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Benjamin Symmes Obituary

Benjamin Robert Symmes, 31, of Bozeman, Mont., was lost at sea on July 31, 2009, near Togiak. A memorial service will be at 2 p.m. Saturday at Grouse Mountain Lodge in Whitefish, Mont. Ben was born Oct. 4, 1977, to Tom and Diane (Zenier) Symmes in Lewiston, Idaho. He grew up in Idaho and Alaska before graduating from Whitefish High School in Whitefish. While in school, he participated in hockey and tae kwon do. He was also a member of his high school golf team. From the time he was in high school, Ben spent most summers working as a deckhand on his father's fishing vessel in Bristol Bay. The few summers he was not in Alaska, he worked for the U.S. Forest Service as a firefighter, eventually earning a position on the elite Interagency Hotshot Crew in Prineville, Ore. After moving to Bozeman, he started his own construction business, Symmes Construction, LLC. Ben was an avid outdoorsman. He enjoyed hunting and fishing, hiking, horseback riding, camping and spending time at the lake. He also continued to practice his golf game. Ben was a man of exceptional integrity and outstanding character. His friendly nature and genuine concern for those around him was remarkable. He was healthy and strong with a gentle disposition, a compassionate heart and a keen wit. He brought an indomitable sense of purpose and determination to all of his endeavors. He is survived by his mother and her fiance, Diane Zenier and Rick Hyde, both of Sandpoint, Idaho; father and stepmother, Tom and Paula (Wilson) Symmes of Kalispell, Mont; sister and brother-in-law, Arrie (Symmes) and Joshua Frakes of Spokane, Wash.; half-brother, Ryan Symmes; and half-sister, Laura Symmes. The family offers its profound thanks to the U.S. Coast Guard, the Alaska State Troopers and especially the fishermen, local volunteers and all those who donated time and resources during the search and rescue efforts. The Ben Symmes donation account has been established to support search and rescue efforts for commercial fishermen in Alaska. Contributions in Ben's honor may be made to the account at any Wells Fargo bank.

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Published by Anchorage Daily News from Sep. 23 to Sep. 24, 2009.

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Jann, Jay and Nick Marquesen

October 15, 2009

This is just so belated. Our family has been so saddened over yours and our loss of Ben. He was a dear friend and fellow hockey player. As a "hockey Mom" I could count on Ben one hundred percent. His smile was not only infectious but never-ending. Amongst the mom's, he was never referred to as just "Ben." Instead, he was always "Cute Ben." We miss you, Ben. Our love and prayers always.

Patricia Schmidt

September 26, 2009

I am so sorry for your loss. May his happy smiling face always be in your hearts and bring you comfort.

September 25, 2009

Dear Tom, Diane, Arrie and all of your family,

I just read about Ben. I am very sorry for your great loss. I will always remember our days in Copper Center and Glennallen. One of the men I work with in Anchorage is from Togiak. He told me that two of his brothers helped in the search for Ben. There is a feeling of great sadness in the fishing community. I am praying for you and your family.

Dale Judge

Peggy Nelson

September 25, 2009

Diane,
I'm so sorry to hear about your son. Since you left Fairbanks I have not kept in touch but my heart goes out to you. I think of you often and you are always in my prayers.

Amy Odell

September 24, 2009

I'll always remember Ben as part of my childhood. Hanging out at Copper Center School, building snow forts in the yard and making tree bark tea. And remembering each time that we really didn't like tree bark tea but continued to tweak "the recipe". My thoughts are with those who had the pleasure of being a part of Ben's life, especially Tom, Diane and Arrie.

Jacob Wilkinson

September 24, 2009

Even though we hadn't seen each other for nearly fifteen years, I was incredibly sorry to hear of Ben's disappearance. I first met Ben in the fall of 1986 (?) when both our families moved to Glennallen, Alaska, and lived next door to one another. We spend countless hours tromping around in the woods, many more playing hockey together, and I will remember him fondly as the other 'new' kid in town and my first true friend in Glennallen. My heart goes out to all whose lives he touched, but especially to his parents, sisters and brother.

Starr Knighten

September 24, 2009

Diane and Arrie,
I am so sorry about your loss. I miss you all and could not imagine this happening to you or me. I heard about this on facebook and there are a lot of people in Arries class that were very saddened and shocked about this. I would really like to get in contact with you two again. my prayers and thoughts are with you and please know that I will think of you always.~Love and prayer~

Bradley & Evelyn Chase

September 24, 2009

Ben was an exceptional young man. His smile and love for people will be missed! Tom, Diane and Arrie know that you are in our prayers~Ben's friendship is a treasure we will hold in our hearts. So sorry we can't be there with you. Love, Evelyn,Brad, Sriana, Ben, Gabi and Allison

Ida Wilson

September 23, 2009

Rolf and I loved Ben so much, and we miss him terribly. There is a hole in our hearts since his passing. Ben was an incredibly kind man with a gentle soul and quick wit. We will always remember Tuesday nights with Ben: dinner and Deadliest Catch. And our dog, Stella will never have a buddy quite like Ben. I know she loved him and much as he did her. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.

Becky Odell

September 23, 2009

Allen and I were saddened to hear about Ben. We remember him fondly. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Shelley Thomas

September 14, 2009

To all in Ben's family:

We are so sorry to learn of the loss of Ben. The Chemical and Biological Engineering faculty and staff will remember him fondly. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

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