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Kelsey Gray Obituary

Kelsey Scott Gray died Sept. 13, 2010 at Providence Alaska Medical Center of a heart attack at the tender age of 60.

He was born May 25, 1950, in South Korea and came to Alaska in 1959. He graduated from both Oregon Institute of Technology and the University of Alaska Anchorage. He served in the U.S. Navy during the Vietnam War, proudly serving his country.

Kelsey was a very sociable, loving person who always had a smile, a joke and a helping hand. He was a computer IT person and set up his own computer Internet server business, Sinbad, in the early days of the Internet. He was currently working for Grant Air, an Alaska small commuter airline, and loved his new job, getting to fly all over the state and be the entrepreneur.

Kelsey loved to tinker with motors, inventing interesting ways of doing things, or working on his cabin by a roaring stream in Whittier. His 4th of July parties at the cabin were legendary. He loved to fish. There was always a project going on in his garage.

Kelsey recently celebrated his 30th wedding anniversary with his beloved wife, Kimberley (Michaud) Gray. He takes the path ahead of his wife, Kimberley; his two sons, Kris and Kelsey; and his daughter Kirstie; as well as many, many family and friends.

He was preceded in death by his parents, Benjamin and Truth (Trudy) Gray; and his brother, Benjamin.

His family said, "We believe he has not died but has passed to another place where his adventures continue with all the intensity he had in this life. He was the greatest man many of us had ever known. He came from very little but left with the world held firmly in his hands. We will sorely miss him."

A potluck celebration of life service is scheduled for 2 p.m. Sept. 25 at the American Legion Post 28 on Brayton Drive. In lieu of flowers, please send donations to the Kelsey Gray memorial fund at any Alaska USA Federal Credit Union. If unable to attend, celebrate life a little harder wherever you may be. He will forever live in us all.

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Published by Anchorage Daily News from Sep. 16 to Sep. 17, 2010.

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Arvella Thomas

January 21, 2020

Kelsey was my neighbor in the 1960s and Linnie Gray was my best friend. His older brother was a good long distance runner who always took his rest at our house. The last time I saw Kelsey is when I worked for the Municipality of Anchorage he came to the office to fix typewriters , yes typewriters. He was like a long distance brother. To the Gray family God Bless you all.

Mrs. Evelyn Ellison

January 24, 2017

Always wanted to know what happened to Sargent Benjamin Gay and his lovely family I met in the 1958-59 when stationed in Charleston, S.C. at CAFB. Benjamin, Linsey, Kelsey and Ben Jr. kindness to us kids on the Johnson Street Project where they lived was never forgotten. Their Spirits are eternal, and transcends time and space. I really wanted to be a part of their family, and asked my mother can I go with them when they left Charleston. Of course they knew she would say no. Just loved Mrs. Gray.

David McLean

November 3, 2010

Thanks Kelsey for being a good friend for the past 20 years and for keeping my navy ship's website online. The Vietnam Vets enjoyed it.
RIP

Diane Hagemeister

September 28, 2010

It is a fitting part of our salute to Kelsey's life that we share our warm memories of him, here, in cyber space. He was a deep thinker who never got "lost in the well". His personal experience taught him the value of always being centered and surrounded by humanity. He not only gave kindness, he inspired it. Kim, Kris, Kelsey and Kirsti I hold you in my heart.

Teresa Tramp

September 24, 2010

I worked with Kelsey at Compucom. Kelsey was always smiling and always had a kind word when he saw me. He will truly be missed. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

Kirt Franse

September 22, 2010

To Kelsey's family, our deepest condolences. We were shocked and saddened to hear of his passing; Kelsey was a friend to all and will be sorely missed. Treasure the Memories!
Kirt Sr and Betty Franse
Kirt Jr

Wes Mangum

September 22, 2010

To me Kelsey was a friend mentor and colleague. We first started working together, but very quickly I knew he was a fun, funny man I would get close to. We had a lot in common, and enjoyed eating Arabiada with him. He mastered it.

He will be missed by so many people whose soul he touched.

God bless to the family in this earthly loss of a wonderful man.

Wes Mangum

Eric Courtney

September 21, 2010

I will always remember and smile of the times I got to spend with Kelsey. There was always something to laugh about when we were together. His positive attitude was contagious, and he taught me many things. I feel honored that I was able to know Kelsey and absorb a fraction of his wisdom in industry and life. His family is, without question, the most loving family I have ever been fortunate to spend time with. My deepest condolences.

