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Lynn McKenzie Obituary

Lynn Renee McKENZIE Lynn Renee McKenzie, beloved wife, mother, and sister, passed away peacefully at home surrounded by her family on May 3, 2011. Lynn was born to Victoria and Lavern Joslin, on July 7, 1949 in Seattle, Washington. From the moment she set foot on this earth, no grass ever grew under her feet. She graduated from Shorecrest High School in 1967. While working three different jobs, she went on to graduate from the University of Washington with a degree in Speech and Hearing Pathology. In 1978, she met M. Jon McKenzie. They were married on May 17, 1980. Their son, Matthew was born in 1982 and daughter, Michelle was born in 1984. After discovering her true passion was teaching, Lynn obtained her credentials and opened her own Montessori school, working out of her home. She then went on to teach kindergarten and third grade at Sunnyside Elementary School in Marysville, and received Teacher of the Year Awards on two occasions with other various special awards. Children and education were a major part of Lynn's life. So was cooking. She was a food demo person and cooking instructor for PCC (Puget Consumers Cooperative) Natural Markets. Her family and faith completed her life. And what a life it was! For 15 years, Lynn fought a valiantwar against colon cancer, never once letting disease dictate her life. Nothing could stop her.She organized, cooked for and hosted community kitchens, memorials, church teas, legendary Christmas parties and her daughter's wedding. Supported by her husband, family, oncologist, friends, and countless others whose lives she touched with her innate kindness and deeds, she showed us what life is really about. So let us all bid her sweet soul a well-deserved goodbye and eternal rest. (Like this girl will ever really rest!) Lynn is survived by her husband and children, sister, Jo Joslin, brother, Jack Joslin (and family), mother-in-law, Louise McKenzie, sisters-in- law: Edi Dirkes, Bonnie Crockett, and Margie Impecoven (and their families), brothers-in law: David and Scott McKenzie (and family), Uncle Leon Joslin, cousins Tim Joslin (and family), Mandy Joslin, Brad Swank, J. Swank (and family), Annette Thornhill (and family), and many, many...many friends. A memorial celebration of Lynn's life will be held at the First Presbyterian Church of Snohomish, 1306 Lakeview Avenue in Snohomish, WA. on Saturday, May 14th at 7:00 p.m.

Published by The Seattle Times on May 11, 2011.
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Lynn R. McKenzie by Jo Joslin

My sister Lynn was a force of nature. And when I think of her, even more “F” words come to mind.

Family … Friends … Faith … and … Fighter

There was also that “T” word … Teacher and the other one “Talker” and then the “K” word: “Kindness incarnate”. And she was all of those things. But no one, even Lynn, does it all alone. So I wanted to acknowledge some people in this room who supported and loved her as much as I do.

“F” word # 1: Family. When you are in your 20’s or 30’s, standing at the altar reciting those vows “in sickness and in health”, you really don’t think it will ever happen. But it does! And Lynn’s husband honored those vows to the very last breath of her life. He was there for every chemo-session, every doctor’s appointment, and every surgery. And despite losing his own father just last month, he administered Lynn’s medications every 3 hours for the last few weeks without missing a beat. He is not my brother in-law, he is my brother. Here’s to you, M. Jon McKenzie.

And then there are those two kids Lynn and Jon brought into this world. Michelle, you’ve got your Mom’s hustle, drive and faith. Matt, you’ve got her sensitivity and night-owl gene. You were and are the greatest joy in your Mother’s life.

OK, “F” word # 2: Friends. This room is full of them but I need to mention a certain group in particular. I’m going to call out your names and ask you to stand so we can embarrass you publicly. Carole, Michelle, Candace, Lynne, Sharon, Kathy, Claudia, Molly, Marilyn, and Debbie - These ladies are known as the “Girl Friends”. They have been meeting once a year for well over a decade. And their bond lasts throughout the rest of the year because they communicate constantly. Lynn was able to relax and let loose and laugh. And these are the people that made that possible. Thanks Ladies!

And that brings me to “F” word # 3: Faith. Lynn’s oncologist, Dr. Kaplan has it. And even though I’ve only met a handful of the people from this congregation, I know this room is overflowing with many others who shared and appreciated the strength of my sister’s faith. So to Pastor Ann and Pastor Charlie and all of you who bent the rules a bit and prayed that Lynn would be set free rather than linger any longer in pain, thank you. Because, it appears those prayers have been answered.

And now for “F” word # 4: Fighter. Some fighters go one round. Some go five. The odds of surviving stage 4 colon cancer don’t go much beyond that. But cancer picked the wrong person when it took on my sister. She went 15 rounds. 15 years beyond statistics, beyond all odds, because Lynn loved life and nothing was going to stop her from living it.

All cancer did was allow Lynn to show others what they could do, not what they couldn’t do. All cancer did was bring her family and friends even closer together. All cancer did was strengthen her faith even more.

Life isn’t defined by a disease. Or how much time you are allotted. Life is what you choose to do with what you are given. Life is about the way you treat others. Life is about how much love you give. So guess who won?

I’ll give you a hint … it’s an “L” word. My fabulous sister, Lynn.

I want to ask all of you a favor. And yes, it will involve audience participation …

For the past 10 years, Lynn hosted an annual Christmas party. And she made everything. And just before the doorbell rang and the first guest arrived, she would survey the kitchen - A kitchen where every conceivable counter top was laden with food. Appetizers, fruit platters, entrees, more appetizers, salads, veggies, sandwiches and her world famous cookies and she would turn to me and say, “Do you think I made enough?”

And I would reply, “Well, if the entire continent of South America has confirmed they’re coming, then, yes … I think you’re good.”

We called it the Dom DeLouise syndrome. And it became a tradition.

So as a final tribute, I’m going to tweak the words a little and ask you all to join me.

The words are: “Lynn, do you think you made enough friends?”

So please assume the position, hands on face, eyes skyward. And on the count of three … please say it loud enough so that she can hear you.

1 … 2 … 3 …

Jo Joslin

July 15, 2011

MOM (Lynn Renee McKenzie)
By
Michelle S. (McKenzie) Ruther

My Mom was a great mom, a great teacher, a great person, and a great friend. She has had a substantial impact on those around her from the kids she taught to the people she has helped to our family and friends. I will miss calling her up to talk, helping her with craft projects for Community Kitchen, or her Sunday School Class, I will miss her support and encouragement, getting gardening or cooking instructions, tea parties, her unending optimism, giving her a simple hug and a kiss on the cheek, to name a few.

I know that I am not the only one that will miss her terribly. There are many of you here that feel the same loss that I do. So for you, I wanted to share with you a couple things she has taught me that may be of comfort. One is to say thank you to others when you appreciate them, so thank you to the church congregation for being there for my family and for my Mom. We and she really appreciate the support and she loved and enjoyed being a part of this church. Thank you to our family and friends who have been helping put together the service and helping us with the day to day things we were not able to think about as Mom became more ill. Thank you to everyone who has been praying for my Mom and my family. Thank you to Dr. Kaplan and God for helping my Mom enjoy fourteen extra years with us. My Mom lived her life to the fullest and appreciated each extra day.

