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Ray Varney Obituary

Ray H. Varney Ray H. Varney was born on March 2, 1922 and entered into Heaven to join his "bride" (as he still lovingly referred to her) of close to 50 years, Anita Varney on March 1, 2014. He was also preceded in death by his daughter Susan Gates, his brother Jim Varney, and his sister Betty. He is survived by his daughters Penny Luis (Elvin) and Bee Gates, his sons Jeffrey Varney (Teresa), John and Chris, his sisters and brothers Josie, June, Troy and Gary, and various nieces and nephews. He was also a grandfather, great grandfather and great great grandfather to over 100 grandchildren, along with their spouses. He often told people if HE wasn't a grandpa, then no one was with that amount of grandchildren! He was the leader of a family 5 generations strong. He took great pride in his family and told everyone, everywhere he went about them. He was known to his family and around town for his amazing sense of humor. He always had a joke or a funny story to tell. Every time someone had to leave and they said goodbye, he answered with "Hate to see you go - ha ha ha!", accompanied by his boyish grin. He was also very proud of being Santa at Walmart in Arkansas for many years. He lived a life that was defined by his distinguished service as a US Navy Master chief Petty Officer where he served for 32 years. He fought in WWII, the Korean War, and the Vietman War. He won the Meritorious Unit Commendation with 2 bronze stars, the African/European Campaign with 2 bronze stars, the Vietman Service Medal with 4 bronze stars, along with 9 other medals, including the Purple Heart, for when he was wounded after a torpedo sunk the Steam Tanker Caddo, and he was one of only 8 survivors after being at sea in a life raft for 17 days. He also experienced being King Neptune when they crossed the equator, picking up the Astronauts from Apollo 17 after their mission, and traveling all over the world with the love of his life. Though he is gone from this earth, he will live on in our hearts and memories forever. He was a hero to our family, and a true hero of our great Nation. Donations can be made in his name to the Northcoast Vets Resource Center, 109 4th St., Eureka, CA 707-442-4322. Please sign the guestbook at www.times-standard.com, click on obits.

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Published by Times-Standard from Mar. 8 to Mar. 9, 2014.

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Donald C Miller

April 14, 2022

Ray was an inspiration to me and many other young sailors that had the honor to have served with him---"Fair winds and following seas Ray" Don & Kathy Miller

Donald Miller

March 4, 2021

Always think about old shipmates and proud to have been part of the Navy with Ray!!

Donald Miller

March 8, 2020

Navy shipmates are forever-Thanks Ray for being a mentor and friend----

Donald Miller

March 3, 2019

As I mentioned before , Ray was a mentor to me and I remembered him the rest of my Navy career. I only wish that I had put in more effort to hook up with him for a visit. I did talk to him on the phone after I saw his brick at the Elks. Rest in peace shipmate-Fare winds & following seas!!!!!

Julie Sedersten Clendenny

March 13, 2014

I will always have fond memories of "Grandpa" Ray. I still possess the little mother of pearl hair barrette that he & Anita gave to me as a gift from their stay in Italy when I was only 14 years old. And they will always have a warm & special place in my heart. I still remember all of the hummingbirds that they took such delight in feeding every morning when they lived down in Arkansas. May you keep us all in your loving gaze from the heavens above.

Love and miss you

Lynda Gates

March 11, 2014

Love you Grandpa. Rest easy and well with Grandma, miss you guys.

March 9, 2014

To Ray's wonderful family,
Bless his heart, now he is where he has wanted to be-beside Anita. I miss them so much, but I have some terrific memories...Jill McCarthy

March 8, 2014

Ray will be missed by us. He was a good neighbor and fun loving man. Always had a funny thing to say to make us laugh.
Bill and Joan Perry

Don Miller

March 8, 2014

I met Ray back in the early 1970's While attached to the Submarine Tender USS Gilmore (AS-16) in Lamaddelena, Sardenia, Italy. Master Chief Ray Varney was an early mentor for me.He had a lot of good stories to tell and was a fine military leader.He will be missed by the Navy and and all of us that served with him, We wish you fair seas and smooth sailing Shipmate.

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