Johnie Butler

September 21, 2010

I only met Kelsey and his wife Kim by his cabin in Whitter. It was the 4th of July and it was a happy time for all. I was tent camping there and fishing and Kelsey invited me to spend the weekend with him and his family. It was a great time and he will be sorley missed. What a great MAN!!

Steve Hamilton

September 17, 2010

I can't think of a single person who has impacted and changed my life more than Kelsey.

Taking risks is ok, think outside the box, dream big, work hard, don't ever stop trying to be better, stand by your family and friends, be a good man always, and have the most fun possible while doing everything you do are just some of the things he instilled in me.

I guess the last lesson he will teach me is, it's ok to cry.

He is the best man with the best family I will ever know.

Chuck & Amber Morey

September 17, 2010

Kesley always had a smile and a laugh. He will be sorely missed.

Melinda Allen

September 17, 2010

I'm sorry for the loss of Kelsey, he was a very kind man and always smiling!! My deepest condonlences to you all.

Stacey Saunders

September 16, 2010

Kim and family,

We are so sorry to learn that Kelsey died. We remember him coming to the house to set up our computer with internet and email. I was intimidated by the whole thing, but he was patient and good-humored about it. We still have the same email address minus the Sinbad. May his memory be a blessing and comfort to you in time.

Stacey Saunders and Michael Cohn

Donna & Karl Kessler

September 16, 2010

So very sorry to hear about Kelsey. I go way back to Sinbad and credit Kelsey with teaching me what the internet was and what an email meant. Kelsey always was there to help me with all my computer problems and sometimes just very general advice. We always enjoyed his company and stories, but mostly his smiles when he would come to my office and help us in our times of desperation with computers. He was always available. Our deepest condonlences to the family. Kelsey will truly be missed.

September 16, 2010

Kelsey and I were good friends in the 70's. His family treated me as one of their own. Kelsey was funny, always positive, and unforgettable. My heart goes out to Kim and all the family.
Diane Drayden

Tyrone Pollard

September 16, 2010

I have know Kelsey since the early 70's
and he has alway's been a great guy and
loved his family. And one thing about Kim
and Kelsey they made you feel like you were part of their family. He will be tuely missed. Tyrone&Alicia Pollard

Javonka Nelson

September 16, 2010

Kim & the kids... WOW it has been so long since I since you all. My deepest condonlences for your family and your lost. I remember Kelsey being such a funny, hardworking, nice guy. God Bless him

Tina Clifford

September 16, 2010

I worked with Kelsey here at Grant and he always had a smile on his face and was a joy to be aorund, he will be very missed here

Agnew::Beck

September 16, 2010

We remember Kelsey as a very sweet man and a class-act guy. We're so sorry for his family's loss and we take to heart your suggestion to "celebrate life a little harder" in his honor.

September 16, 2010

my family and i am sending my heart felt wishes and many blessing to the gray family in time of sorrow

kathy

September 16, 2010

Coudl you post an address to send soemthing to family? I cannot find one

Yvonne

September 16, 2010

Kimberley and family,
I didin't have the pleasure of knowing Kelsey. However from the beaming face of Kimberley when she mentioned his name I could tell he was a joy in her life.
My condolences to you for the loss of such a great man.

September 16, 2010

I worked with Kelsey at the Sheraton Hotel, he was always happy and eager to help others. He will be truely missed by all of us here. Now he is upstairs making sure the "Big Guy" stays connected! Your both in good hands! God Bless You Kelsey!

Dawn Rogers

September 16, 2010

KIm and family-Kelsey always made me laugh and brought a smile to my lips. He was truly an amazing man and will be missed by so many people. Love and prayers to all of you. Dawn Rogers

Paul Hendrickson

September 16, 2010

We were saddened to hear of Kelsey's passing. I have wonderful memories of him and always admired his dedication and hard work. He set goals and worked to achieve them. You will remain in my thoughts and prayers.

Rob Axtell

September 16, 2010

Kelsey will always have a place in my heart. He was a great friend. I will miss his laugh the most. My thought and prayers go out to Kimberley and the entire Gray family.

The Axtell family. --You will be missed.--

John

September 16, 2010

I worked with Kelsey in the late 70's and early 80's...I enjoyed my time with Kelsey and I am sad to hear of his passing.

Johnson Family

September 16, 2010

He will be missed by all that had the pleasure to have known him.

Lewis Family

September 16, 2010

May he rest in the arms of the angels~

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