The second thing that my Mom taught me was how to always look at the bright side. “Things can always be worse” she would say. There are many things to be thankful for like the things she was able to do with the extra time she had. She took trips with my Dad, went on a hot air balloon ride with Matt and me and was there for 14 extra years of birthdays, Christmases, Thanksgivings, Easters, Valentines Days and Anniversaries. She was there to see Matt and I graduate from high school and then from college. She was able to be at my wedding for which we are so grateful for. She was able to say good bye and to let us know that she loves us. So when you are sad, please remember that Mom lived each day to the fullest and we should follow her example.

Michelle Ruther

July 15, 2011

I met Lynn when she first started at Sunnyside, she was my sons kindergarten teacher then later his third grade teacher. She was a dedicated teacher who had a true passion for the job. My son enjoyed having her as his teacher and I enjoyed having her teach my son. I am glad I saw her a few months before her passing as she was a true inspiration to all who knew her. My heart is with her family during this most difficult time.

Laurie Miller

July 6, 2011

" Lynn Renee McKenzie showed me the greatness of my teachings back during my third grade year she was my third grade teacher in Sunnyside I was pretty glad I met her and saw her still around when I went into 4th grade and into 5th grade those came my best years I got to say that was fun seeing her around but then I left elementary June 2005 to go to middle school which then I'll miss everyone especially my third grade teacher but it was a good elementary time".
" I remember in 3rd grade Mrs. McKenzie she would give me work to do but then there were some challenges I didnt how to do since it was hard so then my classmates helped me which then made me feel good about it. I would do the math easily since im good in math but reading gave me struggles since I wasnt that good but then she boost me a bit for that I really appreciate it".
" Mrs. McKenzie please never forgive me and watch over me on something I need to do and to accomplish. I was glad I had you for my teacher in third grade".
"May God with you and God Bless"

Gerald Bautista

July 5, 2011

Lynn gave a few speeches about her life with cancer. Here is a copy of that speech:

A Journey With Cancer

My Name is Lynn McKenzie. I am with the
First Presbyterian Church of Snohomish. I’m going to tell you a little bit about my cancer journey with our Lord and how he has taught me about humbleness, trust, faith, prayer, patience and fear.

Well, my husband Jon and I got married at thirty years of age .We had both gotten our education, traveled, and we were ready to settle down. We vowed that when we had children we would bring them up in the Christian faith as both Jon and I had been reared. After searching for many months, we found a warm welcome and sense of family (God’s family) at the First Presbyterian church of Snohomish. We soon became active in the church. Jon eventually became a deacon, and I was an elder, Sunday school teacher, and Girl Scout leader at the church. Our children attended a Christian school. We attended church regularly, participated in bible classes, and helped other people.

Then when I was forty-seven, I was diagnosed with stage 1 colon cancer. We went to the only surgeon we knew who had operated on Jon before. He removed the cancerous portion of the colon, but the oncologist we were referred to failed to prescribe chemo therapy (which we know now was a huge mistake) and within one year the cancer reoccurred and had metastasized to a stage 3 ( meaning that it went through the colon and was spreading to other organs). I was in real trouble!

Yet, what an eye opener this experience was in so many ways! I professed to be a Christian and live the Lord’s way, but there is a whole lot more to it than that. Here is where I met the Lord face to face and heart to heart.
I reacted like most people with WHY ME LORD? Then after the disbelief that this could be happening, the anger, and yes, a little “pity party” for myself, I began to get a new prospective on my life. Cancer is an evil disease. Even with modern research, technology, and new treatments coming out regularly, from 2007 to this year, deaths from cancer have doubled. You have the choice to let this burden roll over you and take you down, or you can fight it. One of my dad’s more memorable mottos was, “Get in there and fight, fight, fight.” That is what I decided to do. Don’t give up and keep moving until you can’t anymore. My children were only in junior high school. I needed to be there for my family.

I’ve always been a “take charge” person. I read the book Let Go, Let God, but still had a problem letting go. Now there was no choice anymore. I had to humbly let go and have faith in and trust the Lord completely to guide me. He did just that. First, through a co-worker, he led me to the best oncologist available. I was given a 20-40% chance of making it through this second colon surgery within a year. Yet, the Lord and I broke previous records and I made it. That was followed by many, many radiation and chemo therapy treatments. Through all that my trust and faith in the Lord became stronger and closer. My prayers became more specific and I talked directly to my Lord.

I went into remission for four years and ten months before the cancer returned in my diaphragm muscle and is gradually spreading to other organs. It certainly wasn’t what you wanted to hear. Yet, this time with having been rather humbled by the Lord and having established a closer trust and faith in him, I found myself asking, “Well, what do we do now Lord?”He responded by having one miracle after another happen to me on this journey of life. I was in on the cutting edge for many new drugs and cancer fighting techniques which have given me fourteen more years to my life. I not only got to see my children graduate from high school, but from college as well. This past October I even made it to my daughter’s wedding. My son and daughter both have their own homes now and Matthew, my son (who claims that he may stay a bachelor), has been dating a young lady for some time now.

I have met many people going through this same burden of cancer. I’ve made many friends as we relate what each of us has been through. If you get low in spirit, the Lord introduces you to witness someone who has had it much worse than you have. For example, one day I was drawn to sit next to a lovely woman named Christine who didn’t look like one of the patients at all. She engaged me in conversation about her bouts with this disease and it came out that she was facing something like her 30th operation. I was coming close to my 8th at that time, again how humbling.

Most of the people who seem to be coping the best with this disease are those who have the Lord in their lives. I have been so blessed to have the Lord in my life, a warm and loving family, and a very supportive church family who have prayed for me so diligently that I can actually see and feel what the power of prayer can do.

I still wonder sometimes ”Why me Lord?”, yet not in reference to having cancer, but why did my journey of life take me down this path? What is it in your plan for me that I should be doing for you? I think it might be to show others that you are not going through this alone, put your trust and faith in the Lord your God. He is with you every step of the way if you really get to know Him. Also, faith shown through you can be giving hope to others. When friends and other patients I have met hear how long I have been fighting this disease they compare their situation with mine and take on a more positive attitude that they can fight it and extend their life time too. I also feel that in my life’s journey I have not spoken out openly for the Lord and what he can do in your life. This is my chance to do that.

Besides teaching me to be humble, pray directly from your heat to the Lord, and have complete trust and faith in Him to guide my life, I am learning to have patience. Except for when I was a teacher, Lynn and patience in the same sentence is like an oxymoron. Waiting in lines, waiting rooms and traffic is not my thing. I get frustrated with Tupperware cartons, and medicine bottles I can’t open and if something doesn’t work, I just throw it out. Well, with cancer you are constantly waiting in waiting rooms, or adapting and making changes in your life to accommodate the effects of the latest medications you are on, or a new apparatus you have to wear. I’m slowing down gradually, and can’t do many of the things I used to like to do. I’m learning to accept it and have patience to invent new ways to do variations of things I used to do, or just do what I can and be thankful for the help I have been given by others.

