live on in our hearts through his wonderful poetry & music. May God hold you in the palm of his hand Mr. McKuen.
Sincerely, with Love & Blessings
Lynnette A Koval

Phoenix 2006

Dale

March 25, 2015

What a wonderful man, he gave us so much. My heart goes out to you Ed and Ken and all his "family." Rest in peace, my friend. Dale~

Joyce Granville

March 11, 2015

Dear Rod: I loved your concerts. Especially the one where the young girl walked down to the stage with the beautiful needlepoint picture of the Stanyan Street House. Everyone there went nuts and Rod was speechess and he gave the girl a kiss on the cheek and thanked her. It was magic! Sincerely, Joyce Granville - San Francisco Bay area

February 27, 2015

Whew! That's tough news! Rod I have been friends since 1966. He recently sent me well wishes and support when I was diagnosed with PC. For my first date with my (now) wife of 42 years, I took her to Rod's concert at Charles Schultz's Redwood Empire Ice Arena in Santa Rosa. After the concert, I took Sue back stage to meet Rod and Charles Schultz. We always joked that he was the parental mentor of my writing style. We used to have an informal contest to see if I could purchase a copy of any of his newly released records or books before he would send one to me. At last tally, he was ahead by 31 times. He recently shared with me that he was working on letters to my sons about our friendship, stating, "Those kind of letters take thought and more than a little imagination." My condolences and support go out to Edward, Ken and the Stanyan staff and family. I will miss him greatly. He always provided support and was a true gentleman. -Allen F. Weitzel

rosemary calo

February 10, 2015

We met in 1980 and i never forgot you. A kind and gentle man. Your autographed book sits on my dresser. You will always be in my heart.R.I.P.

Nancy Lindsey

February 10, 2015

Dear Rod,
I grew up in San Francisco during the 50s & 60s. We would listen to you in coffee shops. You had a huge positive impact on so many. And the music the best. You will be missed. We will keep on listening to your records. Yes I have 2 turntables. Thank you seems like not quite enough.

Jeanne

February 9, 2015

So sad to learn of the passing of Rod McKuen. His poetry was part of my college years at UW-Madison, and will always remind me of a first love there.

Poem for a friend

jim johst

February 9, 2015

February 7, 2015

A few years ago I discovered his web site and was delighted to find him again. Imagine my delight when he responded to my e-mail in Ask Rod. laura CA

February 7, 2015

Although we never met, spoke or touched minds, we did join in thought. I shall forever have deep within in me your wisdom, your olive branch of the World. God bless you, until we meet, Rod, Dave.
Mother Nature lot it's true Son X

Todd Crane

February 7, 2015

Rod McKuen, you will be missed. When I was in radio in the late 60's and early 70's I'd play Rod's music and read his poetry on my late night program. He was an awesome writer. God Bless Rod.

Lamont Cranston

February 6, 2015

While going to EWSC in the late 60's i discovered his work. Love his poets and songs. RIP Mr. Mckuen your work will go on living thanks to you.

Brenda

February 6, 2015

Rod's fans have said it all. Through his life story, his music, and his poems, he inspired many and saw them through some difficult times. Try to find comfort in the words at John 11:11-14. Just remember, death is the opposite of life. It is like a deep sleep. It should be so comforting to know that Rod McKuen, whom we all adored, is no longer suffering, but resting from the joyous work of a life well lived.

Jay Sturgess

February 5, 2015

We weren't ready for you to leave. But then, would we ever be? I wish I knew how such a gift as you could grow from abuse to adulthood at eleven and still be so full of love and beauty and talent, and a need to share it all with us. Forever grateful for you and your many gifts, the poems, the thoughts, the music, your accessibility-- showing us how we could live and love. I hope you felt the love. Rest in peace, my friend.

Lynn Boston

February 5, 2015

A beautiful person and a life well lived. Rest in peace.

Von P

February 4, 2015

Thanks for giving me a safe haven to rest upon when life made no sense.

SARKI ADELABU

February 4, 2015

SILENCE REALLY IS GOLDEN. THANKS FOR WORDS OF PRAISE THAT HELPED ALL OF US TRY TO MAKE IT FROM DAY TO DAY.

