To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Glen Chapman
July 11, 2009
Dear Kathy,
I will always think of Tom when we pass by the Inga-Shaba lines. The world needs more people like Tom who had a heart for Africa and whose skills can be used to build this part of the world.
I have fond memories of visiting Tom's family as a child, and we cherish the time we spent in your beautiful home in Idaho. I will certainly miss communicating with him by e-mail.
The Lord grant your grace as you adjust to this trajic loss. Que Dieu vous benisse!
Glen Chapman - D.R. Congo
T. Steven Roosevelt MD
June 23, 2009
Mrs. Bettger,
On behalf of myself and my office staff I wish you heart felt condolences.
Pascale Tournegros
June 22, 2009
Chère Kathy,
C'est avec beaucoup de tristesse que nous avons appris, par l'intermédiaire de Chris Mackanic, le décès de Tom. Nous sommes vraiment désolés pour vous, Molly et Andy. Bien que cela fasse longtemps que nous n'avons plus été en contact, je pense souvent avec plaisir à notre rencontre et aux échanges d'élèves que nous organisions entre Meylan et Boise. Je me souviens de Tom comme d'une personne vraiment très gentille et agréable. Caroline, Michaël et Marine se joignent à moi pour vous assurer tous les trois de notre grande sympathie. Toutes nos pensées et nos prières sont avec vous.
June 14, 2009
Chère Kathy
Quelle nouvelle désarmante !!!!!!!!!
Nous sommes bouleversés d'apprendre le décès de Tom. Les accidents de la route sont terribles et nous rappellent douloureusement que notre vie peut être très courte et que nous devons tout mettre en œuvre tant que l'on a la santé pour être des témoins de l'amour du Christ, des artisans de paix et d'amour !!! Tom a fait partie de ceux là mais sa disparition brutale reste pour nous tous une douleur difficile à accepter. Nous gardons un excellent souvenir de Tom avec sa gentillesse et son accueil. Lors de ton prochain séjour en France n'hésite pas à venir à la maison, nous serons très heureux de te revoir. Tu sais que tu es toujours la bienvenue chez nous. Nous pensons bien à toi dans nos prières et te souhaitons du courage dans ces moments difficiles.
Bises à tes enfants. Au plaisir de te revoir. Françoise et Bernard VINCENT
Dave Brandt
June 13, 2009
Kathy, Molly, and Andrew, I have very fond memories of Tom and your family at Mountain View School. Tom was always a great parent who spent lots of quality time at school with his children. May your knowledge of his devotion to family give you peace in this time of grief.
Sharon Dowell
June 12, 2009
Dear Kathy and family. I was so saddened to hear about Tom's premature death. I was watching the news tonite and it mentioned how 3 cyclists had been killed in less than a months in Boise recently. The first thing I thought of was how kind Tom was and how he always took time to ask how "I" was doing. I always saw him as a real people person. The quality that comes to mind regarding Tom was how kind he was and he seemed to have a very soft heart. I promise to pray for you and your family in the future, starting right now.
Sincerely, Sharon Dowell (formerly Sharon Carter)
Ray Burg
June 10, 2009
Molly, My condolences and sympathies on the loss of your Dad, who as depicted in the summary, loved the Lord and live his life for Him. What a great legacy! My prayers are with you and your family. May God's peace be with you. Ray Burg(Northbrook,IL)
Kathy Shadle
June 2, 2009
Kathy,
My heart goes out to you on the passing of Tom. Knowing he is with Our Lord is so awesome. As you probably know I lost Mark 2 1/2 years ago, and knowing he is with Our Precious Lord is so comforting to me. However, this grief journey is so very difficult. The Lord is so very magnificent and His Love surpasses Literally Anything that we must go through. So, may His all so loving arms surround you and hold you during this time.
Kathy Shadle
Donna Hayes
June 1, 2009
Molly,
I am so sorry to hear about the passing of your father. He was a wonderful man with such a passion for Christ. I pray that God will wrap Himself around you to get you through this difficult time. My prayers and thoughts are with you.