Finally, the issue of fear arises. People have asked me if I am afraid to die. I’d have to say, “No.” I see fear of death as a lack of trust in the Lord. He has been with me through this whole journey and I feel that he will be with me to the end just like the supportive, loving husband and family that He provided me with. I am more concerned with how I will go. It has been explained to me in two ways, neither of which is very pleasant. That is the hardest part especially for those who love you the most and will have to see you go this way. As for when you will die, the Lord is the only one who really knows. Yet, remember I have already had a miraculous extra fourteen years of life. So I think the best thing you can do is make each day count and be thankful for that precious time. When our children were younger they would delight in picking up a “lucky penny.” It was almost as exciting as an Easter egg hunt. Now in our retired years (and not because of the economy) Jon and I have been picking up “lucky pennies” and other coins. Every time we pick one up, I see is as a sign or a “penny from Heaven” for one more lucky day that I’m still on my life’s journey here. And guess what, last week I found two dimes.

In Memory of Lynn R. McKenzie

Jon McKenzie

June 8, 2011

Letter from Louise Morberg to Jon:

Dear Jon,

I hardly know how to express my sorrow to you. I also am sorry that I didn’t give Lynn a call after the wedding. She looked so nice and to think that she could talk to the guests as she did. She definitely was a very gifted caring person. That poor girl must have suffered more than I realized. God Bless you for being such a supportive husband. I’m sure you suffered as well as you saw your loved one endure as she did.

I did know she was a special teacher from my conversations on the phone with her.

I’m also sorry that I couldn’t have been more helpful with suggestions for her cancer.

What a kind soul she was as she told me how she helped her younger brother, Richard, in his last days. The Lord gave her a special compassion for him all the while she was having her own problems.

I know you both will have many stars in your crown from the Lord. These past months have been especially hard on your whole family, seeing her slip away.

We enjoyed the service but both Carl & I ad a hard time hearing the tributes to Lynn. Would it be possible when you have time to E-Mail your tribute, Michelle’s & Jo’s – I want my daughter to hear and read them as she couldn’t come in the evening with her family. She really liked Lynn and we did see her at the Co-op when she was demonstrating. We’ll miss her but she is no longer suffering which is a blessing. I’m sending you the clipping from the Bremerton Sun made years ago about her mom. She was like a mentor to me – my mom & auntie Ester met before either of them were married so there are many memories I have about Lynn’s family.

I know now that your grief will be heavy. You do have your Children but the days ahead will be hard.

So glad you are Christians because that is where the comfort comes.

Kudos o you for being a kind loving and caring husband for Lynn and making her marriage a happy and wonderful experience for her. She told me of all the trips you’ve had and that she had done and seen what she wanted to do. God bless you.

Lovingly,

Louise Morberg

Louise and Carl Morberg

June 8, 2011

Dear Jon,

I tried several times to sit down and write you a letter, but the words were not there. It was not that I was too sad to write. I was absolutely at peace with my thoughts. My only prayer these last few weeks was to see the pain that daunted Lynn’s life end. I was so thankful. When we talked a few weeks ago, Lynn seemed to have come to terms with her illness and the reality that the end of her life was near. At the memorial you enclosed a card to write down a memory but that little card brought a flood, far too many for that little card.

I remember when Lynn and I became friends in High School. How that happened is still a mystery to me, but God was probably involved. We had the same name and we each had a horse named Duke, but that is where our similarities ended. Lynn was the ultimate girl, and me, a tom boy from birth. Our favorite times were long walks and talks at the Seattle Center, and then there was always another stop at the airport to “people watch”.

I remember when we moved in together during Lynn’s first year in college. It was a Bellevue apartment and Lynn and I shared a room. Bad idea, remember, we were opposites. I went to bed at 10:00 PM and Lynn was never in bed before 2:00 AM. I liked the window open and the heat off and Lynn, of course, the heat was on HIGH and the windows closed. I always had to get up at least once in the middle of the night to turn the heat off and then Lynn of course was cold, and she would turn it on again. By morning, I would be exhausted, but Lynn with her 3-4 hours of interrupted sleep, would cheerfully leap out of bed ready to welcome the day.

Sometime after that 1st year, on a Friday afternoon in 1968, on a warm summer day, we were tired of school and we should join the navy. Granted, it was probably my idea, but I know it didn’t take much convincing for Lynn to agree. Downtown Seattle we went, with our new futures all mapped out in our brains. We had an immediate change of plans when the naval recruiter said that the Navy was closed for any new enlistments. Remember, it was 1968, the Vietnam war was raging and everyone threatened with the draft was enlisting in the Navy. He quickly advised us that the Army was hiring and they were right next door. We looked at each other and said “why not” and headed up the street. In the matter of less than an hour, we were Army recruits. The last thing the recruiter said to us as we were heading out the door was “remember you have 72 hours to change your mind”. We laughed and said “No way. We are going to do this!” That was, until we got home and our fathers just about hit the roof. Needless to say, by Monday morning, we had rescinded our applications, and we were civilians again.

I remember 4 of us heading to Europe in 1969. Our plan was to first hitchhike the British Isles. Now Lynn and hitchhiking is like an oxymoron isn’t it? Lynn in her blue London Fog rain coat, her white gloves and that signature scarf in her hair doesn’t describe any hitchhiker I had ever seen before, or ever will again. We never failed to get a ride. It was only midway thru our trip did we realize why. One truck driver told us that he picked us up because he thought we were a couple of his town’s ladies who had missed the bus.

I remember we were in Florence, Italy, walking down a little side street, when we came upon a large group of people surrounding an outdoor TV. It was only when we heard “The Eagle has Landed” did we realize we were about to miss the first moon landing. We ran as fast as we could for the next 2 miles back to the little villa where we were staying, to view that history in the making, with the English broadcasts drowned up by the Italian translations.

I remember the day in Dusseldorf, Germany when Lynn was not feeling well. It was towards the end of our European Vacation and we wanted to see the Neanderthal Man Museum. Our trusted guide book, usually in Lynn’s possession, said the museum was at the beginning of a long hiking trail, about 20 miles out of town. Lynn decided against staying at the Youth Hostel to rest, saying the fresh air would do her good. It was a beautiful day. Little did we know that we walked right past the museum in the woods, and as we walked, Lynn got sicker and sicker. Hikers told us that there was a small restaurant at the end of the trail, and we were almost carrying her at this point. About a mile from the top Lynn could go no further. I ran to the top and was able to convince the owner, in my very limited German, that we needed help. He and his son got her to their restaurant and then put Lynn in the back of their truck and transported her, by a back road, to a brand new county hospital. I think God materialized that hospital just for our benefit. They spoke no English there but somehow the head doctor told us Lynn had appendicitis and needed an immediate operation. We panicked. We were at the end of our trip, in a foreign country. We had very little money. Again God stepped in. We asked the doctor to estimate a cost. It was less than $800.00 and that was for the operation and a 4 day stay. A real deal as far as we were concerned. We pooled our cash, called Lynn’s folks, and the operation went perfectly. Afterwards, Lynn had a great time, so great that I am not sure she wanted to leave. A young intern came in several times a day to visit, and Lynn, forever the teacher, helped him with his English.