Ron Mc Knigh

February 4, 2015

Thank You Rod for all your inspiration over the years . The Art of catching Trains got me traveling around Europe as a young man! Your books , poetry and records fill the silent moments ! You give me a new understanding of love and loving to fill a life time . So much personal understanding on the written page about people, animal and the nature of the changing season in our lives. Thank you for taking the time to share your world and helping other to explore their inner selves .
I got to meet you in Amsterdam 6 years ago at your last concert in Europe . What a treat it was and top that I got chat to you after the Show and get a copy of alone sign . I am never alone when I read your poetry . You fill the room with your voice and your words .
As you move in to the next world I wish you well and rest easy the best is yet to come Regards Ron

Lori Ann

February 4, 2015

Rod, until we meet again on that sunny shore have wonderful travels.......

February 3, 2015

I loved him so much. His words were such a comfort to me as a young adult trying to find my way--he made me feel as if I wasn't alone--he understood.
Cheryl-Montana

Carol Ann Bertucci

February 3, 2015

R.I.P.Dear old p.c. friend!!!!!

Carol Ann Bertucci

February 3, 2015

Going to miss you, were great poet!! Read 1st in 69, book given to me as gift, was in hospital. Loved it, and all your work.Yrs. later, heard your records, Sea, sky, earth. Fell in love w/ them. Found them in old collection, 30 yrs.later! Scratched up. Son got p.c. told him to google you. You, so was said personally emailed me back. Went on for a couple of yrs, unless it was an imposter. You told us stories, very interesting!!Lost track, found some cd's at flea mkt., new. Favorite, sea etc . World ost a great, smart man, who enriched many lifes. R.I.P.Great Man. And condolences to your close friends, etc.

Barbara Wintroub

February 2, 2015

I am so saddened to read that Rod has left us. I have your albums and books scattered on my floor as the wonderful memories of sitting in the front row of the Troubadour watching you sing come flooding back. So many nights I cried listening to The Sea as I cry now thinking that you are gone. Sleep well Rod.

February 2, 2015

To the family of such a talent man will you accept my condolences. And, may the God of all comfort be a refuge for you at such a sad time.

Reba

February 2, 2015

I was introduced as a young girl to the lovely poetry with Anita Kerr / San Sebastian Strings and our wonderful Rod McKuen. My personal favorite will always be from "the sea" , a piece called "the storm" Such a great loss. Thank you for all the lovely poetry and music you gave us.

Rod in Paris, about 1966

Paul de Boef

February 2, 2015

February 1, 2015

OH, Rod, you contributed so much to the world, so prolific and versatile. You turned around a rough childhood into a productive and inspiring life. Of your many accomplishments that I appreciated, two humorous greeting card records gave me and my friends many hours of enjoyment -- "It's Been" and Let's Have Lunch" from 1977... we laughed so much. Thank you. Make that music up with the angels now.

February 1, 2015

Hours were spent reading his poetry and listening to his albums. He was a huge part of my life in those days. He will be remembered always. laura leong

February 1, 2015

I had the pleasure and honor of listening to RM in the "Green Spider" in the early 60's. He kept us all captivated! Eventually I purchased 20 of his books, which I read often. R.I.P. Roger L.

Rod Mckuen San Francisco

Michelle Pennington

February 1, 2015

Rod it was terrible news to hear you aren't with us any-more. The first time I heard of you was when my English teacher played your l.p. "the Sun" in class one day in the 1967. I just had to go out and buy the record.
There will never be another you so loved and missed. R.I.P.
Michelle Pennington

Cayuga Serlinge

February 1, 2015

Rod was the greatest poet. We learned a lot of poems from him and tried putting the poems to use in our plays.
RIP Sir Rod.

Joan Greene

February 1, 2015

I love his poetry. It speaks of the most universal and important things in life. Ah to be so well spoken, a life well lived. RIP Rod McKuen.

February 1, 2015

Thanks for being there when I was growing up and needed someone - Run free with the wind, and sail the calming seas alongside of your cherished Sloopy.

Your kind & gentle essence shall remain in hearts that remember.... and are thankful.