June 1, 2009
Molly & Family,
We were so saddened to hear of your loss. Our hearts and prayers are with you during this most difficult time.
Jeff & Beth Dohrmann
Cody Cheung
May 31, 2009
Hi Molly, really sorry to hear about that. Hope you and your family will get well soon which it is definitely what your father would like to see. Take care. Cody from UL
Dwight and Marita Douglas
May 30, 2009
Kathy and family,
Ric called us today to tell us of Tom's accident and passing. Our hearts go out to you and we will be praying for you. This is truly one of those times when we don't understand but when we choose to trust God and His love for us! May He continue to be your source of strength! Our love and prayers,
Susan Carter-Rood
May 29, 2009
How grateful I am to have known Tom Bettger of Boise First Baptist! He was truly a man of God who took delight in serving his Savior. Cathy, Molly & Andrew, we grieve deeply with you at his absence. However, absent from the body is PRESENT WITH OUR LORD; HALLELUJAH! Heaven takes on even more meaning when a dear loved one is waiting there for us! I pray you will continue on serving in your missionary outreach projects; Tom would encourage that. We love you!
May 28, 2009
Who would have known in Pella that you would all be together again for such a sad time. I enjoyed the opportunity to get to know all of you better. Tom was a friendly and happy person. What a day it will be when Jesus comes and families will be reunited again.May you find peace and comfort in knowing others share in your sorrow. Our prayers are with you all. Bonnie and Marcel Grondahl, Lodi, California
Benjamin & Joanne Wulf
May 27, 2009
Dear Molly and family,
Our deepest sympathies to you upon learning of the death of your father. His life's example is truly inspiring. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Geri Murrey
May 27, 2009
I was so shocked and sorry when I heard the news. Our prayers are with you and your family. The Murrey's (FBC-Boise)
Annie Crozier
May 27, 2009
Madame, Molly, and family, So sorry for your loss. The service was lovely today. It was heartwarming to see how many people he touched during his time here. You're in my thoughts and prayers.
Dave Corwin
May 27, 2009
To Molly and family. I am so sorry for your loss. Your father seems he was a wonderful, loving person and I know he will be missed. My thoughts are prayers are with you and your family.
Julie Fairbanks
May 27, 2009
Molly I am so sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Take care of each other and I will be standing by when you get back. Anything you need I will be here.
Jeanne & Joe Smiga
May 27, 2009
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Our prayers are with you and your family!
Josh Lawrence
May 27, 2009
Kathy, Molly, Pat, and Andy- I was incredibly saddended when I heard of Tom's death. I have very good memories of a man who was gracious, pleasant, welcoming and encouraging. I am glad for the times I was able to catch up with him at your family functions. It seems men like him are few and far between. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. -Josh and Jenny Lawrence
Revis Turner
May 27, 2009
Dear Kathy:
We are so sorry for your loss. Tom was one of the people I always looked for when we visited Becky in Boise at 1st Baptist. He was always interested in what we were doing and I am grateful for his (and your) friendship with Becky during her college years at BSU. Our thoughts & prayers are with you. Revis & Emmy Turner (Twin Falls)
Dick Biel
May 27, 2009
Dear Kathy and family, so sorry to hear about Tom. I'm Dick Biel, son of Virgil and Delila Biel from Java, SD. I remember when Tom and his brothers came to visit us at the farm and all the fun we had horsing around. Even though we have not been in contact for years we all share you pain in the loss of Tom. May the Lord comfort and sustain you through the weeks and months ahead. God bless and keep you all. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Dick
Mary Ness
May 26, 2009
Andy and Family,
We were so sorry to hear about the loss of your Dad. Our prayers and thoughts are with you and your family at this difficult time. May the love of all your friends and family help you through your grief. May all the your memories of your Dad bring you some comfort.
Love and Prayers,
Mary & Hal Ness,Layton,Ut.