I remember when she met you Jon. She called after your first date and little did you know that you didn’t have a chance of escape. It was love at first sight. After you guys had been dating for quite a while we kidded her as to when you were getting married. She said, “We will get married when Jon is ready to get married … but we will get married!!”

As we moved apart in later years I remember many very long phone conversations. Let me clarify, Lynn usually did most of the talking and I listened. I heard all about your job and hers, every detail about the kids and how they were doing in school and the conflicts with the neighbors, and of course, her illness. Her positive attitude never wavered. Her focus was entirely on the future and her next mountain to climb.

I remember the last long phone conversation we had in August of last year. It was the first time in all those years of cancer, I had ever heard her talk about her own demise, but then, it was only for a moment. The conversation quickly returned to Michelle’s wedding and the plans that were made.

I will always remember our last visit at your house several weeks ago. She walked into the room obviously full of pain, but that quickly faded away. Just like old times, the five of us sat there and drank our tea and laughed and told old “war” stories. Lynn told us about her mean old grandmother. I told Lynn that I will dig up the dirt on that mean old woman and find out what made her that way. I will not forget that promise, even if now, she probably knows the answer.

I will remember Lynn as kind and gentle, but strong and determined, a lover of children, a teacher from birth. I will remember Lynn because at the end of her life, she was able to disregard her personal pain so she could focus all her energy on her family, and to make sure they would be OK. We will all miss her, but remember, she has left a legacy that will last a lifetime.

Anytime you need to talk, Keith and I are always close by. Thanks Jon for making her life so wonderful!

Love, Lynne

Lynne and Keith Foster

June 8, 2011

Lynn Renee McKenzie – my Wife, my Love, my Friend, and so much more!

Lynn was born in Seattle, Washington on July 07, 1949. Whenever someone asked for her birth date, she always said “7, 7, 49 – I’m a perfect square!” You know, 7 times 7 equals 49, which is a perfect square! The medical profession asked this a lot and she never tired of this little joke.

I meet Lynn about 32-33 years ago. We both worked at The Boeing Company – me for about five years and Lynn had just started. She was trying to find a room where she had to attend a meeting and was a little lost. She came over to ask me if I knew where the meeting room was located. When I saw her, all I could think of was that this was a very Elegant Lady! This image / description of Lynn has been with me ever since and is the best way I can describe her. What was really scary was that this Elegant Lady was coming over to talk to me. Much later, Lynn told me that when she saw me and the way I dressed (my shirt was worn and threadbare on the elbows) and the forlorn look on my face (I had been recently dropped by a girlfriend), that nobody was looking after for me. That’s Lynn, looking out for the downtrodden and lonely. After that, she would talk to me whenever she had business in my part of the work building and I would look for her in her part of the building. After a few weeks of this, I finally got up the courage to go to her and ask her on a date. SHE SAID YES!!!! After giving and getting the details of the date, I walked back to my desk, but my feet never touched the ground!

Our first date was wonderful! As you know, Lynn can carry on a conversation with the shyest introvert around and end with everyone feeling like you had participated in the most stimulating conversation in the world. I feel that I may have been one of her quieter dates, but she made me feel fantastic and I seemed to relax her. We both knew we had to go out again. And we did! Many times! After a little over a month, a strange feeling started coming over me. I had felt it before, but not like this – I was falling in Love with this Elegant, Classy Lady! When I told her, she said that she felt it too, but a few weeks earlier. She was afraid to tell me, because she figured that I wouldn’t just walk away, I’d RUN!

This is when I found out that Lynn makes deals with God! She told me that before we met, she had had a few unsuccessful relationships with guys. They were looking for a good time, but nothing permanent. At about 28 years old, Lynn was looking for someone to settle down with. Getting tired of this life, she said a few prayers to God asking for someone to come into her life that would love her and start a family together – otherwise she was going to forget the husband part and go right to adopting some children! At the same time, I was thinking that I was tired of dating (which wasn’t very often), tired of the breakups (which always occurred), and was ready to get married (no thought of children, yet). You can guess the next part – God arranged for us to meet, to talk, to go out, and to fall in Love. Lynn always said that she had prayed for someone to come into her life, and there I was. Because of all this, Lynn should have realized that there was no way I would have run away from her, God had answered both our “prayers” and now it was up to us to follow through.

We fell in love, but our past experiences wouldn’t always let us accept it. About two to three months after meeting Lynn, she came to me and said that she had a new love in her life and that his name was Max! My face fell to the floor where my stomach was already laying. Lynn saw this and continued talking and describing Max – beautiful coat, strong, loving, four legs, great personality – everything a girl could want …. In a dog! I had quit listening so it hadn’t dawned on me that Lynn was pulling my leg. When I finally found reality, and realized that Lynn had pulled me into her joke, I realized that I loved her very much and couldn’t bear the thought of losing her. But, my past experiences had shown that the ladies could only take me for almost a year before they walked away. I still had a number of months before that time would come with Lynn.

The months flew by and we got to know each other and fall deeper in love. Our one year anniversary of our first meeting was coming up. I knew I wanted to marry Lynn, but I had said nothing – for fear of the unlucky one year milestone. Then, Lynn decided that she wanted to fix me a special dinner of my favorite foods – lobster, shrimp, clams, wine, and a special desert. The date she chose for the dinner was the day before our one year anniversary! Oh, oh! This could be bad – but the food was going to be so good! I agreed; Lynn came over and prepared the most wonderful meal; then we sat down to talk! Here it comes – the goodbye talk!

Lynn started by saying that we had been dating for almost a year and she wanted to know what I was going to do. She had a lot of plans and not enough time. She had to know what my plans were. I think that I was so relieved that she wasn’t breaking up that I told her that I had planned on marrying her, but that I didn’t want to ask until we had been together for a year – which was the next day. She told me that it was too late – I had already asked her and she had accepted. I told her that if anything went wrong with our marriage, it was her fault because she hadn’t given me my one full year of dating before I proposed. The proposal wasn’t exactly text book, but it worked out just fine!

Our wedding was held in The Lake Forest Park Presbyterian Church and wasn’t perfect – but it seemed like it was. The things that went wrong were funny and gave us many hours of laughter. At one point my Best Man asked why I wasn’t nervous. I told him that getting married to Lynn was so natural that I could see no reason to be nervous. We were married with just a few small incidents – like the ring bearer running from the alter crying during the singing of the Lord’s Prayer or that everyone (including my new wife) left the church to go to the reception in Edmonds and left me at the church without a car or a ride.

Lynn and I knew our marriage was going to be great – it had to because of how it started. The earth moved for us …. Literally! We were married in the afternoon on May 17, 1980; Mount Saint Helens blew up on the morning of May 18th! Now that’s the way to celebrate the start of a marriage!

