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EUREKA - Samuels, Matthew H. "Matt," 42, Sheriff of Greenwood County was fatally wounded in the line of duty on Jan. 19, 2005. Visitation will be held Saturday, Jan. 22, 2005 from 6 to 8 p.m. at Koup Family Funeral Home in Eureka. Funeral services will be held at 2 p.m. Sunday, Jan. 23, 2005 at the Eureka Junior/Senior High School Gymnasium. Matt was born Oct. 22, 1962, in Eureka, to the late Charles W. and Mildred (Anderson) Samuels. His stepmom is Cheryl Samuels-Tyson. Matt graduated from Eureka High School in 1981. He married Tamara Bechtle on April 23, 1983. They have two children, Heath, 19 and Sharlee, 15. Matt began his law enforcement career working for his father, Sheriff Charlie Samuels in 1986. He was first elected Sheriff in 2000 and was nine days into his second term. Matt was awarded the Silver Medal of Valor in 1992 for his acts of heroism while saving the life of another. He was a member of Masonic Lodge Fidelity #106, Midian Shrine and President of the Kiwanis Club of Eureka. Matt is preceded in death by one sister and his father, Charles W. Samuels. Survivors include: wife, Tamara; son, Heath; daughter, Sharlee all of Eureka; mother, Mildred Badders of Iola; mother, Cheryl Samuels-Tyson of Russell; sisters, Roxanne Samuels of Tulsa, OK, Wendy Linsey of Admire and Sheila Smith of Hamilton; grandmother, Mary Houston of Eureka and grandfather, Harold Cooper of Moran. In lieu of flowers, the family has requested that memorials be made to the Matt Samuels Scholarship Fund or the Shriner's Children's Hospital. Contributions may be sent in c/o the funeral home at PO Box 595, Eureka, KS 67045.
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God is a God of all Comfort and he will Comfort the family's..My heartfelt condolences to the family's..
Jimmy
Acquaintance
November 29, 2020
Matt,
as executor of Estate in Greenwood Cty. You and Charlie I am sure was walking with me keeping me alive and SAFE. Your name rolled off from my mouth # of times. Our connections>U was the Sheriff and I work for Ks.Dept of Correction. L.T.F. of Samuels
January 20, 2016
He must been a good shift greenwood country my prayers are with him and his family's mow
ashley davis
January 19, 2016
Michael Edwards
January 19, 2016
The few times I dealt with him, I knew he was a kind hearted soul... he is missed by so many..., what a tribute to him. He is still with us all as a guardian angel...
January 19, 2016
i knew matt when we were kids, knew charlie, he was the sheriff when i was in eureka. matt was a happy-go-lucky kid. can't believe 5 years ago his life was taken from everyone. what a wonderful experience of love he offered so many, years before he was in a position to protect. just want to send family and friends a moment of silence of loving thoughts, remembering matt and the many lives he touched, his whole life.
lisa (bratton) rochford
January 19, 2010
jassca from omaha me
July 7, 2009
You will be forever missed Matt, But never forgotten!
Tabatha Nelson
February 23, 2009
My heartfelt sympathy to the Samuels family for the great void that has been left in their lives with the loss of Matt.
As a former resident of Eureka and a brother in Law Enforcement it pains me to hear of his cruel passing.
Matt was always kind to me when I was growing up.
The world remembers and now misses this defender.
Wayne Weible Jr.
June 3, 2008
Matt and family, thank u for making my younger sister and I feel like part of your family in such a loving way. Matt was such a caring and dedicated man. He could reach out to anyone with his warm smile. We'll always remember His face. We love u and miss u so much!!
Molly Briggs
June 2, 2008
i miss and love you matt your always in my heart and u always got me outta trouble
jessina mead
March 25, 2008
WE will always miss you Matt.
Blue Ward
March 10, 2008
Matt was a wonderful man and we greatly miss him. May our thoughts and prayers be with his loved ones always.
