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John Hartley Obituary
John Dunkin HARTLEY Age 31, born in Seattle, Washington, July 8, 1975. Passed at Harborview Medical Center of a brain hemorrhage May 9, 2007. John is survived by his loving family, Harriett Dunkin, grandmother; Bill and Darlene Hartley, parents; Mary and Greg Hoffman, sister and brother-in-law; and Mason and Luke Hoffman, nephews. A beloved resident of West Seattle, John will also be missed by his Jak's and Skylark families and friends in the Junction. A Memorial Service will be held to celebrate John's Life on Saturday, May 19, 10:00 at the Burien Free Methodist Church, 520 S. 150th. Arrangements by Bonney-Watson Washington Memorial.To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Memories and Condolences
for John Hartley
Karen Downie
June 11, 2007
I too am signing this late but know that John Hartley never ran on time. I think the thing I love the most is listening and reading the things that you all will miss and love about John. My history with John goes way back but reading and listening to the new stories makes me realize that the John Hartley that I knew and loved is the same person that so many came to love. My deepest feelings go out to Johns Family as they are like my own.
Cheryl Lyons/Miller
May 29, 2007
Dear Darlene and Family,
I was very sorry to hear that your son John passed away. I just want you all to know, that I'm thinking of all of you, and wished I would have met him. From all the entries here, he sounds like a fine young man. Peace be with you. Take Care, Love Cheryl
Sarah Cowgill
May 27, 2007
I know I am signing this rather late, but I just now was able to look at this obituary for you John.
My deepest condolences to John's family for this great loss. I miss him so much.
He was my brother, and my best friend. There will never be another like him, and I truly can't wait for the day I get to see his smiling face again. I love the way you always made me laugh John, and I will cherish every memory that I have had with you.
I love you and miss you tremendously Mr. John Dunkin Hartley.
Tiny Heather
May 22, 2007
I have many regrets in life and one of them is not staying close to those I love. John and his family mean the world to me and I wish I would have spent more time with John in the years after I moved away from Seattle. John, you are loved and very much missed.
Jessica Cook
May 21, 2007
I had the pleasure of meeting John and spending a few evenings with him and my friend Melanie. He was a kind man with a great personality and will be deeply missed. My condolences to his family and friends...
Sasha Alessi
May 20, 2007
Met John for the first time on May 6th while having my birthday dinner at JaKs. What a wonderful person. He sat down at the table, introduced himself and wished me a happy birthday. He also recommended a new gin for my Martini. Whenever I order a Hendrick's martini, it will be a John Hartley instead.
Krista Kuusisto
May 20, 2007
In the few times I spent with John he made me feel as though I'd known him forever. It was impossible to not have a smile on your face around him! He was such a fun, kind, and caring man and will be greatly missed. My thoughts and prayers are with his Family and Friends.
Paul and Becky Casperson
May 19, 2007
Dear Darlene and Bill,
We were deeply saddened by your sudden loss of John. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Celebrate his life as he would want you to do. He has, obviously, left you with an enduring legacy of friends and family. We pray that God will give you peace.
matthew darling
May 19, 2007
johnny...
thank you for all the years of friendship and fun...thanks for calling me out on all my crap...thank you for being my friend.
Molly McCrink
May 18, 2007
John, I wish I knew you so much better, you always had a kind word for me and your sense of style was outrageous! :) You will be missed.
Lora Giboney
May 18, 2007
Dear Darlene and family: I would like to share with you a night spent some time ago at Jak's with Joe McGeehan, Carol Gregroy and Nick Latham. We were talking over Highline District "stuff" and our server piped in and told us his mom was a former Highline District Principal. He shared that his mom was Darlene Hartley. Of course, we all cheered that we knew John's mom and I'll never forget what John told us. He said "I have the coolest mom. All my friends loved coming to my house and wished their moms were like my mom. I was a lucky child." What a nice tribute from one who loved his mom so deeply. May the love and memories you share be a source of comfort to you in your sorrow. God Bless You. Lora Giboney
Tom, Krista & Kelly Jenkins
May 18, 2007
John..you achieved the remarkable and left Tom at a loss for words. Your quick wit, spirit and infectious laugh (along with your rhinestones) will always be remembered and missed by our family and your foreign "boyfriend". Save up the goods jokes until we see you again.
Brian Townsend
May 18, 2007
John will be missed by so many! Our group of friends got to know John at Jak's over the years. He was always so kind and so damn funny. He was a good friend. We will miss him very much. Our thoughts and prayers go out to the family.
Kris Ohanu
May 18, 2007
"A softness abides in my heart, for those people or the past and present. Those souls who have touched mine, for whom I've cared and still do. Our lives joined in time for moments only, Yet they are a part of the making of me and of them..." John, you who embraced us all with your laughter, wit, love and caring... Your 'bling' and shining spirit will be missed, but not forgotten...Thanks for the gift of your friendship and making us all a part of your 'family' ...we look forward to seeing you again and know you will meet us at those pearly gates with your great smile ... you have made a 'difference' in the lives of all those who met you...you are truly a part of the making of us all.....we miss you here, but know you will be in our hearts always.
Tracy Dart
May 17, 2007
To John's dear sweet family, who continued to console all of John's friends at the hospital even during such a very painful time - My prayers are with you...I hope that you will find peace. After meeting all of you - it is no wonder why John had such a love for life and people. You taught him well! He is missed - every minute of every day! Love and peace to all who loved Johnny!