Once God had answered Lynn’s prayer, He continued working on us. He gave us good times, trying times, tasks, successes, failures, joys, sadness, and a sense that He was there with us and working with us all the time. When Lynn got cancer, we wondered where He was and why this was happening. He stayed with us and showed us where to get help, but we couldn’t see why this was happening and Lynn wondered what God had in mind for her to do. The cancer got worse and we could see no other way to fix Lynn, so our prayers change from curing Lynn to ending Lynn’s suffering. Again, God came and answered our prayers. One of the last things I overheard Lynn saying was when she was talking to God. She told Him that she felt that she had accomplished all that she could up to that time and that she was ready to go, but that she would like Him to hurry up and take her. That was Lynn, always in a hurry! Within a few days He did.

My Elegant Lady is gone from me, now. Lynn’s tasks are done and her suffering is over. I have only my memories of her and our times together. They will live with me for the rest of my life. So I say, so long dear Lynn, I’ll miss you so much.

Jon McKenzie

June 7, 2011

Hi Jon,
I'm so sorry to hear about Lynn's passing. I think what I will remember the most about Lynn is - the way she dressed. She was always so beautiful, so well groomed.

I tried to make it to her memorial services, but somehow I got the wrong address and I got lost. I had Lakeshore Drive, but asked where to go and they sent me to Lake Stevens - so I got more lost.

I had the greatest talk with Lynn a few months ago. I will always be thankful for that. She was a good friend and I will miss her. Hope to see you at the Beach this summer.

(From a Tender Toughts Card)

Our hearts are with you,

Mick Kelly, Marcie Bergquist

June 7, 2011

Dear Jon & Family,
Keeping you all in my daily thoughts & Prayers; even though I was not physically a part of your family, Lynn and I communicated as if we were sisters. I look forward to the day in eternity to reconnect with her.

(From a Today and Always Card)

Loving Sympathy to all of you,

Malinda Forry

June 7, 2011

Dear Jon, Matt, Michelle and Family,

In the days and months to come you will hear many stories and words of gratitude for Lynn - a loving wife, mother and friend.

For so many years she has blessed and inspired me. She gave so much of herself. She taught my boys in Sunday School and comforted me just a few months ago when my mother passed away. She made her Memorial Service a thing of beauty - every little detail was taken care of by Lynn and she knew exactly how to make it respect my mother.

If there is anything I can do now or ever to help, please let me know.

I will miss her so much, but I will carry her strength and courage always.

(From a Carlton Card)

With Faithful Love,

Lynn Schilaty & Family

June 7, 2011

Dear Jon,
You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Lynn's resilience and faith were truely inspirational to me. I pray that you will be filled with God's love and peace.

(From a Hallmark Card)

Sincerely,

Toko Magnus

June 7, 2011

We are so sorry for your loss. Lynn was a very sweet, thoughtful, selfless & classy lady. She was a true inspiration in the way she fought her battle with cancer.

(From an American Greetings Card)

Love,

Mike & Laura Hugill

June 7, 2011

Lynn,
You are so often in my thoughts and Prayers. Just know you are an amazing person. I'm sending caring thoughts your way.

I hope you know that you have many friends who are thinking caing thoughts of you.

(From a Hallmark card)

Your Friend,

Beb Gilmore

June 7, 2011

Jon, Michelle, Kevin, Matt, & Jo,

There are so many memories,
Some of them shared -
Lynn was special to many of us.

May God pour His Blessings on All of You.

(From a Gibson Card)

Love, Your Friends,

Bob & Shirley Feik

June 7, 2011

We will all miss Lynn. She was a wonderful lady and a real inspiration.
God is with you in all your needs.

(From an American Greeting Card)

Sincerely,

Evelyn Baker

June 7, 2011

Jon & Family,

Keeping you (& Family) in our prayers... it was good to see you & Michelle on Sunday at Church.

(From an American Greetings Card)

Blessings,

Lori & Phil Prins

June 7, 2011

Jon,
We know it's been a long road, watching Lynn slowly slip away. John & I are so sorry. Please know we are keeping you in our prayers.

As you know, Lynn was a formible woman. Her strength of character, her deep, deep faith, and her love of you & your family are the things that come to mind when reflecting on Lynn's life. She will be missed by all who knew & loved her.

(From a Hallmark card)

In Christ,

Barb & John Rolfe

June 7, 2011

Jon and Family,

My prayers are with you during this time.

(From an American Greetings card)

Warmly,

Linda Coram

June 7, 2011

Dear Jon,
On behalf of Findlay Street Christian Church, where Bobbie Belton worshipped while in Seattle, I express our sorrow over the loss of Lynn. We have been holding both of you in God's love and light and wish you now a place of calmness and healing as you take into your spirit her essence and memory. May you be strengthened and helped in ways most meaningful to you.

Your Friend,

Rev. Joan Dennehy

June 7, 2011

Keep her spirit alive by enjoying the memories you've made.

May your faith in God bring you peace ... in time.

(From Sympathy Card)

Rebecca & Randy Lowell

June 7, 2011

So sorry to hear of Lynn's passing. You're in our prayers.

(From a Gallant Card)

Mike & Lisa Buckner

June 7, 2011

Lynn was so faithful to send Jim cards and tell him of her prayers for him. We pray God's peace to all of you.

Lynn was a gracious & inspirational woman.

(From a Studio Card)

Sincerely.

Jean & Jim Hunter

June 7, 2011

Lynn's Family,

I am a substitute teacher in Marysville - often at Sunnyside. I got to know Lynn during a Summer School course, then at Sunnyside. I appreciated the dedicated, Christian woman she was. She will most certainly be remembered for her fine qualities. Please hold onto Matthew 28:20 ... "- Jesus' words. May God's love comfort you."

(From a Hallmark card)

Trudy Glassett

June 7, 2011

Jon & Family,
Holding you close in our thoughts and prayers -

(From an American Greetings Card)

Anne & Bob Sterley

June 7, 2011

Jon,
Lynn was such an inspiration to us all, and will never be forgotten.

If you ever need us for anything, we're here for you ...

Take care,

(From a Sierra Club Card)

Love,

Robin & Randy Williams

June 7, 2011

Jon,
It was a blessing to get to know Lynn during our supper club evenings. I'm holding you & our family in my prayers during this transition. You're an amazing guy, as is our God, so I am confident that good things are ahead.
(From an American Greetings Card)

Dave Pugh

June 7, 2011

Dear Jon and Family,
As I am sure many have told you, Lynn always amazed with her energy and generosity even after so many years of treatments. She has a special place in my heart as one of my mother's "Cancer Buddies" who understood what it was to experience that type of medical care. I will miss seeing her.
(Froma teNeues card)
Thinking of and praying for you all,

Anna Thelen

June 7, 2011

Thinking of you!

Martha Skinner

June 7, 2011

Dear Jon,
We are so sorry for your loss. We'll always remember the fun parties at your house. You were both amazing hosts!

Lynn will be missed by all who knew her.

Know that she and you are in our prayers.

Take care of yourself.