Crystal Wadholm
January 25, 2008
Tami, I remember working with you in the courthouse. Matt and Charlie were my friends. I always felt safe in Greenwood County knowing that they were there for my protection. I have thought of you often and admired your bravery. Nell
Nell Sowder
January 24, 2008
you were a good man
Lindsay Stuy
January 24, 2008
I never knew him but reading these entries I can tell how many people really loved him. I especially love the entries by the young people that he interacted with as they came of age, how he was a real home-town guy when he pulled them over in their cars, real sweet & funny, exchanging friendly banter & telling them to slow down, be careful. Like a dad would do. Like my dad would have done if he had been a cop.
I have a friend in in Australia, a Koori aborigine who is one of Australia's national treasures. When my husband died she taught me this Koori word: Illabukamer'laiyuri. It means, "The spirit lives forever."
God walks with us and holds us up when we stumble because we cannot see through our tears. And when we stop and lie down sometimes because it hurts too much to go forward, He picks us up and carries us through to the other side of our pain.
Kathy Isabell
January 24, 2008
R.I.P. Sheriff Samuels. You fought the good fight...
Buzz Carey
January 24, 2008
Thank You for all you have done.
Gilbert Bush
November 23, 2007
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Melissa Buckridge
November 2, 2007
Tami and family, I think of you often during this difficult time. I try to keep myself updated on things back home. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. Jennifer (Scott) Best
Jennifer Best
November 2, 2007
Well Matt, its almost over, and we are all thankful for the conviction.My heart and prayers goes out to Tammy and Family. God be with you. We still miss you Matt.
Audrey Morrow, Severy, Ks
Audrey Morrow
November 1, 2007
Matt, I miss you so very much. I miss your laughs and smiles you always gave me. You were like the father I will never have. You always supported me and made me feel good when I was down. I will never forget when you came to my house one night while i was sick. You brought me sprite and m&ms and said it will make me better. To this day i still use sprite and m&ms when i am sick. I am always thinking of you. To Matt's family I am so very sorry for your loss. Wish we could bring him back. All we can do is keep him in our hearts. I do 24/7. Miss and love you Matt!
Ashley Swartz
November 1, 2007
my thoughts are u with your family and matt
valri cope
October 31, 2007
Thoughts are with Matt's family,
especially this afternoon.
Susan
October 30, 2007
My thoughts are with you and your family.
Stacey Flanner
October 30, 2007
My heart goes out to you Tammi and family. Don't know if you remember me or not, but I used to manage the Pizza Hut & my last name was
Lillard back then.
Linda Maroon
October 27, 2007
My heart goes out to the Samuel family during this very trying time
Adeline Davis
October 26, 2007
I didn't know you that well but you were a great man that loved what you did. You will be missed very much. You will never be forgotten.
Ramona Clark
October 25, 2007
Matt: My heartaches each time your name is mentioned. There isn't a day that goes by that I am not thinking of you. If only we could turn back time and do things differently...I am and always will be proud of the person you were and will always be. I will see you again someday and you will smile and say, "Hey, what have ya been up to?" And I will reply, "Missing your precious spirit"0;)
Gods Speed my dear cousin...Tami J.
October 24, 2007
My heart goes out to the samuels famiy. I knew matt when i coached football in Hamilton. He treated me with the highest respect and offered his support. I say that because i am african american and being in Hamilton i was nervous but Matt was always there with a smile and support. Matt was a Mason as i am and once a mason always a mason and a brother mason. God needed a great person and mason in heaven. My sympathy to all who loved him. Otis Moon
Otis Moon
October 24, 2007
i love and miss u uncle matt
michael edwards
October 24, 2007
Matthew Schroeder
October 23, 2007
Matt i miss u alot thanks for being a sheriff for Eureka Ks and i wish that you was with us right now i miss you thanks for everything
Amber Cope
October 23, 2007
Your on my mind and in my heart. miss you little brother.
Roxanne Samuels
October 16, 2007
My prayers are with your family may you find comfort in knowing he will be remembered. Those who choose to be in law enforcement and put their life on the line for others are truly special people
Kim Weldon
September 14, 2007
I'm so sorry a bout you loss.HEwas such a nice guy!!!
I LOVE YOU MATT!!!!!