God saw you getting tired
And a cure was not to be,
So he put his arms around you
And whispered
“Come To Me”
With tearful eyes we watched you,
And saw you pass away,
And although we loved you dearly,
We could not make you stay,
A golden heart stopped beating,
Hard working hands at rest.
God broke our hearts to prove to us,
He only takes the best.
Bob Buckendorf
May 26, 2009
Kathy and Molly and Andy and family, we are grieving with you in the death of Tom. What an amazing man and he beat us into eternity! I'm grateful to have known him a little bit.
Carol Marzouk
May 26, 2009
Molly, Pat, Graham, and Family,
We were all deeply saddened when we learned of your dad crossing over. Please accept our condolences during this very difficult time. It is clear that he was a good man and he left a great legacy. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
With love,
The Marzouks
Jerry & Cindy Prouty
May 26, 2009
Kathy, Molly & Andy,
Jerry and I were saddened when Jeff telephoned us with the news of Tom's death. His love for his Lord and his compassion and practical help for anyone in need will always be remembered. We fondly remember his time with us on a mission trip to Rwanda in January 2006. He seemed to be hand picked by God for our team especially because he could speak French and communicate with the cook at our Guest House.
May God grant you comfort & wrap His loving arms around you in the days and weeks to come.
Kathleen Rockne
May 26, 2009
Dear Kathy ... I was so very sorry to learn that your husband, Tom, was the person involved in the tragic accident last week ... Even though it has been many years, and our lives have taken different roads, please know that you have my sympathy and support as you move into your new life without this lovely man as your partner ... at least physically ... It sounds like he will always be a presence for you, mentally and spiritually, so you will never truly be out of touch with him. He sounds like such a wonderful human being, I'm sorry I didn't know him. Perhaps God just needed some extra help upstairs, and Tom was just the fellow to help Him out ... even though it happened a little sooner than you would have chosen ... With my deepest sympathy.
Barb Bill
May 26, 2009
Molly and Family, many thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of loss. God has plans for everyone, and he is now beginning a wonderful journey! His work on earth will not go unnoticed. - Love, the Bill Family
Mark Traylor
May 26, 2009
Kathy,Molly and Andy... I am so very sorry to hear about Tom's passing and your incredible loss. You all were the first friends I had in this town. I will never forget the two months that you allowed me the honor of living in your home just as I was getting started here in Boise. I know that you did the same for many others... your big generous hearts are testimony to the man that Tom was... he will have an enduring legacy through you all.
Jessica Koep
May 26, 2009
Mme Bettger and Family,
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I still have many fond memories of Tom from our French trip. Even in that short period it was apparent that his zest for life and concern for others set him apart. Many thoughts and prayers for you during this difficult time.
Chuck , Christie, Sheena & Shari Brown
May 26, 2009
Kathy, Molly & Andy,
Our love goes out to each of you and you are in our prayers. We are so thankful to know that God is giving you His Peace -- that He will sustain you with His Strength and that the future is truly bright because His Plan is Perfect.
Our most recent visit with Tom was this past September, sitting at Damon and Kay Lynn's dining table with their old sewing machine. Tom was immediately interested in it and looked it over and made a few adjustments to help us get it working better. In Damon and Kay Lynn's sharing with us about working on their house, Tom's advice and help has been often mentioned.
Our love to the Bettger Family, whose love shows from the very first meeting.
May 26, 2009
Kathy, Molly and Andrew,
On behalf of the Dennis Technical Center, Boise School District, please accept our sincere sympathy durng this difficult time. Tom, as an Idaho Power Power Quality Engineer, served as a program advisor for our Electronics students. He cheerfully and faithfully organized wonderful field trips for high school students, opening their eyes to career possibilities.
We will miss Tom's enthusiasm and good cheer.
Sincerely,
Mary Knapp
Micheal Hughes
Nathan Day
Marca Yarbrough
May 26, 2009
Dear Kathy,
We are so saddened by Tom's sudden passing and our hearts and prayers are with you and yours. It is a joy replete with sorrow, knowing he is with his loving Savior, but also knowing you continue life's journey without him. We will continue to pray for you in this new and difficult walk.
