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Neil DeSena Obituary

Neil V. DeSena

AGE: 52 • Rumson

Neil V. DeSena of Rumson, N.J. passed away on Saturday, February 11, 2017. He was 52 years young. Neil was Managing Partner of SenaHill Partners, the merchant bank he co-founded in 2013, after an impressive career spanning three decades. During these three decades, Neil helped drive the electronification of Wall Street and what is now called fintech. His vision, spirit and larger-than-life persona came with him to work every day where he influenced a whole generation of professionals around him. His kindness and care ignited the successful careers of many others on the path he blazed. Not only did he create a legacy in the businesses he built, but he also left a massive family that is now carrying forward his mantra. Not many people had the magic he did to get work done and build bonds that lasted well after he had left the room.

He started his career in the back-office at Quick & Reilly Clearing in 1985. He later became a partner at the venerable Spear, Leads and Kellogg (SLK) where he pioneered the REDI electronic trading division as its first employee in 1992. After it was acquired by Goldman Sachs, he became a managing director and global head of REDI Products from 2000 to 2006. This business was generating nearly a billion dollars of revenue a year for the firm. He took an archaic business and leveraged technology to bring it into the future. He pushed ideas and people in a way that was unique and built the best franchise on Wall Street that remains unparalleled.

The vision he had for SenaHill is a testament to who Neil was -- an out-of-the-box thinker and leader. He recognized that in a business focused on building technology, it was the people who made all the difference. With that underpinning, he hatched SenaHill. His vision is now a reality, and he will be sorely missed by the team and partners he leaves behind. We hope he looks down proudly as the firm carries on bearing his family name, building upon the seeds he planted. Neil leaves a leadership void on the Boards of Symbiont, Vessel Interactive, and Zipz, as well as a portfolio of twenty exciting emerging businesses that he helped accumulate.

Neil embraced life with integrity, kindness, generosity and honesty. Neil believed you are born and will die with one thing and one thing only and that is your name. If you screw it up and tarnish it, you will never get it back. His family meant everything to him; he was a loving, giving, caring, selfless, protective, supportive and dedicated husband, father, son, brother, uncle and friend. For those who were lucky enough to have known Neil, he touched the lives of everyone around him. He was the most loyal, passionate and warm person you would ever know. He left this earth with a perfect untarnished name. He will be missed dearly by all of his family and friends.

Neil was the most devoted husband of Carolyn C. DeSena, the loving father to his three children, Madeleine, Neil Anthony and Jack and the best friends to his dogs Teddy and Bandhu. He was cherished by a brother Robert and his wife Tracy Bennett, a sister Julie and her husband Robert Kochanski and many nieces, nephews, cousins and his in-laws. Neil was pre-deceased by his parents, Neil A. DeSena and Marie Ceglio DeSena from Bayonne, NJ.

Visitation will be Friday, February 17th from 4:00 to 8:00 p.m. at the Thompson Memorial Home, 310 Broad St. in Red Bank, N.J. A mass will be offered on Saturday February 18th at 10 a.m. at St. Vincent de Paul Catholic Church, 979 Avenue C in Bayonne, N.J. In honor of Neil and his love of gardening, please consider a donation to the Neil & Carolyn DeSena Foundation where monies will be used to build new community gardens that will grow and blossom in memory of Neil. Please send donations to SenaHill Partners Attn: Joe DiMaio at 113 East River Road, Suite A1, Rumson NJ 07760. If you prefer to send flowers, natural wild flowers were Neil's favorite.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Asbury Park Press on Feb. 15, 2017.

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Howard Astrin

March 7, 2017

Carolyn. So Sorry to hear about Neil's passing. Your family will be in my thoughts and prayers. Sending you peace and healing at this most difficult time.

Amit/Neelam Gaur

March 2, 2017

While we did not know him long, nor too well, it was obvious to both of us that Neil was a righteous person with no airs about him. We wish now that we had gotten to know Neil and Caroline better during the years we lived in the same building one floor apart. Our sincerest condolences to Caroline and Neil's family.

Gene Finck

February 20, 2017

So sorry, saddened, and shocked to hear of Neils passing. He was an outstanding and kind person and I am one of the individuals who were "lucky enough to have known Neil" (BHS Class of 1982). Carolyn and family will remain in our thoughts and prayers. Rest in peace my friend.

Karen kochanski

February 16, 2017

He lives on.

Roberta & Jerry O'Dwyer

February 16, 2017

We learned of Neil's sudden passing this weekend, and although you don't know us by name, we know you as part of our community. Your family has been in our thoughts and prayers daily, sending you peace, love and healing. Know that you are not alone on your journey.

The Guilfoyle Family

February 15, 2017

Neil grew up in the schoolyard across from his parents home with our sons and friends. May He rest in Peace.
Our condolences to his family

Donna Battisti

February 15, 2017

Carolyn,
My heart cannot express the pain and sadness I am feeling for you and your family for your great loss. Unfortunately, I never had the opportunity to meet Neil. Knowing you as I do I can only imagine that he must of been such a diamond that sparkled beyond ones imagination.
Memories and love are etched in ones soul for a lifetime. May you find comfort & peace in these memories as the days and years go by.
Love & deep sympathy,

William Ginsberg

February 15, 2017

Neil was a stand-up guy. At Spear Leeds, Neil was the one that gave me the nickname "MOE" from Moe Ginsberg's clothing store. His good nature and warm heart will be sorely missed!
Billy Ginsberg

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Carl & Marie Davis

February 15, 2017

We were so shocked when we heard the news. Our heartfelt, deepest condolences go out to the entire family.

javier loya

February 15, 2017

I only met Neil once but his stellar business reputation preceded the encounter and remained with me. God bless him and his family.

February 15, 2017

We are so sorry to hear of the Passing of Neil. Our condolences go out to his family. Sincerely, the McMurray's, Clayton, Lisa and Ellen.

Linda Hallman

February 15, 2017

I am so so sorry to hear this. I have no words.

James Alessi

February 14, 2017

Rest in peace Neil it was a honor to know and work with you at SLK and GS may God bless your family Jim Alessi

James Alessi

February 14, 2017

Rest in peace Neil it was a honor to know and work with you at SLK and GS may God bless your family Jim Alessi

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