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Eleanor Toliver-Williams Obituary

Eleanor Joyce Toliver-Williams went home to be with the Lord in College Station, Texas, on Good Friday, April 22, 2011, surrounded by loved ones.

Eleanor was born Dec. 21, 1936, to Jack and Viola Ford-Toliver, in Texas.

A memorial service will be at Shiloh Baptist Church, 855 E. 20th Avenue, May 9, 2011, from 12 p.m. to 1:30 p.m. A repast follows in the Shiloh gym.

Eleanor accepted Christ at an early age and she stayed the course and introduced as many to Jesus Christ as her time on this Earth allowed. Upon graduating from high school, where she earned a full academic scholarship, she attended Prairie View A&M. She began each day reading the Bible and her daily Word; she then read the newspaper from front to back.

Eleanor enjoyed all sports, watching them on television or live as often as she could; she would be the mother in the crowd that everyone could hear.

In 1955 she married Tollie Williams Jr., and of the union she was blessed with 7 beautiful children.

When her father passed, she then moved to Alaska in 1963 to be close to her older sister, Vanee

Robinson. Thus the journey begins.

In 1965, Eleanor began her career at Federal Aviation Administration, cleaning the building -- no job too small. She then moved to the steno pool and on to become the first African-American woman to certify as an air traffic controller at the Anchorage Air Route Traffic Control Center, in 1971. In 1976 it was verified and found to be true that she was the first African-American to certify, at which time she was entered into the United States history books. Her legacy did not stop there; this was merely a stepping-stone. She went on to become the first African-American woman to head up a major

en-route facility in 1994, at the Cleveland ARTCC in Oberlin, Ohio, the nation's second-busiest en-route air traffic control facility.

She was inducted into the Black Aviation Hall of Fame in 2001, along with such greats as Alfred C. Anderson and several other Tuskegee Airmen.

She was one of the first presidents of the Alaska Chapter of the Business and Professional Women. She is listed in the 104th Congressional Record, "Who's Who in the World," "Who's Who in America" and "Who's Who of American Women."

Eleanor received many awards: Department of Transportation Secretary's Award for Excellence in EEO, 1985; National Black Coalition of Federal Aviation Employees C. Alfred Anderson Award, 1991; Texas Youth Advocate of the Year by Commission of Alcohol & Drug Abuse, 2001; North to the Future BPW Club's Woman of the Year, 2006; Proclamation of the Bronze Eagle, renamed the Eleanor J. Williams Bronze Eagle Award, 2011.

She was a mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, sister, aunt, cousin, friend, leader, mentor and a true child of God. She was committed to teaching, preaching and reaching out to as many as would listen. A true pillar in every community in which she lived, she left her mark where ever she went. Coming from a family of entrepreneurs, she was always in a teaching mode, and as she learned she would share her knowledge with others. She believed that what God has for her, He has for her and what He has for others, He has for them, and if you could reach out and touch one person you can make a difference. "You cannot be stopped, if you are willing to keep trying," she would say.

Her quote of late was "I am too old to die young; I have lived a long full life."

Let us all learn to get along and work together."

She is survived by her seven children, Rodrick L. (Washington), Viola Kaye Smith, Darryl D., Eric R. and

Kenneth R. (Alaska), Dana D. and Sheila Anne (Texas); 23 grandchildren; 17 great-grandchildren; sisters, Vanee Robinson, Iris J. Scott, Marjorie Thompson (Lee) and Mary N. Maddox; uncle, Alandrus Peterson; aunt, Christine Ford-Jenkins; a host of nieces and nephews, many cousins and many, many friends and close associates.

Eleanor was preceded in death by her parents; brother, Robert Toliver; ex-husband Tollie

Williams Jr.; two grandsons, Marcus Larry Watkins and Robert London Smith III; and many nephews

and nieces, Larry Toliver, Darnell Toliver and Vanee M. Marshall, to name a few.

Eleanor's grandson, Marcus Larry Watkins, was laid to rest with her April 30, 2011.

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Published by Anchorage Daily News from May 6 to May 10, 2011.