Cayte Harber
June 8, 2007
Hey Matt I miss you so much...i have been staring at your picture and listening to "American Soldier" crying for the past 3 hours...I even wrote you a letter so if you get time you come read it...I love you matt and i miss you
Morgan Worthington
March 24, 2007
Michelle Herzog
March 4, 2007
It has been two years and i miss you more and more each day!! My thoughts and prayers go out to the rest of the family!! You will always be in my heart and i hope to see you again some day!! Love you with all my heart!!!
Nikki Cox
January 23, 2007
it has been 2 yrs now. matt we miss you very much. i know you are up their watching over us at all times. now if we can get a conviction every thing would be right. at least going in the right direction. forever in our thoughts matt love you and miss you bunches
Denyse waldrip
January 20, 2007
i miss you matt i will never forget you you were there to help my family and i respect that and i love you matt and i will never ever forget you
valri cope
January 20, 2007
Today marks the date that we all never seen coming and never thought would be up on so soon, I just wanted to tell you that i love you and miss you a lot, I would not be the person i am today if you had not been in my life, i was not the best and still not the best at picking my friends. you showed me a lot and you were always right about most of it. I love you Uncle Matt!!!! and miss you everyday
Kodi Scates
January 19, 2007
I can't believe it's been 2 years since you left us. I know that there alot of people that miss you very much. I do hope that you are watching over everyone, and know that we here on earth still love you and miss you very much.
Robin Pratt
January 19, 2007
Scott Chamberland
January 12, 2007
Matt was like a father to me for many years and losing him was like losing a piece of myself. I cant believe it has been almost two years. This family has not been the same since that horrible day. And Christmas just wasn't the same without you! I miss you now and always. See you someday again. Love Ya!
January 10, 2007
Matt was a really great guy and my dad thought of him as a best friend....my dad is Mike Mullins and was with Matt and tried to save him but it didn't work out ya know and Matt will be greatly missed and remembered!!!
Kacy Mullins
January 5, 2007
I know you are up there helping to watch over my babies Matt, THANK YOU
Linda Cooper(Rhodes)
January 5, 2007
hey i miss you matt i really do i cant belive its been so long since you died it feels like oyur not dead cause i belived in you but you will always ne in my heart
valri cope
January 1, 2007
Matthew:
Always in our hearts, forever in our mind. I Love You Cuz'.......
January 1, 2007
Matt,
I can't believe it's almost been two years ago since we lost you. I think of you often. Love, Your Friend.
December 31, 2006
It was hard to go to the sheriff's office after school to give my grandma my back pack and not have Matt there picking on me. He was an insperation to all of us in Eureka. I give my best to Tammy, Sharlee, and Heath!
Janessa Jones
September 1, 2006
Samuels Family,
I had the privilege of going through the Kansas Law Enforcement Training Center with Matt in 1987.(101st Basic) Even in the early stages of his law enforcement career, you could tell how much Matt loved the law and wanted to help people in his community. It was common knowledge that most of the officers would leave law enforcement within the first 5 years after graduation. I stuck it out almost 12 years before leaving active patrol and attending law school. I still maintained contacts with a number of my classmates and while I worked hard towards a law degree, I took just as much pride in watching my brothers in law enforcement grow and advance in their careers. I am proud of you Matt. Proud to have had the opportunity to know you. Proud to be able to tell others about the work you were doing making your part of Kansas a safer place for hard working, honest families. Matt, some officers will wander through a 30 year career and never make a difference. In the short time we were blessed by your life you MADE A DIFFERENCE! Rest in peace my brother and we will see you soon.
Ted Griffith
August 15, 2006
Matt, I'll never forget ya buddy. Canada trips just aint the same without you. I'll never forget going with you to mcdonalds on the way to lad bridge and you made me eat those dang fries. We're always thinkin of you! Maybe we'll meet again someday. Rusty Galbraith
Rusty Galbraith
August 11, 2006
I had the great honor to live with Matt and Tammy for about a year. I just found this site, I loved him like a dad. Matt, Tammy and the kids are a part of my family and I still think about Matt often and I hope I will be back soon to be with Tammy, Sharlee and Heath. I will never forget him, never ever, I never got grounded back home in Germany, but he grounded me the first time in my life ;-) He was strict, but really fair and honest and just simply a wonderful person.He and Tammy teached me so much, I wouldn`t be the person that I am today without them. Love ya Sandy Mey
Sandy Mey
August 9, 2006
matt was a great man. he always had something good to say to people as he walked by. and never angry with anyone.. I'm sure he maid a great father and husband to...but through his passing you must think of the good,not the bad .So with that just rember what a great person Matt Samuels was.
haden winfrey
July 14, 2006
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Jim and Judy Hull
June 24, 2006
iloved matt! sorry about your lost.
cayte harber
June 13, 2006
I am very sorry for the lost.
