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Charlie and Karon Joeckel, Sr.
October 18, 2013
Brad, Jeff, Jeanne, Joann, and all of the Family:
To all of you, you have our love, thoughts, and prayers. What a true JOY she was, and always the perpetual and ultimate example of a true Lady. Cherish and treasure your precious memories, for they will bring comfort to you in the days to come. What a blessing to have known such a precious Lady.
Charlie and Karon Joeckel, Sr.
October 18, 2013
Brad, Jeff, Jeanne, and Joann:
To all of you, our love and prayers during this time. What a true JOY she was, and always the perpetual Lady. What a blessing it was to have known Joy Ann Porter.
Heddings Family
October 17, 2013
Jeanne and Family, we are so very sorry for your loss. We know how inspirational Joy was in your lives. May the memory of her spirit keep you all together in peace. Love, Taube, Sam, Jason Heddings & Sarah Downey
Gloria Porto
October 17, 2013
Jeanne and family; my deepest condolences. May God's angels be with you during this emotional time.
Chantal, Jonathan & Kilo Banks
October 17, 2013
Joanne & Family,
We will keep you in our prayers.
Carolyn and Gina Finelli
October 16, 2013
She was a Luv and a Joy to all she met. She is missed! Our deepest sorrow for your loss, Brad and Jeff. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
October 16, 2013
Joy, you will be missed by so many. As a client of Robert Andrew Salon you always greeted me with such warmth, professional courtesy and that classy "English accent". Always a smile on your face and a welcoming greeting. Over the years I have had the honor to know you and share so many happy and sad moments. You never stopped smiling - such a beautiful gift. Now, you are smiling down on us and I know you are in a very special place. God Bless your soul and my deepest sympathy to the family.
Ileen Watson
Janet/Ray Mason
October 16, 2013
Brad, Jake, Brooke, and family--We are broken-hearted to hear of the passing of your Mom/Nana. We remember her sweet spirit. What a comfort to know she is in the arms of our Lord and your Dad. Treasure the special memories you have of her. Our thoughts and prayers are with each of you.
--Rick, Janet! Nick, Alex, and Abbie Mason
October 16, 2013
It is very painfull to lost perent's. i am Praying for you and you family that god give you guys Strength to tie family together i this hard time. may god bless her.
mokshud DCCA, Ellicott city
Julie Markosian
October 16, 2013
I can remember being an awkward kid/tween/teen going back east to visit family every couple of years. More often then not, there were not many other kids on our visit. Along our travels, at some point, my mom would say "We are going to visit Uncle Allen and Aunt Joy". This would result in a resounding "yeeeeeeeeessss!". Don't get me wrong I love my cousins, but Joy was the true prize. Her smile, her laugh, her amazing hugs... She always made me feel at home, like everything would be okay. I feel so blessed to have known her and loved her. My deepest sympathies to the rest of my family. I wish I could be with you all but please know I will be thinking of you and that I love you.
Karen Swain
October 16, 2013
I worked with Joy for a long time and truly she was a rare gem...Beautiful in everyway! To all that she touched in this life,they will feel a great loss....But for Joy, her name stands for her very essence. We will meet again on the other side.You are in total peace now. Heartfelt sadness and dear loss to this side of life. Sending love and hugs- Karen Swain(KD)
Janeen Spaulding
October 15, 2013
My deepest most sincere sympathies on the loss of sweet Joy. There are so many wonderful things to say about her. I feel truly blessed to have known her. She will always hold a very special place in my heart. May our Lord rest her soul peacefully and bring happy peaceful memories all those lives that she touched. My love and prayers to all of you!

Connie Eastman
October 15, 2013
She was my Aunt, my friend and I will miss her. Joy and Allen will watch over us.
Brigitte & Barry Brkic
October 15, 2013
To Joy's Family - We are so sorry for your loss and wish you peace in the joyful memories of her. I met her just before her 21st birthday, a day after I came to America. She had arrived a few months before and was a very good, kind and generous friend to me. She and Al had just got engaged and together they set the standard for a wonderful loving and romantic relationship. Joy, so aptly names, touched everyone with her warmth, kindness, and beautiful smile - children were enchanted by her and were convinced she was the real Mary Poppins especially when she said "supercalafragalisticexpialadoshus." It has been an honor to share in a small part of her life, and our good wishes are with her family as you move forward.