Memories and Condolences
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My Mom and Me

Sheila Williams

June 2, 2011

I will always be my Mother's Keeper. Love you more each day as you are now home with the Lord livng in perfect peace and no more pain, tears or sorrow.

Sheila Williams

June 1, 2011

You were the light of my dark days. You weren't here to help me grieve putting my son in the ground after all theses years. I wanted him out of the ground. It gave me so much great peace to lay him to rest and then it is was like a 2 sided sword. Love you more than yesterday and I miss you as God heals my broken heart again.

My Mom, My Angel, My World, My Entrance into this World.

Sheila Williams

June 1, 2011

Mom, today is not a good day. Did you give my baby a kiss and hug for me or are you up there singing and praising God. Love you as you live in my heart.

Sheila Williams

May 23, 2011

Missing you today my Mom and my Guardian Angel. Laverne has been an a blessing to me since you have gone home before us. Love you forever Sheila your daughter

Ester Ruth Hall

May 10, 2011

I want to thank you Eleanor for being my sister, my best friend and my cousin. We had the best of times through the years. I love you very much, you were there for me always. I will be there for your kids always! As you were with my kids. Have a good time up there. God Bless.

Mom

Sheila Williams

May 9, 2011

My Mom and Baby Boys Final Resting Place

Sheila Williams

May 9, 2011

I love you more than ever

Sheila Williams

May 9, 2011

Forever an Angel

Sheila Williams

May 9, 2011

My Mom's 2 youngest Kenny and Sheila

Sheila Williams

May 9, 2011

Mom

Sheila Williams

May 9, 2011

My Mom...My Angel....My Heart

Sheila Williams

May 9, 2011

Laverne Collins Reid and Me

Sheila Williams

May 9, 2011

My Mom's Seven Children

Sheila Williams

May 9, 2011

Many faces of my Mom

Sheila Williams

May 9, 2011

Sheila Williams

May 9, 2011

Mom I heard Alaska came out in full force to show their love for you. I'm proud to call you "My Mom". Love Sheila

cheryl roland

May 9, 2011

To all of the Williams' family, my deepest condolences. Your mom was such a nice spirited lady!

Mom

Sheila Williams

May 9, 2011

LaVerne Reid

May 9, 2011

Eleanor is a dear friend who shared every aspect of my journey--40 year FAA career, Business and Professional Women, real estate investments. Our time together in January was special (both the New Year's Day Dinner and the pajama party over MLK weekend). We calculated more than 20 trips together, mostly to state and national BPW conventions.

My dear friend, I will see you again at Home. LaVerne F. Collins-Reid

Dionne

May 9, 2011

My deepest condolences to "The Williams Family". Eleanor and the family are certainly in God's thoughts. He is eager to heal the pain of losing a loved one. Psalms 147:3-" He is healing the broken hearted ones, and binding up their painful spots." I never knew Eleanor,but from reading about her, she seems so refreshing and intelligent. It's very evident that she was conscience of her spiritual need.

My Mom earned her wings

Sheila Williams

May 8, 2011

My Mom....My Hero

Sheila Williams

May 8, 2011

My Mom is forever in my heart

Sheila Williams

May 8, 2011

My Mom and Me

Sheila Williams

May 8, 2011

My son and her grandson Marcus L. Watkins

Sheila Williams

May 8, 2011

My Mom and Me

Sheila Williams

May 8, 2011

Me and my Mom

Sheila Williams

May 8, 2011

Me and my Mom

Sheila Williams

May 8, 2011

My Mom's Seven Children

Sheila Williams

May 8, 2011

My Mom Eleanor J. Williams

Sheila Williams

May 8, 2011

Sheila Williams

May 8, 2011

Dear Mom, You gave me the greatest gift "life" and in return I was happy to hold you in my arms when Heaven opened up to receive you. I was happy to care for you until your journey here was done. I buried Marcus' cremations with you the rest we talked about didn't happen. Thank you for leaving your best friend Laverne Collins Reid to help me through so much.