(From a Hallmark Card)

Love,

Art & Dolores Pereira

June 7, 2011

Dear Jon,
Words are so inadequate and I am not good at expressing myself in painful situations.
I am so glad you and Lynn were in our small group - I will always remember our times of sharing. I consider you both as my special friends.
May God richly Bless you!
(From a Luxury Greeting Card)
Most Sinserely,

Marguerite Simpson

June 7, 2011

Dear Jon,
Our hearts and prayers go out to you and your family. We are so sorry for your loss.

It was a pleasure to have known her the past years through Church (and working closely together in Godly Play & Children's Church for many years).

She was an amazing and inspirational person.

(From a Graphic Card)

With Deepest Sympathy,

Kelly, Dan, Hannah, Sam Dubyne

June 7, 2011

So sorry to hear of your wife's passing. I will keep you in my prayers.
Sincerely,

Karen Sharp

June 7, 2011

Dear Jon, Matt, and Michelle,
We join you in feeling great loss with Lynn gone, and in the joy of knowing where she is, no longer in pain, and finding all kinds of ways to help out in Heaven. What a legacy she has left!
(From a Sympathy Card)
With Love,

Louise & Rich Guthrie

June 7, 2011

To the McKenzie Family,
We will miss Lynn very much. Although we knew her a short calendar time we felt as if we had known her for a much longer time.

Our many long phone conversations were very open and friendly. She and Jon were so helpful to help us decide a course of action for Debbie's illness. We are most grateful.

We enjoyed the dinners and parties - she was so lively and a great hostess. The great effort to make Debbie's culture part of Kevin and Michelle's wedding was so generous.

I believe it is a bit rare that when your son finds his soul mate, his parents end up with such good and warm friends as Jon and Lynn.

Lynn has moved on from this world, but not from our hearts.

(From a Leaning Tree Card)

Bill & Debbie Ruther

June 7, 2011

Jon,
You know that you and Lynn have been in our prayers for a long time. We will continue to pray for strength and wisdom for you as you go through this transition period.
(From a Salamander Studios Card)
Love,

Sharon & Curt Johnson

June 7, 2011

We will miss Lynn at the beach and feel blessed to have known her for even a short time. Our heartfelt sympathy, Jon, to you and your family.
(From a Hallmark card)
Sincerely,

Connie & Sheldon Cohen

June 7, 2011

Dear Jon,
She was a remarkable lady, with so much faith. It was an honor to have known her.
May it give you peace to know she is with the Lord and is no longer suffering.
(From an Expressions Card)
Sincerily,

Steve & Susan Matuschak

June 7, 2011

Our God will comfort you.
Prov. 3:5&6

Earl Shaffer

June 7, 2011

I always enjoyed Lynns stopping by for "10 minutes" and then 2 hours later we'd say goodbye. We spent a lot of the time talking about our kids, she just beamed when talking about Matt & Michelle, needless to say she was so proud of them. She was a voice worth listening to & I'll miss her.
P.S.: She wouldn't even bat an eye if I answered the door in a pony tail and sweats and she was perfectly coiffed, as usuall!
(Entry form Memorial)

Donna Bosa

June 7, 2011

Jon & Family,
I'm so sorry to have learned that Lynn passed away. I loved her dearly and always enjoyed our visits at the Salon. I could always count on Lynn's joking comments and funny wit. We had such a great time. I'm going to miss her. I hope you and your family heal quickly and stay closer than ever now. My love and sympathy goes out to you.
Take care and God Bless,
(From an American Greetings Card)

Heidi Blackman

June 7, 2011

Jon, Michelle, Matthew,
We are so sorry you are having to walk down this road. Thinking of you all as you learn to live with your new reality. Rememer the good times, the funny times, and know that it is OK to laugh and cry at the same time.
(From a Hallmark Card)

Teresa, Naomi & Daniel Alldredge

June 7, 2011

Jon & Family,
Know that our prayers & concerns continue to lift you up in the days ahead.
We recall with admiration & appreciation for Lynn's gracious welcome & care for our grand kids during Sunday School. We are blessed to have been a part of her life. Peace and comfort be yours,
(From a Sol Deo Gloria Card)

Jon & Marita Bishop

June 7, 2011

Dear Jon, Matthew, & Michelle,
We and the rest of the congregation grieve with you in Lynn's passing.
At the same time we rejoice that she is home with Jesus, and suffers no more.
Lynn was a very beautiful, special person, and an inspiration to all who knew her. She will be missed greatly.
(From a DaySpring Card)

Alven & Sallie Hjorten

June 7, 2011

Our prayers to all of you. Soon the memories that make you laugh will return. Those memories will be so close to your heart.
(From a Heartfelt Card)

Mary & Jon Sutherland

June 7, 2011

Lynn was such a wonderful and positive person. She touched so many people's lives. I consider myself blessed to have known her!
God's Blessing,
MaryAnn
(From a Tender Thoughts Card)

MaryAnn

June 7, 2011

To Jon and Family,
I like to extend my most sincere condolences upon the death of your beloved wife, Lynn. May God remain your firm anchor during this dificult time and give you much strength and comfort. Though I have not worked closely with Lynn, I have admired her positive outlook and perseverance, which was so clearly visible. Lynn was a very remarkable woman. May the memories see you through the dark hours of grief and bring you again God's warm comfort and light. Much love to you and your family,
(From Memorial Card)

Ursula Gallagher

June 7, 2011

Lynn left us with a shinning example of grace in action. She will never be forgotten.
All our Love,
(From a Designer Greetings Card)

Molly, Paul, Sam, Chris, Tim Pearson

June 7, 2011

Jon & Family,
You are in my prayers. I know that Lynn is no longer suffering ... she's dancing with delight!
(From the Girl Friends Weekend Group)
(From an American Greetings Card)

Kathy Kerchvliet

June 7, 2011

Jon,
We loved her dearly.
(From a Hallmark Card)

David & Sharon Beba

June 7, 2011

Lynn was a gift to our church and to me personally. She shared beauty, laughter and faith so easily. I shall miss her.
May God console and comfort you.
(From a Paper Magic Group Card)

Connie Ford

June 7, 2011

Dear Jon, Matthew, & Michelle,
Our prayers and thoughts are with you.
Love,
John, Kate, & Nettie Silvernale

John, Kate, Nettie Silvernale

June 7, 2011

You and Yours are in our thoughts and prayers.
Sincerely,
The LePoints & The Nishimotos
(From an American Greeting Card)

LePoints & Nishimotos

June 7, 2011

Thank you for allowing me to share in the beautiful, peaceful, intimate time we had with Lynn on Monday before she died. It has meant to much to me these days since.
Much Love, Michelle.

