Search by Name

Search by Name

BORN

1993

DIED

2015

FUNERAL HOME

Janssen's Eagle River Funeral Home - Eagle River

16421 Brooks Loop

Eagle River, Alaska

Michael Chalender Obituary

On Dec. 1, 2015, Michael "MJ" Joseph Chalender, a kind-hearted soul passed away in his home, at the young age of 22. His life began on July 18, 1993, in Palmer, Alaska, the son of Dale Chalender and Barbara Weiland. He loved following his dad around as a child, doing whatever his dad did. Growing up he lovingly owned a menagerie of animals, played a wide variety of sports, skateboarded and enjoyed Alaskan activities like fishing, camping, snowboarding and combat sledding. He never lacked for friends and family. As a teen, his hobbies grew to include boating, off-roading, frolf and cooking. One of his favorite activities as a young adult was playing video and board games with his siblings and friends. He earned his GED with top scores. Michael held several positions and was known to be a hard worker. On the day he passed, he was excited about getting back to work and spending time with his friends and family. Michael is preceded in death by his paternal grandfather, Robert R. Chalender. The family left behind includes his parents, Dale and Kris Chalender and Barbara and John Weiland; as well as his siblings, Yoshi Okamoto, Yoshiko Flanagan, Tamara Dodds, Melissa Valone and Joshua Wiertsema; his nephew, Ronan Flanagan; and niece, Adalyn Okamoto; grandmother, Betty Chalender; as well as many aunts, uncles and cousins in the Lower 48. A private funeral will be held at a later date. Arrangements are with Janssen's Eagle River Funeral Home.

Published by Anchorage Daily News on Dec. 8, 2015.
34465541-95D0-45B0-BEEB-B9E0361A315A

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Memories and Condolences
for Michael Chalender

Sponsored by anonymous.

Not sure what to say?





I love you and never stop thinking about you, youd be 26 today. we miss you

mom

July 18, 2019

In five days two years ago I picked you up and you said it was the happiest day of your life. A new start a new life. Today I count the days...as always until we meet again my love, my baby my son. I love you always and forever, Mom

November 25, 2017

My love, I am so glad my friend opened this, Yes look for Jacob, for grandma and grandpa. I love you forever and always. Mom

mom

April 29, 2017

I didn't know you Michael, but I know your momma! I guess I can say I know you then :)
Look for Jacob Harris for me and give him a hug ❤

Dawn Harris

April 2, 2017

Mom

December 31, 2015

Mom

December 25, 2015

❤❤❤

Mom

December 18, 2015

I am sorry for your loss, I didn't know Michael long but he was a nice kid. Michaels family is in our thoughts and prayers

December 14, 2015

You we'll be forever missed. Prayers to your family

December 13, 2015

Every day I sign in, reading your beautiful messages. Thank you❤ The whole family thanks you for your kind words

Barbara

December 12, 2015

Barb, I don't have the words to express my feelings for you and your family for your loss. Love and light always Robin Allen

December 12, 2015

You shared with me your family stories and how much you loved your dad and mom. You were a good young man. They should be proud. We know how much you loved them and they love you. Peace, our lil bro, bird.

Friends

December 11, 2015

Michael played frizbi golf with us. He is in our prayers. He was really good. I will miss him.

Friend

December 11, 2015

I well miss your smile and laugh

Friends

December 10, 2015

I will never forget the life we had or the future we planned. You showed me what unconditional love is and I will always cherish that. Thank you for making me the strong & confident person I am today. I WILL make you proud.
Love you forever and miss you always.
"Yes, a million times yes."

Your babygirl

December 10, 2015

Prayers to Michaels family

December 9, 2015

Michael was a sweet and kind young man. Always eager to help solve problems and help costimers. We we'll miss him greatly. Our prayers to His family.

Co-workers

December 9, 2015

I have a lot of great memories spending time with you, my friend. You were always so full of life, energy and compassion. You'll be dearly missed. Rest in peace.

Mikey

December 9, 2015

I'm so sorry for your loss. May he rest in peace.

December 8, 2015

There are no words that can ever remove the pain and sorrow that Michael's family is experiencing at this time. But please ---- just know - we are a close knit community and we will be here now and we will be here in the future.

John and family

December 8, 2015

I am sorry for your loss. May the hope of seeing your dear loved one again in paradise ease the sorrow of your hearts.

Norma

December 8, 2015

I'll never stop missing you. Love you.

December 8, 2015

"Our sweet little Michael". Rest in peace.
Robert, Nancy, Trinity and Tori Rivas

December 8, 2015

"Those we love don't go away. They walk beside us every day"
Much love to you Barbara and your family.

Jenny

December 8, 2015

I love you forever

Mom

December 8, 2015

I love you forever

Mom

December 8, 2015

Showing 1 - 26 of 26 results

Make a Donation
in Michael Chalender's name

Memorial Events
for Michael Chalender

To offer your sympathy during this difficult time, you can now have memorial trees planted in a National Forest in memory of your loved one.

Funeral services provided by:

Janssen's Eagle River Funeral Home - Eagle River

16421 Brooks Loop, Eagle River, AK 99577

How to support Michael's loved ones
Commemorate a cherished Veteran with a special tribute of Taps at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
The Five Stages of Grief

They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.

Read more
Ways to honor Michael Chalender's life and legacy
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more