1993
2015
On Dec. 1, 2015, Michael "MJ" Joseph Chalender, a kind-hearted soul passed away in his home, at the young age of 22. His life began on July 18, 1993, in Palmer, Alaska, the son of Dale Chalender and Barbara Weiland. He loved following his dad around as a child, doing whatever his dad did. Growing up he lovingly owned a menagerie of animals, played a wide variety of sports, skateboarded and enjoyed Alaskan activities like fishing, camping, snowboarding and combat sledding. He never lacked for friends and family. As a teen, his hobbies grew to include boating, off-roading, frolf and cooking. One of his favorite activities as a young adult was playing video and board games with his siblings and friends. He earned his GED with top scores. Michael held several positions and was known to be a hard worker. On the day he passed, he was excited about getting back to work and spending time with his friends and family. Michael is preceded in death by his paternal grandfather, Robert R. Chalender. The family left behind includes his parents, Dale and Kris Chalender and Barbara and John Weiland; as well as his siblings, Yoshi Okamoto, Yoshiko Flanagan, Tamara Dodds, Melissa Valone and Joshua Wiertsema; his nephew, Ronan Flanagan; and niece, Adalyn Okamoto; grandmother, Betty Chalender; as well as many aunts, uncles and cousins in the Lower 48. A private funeral will be held at a later date. Arrangements are with Janssen's Eagle River Funeral Home.
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I love you and never stop thinking about you, youd be 26 today. we miss you
mom
July 18, 2019
In five days two years ago I picked you up and you said it was the happiest day of your life. A new start a new life. Today I count the days...as always until we meet again my love, my baby my son. I love you always and forever, Mom
November 25, 2017
My love, I am so glad my friend opened this, Yes look for Jacob, for grandma and grandpa. I love you forever and always. Mom
mom
April 29, 2017
I didn't know you Michael, but I know your momma! I guess I can say I know you then :)
Look for Jacob Harris for me and give him a hug ❤
Dawn Harris
April 2, 2017
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Mom
December 31, 2015
Mom
December 25, 2015
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Mom
December 18, 2015
I am sorry for your loss, I didn't know Michael long but he was a nice kid. Michaels family is in our thoughts and prayers
December 14, 2015
You we'll be forever missed. Prayers to your family
December 13, 2015
Every day I sign in, reading your beautiful messages. Thank you❤ The whole family thanks you for your kind words
Barbara
December 12, 2015
Barb, I don't have the words to express my feelings for you and your family for your loss. Love and light always Robin Allen
December 12, 2015
You shared with me your family stories and how much you loved your dad and mom. You were a good young man. They should be proud. We know how much you loved them and they love you. Peace, our lil bro, bird.
Friends
December 11, 2015
Michael played frizbi golf with us. He is in our prayers. He was really good. I will miss him.
Friend
December 11, 2015
I well miss your smile and laugh
Friends
December 10, 2015
I will never forget the life we had or the future we planned. You showed me what unconditional love is and I will always cherish that. Thank you for making me the strong & confident person I am today. I WILL make you proud.
Love you forever and miss you always.
"Yes, a million times yes."
Your babygirl
December 10, 2015
Prayers to Michaels family
December 9, 2015
Michael was a sweet and kind young man. Always eager to help solve problems and help costimers. We we'll miss him greatly. Our prayers to His family.
Co-workers
December 9, 2015
I have a lot of great memories spending time with you, my friend. You were always so full of life, energy and compassion. You'll be dearly missed. Rest in peace.
Mikey
December 9, 2015
I'm so sorry for your loss. May he rest in peace.
December 8, 2015
There are no words that can ever remove the pain and sorrow that Michael's family is experiencing at this time. But please ---- just know - we are a close knit community and we will be here now and we will be here in the future.
John and family
December 8, 2015
I am sorry for your loss. May the hope of seeing your dear loved one again in paradise ease the sorrow of your hearts.
Norma
December 8, 2015
I'll never stop missing you. Love you.
December 8, 2015
"Our sweet little Michael". Rest in peace.
Robert, Nancy, Trinity and Tori Rivas
December 8, 2015
"Those we love don't go away. They walk beside us every day"
Much love to you Barbara and your family.
Jenny
December 8, 2015
I love you forever
Mom
December 8, 2015
I love you forever
Mom
December 8, 2015
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