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Wilbur Goulette Obituary

Funeral services for Wilbur E. Goulette Sr., 64, of Mendon, who died Dec. 10, 2012, at Tufts Medical Center in Boston, were held Friday, Dec. 14, in Christ the King Church.

Officiating was the Rev. Justin Baker, pastor.

Organist was William Gower-Johnson. Vocalist was Stephanie Cooper, a sister.

Bearers were Matthew Markowski, Michael Markowski, Chip Litchfield, Larry Litchfield, Robbie Smolinski, all nephews, and Frank Ettori.

Honorary bearers were his grandchildren, Zachary and Ethan Course, and Willie and Matthew Goulette.

Readers were Bob Smolinski and Susie Markowski.

Eulogists were his children, Kerry Coarse and Butch Goulette.

A prayer service was held Thursday in the Clifford Funeral Home by Rev. Baker.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Rutland Herald on Dec. 16, 2012.

Memories and Condolences
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John Reynolds

December 26, 2012

On behalf of Miles Reynolds and his family in Tampa, FL, we would like to send our deepest condolences. May God rest Wilbur's soul…

Christy Desjadon/Alger

December 23, 2012

dear judy and charlotte and family: while it was so very good to see you and enjoy your comments about growing up in Orwell, it was not good to hear of Wilbur's suffering. My sympathy to you and yours and all who he loved and who loved him in this life and the next. I cut myself out of the pictures we took and have some fine ones of you.

December 22, 2012

Butch, Maryann and family,
So sorry about the loss of your beloved father. We hope all your fond memories will help to bring you peace at this very difficult time. Our thoughts are with you all.
Love, Ron & Kelley Mecier

Jim Pallutto & Marjory Pierce

December 20, 2012

Whenever I saw Wilur he was connecting with family, coming from or going to sporting events with his grandkids; you could tell that he loved his family very much. He almost glowed with happiness in their company. Our thoughts and prayers go out to his family. May Wilbur rest in peace (although I suspect he would prefer Home Plate seats at Fenway)and his family live on with the memories of his life so well lived.

Joanne Zanlunghi

December 20, 2012

Butch,
I was so very sorry to hear of the loss of your father. I know how difficult it is to lose a parent...no matter how old we are. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family...Joanne Zanlunghi

Judy (sister) Goulette-Delorm

December 16, 2012

I was just reading all of the wonderful messages to Kerry, Butch and our family; it is difficult to know that so many people will miss Wilbur as much as we do.I want to say that we are sorry for your loss as well. If we can all be more light-hearted in our meeting with a new face and give them "one of Wil's Smiles" we will doing what Wilbur would have done. I have learned that it is not the situation that will take you down, rather it is the way you handle the situation that will make a difference in your life. Make that difference! Don;t spend time today watering last years' crop! Go forward and make a difference as Wilbur did! LOve and thanks to all who have supported Wilbur and his loved ones..Judy (sister) Buthie and Kerry, I love you!

December 16, 2012

By the way Sleeping with Angels has a whole different meaning in Heaven than on Earth..

Christine Garrow Rikhy

December 16, 2012

Butch - I'm so sorry for the loss of your Dad. May your broken heart soon find some peace.

December 15, 2012

Kerry and Butch,
Please accept my condolences at this difficult time. May you gain strength from those close to you.
Gerry (White) Gosselin

Julia

December 15, 2012

To my brother Wil, you don't need to worry about my health anymore. I'll be fine, you need to worry about dealing with sis Linda now! God sure will have His hands full!

Tricia & Phil Scott

December 15, 2012

Butchie, Mary Ann, Willie and Matthew - so sorry for your loss. Wish we could have been in town to help in any way. Our hearts are with you all.

Michael Slattery Jr.

December 15, 2012

Butch, Kerry, and the Goulette family,

In this time of sorrow, I hope you find solace in the fact that your friends and neighbors support you.
While I never met Wilbur, I know well the sound of laughter and appreciate his family legacy.

Neil & Sheila Crossman

December 15, 2012

Sorry about Wilbur's passing he's in a better place now.......remember the good times you all shared with him..we had special times with him when he was at the Nordic Inn.....God Bless you all at this time.......prayers are with you at this Holiday Season..........

Norman&Noreen Duby

December 15, 2012

To Wilbur'S FAMILY
We were so sad to read about Wilbur, He was a great friend of Norms, and they looked forward to seeing each other every sumer, May he rest in peace.Our prayers are for you, his family to get you through this sad time.
Sincerly,
Norm and Noreen Duby

jean& skip (reynolds) vincent

December 14, 2012

we are very sorry for your loss...god bless ....keep your memories close to your heart..

Geri & Win Adams

December 14, 2012

Grief can be so hard during the holidays, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one this holiday season.

Ann Valiquette-Rodgers

December 14, 2012

Kerry and Butchie,
I'm so sorry to hear about your dad. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers.

December 14, 2012

Robert & Ann Rich of Randolph Maine

Bonnie/Bill Pratico

December 14, 2012

Kerry and Butch and family, We are so sorry for the loss of your Dad. He always had A smile for you and a way to make you laugh. He will be truly missed by many. R.I.P Wilbur

Dave and Terri LaRoche

December 14, 2012

Hoping that wonderful memories get you through this difficult time. Thinking of all of you. XO

Eddie Barker and family

December 14, 2012

Butchie and Kerry,
Sorry for your loss he was a great guy.
Your family is in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
R.I.P Wilbur

John F O'Keefe

December 14, 2012

Goulette Family, I am sorry to hear of your loss. Please accept my condolences. May the love of Family & Friends bring you comfort. R.I.P. Wilbur

American Heart Association

December 14, 2012

May your memories of the wonderful times you shared with your loved one comfort you and your family, today and always.