Tonya Haga
June 13, 2006
sorry, for your lost of him. :(
jordan haga
June 13, 2006
Carie Huaracha
May 27, 2006
Paige Christy
May 27, 2006
At 1030 in the morning of April 25th, Matt's name was etched into the Law Enforcement Officer's Memorial Wall in Washington D.C.. I just wanted everyone out there in Kansas to know that Sheriff Samuels was spoken of, remembered, and his loss acknowledged by many of his extended L.E. family here in Maryland. Your loss is our loss and you're in our prayers. Hope to meet some of you this year in D.C. [email protected]
Sean Kille
April 27, 2006
HE was a good cop and will always be remeberd.
Christ6ina Phillips
February 6, 2006
Been thinking a lot lately about Matt. Just want to tell tammy and the rest of the family that you guys are in my prayers and if you need anything dont hestitate to call!! The world is a lesser place without him but he is always here in our hearts. Love you and miss you guys a bunch!!!
Nikki Cox
January 21, 2006
Good people are hard to forget, and Matt remains to be one of those Good People. Absent from our lives for a year now, he will never be absent from our hearts. He left an impression on our hearts of every conversation, every smile, wave, just about every move he made or word he spoke remains with us. Matt touched a lot of peoples lives, and his friendship is stamped forever on our hearts. God Bless the Family and Friends of Matt.
Sherrie ILgenfritz (Thompson)
January 19, 2006
I can't believe it's been almost a year since Matt left this earth. I was in Eureka over Christmas, and the town didn't seem the same. It seemed like the town was still in shock over his death. It's really sad that Matt is gone, but I believe that he is in a better place and is watching over us all. Watch over your family and community, and take care of them always. We will miss and love you forever.
Robin Pratt
January 18, 2006
We miss you more and more everyday
It's not fair: the Good Lord took you away
We miss you every moment of every day
We miss you more than words can say
It's hard to believe you're gone
Makes your time here not seem so long
Why did you have to go?
Why didn't you say good-bye
All we can do is sit and cry
We miss you every night and day
But nothing can take away the pain
We wish you were here
So we can hold you
There are so many things
We never got to say
You're the part of our lives
That we never forget
We'll never forget you
You'll forever be on our minds
Till the end of time
In loving memory
Matthew Hayden Samuels
1962-2005
We'll always love you and miss you
Until we meet again.
Robin Pratt
January 17, 2006
just want the samuels family to know how are sorry i am for their loss! tho i never met matt i know he was a good man just from looking at him you could tell that not to mention how much i can tell from what people say good luck my prayers are with you all candy silbaugh
candy silbaugh
January 17, 2006
My condolences for your loss of a husband, father, and friend. may you remember the time you had with him and take solace in that memory. you will be in our thoughts and prayers. Edwin Lewis Jr
Edwin Lewis Jr
January 17, 2006
It has been almost a year since Matt was taken from his family and friends. It does not seem that long ago. Since moving back to Eureka from Las Vegas in November, I have often went to the cemetary and talked with Matt to let him know he will FOREVER be the Sheriff of Greenwood County and he will never be forgotten. Matt, we know you are up in heaven watching over all of your friends and family keeping us safe. We will meet you again someday. We love you Matt. Tammy and kids, just know that not only the Maxson family is here for you, but everyone that loved Matt and Cherished him!!!!! God Bless you Matt. We miss you terribly!!! Love, Rebecca and Trampas Maxson and Family
Rebecca Maxson
January 17, 2006
Jody Mendenhall
January 17, 2006
Thought of you while on patrol today myself. Wanted you to know I was thinking of you & continue to miss you daily. The world has truly missed out on having you here in person. Keep watch over everybody like you've done all along. God bless & i'll talk to you later. Anthony #143
Anthony Young
January 17, 2006
Been thinkin' about Matt alot the last few days. Anniversaries aren't always happy occasions. May God get Tammy, the kids, and all Matt's family and friends through this first one...time ease our pain.