May 8, 2011

We were privileged and blessed to know Miss Eleanor. Her enthusiasm for music and the Lord was contagious. We were blessed by her singing and doubly blessed to have had the chance to sing with her. To her family, may God give you strength and assurance of His love for you and Eleanor during this time. I know she is joyfully singing with the angels.

You are in our thoughts and prayers,
Jody and Russ Grimm

Richard &Tammy Hall

May 7, 2011

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Wanda Dale

May 7, 2011

Eleanor was a wonderful mother to her children and a parental icon to her whole family. I will miss our talks and laughs; and mainly her lovely smile. I cherish the advice and wisdom she shared with me. God waited until April 22 to call home his precious Angel. Rest in Peace. Roderick, Kaye and Sheila, my prayers are with you.

Dr. Janet Haynes

May 7, 2011

Eleanor,
We thank God for your life and legacy. Your strength, dedication, and courage were foundational for so many. Kaye, may the comfort of His love ease your sorrow.

Robert Smith

May 6, 2011

Eleanor, you will always hold a special place in my heart. No matter what, you showed me the kindness and respect I did not always deserve. I am grateful for having known you. God bless you.

Linda Adams

May 6, 2011

Our thoughts and prayers go out to the Williams family during this difficult time. God be with you.

Larry,Christine Williams

May 6, 2011

Our thoughts and prayers are with the family through this most difficult time. May God lift you up in your time of sorrow. Ms. Eleanor was a great example of a beautiful, caring and loving person. She will be a legacy for her grandchildren and greatgrand children. She will truly be missed! Rest in peace my Angel!

Regena Williams

May 6, 2011

She was such a wonderful person, I cherish every memory I have with her and miss her already!!! I will always have a piece of her with me.

Kirsten McCart

May 6, 2011

Eleanor was an amazing woman who always was there for her grandchildren and her great-grandchildren. She loved each and every one of them with her entire being. May God be with you and your family at this time of loss and reflection.

Thomas Obermeyer

May 6, 2011

Dear Toliver-Williams Family:
We were so saddened to learn of the passing of a great role model in Eleanor. Not only did she have a large and loving family but her career was one to be greatly admired. She saw tremendous change in the treatment of African-Americans. It is important the we continue to be very vigilant in making certain that African-Americans are treated with the respect they deserve. We were so impressed to know that she was the first African-American Air Traffic Controller in Anchorage after she had begun her career cleaning the building. Her efforts at lifting up all professional women continue with the chapters of Alaska Business and Professional Women that are still very active currently. We are praying for your family during the very difficult loss. Sincere condolences. Tom and Theresa Obermeyer, Thomas, Jr., Jimmy, Margaret, and Matt

Great Picture of Eleanor at DFS dressed as an Angel.

Andy Stephens

May 6, 2011

Eleanor was a great woman. I only knew her for a brief time as a co-worker, but she was very caring and loving. I am glad I got the opportunity to work with her. May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Yvette Miller

May 6, 2011

Kaye,
Our thoughts & prayers are with you during this difficult time. I wish I would have had the opportunity to have met your mother, reading about her put a smile on my face today...a much needed smile! Although I never met her it seems that I know a little about her in knowing you. You are one of those individuals that I'm happy to have met and be apart of not only my life but my children's. Hang in there and know that we are thinking of & love you dearly.

Love, Hugs & Kisses,
Yvette, Jamal, Darnell & Valencia

Britney Thompson

May 6, 2011

Thank you cousin Eleanor for all that you have done for the family, and for all that you have taught all of us as we were growing up, the love you gave to everyone and the strong family structure that was given to us, you are an inspiration to me and all women and especially women of color, to strive and be the best at whatever we set out to accomplish. Thank you for what you have personally done for me and for that you have shared to me. Thank you for being the crust of the family and keeping us strong and faithful with GOD. I know you are home now and standing along side the lord looking down on us. I know you are home taking care of our love ones in Heaven, Rest in Paradise to you, Marcus, Robert, Vanee, Dale and Miss Jones and all of our family. I love you

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