Love, Marca and Gib Yarbrough
Carol Zyburt
May 26, 2009
Molly and Family,
My deepest sympathies for the loss of your father. I know this has to be a tremendously difficult time for you. I am so sorry for the pain you have to endure and will pray for you during this difficult time. Remember to keep the fond memories of your father close to your heart and share the happy memories with Graham. Love and Prayers, Carol Zyburt
Barbara Severns
May 25, 2009
We so dearly loved Tom and his quirky sense of humor. I loved his passion for others and always willing to get the job done and teach another while doing it. I have to change my wording, it has always been Tom and Kathy's. Now as Kathy continues on, know that she is loved, prayed for, encouraged and supported. Kathy, Molly and Andy, know how much our hearts ache for all of you. Remember the joy and look to the future forever! Love you all
Krista and Erik Torseth
May 25, 2009
Andy and the Bettgers, we are thinking of and praying for you guys. We were so sorry to hear about your dad.
May 25, 2009
Dear Kathy, Molly and Andrew,
We are all stunned by the passing of Tom.
It seems like just recently we were in France with you and the BK French class. We have wonderful memories.
I hope and pray that with your strong faith that you too will look back on all the good and smile again.
You are all in our thoughts at this very sad time.
With sincere regard,
Lil, Dwight, Rebecca and Alex Kurek
Becky Aman
May 25, 2009
The Aman families from South Dakota would like to express our condolances to the Bettger family on the loss of our nephew/cousin Tom. We're sure he will be greatly missed.
Frieda Aman, Becky Aman, John, Kim and London Aman
Rob and Liz Trenckmann
May 25, 2009
My heart aches with all of you as you remember a life so well lived. Tom is a man who lived practical Christianity to the fullest extent--genuinely caring for others, offering to help, and seeing the needs of people. Our prayers are with you as you travel this difficult journey.
Delta Wheeler
May 25, 2009
Although I never really knew Tom, except for as an acquaintance, I'll never forget his kind smile and his joyful presence. Peace be with the family during this difficult time, our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Love, The Wheeler Family
Tom Harrison
May 25, 2009
Tom was a true leader by example. He was engaged in life, no matter what the circumstance. At his church, which he loved, Tom was deliberate about finding the person in the crowd who was attending for the first time. He truly made them feel welcome. His love of helping others who were struggling or trying to improve their lives was constantly evident in both his words and actions. Best of all, Tom was just a great guy. We will miss him. Our most sincere sympathy goes out to Kathy, Molly, Andrew, and the rest of his extended family.
Becky Rutherford
May 25, 2009
Dearest Bettger Family,
I was so sad to hear of Tom's accident. My thoughts and prayers are with you as you grieve his passing. I hope in the days, weeks, and months ahead you will have wonderful memories of him that will comfort you. One memory I have of Tom is when he asked Jeff about a suit he was wearing one Sunday. Tom asked if it was made of 'Bird cloth'. Jeff said, what is bird cloth? Tom replied "Cheap". What a character he was, he will be missed by all. I know you take comfort in the fact that he is now experiencing his new life with Jesus.
Sheila McClure
May 25, 2009
For all of us who know Tom and his family - our lives are richer! My mind sees Tom being one of the first to welcome all those lives that he's touched throughout the years! Talk about "Well done, my good and faithful servant...." Tom - our lives are truely changed because we were able to 'do life' with you! And Kathy and family - we holds you up and surrounds you in prayer! We all look forward to eternity with Tom and the family. I hope my mansion is on the same culdesac!
Showing 1 - 44 of 44 results
The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.
Read moreWhat kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?
Read moreWe'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.
Read moreIf you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.
Read moreLegacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.
Read moreThey're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.
Read moreYou may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.
Read moreThese free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.
Read moreSome basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.
Read more