Susan (Erickson) Johnson
January 16, 2006
Hi guys! I was thinking about Matt the other day, and about you, and I just wanted to let you know that my thoughts and prayers will always be with you!! Matt has not been, nor will he ever be, forgotten!! He and my Mom were "one of a kind"!! Love, Marva
Marva (Spears)Mitchell
January 11, 2006
It has been several months since Matt passed away and I often find myself thinking about him and his family. I want Tammy and family to know that they are in my thoughts and prayers and that your loss has not been forgotten. Matt will never be forgotten. I pray for God to give all of you strength to carry on. May God bless you.
Zenda Hughes
November 10, 2005
You know, its really amazing that the loss of one life can affect so many people, not only his family , but everyone who knew and loved Matt. A question came up a few days ago, and I thought if only Matt were here, maybe he could point me in the right direction as he had done several times in the past. Tammy and family, Matt has not been forgotten, and we all miss him. God Bless you all. Audrey Morrow
Audrey Morrow
October 27, 2005
I have been reflecting back alot over the 9 months that Matt was taken from us. It is truly something how you get so caught up in daily life and take for granted day to day contact with someone.
Just the other day I had a question come to mind that I would usually pick up the phone and call Matt about. I can only say this that Matt is a person that I will miss everyday for the rest of my life. He was truly a friend and friends and that is something that will never be taken away from because I still look up in the sky on those clear nights and talk with Matt. He was truly a hero in my mind and heart and I miss him more and more everyday.
What is amazing out of this is how strong Tammy has been. She truly a solid rock in this loss that I have found myself asking why I feel the way I do sometimes. Thank god for the family and friends that she has because they have been so great as well.
Ryan Winfrey
October 26, 2005
Megan Crismas
October 25, 2005
My thoughts and prayers have been with Tammy, Heath, and Sharlee since January 19. I had the pleasure of working with Matt at Eureka Downs and always enjoyed the jokes that he had to tell. It won't be the same at the track this year without Matt.
Tara Osborn
April 13, 2005
My Brother Matt was the best brother anyone could have possible ask for. He was always there for me and my boys anytime we needed him. I miss him so much. I'm glad you got to watch Jeff play in one of his football games big brother and I know you will be watching down on him and Bubba in everything that they do. Thanks for always being a great big brother. I Love You. Also thanks to everyone who wrote such great things about Matt. Say Hi to Daddy for me Matt. Love, Sheila
Sheila Smith
April 12, 2005
My Uncle Matt was aan awesome man he would do anything and everything to make sure you were doing great. He loved his family very much ( all of us). He would always try to be at all the sporting events. I can remember a few times when he was in hamilton wathing the football game when he could have been doing something else, or when tammy and him would come down and stay till 4 in the morning for the hamilton after prom. I just wanted to tell everyone thanks for their support.
Josh Cullor
April 3, 2005
To everyone who has written in here. Thank you for all your words and thoughts and Prayers. I have enjoyed reading all of these wonderful words. Matt was a great brother (spoiled sometimes),but I loved him a lot. I am glad every one got to know him the way I knew him. He loved his family, he was a wonderful father and husband. He was a friend that any true friend would want. I will truely miss you Matt. Say HI to daddy for me OK.
Wendy Linsey
March 26, 2005
Tammy, Heath, and Sharlee my thoughts and prayers have been with you since January 19th. Matt was a great person and I am glad that I was blessed to have known him. He will be missed.
Peggy Ryan
March 22, 2005
Matt, thanks for everything, we will take care of "business" down here... Watch over us, we miss you. You WILL not be forgotten.
February 17, 2005
Our thoughts and our deepest sympathies our with you thoughout all these difficult times.
Garry &Casey (Stapleford) Edmondson
February 14, 2005
Dear Friends,
When I found out about what had happened to Matt, I was absolutely devestated. This was a wonderful man, friend, and police officer taken from the state of Kansas. I am terribly sorry for your loss, but please understand that all of you are in my thoughts and prayers everyday. God bless all of you.
