BORN

1942

DIED

2012

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Carol Costello Obituary

Costello, Carol
Carol Costello, age 70, of Milford and Sarasota, FL, and beloved wife to the late John H. Stowe, passed away on Wednesday, November 21, 2012 at Lord Chamberlain Health Care Center in Stratford. Born on June17, 1942 in Waterbury, CT, she was the daughter of the late Charles H. and Roberta Cory Costello. Carol graduated from St. Margaret's School (Chase Collegiate) in Watertown. She earned a BA and an MA from Michigan State University and a sixth year certificate from Southern Conn. State University. Carol was employed by the Fairfield Public Schools where she taught English for 33 years. She was a former member of the Laurel Beach Garden Club and an active member of the Church of the Good Shepherd in Orange. She was also a former member of the Milford Yacht Club, the Quinnipiac Club and Mory's Association.
She is survived by her brother, Charles R. Costello of Woodbridge, a niece, Jennifer Delcegno, a nephew Christopher Costello, two step-daughters, Alison Rubelmann and Janet Policano, three great nieces and three step-grandchildren.
A Funeral Service will be held on Saturday, December 1st at 10:30 a.m. at Church of the Good Shepherd, 680 Racebrook Rd., Orange. Interment will follow at East Side Cemetery in Woodbridge. Arrangements are being handled by the Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad ST., Milford, CT 06460. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Yale New Haven Hospital/ Smilow Cancer Center, 333 Cedar St., New Haven, CT 06520 or to the Church of the Good Shepherd, 680 Racebrook Rd., Orange, CT 06477. To leave online condolences please visit our website at www.codywhitefuneralservice.com

Published by Connecticut Post from Nov. 28 to Nov. 29, 2012.
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Although Carol and I talked on the phone from time to time, the last time I saw her was when she visited Wyoming with her father, my Uncle Willie, and the rest of the family. The silly girl brought only sandals, and Wyoming nights are cold, even in summer! And she was very taken with the musk thistle, a terrible invasive species, and wanted to take some seeds back to Connecticut; I think we dissuaded her. She was definitely an east coast city girl, but we loved her. I can hear her voice in my head . . .

Cousin Betsy Scott

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November 22, 2020

Carol was my english teacher in jr highschool, she always believe in me and told me that I could do anything I put my mind too. She was right, I am deeply saddened by this news and will always remember her as my friend and my teacher....Nick Audino

Nick Audino

December 4, 2012

Very Sorry for the loss. I hadn't seen her in years, but she will be missed.

Ashley Claeys

December 1, 2012

Charles, I am so sorry. Cindy Brand

November 30, 2012

I had Ms. Costello for 7th Grade English at Tomlinson. She introduced me to the wonderful world of Shakespeare. Every time I read "Taming of the Shrew", I think of her. So sorry to her family for your loss.

Donna

November 30, 2012

I was lucky enough to have Ms. Costello for both 7th and 8th grade English at Tomlinson Middle School many, many years ago (1985-86). She made an indelible mark on my education, and was one of my (and many of my classmates') favorite teachers of all time. She was demanding but kind and caring. She earned the respect and admiration of her students. We all looked forward to Ms. Costello's class because we were sure to have fun and learn. I would like to offer my deepest condolences to her family, and I'd like them to know what an outstanding teacher she truly was! Many ex-students are mourning along with you today.

Joseph Romanello MD

November 29, 2012

Carol, I was so sorry to hear that you passed. My prayers to you and your family. Always Libby Ditchkus

November 29, 2012

As news of her death has spread among SMS classmates, Carol is remembered as being full of vigor at our 50th reunion. Classmates are sorry to lose a person with a special gift of understanding those she was with, seeing the best in people, and helping others when she could. She will be greatly missed. Condolences to Charles and to Carol's other family members and friends. MEB

Marie B

November 29, 2012

I am so sorry for the loss of your loss of your loved one. Please find peace and comfort in Psalms 65:2.

November 29, 2012

Hey Stello, do you realize how many folks are going to miss you? Lots! What will we do without that brash brassy young woman at St. Margarets or at your parents house listening to Johnny Mathis and "A Certain Smile"? Well make sure all those folks upstairs keep in line and their gardens full of flowers. There are too many memories to draw upon and every one brings a smile and a bit of laughter thinking of you and your escapades.
All my love, BP

November 29, 2012

My deepest sympathies

Tom Fults

November 27, 2012

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