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Lola Ryder-Grassman Obituary

Lola Ryder-Grassman

AGE: 67 • Whiting

Lola Ryder-Grassman, 67, of Whiting, passed away on Thursday, Oct. 31, 2013, at the Catskill Regional Medical Center in Harris, NY. Born in Newark, she resided in Toms River and retired to the Island of Vieques in Puerto Rico prior to moving to Whiting in 2011. She worked as an Office Manager for Project Open House in Freehold, NJ for over 15 years until her retirement in 2007. Lola was an avid poker player and had a true passion for cooking. She was predeceased by her longtime companion, William Milne. Surviving are her children, Thomas Grassman of Toms River, and Melissa Grassman of Toms River; brother, Kane Ryder of Pottstown, PA; and grandchildren, Austin DiMarco, Amanda Grassman and Alyssa Grassman. Visitation will be from 2 to 4 p.m. and 7 to 9 p.m. Thursday, Nov. 7, 2013, with a funeral service at 8:30 p.m. at the Quinn-Hopping Funeral Home, 26 Mule Road, Toms River. Condolences may be sent to the family by visiting www.quinn-hoppingfh.com. In lieu of flowers donations can be made to the Breast Cancer Research Foundation at 60 East 56th St., 8th Floor, New York, NY 10022 or by visiting http://mizaat.com/data/home.php.

Published by Asbury Park Press on Nov. 5, 2013.
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Tom and Missy, so sorry to hear about the passing of your mom,
love, carole and Richie albers

November 7, 2013

Sorry to hear of the passing of Lola. She
was a gifted person with many talents. She will be greatly missed.

Connie Jones

November 7, 2013

Tom and I are deeply moved by your lost. Lola was full of life and enjoyed her time here in Vieques very much.

Ann Mones

November 7, 2013

SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT LOLA'S PASSING. SHE HAD A GREAT SENSE OF HUMOR. MAY GOD BE WITH LOLA'S FAMILY AND GIVE THEM COMFORT.

NOEMI & AL MAYER

November 6, 2013

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