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Lieutenant Benjamin Kirk Frederick M.D.
1983 - 2016
BORN
1983
DIED
2016
Benjamin Frederick Obituary
Lieutenant Benjamin Kirk Frederick, M.D. passed away on Saturday morning, December 17, from injuries sustained in an accident while on active duty stationed in Iwakuni, Japan.
Ben was a flight surgeon in the U.S. Navy with the Silver Eagles VMFA 115 Marine F-18 squadron. With an adventurous soul and a drive to serve others, he found a perfect fit in a career as a Naval Flight Surgeon. He was a caring and devoted brother, son, and doctor.
An avid traveler with an eye for adventure, Ben steered his schooling and career to take him all over the globe. Born in Freeport, Illinois on November 20, 1983, he was a wonderfully independent and carefree spirit from the start. From a childhood full of friends and family in Vermont and college at the University of San Diego and Florence Italy, to obtaining his medical doctorate from the University of Colorado School of Medicine, clinical public health work in Haiti and beyond, to earning his wings and proudly serving as a Flight Surgeon in the U.S. Navy, Ben lived a full life. Though a carefree, fun-loving, and lively force, he was fiercely devoted in service to his squadron and in loyalty to his friends and family.
He is survived by his brother, Lieutenant Christopher S. Frederick, M.D., who is stationed with the Navy in Portsmouth, Virginia, and by his parents, Mark T and Marilyn R (Lassandro) Frederick, of Underhill, Vermont. He was predeceased by his grandparents: Dr. Vincent L & Lois F (Moakley) Frederick, Frank R & Lillian R (Oddo) Lassandro, his cousin Anthony Lassandro and his surrogate brother Ben (Benjo) Haller.
In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to "Live Like Benjo" http://livelikebenjo.org/ or a charity of your own choosing.
A celebration of Ben's life will be provided at a later date.
Arrangements are in the care of the Ready Funeral & Cremation Service. To send online condolences to his family please visit www.readyfuneral.com.
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Jeff Gilbert
January 5, 2017
Ben was my first tenant to rent the Apartment my Grandmother lived in after her passing. I was so impressed with him I knew he was who should be there and it was comforting. His brother Chris stayed also. That was some years ago. Both struck me as exceptional men, and that reflects highly on family. My prayers have been for them and will always keep Ben in my thoughts.
December 30, 2016
We were so sorry to hear of the loss of Ben. Our thoughts, and prayers are with you.
Phil and Cindy Jacobs
December 29, 2016
Mark, Marilyn and Chris,
So sad to hear of your loss. I know how close your family is and how hard this must be for you.
Tom and Donna Petit
Janet Murray
December 27, 2016
Keeping the family and friends of Ben in my prayers. My sincerest condolences as you grieve the loss of your precious son, brother, and friend.
Rob and Anne Brewer
December 24, 2016
So so sorry to hear of your loss. Our hearts go out to you in this difficult time. Anne and Rob Brewer (South Pond)
December 23, 2016
Dear Marilyn,
Brec and I are so saddened to hear this news of your son, Ben and cannot even begin to imagine your pain. How very proud you must be of him, he sounds like a wonderful young man who did so much in his life so tragically shortened. We remember how, through you, he and his brother kindly donated their toy kitchen set so that our Adam could have one, and how that really doesn't seem that long ago. Please know our hearts are with you at this very tragic time. May Ben rest in peace, and we thank him for his service.
Brec and Patti Norton
David Nicholson
December 23, 2016
God Bless.
Mary Lou Wasko
December 22, 2016
My very sincere condolences to you and your family, Marilyn. My memories of you as a supportive SB business manager and my son, Mike, knew your son Chris ("Freddie") as a legion baseball player have connected us in the past. My prayers are with you all at this most difficult time.
December 22, 2016
Mark, Marilyn & Chris. We were so shocked and our hearts deeply saddened by the loss of your son and brother. Please accept our heartfelt condolences. We will be thinking of all of you and hold each of you in our thoughts and prayers. Please call upon us for anything, should you need support in any way. Dennis & Resa Williamson & Family
Kelly Philbrick
December 22, 2016
Thinking of you and your family during this very difficult time. Sending thoughts and prayers your way.
A Irvin Witham
December 22, 2016
Condolences to your family at this difficult time. We are thinking of you and sending love and support your way. Amy & Rick Witham
Dave & Ginie Olson
December 22, 2016
To: Mark & Marilyn:
We are so incredibly sorry to hear of your son's passing. Although we did not know Ben, he sounded like a terrific young man with a love for life. Our most sincere condolences go out to you and your family.
Dave & Ginie Olson
Susan & Skip Poczobut
December 22, 2016
Sincere condolences to the Frederick family. Thinking of you during this very difficult time.
Karen Cadorette
December 22, 2016
My Deepest sympathy,s goes out to the Family and Friends.thank you for serving.
Bill & Christine LaPointe
December 22, 2016
Each year during this special season as the many beautiful lights appear, may they remind you of Ben being a beautiful light in your life as well as so many others. May God bless you and your family!
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