Sean Seguin

December 13, 2012

Wilbur, I can't even count how many laughs we had together. I'm never going to forget the best though, calling CJ at 3 a.m. You always were looking for great laughs, fun, and a practical joke if we could pull one off. Going to miss you my friend.
Tiny

Carole (Senecal)Shackleford

December 13, 2012

Hi, Betty and Dorothy. You may not remember me, Dorothy, I was Carole Senecal, just below Mary on Fairlane rd.
and you to Betty, I didn't get to the reunion, but I saw pictures, you are still small and pretty. Very sorry for your loss, he was so young, I knew Howard, worked with him at Stowell Chev. he was the top salesman. It's so sad when a sibling passes, You can e-mail me if you like. I will be praying for your family. I was a member of CKS,
also, church and school.
through smiles and sorrow's, pictures, and a family to console you. God Bless

December 13, 2012

I will always remember your warm smile, your happy laugh and your huge heart. You were loved by so many!

December 13, 2012

Butchy, Mary Ann and Family,
Sorry about the loss of your father and please accept our condolences. May you find some peace during this holiday season. God Bless, Pat and Melissa Loughan

Charlene Cain Vaughn

December 13, 2012

There will be an empty chair at the holiday table this year, but it will be filled with loving memories. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Kandi Graham

December 13, 2012

Thinking of you all during your sad time. Every time I ran into your dad he was smiling! Prayers to the entire family. Love and hugs -

December 13, 2012

I knew WiLLLLLBER for more then 40 years and every time I saw him he made me laugh.I am going to miss that.Jerry Jokinen Sr.

December 13, 2012

We send our condolences to Will's family and friends. We will remember him fondly.
Jack and Linda Mackin

Jim & Jamie Trapeni

December 13, 2012

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Christina Sweet

December 12, 2012

Kerry and Butchie,
I was so sorry to hear about the passing of your father. He had to have been a great man to have such amazing children! Just wanted you to know I'm thinking about both of you and your families.

Margo Martin

December 12, 2012

Butchie and Mary,

Please accept this as an expression of my sympathy in the passing of your Dad/Brother. You and your families are in my thoughts and prayers.

December 12, 2012

Dear Mary,and the remarkable family you have,I am sorry to hear that your brother has passed. I can tell he will be missed by many.
Sincerely,Mary Jane Marcinczyk

Harriet Davis

December 12, 2012

Mary,
So sorry for your loss....know that many prayers are with you and you family during this most difficult time....you are indeed a very special lady. With love, harriet

Jane Williams

December 12, 2012

Kerry and family,
I am keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.My Mother-in-laws always says, "The Good Lord wanted them home for Christmas" when people pass during this Holy time. Peace to you all.

Mike Palfey

December 12, 2012

Dear Goulette Family,
was sad to hear of Wilbur's passing!
the world will not be the same. Will miss his sense of humor!!!

Rose(BooBoo) Cote

December 12, 2012

Wilbur, You are free to fly with the angels. May you look down upon your family and comfort them during this difficult time. You will be greatly missed!

Peter Polcaro

December 12, 2012

Butch, Kerry and Families... Please accept my heartfelt condolences on the passing of your dad. I will miss his laugh and smile. May the great memories you have give you solace and the love of family and friends give you resolve in your times of need. I love ya good buddy!!

BooBoo Cote

December 12, 2012

I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you all! Wish I could be there with you!

The smile of a proud and happy father.

December 12, 2012

Sharlene LaRoche

December 12, 2012

My condolences the the Goulette family...and any friends and other family for their loss...

Lynn Marsette McCarthy

December 12, 2012

My most sincere and deepest of sympathies go out to each of you..he fought so hard and had such loving support. Now, tho, he is at peace.

December 12, 2012

Dear Family of Wilbur,
Words can't express the loss of a husband, father and friend. Never at a loss for a kind word or a joke or two. Wilbur was one of a kind-the kind that I could call "friend". He will be greatly missed by all...RIP my friend.....Hub/Ann

Cathy Jo Roberts

December 12, 2012

So happy that he is out of pain and has the freedom to fly! Heaven is in for a big surprise! Love to all!

The light he brought to this world now shines brightly from above.

December 12, 2012

Bonnie/Charles Johnson

December 12, 2012

We are so very sorry especially at this difficult time of year for the loss of your Brother Will. Let the good memories of the years sustain you at this hour and weeks ahead.

Sherry Kamyk

December 12, 2012

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.
Kevin, Sherry, Courtney & Hilary Kamyk

December 12, 2012

Thoughts and prayers to all of you. Wilbur always had a smile and a hello. He will be missed..

Stephanie Goulette Cooper

December 12, 2012

Willy, I light this candle in your memory, with my undying love to you, to thank you for the light, love, humour and joy you brought into my life.

Beloved husband, father, brother, friend. Very sadly missed.

Stephanie (Goulette) Cooper

December 12, 2012

Trish Goulette

December 12, 2012

You're with Jesus,now,my brother
There shall never be another, who could be like you ,or, ever take your place.
With angels you will sing,giving glory to or King
As you see your saviour,Jesus,face to face. I will miss you. Love,Sis Trish

Colleen Wright

December 12, 2012

I'm so sorry for your loss- he fought a valiant fight.

Stanley and Sue Potter

December 12, 2012

My heartfelt prayers to the family during your recent loss.God bless you all during this difficult time.

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