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Grover Furr
March 22, 2025
Paul was a wonderful, smart, and supportive colleague and friend. I miss him!
Grover Furr
March 24, 2024
I am thinking of Paul today. It is hard to believe that he has been gone for 16 years!
William F Hays
March 22, 2024
Still think of him frequently. First best friend in my life
Grover Furr
March 22, 2023
I remember Paul today, on the anniversary of his untimely death. He was a good colleague, very helpful to me and to others.
William Hays MD
February 18, 2017
Just found this, almost 9 years after the fact Paul and I were best friends during our childhood until he moved away from Illinois to New Jersey. We remained close by mail for several years and unfortunately time and distance drew us apart. We became reacquainted again about 2007 just before he was diagnosed with melanoma. We had hoped to get together when that and my daughter both became seriously ill, and I was then diagnosed with lung disease which required a transplant. It was not in our fate to be together again but we shall always be connected by our childhood experiences and dreams. We spend at least one weekend night together for 4 or 5 years. I think we were night and day politically, he went left and I went right, but our friendship endured throughout and his memory is still cherished by me.
Jarrett
December 31, 2016
Just a quick note of thanks to the folks at MSU who have ensured this guestbook remain live. Missing him harder today than most days and stumbled upon this page during an electronic hunt for thoughts and memories from those who knew him, even for a semester. So nice to have these to read and smile at.
Grover Furr
March 25, 2011
I remember my valued colleague Paul on this, the third anniversary of his death.
Grover Furr
March 25, 2010
I remember Paul especially on this day, the second anniversary of his death. He was a wonderful colleague!
Jessica Tait
April 27, 2008
My best wishes to Paul's family and loved ones! My prayers and good wishes to you all.
Lucretia Smith
April 15, 2008
I loved Paul Arthur.
He was my professor at NYU's Tisch School of the Arts from 1986-1988. I took his class "Language of Film," and then "Cinema and Culture of the '60's."
My mom, who was thrilled to bits that I was accepted to Tisch, listened to every detail of my experiences at NYU - and my experiences with such a great professor.
Paul welcomed me warmly each and every time I visited him during office hours - and I visited him each and every Wednesday.
Paul Arthur was a real teacher. The best teacher. He expanded the way I viewed film. He opened my mind, and my eyes.
He showed me that film was an art medium, a tool, something cool. He revealed the politics of production, and of meaning.
He changed the way I viewed film. He changed the way I viewed filmmaking. And he changed the way I viewed the world. He turned me on to cool music. He turned me on.
He affected the way I made films. He taught me how to think critically, and how to deconstruct - and construct again.
I really loved Paul. His influence on my life has been profound.
He provided the foundation for what would become my punk rock hippie ethos, and my philosophy for living.
I will really miss him.
This loss haunts me.
In the 20 years since I last saw Paul, my mom and I have often wondered what he was doing. I got in touch with him recently, and to my delight we exchanged several friendly e-mails - I was so glad he remembered me! And that he was writing me back!
We had plans to meet again.
I hope we do.
what it is (as Paul would say),
Lucretia X aka Tye
Samantha Soney
April 8, 2008
I had Professor Arthur last semester and I feel it is needless to say, the man was life-changing. While he was the first to give me a B in a course, the lesson that I came away from that B with, meant more than any letter grade he could have submitted. He taught me to love what you do as vividly as one can, and that sometimes even though you try your hardest, it may not be good enough. I am deeply saddened by his passing, for his family, for his collegues, but mostly for the films. Rest in the sweetest Professor.
Andrew Lampert
April 1, 2008
Paul was an inspirational and influential soul in my life. His ability to bring the margin into focus made him a very good teacher...Rest in peace professor...& I would like to tell his family that my thoughts are with them right now... --AML
Grover Furr
March 31, 2008
Paul was a wonderful colleague -- very supportive, intellectually incisive, a brillant teacher and researcher. He contributed greatly to our department.
Ian W. Hill
March 30, 2008
Paul was my first film studies teacher at NYU in 1986-1987, and though I haven't seen him in 17-18 years now, I've never seen his byline without smiling and thinking of him fondly. I've written a little something about him as a teacher at my blog, here:
http://collisionwork.livejournal.com/134908.html
I have always missed not knowing him to talk to for years now, and I will now miss the possibility of ever having the opportunity again. Peace be with you who knew and loved him.
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