Michelle Pamada

June 7, 2011

Dear Jon & Family,
We knew it was coming, but it doesn't make it any easier. We do care so much for you and the "kids". I hope we are able to get together with you even more than before when your lives were so busy with Lynn's treatments. I miss her.
Love, Michelle, Larry & Kristin
(Froma Hallmark card)

Michelle, Larry, Kristin Pamada

June 7, 2011

I truely believe that Lynn was one of God's angels here on earth. We'll always remember her as Ryan and Alex's first Sunday School Teacher in the Godly Play Classroom. She will be missed and you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Carrie, Mark, Ryan & Alex
(From a Gibson Greeting Card)

Mark & Carrie Trimble

June 6, 2011

Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you!
Bill, Cindy, Matt
(From a Burgoyne Greting Card)

Bill & Cindy Armstrong

June 6, 2011

Lynn cannot be Duplicated by anyone - she was one of a Kind & will be so missed - Love & Blessings
(From an American Greetings Card)

Dick & Merridee Vuori

June 6, 2011

I had the pleasure of teaching3rd grade next to Lynn at Sunnyside Elementry. She will be dearly missed.
(From a Hallmark Card)

Dana Hansen

June 6, 2011

Dear Jon & family,
I am so so sorry for your loss of dear sweet Lynn! She will be greatly missed by me & many others!! I feel blessed to have taught the children's church kids with her on Sunday mornings and to have known her. my prayers are with you to feel God's peace during this time.
(From Student Artwork Card)

Jill Sahlstram

June 6, 2011

Beloved Friends, with sympathy & a prayer for peace, strength & continued love & grace that Lynn showered on everyone she encountered. God Bless & keep you all near!
Shall, John, Ian & Nick
(From an American Greeting card)

Shall & John Lane

June 6, 2011

We love you so much Lynn! Thank you for everything and we will cherish your memory FOREVER!
Heather on the Hill & Liz Sutherland
(From Pro Flowers Card)

Heather Kaminskey & Liz Sutherland

June 6, 2011

Our prayers are with you.
Love,
Allan & Peggy
(From an American Greetings Card)

Allan & Peggy Whittekiend

June 6, 2011

I am so sorry to hear about Lynn's death. It's such a difficult time for you & your kids. When things really get tough, try to remember one of the happy times you had. Love and Prayers, Aunt Lucille.
(From a Hallmark Card)

Lucille Conrad

June 6, 2011

Jon,
So sorry, Jon. I know how hard it is. I'll be thinking of you.
(From American Greetings Card)
Rob

Rob Whittekiend

June 6, 2011

Lynn was so special. I will miss her so much, but Godblessed to have had her in my life. Love and prayers to all.
(From Hallmark Card)
Debbie, Bryan, & Donoven

Debbie Holderness

June 6, 2011

Lynn,
Love you forever!

(From Hallmark Card)

Jo Joslin

June 6, 2011

I remember Lynn because she and Jon bring cookies for us and I also remember her on Facebook and I also remember riding in her car one time. ~Memories from memorial~

May 16, 2011

Lynn was the most dedicated teacher I ever worked with. She was always working late helping students after school. She had the most amazing ideas and spent countless hours putting curriculum together. I often wondered if she ever slept. :) What an AMAZING lady.

Dana Hansen-Rasmussen

May 16, 2011

Though I didn't know Lynn too well, what I do know is she was kind, loved her family and was always gracious. She treated my daughter Elizabeth, like part of her family. It was comforting to know that Liz had another home to hang out at.

Mary Sutherland

May 16, 2011

Lynn enjoyed reading me children's literature books that she was excited about(when we shared a classroom at Sunnyside Elementary School a few years back). Lynn had a heart of gold. She really cared about her students. She was very proud of her son and of her daughter!! She was so sad when her brother got Lou Gerig's disease and later died from it. ~Entry from memorial~

Char Surridge

May 16, 2011

When I started teaching at Sunnyside six years ago, Lynn made me feel so welcome. I will never forget her kindness. ~Entry from memorial~

Brenda Ehrhardt

May 16, 2011

My husband John and I hosted a Lenten small group that Jon and Lynn attended. I remember her enthusiasm and her great excitement about studying the Bible. ~Entry from memorial~

Barb Rolfe

May 16, 2011

What a blessing her life was to so many of us. She was a special friend. We shall all miss her.

Elaine Sundman

May 16, 2011

Awesome Easter celebrations with tons and tons of delicious food. The cookie assortments for all of the holidays, so many different kinds! Thank you for the wonderful memories. ~Entry from memorial~

David Ruther

May 16, 2011

I was thrilled when my dad told me the new neighbors had a boy & girl my age. My mother told me to knock on the door and ask "Can Jack and Lynn come out and play?" - Sandbox, swings, pedal cars on black top driveway, Lynn and I bonded for life. She and I had cooking lessons in our kitchen and sewing lessons with Lynn's mom. We played endless hours of badmitten in her front yard, shuttlecocks flying around, maple branches. Taking walks with Jo and Richard tagging along, going to the grange dances on Whidbey during the summer. Lynn's family took my under their wing when my mother died. I'm eternally grateful to Lynn and will miss her terribly. Love to you all, Carole. ~Memories from memorial~

Carole Strom

May 16, 2011

My memories of Lynn are of our precious girls' weekends. Some at the family cabin on whidbey Island, some in various other places. Lynn was the most "lady-like" lady I have ever known. The classiest, most faithful, kindest, sweetest person I have had the pleasure to know.
I'll remember her cooking, her passion for children, her love for her family, her ready smile and quick wit.
She has shared all of that and more with us all, and she will be remembered with love always. ~Entry from memorial~

Molly Pearson

May 16, 2011

Always a lady. Always a strong Christian. Always the ultimate hostess. Always a friend. She could cook so wonderfully and put on a classy tea for all the Girl friends. ~Entry from memorial~

Kathy Kerkvliet

May 16, 2011

One of my favorite memories of Lynn was last summer (2010) when we gave her a B'day Tea Party: I decided to have a Tea party for Lynn & Ann Lewis suggested that we have it at Church so we ould invite more people. Then Paula Erickson offered her Daughter's beautiful setting on Dutch Hll for a lawn tea party - they had the tables & chairs we needed. We decided to invite all the Sunday School ladies & children, women Deacons & others involved with Commuity Kitchen for which Lynn had made favors every month for the people who came to eat. Seven ladies set up tables with their tea china, tablecloths & special flower arrangements and brought scrumptious salads, fruit, pastries, etc. Approx. 50 ladies came plus 10 or so children who came early to surprise Lynn. I had told her I would pick her up at the Church & take her to Merridee Vuori's where 4 of us were having lunch, but first we had to stop at Paula's Daughter's house to pick up Rose Fowler who was practicing her flute for a wedding rehearsal dinner that evening. When we arrived, several children playing on the lawn along the driveway spotted Lynn & came running. I said their mothers must be in the rehearsal too. She bought it all! When we got out of the car, she saw all the women at the tables & stopped short. "Oh," she said "we're interrupting the rehearsal." Then everyone shouted "SURPRISE" and we totally overwhelmed her! She said she'd never believe me again.

