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Marian Demyer Obituary

Dr. Marian Kendall DeMyer

Ended her life journey on July 15, 2012. She was born in the family home in Greensburg, Indiana to the late Wilbur L. and Margaret (Groenier) Kendall on October 30, 1922. She would have been 90 years old on her next birthday.

She graduated from Rushville High School and Indiana University. Dr. DeMyer was a graduate of Indiana University School of Medicine, Class of 1952. She completed a medical internship at Receiving Hospital in Detroit, Michigan. While completing a residency in Child Psychiatry at I.U. Medical Center, she was named Director of the Children's Service at LaRue D. Carter Hospital. After completing her residency, she became Director of Clinical Research Center for Early Childhood Schizophrenia. Dr. DeMyer was a research pioneer in Childhood Schizophrenia, later known as Autism. Her research at LaRue Carter Hospital and the Institute of Psychiatric Research at Indiana University provided the ground work for later research by others that identified and defined the spectrum of Autism. She authored and co-authored numerous publications relating to her research. She and her late husband, Dr. William E. DeMyer, collaborated on numerous neuro-psychiatric studies and writings. She was the author of Parents and Children in Autism, one of the first books for families coping with Autism. She retired in 1993 as Emeritus Professor in Psychiatry.

In addition to her work, she was a champion amateur ballroom dancer. She performed her last dance at the Starlight Ballroom on her 85th birthday. She and her husband were widely known for their prowess on the dance floor and enthusiasm for ballroom dancing.

She enjoyed playing bridge with the Faculty Wive's Bridge Club. She was a member of Alpha Omicron Pi Soriority while an undergraduate at Indiana University, as well as Alpha Lambda Delta and Sigma Xi Honorary Organizations.

In addition to her parents, she was preceded in death by her older brother, Robert S. Kendall, her younger sister, Mary Carolyn Kendall, and great nephew, Peter M. Kendall.

She was a source of inspiration to her nieces, Lee Kendall (Greg Horvath), South Bend, and Amy Kendall, Granger, IN; nephew and his wife, Mark and Becky Kendall, Mooresville, as well as numerous great and great-great nieces and nephews.

Her children, Carolyn Kendall, David DeMyer, Larry, and daughter-in-law Mary Jo (Dawson) DeMyer will miss her love, friendship and encouragement so very much. Her granddaughters, Jane Wright Mitchell (Douglas), New York City and Karen Margaret Wright, Fishers, IN looked to their grandmother as a role model and inspiration that helped them become the women they are today. Grandson, Luther Ray DeMyer, carries on the dancing tradition that his grandmother loved so much. She is also survived by two great-grandsons, John M. Evans (Jack) and Daniel J. Tourney, who fondly called her "the grandma with the Red Hair."

Funeral service will be Thursday, July 19th at 1:00 PM at Crown Hill Funeral Home, Remembrance Hall. Calling hours will be Wednesday, July 18th from 4:00-8:00 PM and for 1 hour before the funeral service at Crown Hill Funeral Home, Remembrance Hall. Burial will be in Crown Hill Cemetery.

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Published by The Indianapolis Star on Jul. 17, 2012.

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Don Mindach

July 11, 2024

A real friend and quality person I will always remember she added so much to my life and Indy Dancers. Thank you Marian

Indy Dancers

July 11, 2022

Marian was a dear person, warm, fun and very giving to add to other peoples fun dancing. We will always be glad we had her and Bill in our lives. D. Mindach

Benjamin Giraldo

April 16, 2021

Charles B. Ferster and Marian K. DeMyer did in 1961 the first experimental research in behavior analysis with kids with autism. We all (applied behavior analysts) are in debt with her.

Cheryl Bush-Urrabazo

August 16, 2012

I am so sorry to hear of the passing of Marian. Bill & Marian were such a big part of my life in Indianapolis. I had hoped to see them one more time before they passed. The last time I was in Indy for an extended time they had a gathering for me and we all danced. What a beautiful time we had with the old dance group again. I will miss Bill & Marian and will always think of them when I think of dance.

Rebecca Brindle-Scala

July 26, 2012

Very sad to hear of the loss of Marian. I know what a great lady she was.. our sympathies to your family and friends.

C. William Hanke

July 24, 2012

To the Family of
Dr. Marian Kendall DeMyer
I was sorry to hear the sad news about Dr. DeMyer. I was acquainted with Marian and Bill when I was on the full time faculty at Indiana University School of Medicine. They both had amazing careers and amazing lives. Bill would beat me "like a drum" on the tennis court even though I was many years younger. Their success in ballroom dancing was most remarkable. Your family will have a great heritage to carry on. Please let me know if I can assist in any way at any time.
With deepest sympathy,

C. William Hanke, M.D., MPH, FACP

Dr. Charles & Tom Bonsett

July 23, 2012

We are so sorry for your loss. We have uploaded a photo of your parents taken at the dedication of the Pathology Bldg. Museum on Oct 10, 1971.

Drs. William & Marian DeMyer Old Pathology Bldg. dedication 10 Oct 1971

Tom Bonsett

July 23, 2012

Don Mindach

July 23, 2012

I will Miss Marian

July 18, 2012

Dear Carolyn, Sally Lugar told us tonight about the sudden loss of your Mother. I am so sorry that we were not there to give you a hug!!! You are very special to us as are Jane and Karen. Love you,
Barbara and John Wynne and family

July 18, 2012

Dear Carolyn, David and Larry, Your Mother and Father were 2 of my best mentors. I cherish memories of them and will be forever thankful for their guidance and friendship. They were exceptional in every way. My heartfelt sympathy to you during this sad time.
Amy (Fremion) Chappell

July 18, 2012

Carolyn, we are so sorry for your loss.

Jim and Karen Martin and family

Perry Fague

July 17, 2012

Larry, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. You and your family were a big part of my youth. I wish you the best during this difficult time.

Toula Oberlies

July 17, 2012

Dear Carolyn, Jane and Karen, John and I were so very sorry to get the news of your mother's and grandmother's passing. It's always been a pleasure and a privilege to be included in so many of your family gatherings and events... so many fond memories of your mother and dad, Carolyn. I've no doubt Marian will be long remembered by friends and colleagues alike, and to so many for the kind and generous hearts of her daughter and granddaughters. I love you. Toula

Suzy Kish

July 17, 2012

Dear Larry & Family,
I am so sorry for your loss... but your mom lives on in your smile, as it looks to me like that is where you got your great smile!
(PS. I did Felicia's entry, down at her job & we were in a hurry, and I spelled her last name wrong!!!!)
With much sympathy,
Suzy Kish

Stephen Dunlop

July 17, 2012

Dear Family,
I wanted you to know that Marian was a great friend to me when I first Came to Indiana and IU in 1978. I respected her for herself and her work during my years there and later. Unfortunately, I will be out of town and miss the visitation.

Felicia Kemper

July 17, 2012

dear larry, I'm just so sorry for your loss and am thinking of you and your family.
from your old friend, Felicia Kamper

July 17, 2012

Dear Carolyn, I am so sorry to learn of your Mother's passing. She sounds like quite a lady of accomplishments.
My deepest sympathy and condolence.
Sincerely, Doris Hannoy

LaQuicia Washington

July 17, 2012

I was blessed to spend many hours with Marian as she shared her life experiences with me. She encouraged me to always do my best and to recognize my worth. I am a stronger person because of her influence. My condolences to the famliy.

Karen Koon

July 17, 2012

Dear Carolyn,
We remember your mother as being so gracious, warm, welcoming and elegant. We had such good times at your parents' home. We are so very sorry for your loss.
Karen and David Koon

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