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Charles E. "Chuck" O'CONNELL

1931 - 2014

Charles E. "Chuck" O'CONNELL obituary, 1931-2014, Austin, TX

Charles O'CONNELL Obituary

O'CONNELL, Charles E. "Chuck"

Charles E. O'Connell (Chuck), age 83, passed away on August 22, 2014 in Austin, Texas following a lengthy illness.



Chuck was a wonderful and loving husband to Mary, his wife of 59 years; a devoted and wise father who gave generously of himself to his children; and a doting grandfather. Chuck loved taking good care of his family, and he did it well. He was the first to offer a hand, provide sound advice or lend an ear when that was all that was needed. He was a man of integrity, generosity, and loyalty. His word was golden. He believed hard work paid off and he challenged his children to always do their best, leading by example. Chuck was a successful businessman, a world traveler, an avid golfer, and an intelligent man who seemed to know something about everything.



Chuck was born on July 9, 1931 in Kansas City, Missouri, the youngest of nine children born to Dr. Paul James and Mary Louise Gangel O'Connell. He graduated from Rockhurst High School and attended the University of Kansas before joining the Coast Guard during the Korean Conflict, where he jokingly said he helped keep the US borders safe during his assigned tour of duty patrolling the Mississippi River. But that assignment in St Louis was destiny, because it was there he met the love of his life, Mary Catherine Cullen. After completing his military duty, Chuck returned to KU to complete his degree and he and Mary were married the week after graduation in June 1955.



Chuck worked almost his entire career in the chemical business. First, with Spencer Chemical in Chicago and Kansas City and later with Gulf Oil in Houston, where he retired as the Senior Vice President of the Chemical Division. Chuck enjoyed a second career in Washington D.C. as the President of the Society of Plastics Industries. While he achieved noted success in business, his colleagues and customers would remember Chuck most for being a man of his word.

After retiring at age 58 to enjoy life together, Chuck and Mary moved to Austin where they took classes at the University of Texas, continued to travel the world, and played golf with friends at Austin Country Club. He enjoyed a dry martini, a good joke, taking walks in the rain, reading books, and completing the New York Times crossword puzzle.



Chuck is survived by, and will be terribly missed by, his wife Mary; his five children Mary Ellington, Carrie Wood, Jim O'Connell, Katie O'Connell and Tracy O'Connell; and his two grandchildren Mackie and Kendall Wood. He is also survived by his sons-in-law Kevin Ellington and Tom Wood, his daughter-in-law Lainie O'Connell, and his brother, Gerald O'Connell and wife Anna Lee, and numerous nieces and nephews. A private Mass will be held for the family and his remains will be interred at a later date at his favorite spot in the mountains of North Carolina. May he rest in peace.

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Published by Austin American-Statesman from Aug. 27 to Aug. 28, 2014.

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September 9, 2014

We are all very sorry to hear of Uncle Charles passing. Please accept our condolences. Jim and Terri (O'Connell) Maloney

Charles Horton

August 28, 2014

Chuck had a very positive impact in my business life. Not long after I graduated from college, I went to work for Chuck at the same time he became Vice-President of the Plastics Division. I worked with him every day for four years and I can personally attest to the character aspects described in his obituary. He was smart, fair, honest, and a man of high integrity. He could tell jokes with the best of them. Even now, I can call up a visual image of him doing so, and laugh while I think of it. That was 40 years ago.

Chuck was very careful in spending the company's money and expected all who worked for him to do so as well. He sent me to San Francisco once and told me to stay at the Fairmont Hotel, (then the only five-star hotel in the city) because it was likely I would never stay there again. I never have. There was much he taught me in those years, mostly from following his example. He also allowed me to make mistakes and learn from them. Never ever did he say a cross word to me. He was a fine, fine man and I feel privileged to have known him.

Linda and I extend our condolences to Mary and the O'Connell family. May his soul and the soul of all the faithful departed, through the mercy of God, rest in peace.

Charles D. Horton
St. Charles, Missouri

August 28, 2014

Aunt Mary, Cousins, and Cousins-in-Law -

My thoughts and prayers are with you as we all mourn - and celebrate - Uncle Charles. I so wish I could be with you in person!

I enjoyed the growing-up years when you were in Overland Park. Like Paul, I think of you often when I am in the 95th and Metcalf area, which is almost every day; I teach at what used to be the Valley View School. Did Mary Frances go there for awhile? It is now Holy Cross School.

When Paul's youngest, James, was a baby, I remember my mom holding him and wondering which O'Connell he looked like - there was certainly a strong O'Connell strain - and she finally settled on Uncle Charles. So please know that Uncle Chuck and all of you have been in our thoughts over the years.

With thoughts, prayers, and love,

Jeanne

Robert O'Connell

August 28, 2014

I remember fondly my Uncle Charles and Aunt Mary. Uncle Charles was my sponser on my Confirmation day. Charles was my Confirmation name. Love, Bob & Edeli

August 28, 2014

From the family of Russell Long....Russell lives in an Assisted living in Austin now and remembers Chuck with fondness from Spencer, Kansas city and from Gulf. Our condolences: The Long Family

August 28, 2014

Aunt Mary, Mary, Carrie, Jim, Katie and Tracie:

My thoughts are with you all as we note the death of Uncle Charles. I particularly recall the hospitality that he and Aunt Mary showed when Kathleen and I visited the D.C area, now many years ago. You would be surprised at how frequently I recall the family when I pass by where you lived just west of Metcalf and 95th.

Should any of you visit the Kansas City area, please get in touch. Lately, the cousins have been gathering a local pub for periodic informal gatherings. We would love to see any or all of you there sometime.

With Love from Kathleen, Stephen, Josesh, James and me,

Paul Marx

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