Han Ni
October 15, 2013
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Miriam Worthington
October 15, 2013
I work with Jeanne, and we would often share updates with one another on our moms. I was truly saddened to hear of the passing of Mrs. Porter. Although I never met her, sharing stories with Jeanne made me feel like a friend of the family. I extend my deepest condolences to the Porter family. My thoughts are with you during this difficult time. I hope you are all comforted by the fond memories you have of her and in knowing that she suffers no more. Peace be with you.
Fenicia Ballard
October 15, 2013
Wishing you as much peace as possible during this difficult time.
John & Terry Armstrong
October 15, 2013
Joy was a truly lovely person, spreading joy to all those around her. She was given the right name - I cannot think of a more apt description for her. Jeannie, JoAnne, Brad and Jeff - you are in our thoughts; we love you so.
Louann Tracy
October 15, 2013
Oh Jeanne, I am so sorry to hear about your mom. She must have been a wonderful person. My thoughts and prayers to you and your family.
Louann Tracy
October 15, 2013
Jeanne and family, Prayers for you to be strong as you go thru the grieving process. MOMs are special!! May her JOY always be with you in spirit. She sounds so very special and Jeanne you are a very special friend to me! BIG HUGS and LOVE Joanie
Tom Henderson
October 15, 2013
My thoughts and prayers go to the Porter family...and certainbly to Joy Ann.. what a lovely set of pictures you have shared with us... what great smiles.
Carol Rice
October 15, 2013
Your mother's smile and quiet dignity will be missed in our community. May all of you remember her with kind and loving thoughts, remembering your special joys and great memories.
George and Jane Duvall
October 14, 2013
Bradley, Jeff and Family, I was notified today by my daughter Amy that your beautiful Mom has passed on. Jeff's posting on Facebook brought the sad news to us. Mary Kay Honeycutt and I had a long call this evening to discuss the wonderful years we remembered about Joy. We have known your parents since the 60's. Joy was such a pretty lady with poise and vitality. We use to visit one another with our children from our back doors. I will hold my memories of your family in my heart. When our three girls were little they loved their visits to your home. She was a special person that one holds dear forever.
Our love, George and Jane Duvall
Jeannine Salyers
October 14, 2013
Please accept my deepest sympathy. Your mother's name suited her well as she was a joy!
October 14, 2013
My deepest condolences to your family on Joy's passing. I will always remember her smile and her strength..
Marsha Frankel (Crofton, Md)
Pamela Spearow
October 14, 2013
Joy was such a great neighbor & friend. She was always so positive/optimistic and genuinely kind. Her friendship was a blessing to me while I lived at Carroll's Creek!
Terry Di Leone
October 14, 2013
Joy, was a wonderful and kind person to anyone. She will be really missed in our community. I always appreciated her kindness and thoughts of cheer. She light up a room immediately. I am sorry for the loss to your family. She is in a peaceful and loving place and with her husband Al. What a wonderful reunion they had.
Matt Barry
October 14, 2013
Brad, I am so terribly sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family my friend.
Keely Rich
October 14, 2013
Brad...I know we met years ago from our kids going to school when we lived in Piney Orchard. You always had a beautiful spirit and after looking at your pictures, I sit here emotional just knowing where you got your light from. In this moment...I send you and your beautiful family my sympathies but also my praises as your mother apparently led an exemplary life and loved you all very much. Rest in peace Ms. JOY. Thank you for sharing your beautiful pictures and I know she will have a special place in your heart and you will see her one day in heaven. Your parents are together and they will surely watch over your family. Be blessed.
Gene and Marcia Richard
October 13, 2013
Joy's courage, strength, endurance, gentle and caring spirit are unparalleled. Yet, in each one of her family members, you can see the same traits. That is her legacy! Keep her legacy going. That is her greatest gift. Love
October 13, 2013
Joy will be missed by us all for the loving, caring and thoughtful person she was. Always thinking of others with kindness and concern, her life made a great impact on many. She will remain for ever in our hearts.