Zenda Hughes
February 12, 2005
It is with great remorse that such a thing like this happen. I know that there is nothing that one can say to relieve the pain. Just know that it sounds as if Matt died doing what he loved to do. that is to serve and protect the community that he loved and lived in. I didn't know Matt, but I Do know the type man he was, A servant to his community and father and husband. I am sure he will be missed by all. I know that from what I have read about him he was indeed a rare man with a big heart and strong sense of purpose, something rare in todays world. God bless to all Matts family and friends..
David Gilbert
February 12, 2005
Tammy and Kids,
I am sorry for your loss. When I was a teenager and dumb enough to get into trouble his was great at helping me learn my lesson. He never treated me badly in public and helped me grow into a good person. Please take care. Crystal
Crystal Freund-Fox
February 11, 2005
Sam, I know that there are no words that can take away your pain, but everyday I pray that God will keep you, Heath & Sharlee wrapped tightly in His precious comforting loving arms. I only met Matt once, but I will always remember that you & he helped me be able to qualify on the "mini-14" for EDCF. I am here if you ever want to talk or anything, and I mean that.
Tom & Debie (Zack) Rumiser
Debie Rumiser
February 10, 2005
God bless Matt and his family.
Molly Branden
February 9, 2005
Matt was two years younger than me but I knew him as everyone else did in school because he was a friend to us all. I pray for his family and the whole Greenwood County community as this is truly a tragedy and his shoes will certainly be hard to fill.
Martina Tatum (Spears)
February 6, 2005
I was a friend of Matts father& he was a special person in my & my wife,s heart. My son went to school with Matt,but I didn,t no him personly,but I,m sure he was ever bite as nice of a person as his father was. you have our prayer,s
Walter Bray
February 6, 2005
My condolences go out for the family. Im very saddednd to hear that this had to happen to a great person in this world. Now he can look over all of us at once. He is greatly missed but always will be rememered. Dawn
Dawn Waldrip
February 5, 2005
Matt was a very good friend of mine. When I got into trouble, Matt was there. When I needed someone to talk to - Matt was there - always with a joke and a smile.
Matt - I know we didn't keep in touch like we both would have liked to when I moved away. Nonetheless. I love you and I will forever miss you!! Say hello to Mike for me.
Your friend -- David J. Wilson
David Wilson
February 4, 2005
Matt, I will miss you buddy! You were an awesome guy and a blast o hang out with. I will really miss all the fishing trips, there was never a better fishing buddy than you. God bless you!!! Love, Jesse Galbraith
Jesse Galbraith
February 1, 2005
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Ami Walton
February 1, 2005
Matt, you always saw the best in every one you knew..It is so unfair that you were taken from this world so soon. I will always remember the times we shared while working for the Greenwood County Sheriff's Department. You were my brother in law enforcement and you will be greatly missed. My prayers go out to your family and friend.
Tim Soule
February 1, 2005
The pain of losing a loved one never goes away, but it does get a bit easier to bear each day that goes by. My deepest wish is that the pain of the passing of Matt Samuels becomes easier to bear for his family, his friends and co-workers, and everyone whose live's he has touched. The last part of that obviously covers much ground. I myself have fond memories of joking with Matt when, as a teen, we used to sit on the hoods of our cars on the corner of Main st and River. Matt was never one to just sit in the car either, he'd get out and lean on his or sit on one of ours with us and talk for a bit. It kept us out of trouble, and gave us an opportunity to view law enforcement in a positive light. There is no better example for community policing on the face of the earth than the story of this great man. I hope that he remains and example to all others in the profession. We are the lucky ones, we knew him. We keep him alive for all those who did not, will not. He was wonderful in every way imaginable and my heart goes out to Tammy and her children. Please know that as I said before, while the pain never goes away, it will someday be easier to bear than it is this moment.
Sincerely,
Sharla Speer
Sharla Speer
January 31, 2005
He was always a good friend to all of us!
Floyd Speer
January 31, 2005
It was a shock for everyone god bless him and his family!
Tiffany Speer
January 31, 2005
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