Deborah Hairstylist
May 17, 2007
John thanks for brightening up my world in the short time I knew you. You made me laugh so hard I could hardly cut your hair! What a sweetheart! My thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Tina Nelson
May 17, 2007
My heart goes out to John's family. I will forever miss his laugh...
Melanie Loop
May 17, 2007
John you are my best friend and platonic husband, you're so greatly missed! I know you are still with me as I am always hearing your voice. I feel so lucky to have laughed, cried, plotted, partied, and fought with you. You will never truly be gone, for you have taken a part of me with you and I have kept a part of you here. I love you Johnny, save me a place in the VIP section at your eternal party!:)
Micheal Cole
May 17, 2007
I'm quite struck at the moment by the news of Johnny's passing, and will miss him deeply. I am confident that his good nature has procured for him a fine existance in the hereafter. He knew how to love and laugh just for the sake of doing so.
Ron Salsbury
May 17, 2007
My thoughts and condolences go out to John's family and friends. I'm a West Seattle person who never knew John's name until I saw his picture and obituary in today's Seattle PI. Despite not knowing his name, I felt as though I got to know the essence of John. I came into contact with him many times over the years when my family and I went into the Easy Street restaurant and then Jak's to eat, and when I saw him on California Ave. I was always impressed by John's irreverent wit and approach to life. He made me laugh and smile. He was funny, bodacious, and charismatic. I will miss John's sparkling personality and quips. He brought a special character and flair to West Seattle that I’ll always remember.
Jessica Nielsen - Garcia
May 17, 2007
My deepest sympathy goes out to Darlene, Bill, Memes and Merritt. John is my brother I never had and one of my closest friends, I will miss him so much. He made me laugh so hard I would cry, or even almost pee my pants at times, and I'm sure I'm not the only one. Thank you John for all our incredible memories we share, I can't wait to see you again! I love you forever!
Jason Long
May 17, 2007
I was really in Shock when I found out the news. John was such a kind and fun guy to be around. I feel lucky to have known him and will always remember the good times we shared together.
Cassie Jenkins
May 17, 2007
Johnny, your smile, laugh and overall wonderful sass is going to be missed. I'm so happy we met and that I was able to get to know you. You are one of the great ones. Till we meet again. I'll text you when I get there :) love ya.
CiCi xxxooo
May 17, 2007
I am in such shock over this news ! I love John and his always-sassy personality, genuine sweetness and charisma ~ be my angel, I will keep you with me and talk to you always !! Going to Jak's will never be the same ~ xxoo ~
Jenny Underwood/Davidson
May 16, 2007
I can't even begin to express my sadness in this time of loss. So much we shared throughout our lives and the many memories I will never forget. My love and prayers to John's wonderful family and to everyone that knew him. John, I love you and can't wait to see you again. I'll miss you deeply and think of you always!
Sally Kamvachirapitag
May 16, 2007
John had a great spirit.I know Im blessed to of had him in my life.He is the part of me I wish I could be more of. Ive always admired John for his carefree spirit.John always lived life in the moment.I'm keeping John's spirit alive in my heart and remembering to live my life carefree.I love you John.
Cathie Blumenthal
May 16, 2007
Those who worked with John at Bellevue Square quickly became his friends and will always remember his happy smile. Our caring thoughts and prayers go out to his family and everyone who loved him.
Helena Rogers
May 16, 2007
I will always picture John when I need my spirits lifted. As a junctionite I will miss him terribly.
Heidi Anderson
May 16, 2007
The world won't be the same without John's smile, laugh, incredible wit and sassy personality. I am honored to have known him and will miss him dearly. My sincerest condolences to John's family and close friends for this tremendous loss.
Glen Bachman
May 16, 2007
When John worked for us he was an outstanding executive. my daughter says he could "do me, better than I could do me". He will be missed very much by the crew at Bellevue Square.
David and Jeri Rickard
May 16, 2007
John's wonderful spirit of life and fun was alway's his trademark. What a loss to all who knew him. We send our deepest sympathies to his family; you're in our prayers.
Lee Ayers
May 16, 2007
Harriet and Darlene,
I wanted you to know that I saw the notice of John's death in The Seattle Times on the internet. I am so sorry for your loss, but know the faith in our Lord will sustain you.
We now live in both Goodyear, AZ, and also Pocatello, ID.
Lee Ayers
Lori Hinton
May 16, 2007
You brought fun, joy and laughter to all those around you and left an unforgetable stamp of your memorable character on those who knew you well as well as those who only met you once.
Jana Koeberle
May 16, 2007
I haven't seen John in a few years, but having worked with him in the past and become his friend, I am so saddened to hear about what happened. I know he will be missed by so many. I wish all the best to his family.
Anna Reis
May 16, 2007
John Dunkin... Here are my memories..."Get You're lips on! I can't have my girls walking around without their lips on!"...You getting peeved at me b/c I kicked your butt at Bejeweled. Paging me to the "dance floor" at 9 PM & getting busted by the big boss. Service 3. New Years at Alki. Telling Matt to button up his shirt. Trying to bail out of the car with my mom b/c you both thought there was an earthquake! Your smile. Your Love & Friendship.
Cheers! Save me a good seat and have a drink waiting! Love Always, Anna Carm.
Dawnelle & Tom Anderson
May 16, 2007
Tom and I are so sad to lose this wonderful man who made us all feel so good. He had such a happy spirit. We feel deeply for his family and all the rest of us who will miss him so much.
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