Sister Eileen, Brian and all the Tibbert family in UK
Dave & Linda Spevack
October 13, 2013
We had far too little time to get to know Joy as our neighbor here at Carroll's Creek, but we came to respect her intellect, her warmth and her love of life even as she realistically knew that her days were waning. May you be comforted among the mourners and treasure the sweet memories.
Sincerely, Dave & Linda Spevack
Mary Wolfrey Stegman
October 12, 2013
Jeff and family,
Your Mother was a "Joy" to me and everyone she came in contact with. She had such a wit, I was always in stitches. Every day was a great day working with her.
I am shocked and deeply saddened and so sorry for your loss, Celebrate her life for She was a beautiful Lady and loved so fully.
Joy is with all of you in memory and most of all a part of you that lives on.
One day all of you will be together again,
What a day that will be!
My Prayers and thoughts are with all of you. Mary
Andrea Gough Beegle
October 12, 2013
It's no wonder her name was Joy! I had the absolute pleasure of spending my childhood as Joy's neighbor and in every memory she was spreading happiness. After all, it takes a special person to be okay with kids running through her beautiful flower gardens while playing flashlight tag. :)
My thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this time.
Joy will truly be missed. She was such, such a special person.
October 12, 2013
Brad and family - We share your loss with heavy hearts. What a wonderful privilege it has been to have Joy become a part of our lives at the condo. We'll always remember the "Hello,Luv." when we met in the halls. Sadly, it's time to say "Goodbye, Luv. We'll miss you." Andy and Ursula
pamela conley ulich
October 12, 2013
Brad-
Praying for you and your family. . . May God and your mother continue to watch over you and give you strength in this very difficult time. Love - Pamela
Albert W. Niemann III
October 12, 2013
I will always remember your vitality, Nana. Your love of nature lives on your great-grandchildren and will be passed along for generations. I love and miss you. Rest in Heavenly Peace, Love.
P. S. I will miss hearing you say " 'Allo Love " most of all.
Nicole V
October 12, 2013
Deepest condolences on Joy's passing. She was a lovely lady.
Stevensons
October 12, 2013
Having Joy as my friend for over 37 yrs., I will never forget her & the SMILE she carried on her face @ each greeting. Living next door for over 19 yrs., our children grew up together. When the phone rang they would tell me it's, "HELLO LOVE", meaning it was Joy. David & I will miss her, but know she is UP THERE now with Al. Sincere condolences to her entire family,
Pat & David
Peggy Yates McCowan
October 12, 2013
Sorry for your loss....keep the wonderful memories close to your heart
October 12, 2013
Brad and family, Sorry very sorry for your loss. She was a beautiful lady and such an angel. My prayers and with all of you at this time.
Pat Adams-Gardner, Crofton, MD
Pat Koste
October 12, 2013
Brad - I didn't know your mom but I know you and know a son is a reflection of his mother and father. You are one of the kindest people I have ever had the pleasure to know. Your generousity of spirit and love of life are clearly seen by those around you and, even thogh I didn't know your mother I know beyound a shadow of a doubt she was very proud of the man you have become. Rest assured she is at peace and her spirit will always be with you and your family. And, as your beautiful 3 year old said, you will see her again. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family - pat
Jeanne Robertson
October 12, 2013
Jeanne and family - I am so very sorry for your loss. Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you. May God grant you peace today and always.
Courtney Varone
October 11, 2013
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
cheryl Howey-Talmadge
October 11, 2013
Honor a beautiful new angel in heaven.
Cindy Drabick
October 11, 2013
Brad and family...so very sorry for you loss. Your mother's "voice" always welcomed so many to a special day...she was a beautiful lady. Peace and love to you all.
October 11, 2013
We are so very sorry for the loss of your mother, mother-in-law, sister, aunt, and Nanna. Joy was a ray of sunshine every time we saw her. Her beautiful smile, perfectly-styled red hair, and lovely British accent always made us feel welcome and as if we had known her all our lives. We will miss seeing her visit our friends/neighbors Brad, Danielle, Jake, Brooke, Jenna and Krista Porter. We wish much love and peace to all who were touched by her presence in their lives. God bless Joy and may He welcome her into the kingdom of Heaven.
Ed, Jennifer and Stephanie Patrizio
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