~?~

Sandra - Fremont, Ca.

Paul

February 1, 2015

Thank you Rod, for all the inspiration and support. You gave me so much, and you will always be my refuge.

February 1, 2015

The poems and collections of Rod McKuen were part of my teens and early adault years. To this day I wonder how many colors of blue make up the sky - 7, 10 maybe. RIP Rod, you were a gift to us all.

Richard See

February 1, 2015

A soft kitten, a warm bed, a sunny day and your poetry make me the most comfortable. I know all your words............I wish I had known you.

Jessie

February 1, 2015

His poetry and music sustained me through a frightening and hurtful teens. He comforted me, to know someone was so gentle and caring. I saw him in person once, will never forget it or him, may he rest in blessed peace.

JACQUE VOWELL

January 31, 2015

I treasure his poetry. Still have them from my youth in 1968.

Gerard Clarke

January 31, 2015

I remember Rod doing a couple of series for the BBC over here in the UK many years ago. That was my intro to his warmth, sincerity and beautiful words and music. God Bless.

Valerie Brown

January 31, 2015

If you go is my all time favorite song. I am sad because now you have. Love, an adoring can for many decades. Glad you were here.

January 31, 2015

Brought back many mevories when we were young in Oakland and North Hollywood. Will miss you.
Love DeLone Jamee.

BCM

January 31, 2015

RIP

Barbara

January 31, 2015

"It does not matter who you LOVE, or how you LOVE, but that you LOVE"....are the truest words that were given to me by this wonderful man, writer & artist. He shared his soul to touch, lift and heal countless of our souls. May his writings and memories keep him in our hearts and lives forever. I Celebrate his Life!

January 31, 2015

Rod's music and poetry carried me through my first broken heart. I can't say, but only feel, the impact he had on my life. He will always live in my heart and memories. Thank you, Rod.

Anita

January 31, 2015

It is almost impossible to articulate what a blessing Rod's words and music were during a difficult time in my life. They sustained me. I wept then and weep now. What a loss to the world! Rest in Peace, Rod. You have more than earned it!

Gloria Fox Roberts

January 31, 2015

My heart stopped for an instant when I heard Rod had left us.He was my idol, my friend, and my frequent source of comfort. Recently his Christmas album brightened our home.I will miss him every day.I am thankful he was part of my life.

Billy Hedgepeth

January 31, 2015

I knew you through your words. Words of love, hope, and hope of love. You inspired me to write and for that I shall be forever grateful. May you rest in peace and shall we meet in the great beyond.

BB Baker

January 31, 2015

Rest in Peace
You've been a wonderful friend to me through words.

KM

January 31, 2015

I am truly sorry for your loss. Rod will be remembered by millions for his inspirational music and poetry. May God also keep Mr. McKuen in His book of remembrance. (Malachi 3:16)

January 31, 2015

Sorry for the McKuen's loss. Hope all can have comfort from God diring this difficult time.

Jayne Swartzwelder

January 31, 2015

Thank you for your music...Rest in Peace.

January 31, 2015

What a beautiful soul. I hope your family finds comfort during this time of sorrow. We look forward to seeing you again in Paradise.

Patricia Baker

January 31, 2015

I too, grew up with his music and poetry. Still have all albums and books. His words helped me thru some very difficult times as I was growing up. Rest in peace Rod and thank you for your gentleness and insight.

Joy Wansley

January 31, 2015

Oh, too be young again and falling in love as we read Rod McKuen to each other. Was there anything more romantic than that? Just this week I was purging my books in anticipation of a major move and there was my collection of Rod McKuen. Toss or keep? I kept and now I really will read them again. And the man mentioned above? Tossed. Thank you, Rod, for touching my world.

January 31, 2015

Elly Van Os

January 31, 2015

Dearest Rod,You gave(me)so much.
Thank you.Your words and songs helped me through so many years.
Have a safe place to land. Rest in peace. Missing you.