The devotion I gave at Lynn's B'day Tea: My favorite image in the Bible is the river flowing from the Throne of God with living water to quench our thirst and renew our srength. In a little book entitled: The Woman's Book of Soul by Sue Patton Thoele, one meditation speaks of the Jordan River being the source of 2 lakes: the Lake of Galilee, a blessing to everything surrounding it and the Dead Sea that is desolate, deserted. The only difference is that on gives and the other does not. The Lake of Galilee has both an entrance and an outlet allowing the source to flow through it, while the Dead Sea receives the waters of the River but doesn't allow them to leave! God, the source, longs to flow into us as a blessing and through us as a stream of living water blessing others. I think Lynn has demonstrated this flowing through with her vibrant energy in giving to others a message of hope, support and inspiration! May God continue to bless her in the days ahead and bless each one of us as we allow the source to flow through us.

On a light note a poem by Shel Silverstein sums it up:
And some kind of help
Is the kind of help
That helping is all about.
And some kind of help
Is the kind of help
That we can all do without.
Lynn's is the kind of help we appreciate!
~Memories from the memorial~

Shirley Feik

May 16, 2011

Not only did I work with Lynn, she was my son's third grade teacher in 06-07. She often told me she loved Conner because he had ADHD like her and knew exactly how to handle him. We love her dearly. ~Entry from memorial~

Michelle Hensler

May 16, 2011

I will always remember Lynn with a smile on her face and love in her heart. She was willing to help all students. And even when she retired, she kept on tutoring. Lynn's heart/faith were amazing. Carole Barton/fellow teacher from Sunnyside. ~Entry from memorial~

Carole Barton

May 16, 2011

Lynn told me this story about when Jon and she were courtin. Lynn lived in a little house in Lynnwood, and when Jon wanted to visit with her, her dog wanted to be in the living room with them. Lynn finally put the dog in the kitchen in a rug in front of the sink. The dog was supposed to stay. She put the dog back a couple of times. Then they heard the dog moving and went to look. The dog was pulling his blanket to the living room door way to at least be closer. Love to you Jon and your children. ~memories of Lynn from memorial~

Nancy Watts

May 16, 2011

I remember taking little Ella Pettyjohn (our granddaughter) in for her first Preschool Sunday School Class and watching as she looked up at Lynn and Lynn bending down and taking her hand with a reassuring greeting and walking with her into the room. ~Memories from memorial~

Jean & Wiard Groeneveld

May 16, 2011

I will always remember her as such a strong, graceful woman of great strength and faith. I am so thankful for being able to participate in one of her tea's. What a gracious host. ~Entry from memorial~

Margaret Hartsuck

May 16, 2011

I remember the power and majeste of her constant witness. Her lady-like manner is the image that lives on. ~Entry from memorial~

Marlene & Ron Latimore

May 16, 2011

I have many sweet memories of Lynn. My favorite are of helping her during children's church. She did the Bible lesson with the 20 or so children after I passed the Bibles out. She knew just how to hold the children's attention as she read the story. As a teacher myself, I appreciated how she was such a role model of patience, grace and cheer as some children squirmed. Her constant kindness inspired me. ~Memories from memorial~

Jill Sahlstrom

May 16, 2011

I appreciate that Lynn set up the preschool age Sunday School with Montessori supplies. Her teaching was wonderful even as she was enduring chemo treatment during the week before Sundays! Also, even though she played blocks with the Sunday School kids, on the floor, I never remember her wearing anything but a dress and heals on Sundays! ~Memories from the memorial~

Jill Sahlstrom

May 16, 2011

Lynn - beautiful, friendly, poised, so full of energy. Sunday school teacher, giver of teas, source of strength even as she grew weaker. Deacon, creator of community kitchen favors, head of all kinds of functions - an inspiration and friend. ~Entry from memorial~

Louise Guthrie

May 16, 2011

I first knew Lynn when we were in a church circle together years ago (when she lived on HWY 9 and had a montessori school in her home). Then in just the last few months, Roy and I were privileged to be in a prayer group with she and Jon. ~Entry from memorial~

Marilyn De Soto

May 16, 2011

A special memory of Lynn:
When I would ask her for an update (of her cancer treatment) she would share with me, but he always would ask me how I was doing and how work was going for me. Such a special friend! ~Entry from memorial~

Lori Prins

May 16, 2011

Wonderful memories of Lynn in the Godly Play Sunday School class. My boys' (Ryan and Alex) first memories of Sunday School. Lynn- what an angel of God you are. ~Entry from memorial~

Carrie Trimble

May 16, 2011

Seeing her years ago at PCC market demonstrating food - so friendly :). Teaching Godly Play to my grand daughters in recent years. And the fun, lovely tea party she arranged at Carolyn Moss'! She had a vision and saw it through. An example to me of purpose lived out no matter what!

Marita Bishop

May 16, 2011

I knew Lynn during the time my husband was dying of cancer. Afterwards, I talked to her at church and was lucky enough to be invited to one of her tea parties. I admired her so much. ~Entry from memorial~

Val Jonson

May 16, 2011

Lynn had a get together for Michelle's friends, dates and parents before the senior prom. After many pictures were taken, the limo arrived to take Michelle and her friends to the prom. Before they left, Lynn interviewed the driver to make sure he would do. He passed and off they went! The parents then all went back into enjoy the wonderful treates Lynn had made for the occasion. ~Memories from the memorial~

Bill & Cindy Armstrong

May 16, 2011

Remembering you renewing your vowes. It was such a beautiful picture of true love. Your life was simply a gift to all of us. Safe journey.

Audrey Kellerman

May 16, 2011

We are proud to be members of your church. ~Entry from memorial~

Roy & Marilyn De Soto

May 16, 2011

I sat in on Lynn's Godly Play class for about a year. She was so patient with those little ones and she managed to keep a straight face when they would come out with funny answers to her questions. I can hear her saying "Hmmm... Could be. Could be". She was always postive. One of the rules of Godly Play was that the kids sat around the circle and the "story" was set in the middle. It was often tempting to touch the cool things in the middle, but until she was finished, she would say "Don't touch the story". Well - it occurs to me that Lynn is now "touching the story". :) ~Entry from memorial~

May 16, 2011

I had just began coming to First Pres. and was attending my 1st women's breakfast. We were suppose to tell about an experience in our life by writing it on a card. Then at our table group, we were suppose to guess who wrote the experience. I didn't know Lynn, but everyone at our table did. Everyone was so surprised when Lynn shared on her card that she had danced on a table! Nobody had guessed that this card was hers. Well, from this 1st meeting to get to know Lynn, I knew that she had a wonderful sense of humor and we became friends. From then on she called me her Bunco Buddy. ~Entry from memorial~

May 16, 2011

Lynn has to be one of the most inspiring women I've ever met. She taught all of us the true meaning of faith and courage. And it was all done with such a positive attitude and such grace. What an incredible lady! We will miss her, and can only imagine the hole in your heart from your loss. ~Entry from memorial~

Bob & Anne Sterley

May 16, 2011

I did not know what kind of cancer Lynn had or how long she had been afflicted by it. I only know that she continued on in her ministry and using the gifts God had gien her. She is the best example I've come across of one who lived in the here and now while looking ahead to the ages to come. Ephesians 2:7. ~Entry from memorial~

Henry Groeneveld

May 15, 2011

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