AS

January 31, 2015

My sincere condolences to the family for the loss of your loved one. May prayers strengthen you and memories comfort you,

January 31, 2015

My condolences to The McKuen Family. May the "Peace of God"(Phillipians 4:6,7) be with you as you cope with such sorrow.

jim gordon

January 31, 2015

Enjoyed all the times and visits... TTYL, at a different time, a different place.
jim gordon

Eva Paradise

January 30, 2015

I loved his poetry and his music. I collected a lot of his books. One of the best birthday gifts I ever received was a cassette of his readings. I tried to emulate him in my attempts at poetry. I will miss knowing that you are part of this world Mr. Mckuen.

Sharon Gallo

January 30, 2015

RIP You were one in a million. Touched so many people in so many ways. I was lucky enough to see you in concert 2 times, what an honor. You are singing with the angels now. Thanks for your heartfelt music and poetry.

Betty

January 30, 2015

Never to be forgotten--------

January 30, 2015

Thank you Rod,RIP

Ruthie King

January 30, 2015

Rods voice fills my home and car with so my Love & Joy. I am so sorry to Edward who gave him the love and everything he needed to live the life he did. I do appreciate and Love you, Rod

January 30, 2015

I have always loved "Seasons in the Sun". I support equal rights for LBGTA. May your memories of Rod bring you peace.

Marcia Mesernach

January 30, 2015

I grew up with Mr. McKuen's music & poems. I feel deep sympathy and a loss this great man's gifts.
Devoted fan

V Warner

January 30, 2015

Because of the way you expressed yourself you were a dear, old friend. You knew us and we loved you for it. Through your beautiful words, happy memories rest with us. You weren't with us long enough. One day, perhaps forever. Rest in peace.

Cheryl Biondy-Forsman

January 30, 2015

How do you thank someone who helped you grow from a frightened child to a confident woman? Rod's words and golden light did that for me. His spirit will live forever in each ray of sunshine. Rest in Peace and Thank you.

carol schiffman

January 30, 2015

may you rest in peace. you gave us so much!

Bob Horner

January 30, 2015

Thanks so much for the voice, the words. Now you can find Sloopy, and we'll catch up with you later.

Barbara McCarthy

January 30, 2015

Enjoyed the voice, the music. May you Rest In Peace!

B Young

January 30, 2015

You have given the world so much ... Your words and songs have been with me for over 40 some years and will be till its time for me to go.
Rest in Peace Rod,

January 30, 2015

I met Mr. McKuen Nov. 1979 at a book signing. He signed my copy of Listen To The Warm. When I told him it was my favorite of his books, he said it was his too and that that's the way he signed it. I still have that autographed first edition.

D. Brown
Kansas City, MO

Nancy Woodwell-Freedman

January 30, 2015

My thoughts, prayers & deep condolences go out to the family, friends & associates of the sublime & wonderful Rod McKuen. I have all of his original volumes of poetry and have re-read them many times. His song "If You Go Away" can bring me to tears, it's so lovely. Rod will live in our hearts forever through his prolific & beautiful body of work. May he rest in eternal peace.

January 30, 2015

As a SF Bay Area citizen, I lived and worked in Berkeley 2013-14, where I drove down Channing Way every day. I sang Rod's beautiful soulful song each time and tried to guess which house was the location. Thank-you, Kind Soul, for sharing your Heart.

Paula Rowell

January 30, 2015

I'm hearing your music and poetry in my head right now...have loved and adored you for years. Even my daughter when she was a teenager loved your work. We sing "Kaleidoscope" together to this day. RIP...

Cecil Lee

January 30, 2015

You were our voice, Rod.

January 30, 2015

My sympathy to the family.

Betty Inzerillo

January 30, 2015

I enjoyed a lifetime of your work. Rest in peace.

Deb Young

January 30, 2015

Rod McKuen was my constant companion during the 60's and 70's and beyond. I have tried, unsuccessfully to find "The Sea" and "Listen to the Warm" and other albums and books but have not been able to. I feel like I lost a friend who wrote what I felt and was my best friend. Rest in Peace dear friend.

January 30, 2015

Rod McKuen was a huge part of my growing up in the 60's and 70's. RIP, Mr. McKuen, and thank you for sharing your gifts.

John Compton

January 30, 2015

You touched many hearts never to be forgotten!

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