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Deborah Rella-Vesper Obituary

Deborah Rella-Vesper

AGE: 59 • Whiting

Deborah Rella-Vesper, of Whiting, formerly of Toms River, Orange and Jersey City, passed away with her family by her side on Tuesday, Feb. 19, 2013, at the age of 59. Deborah was born in Orange, and resided in Jersey City for 20 years before settling in Toms River and Whiting for the past 20 years. She worked as a realtor for Crossroads Realty in the Toms River area for over 20 years.

Deborah is the beloved wife of the late Joseph Vesper; loving mother of Mark Rizzolo and his wife Katie of Caldwell; dear sister of Michael D'Aloia and his wife Theresa of Livingston, Richard D'Aloia and his wife Rhonda of Florida and Toni Rella and her fiancé Will of Florida; cherished grandmother of Nicholas and Vincent Rizzolo and Johnny Goncalves; dear stepsister of Gina Pascual and Paula D'Aloia of Livingston and Diane Coiro of Roseland; also survived by many loving nieces and nephews. She was predeceased by her parents, Anthony Rella and Camille D'Aloia (nee Conger).

A Memorial Visitation will be held from 10 a.m. to 12 noon Sunday, Feb. 24 in Paul Ippolito Memorial, 252-256 Henry St., Orange, immediately followed by a religious service in her memory to begin at 12 noon in the funeral home. In lieu of flowers, please make donations in her memory to the Lupus Foundation of America, 2000 L St., N.W. Suite 410, Washington, DC 20036 or to the Popcorn Zoo, 1 Humane Way, Forked River, NJ 08731. For information or to send condolences visit www.ippolitofuneralhomes.com.

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Published by Asbury Park Press on Feb. 21, 2013.

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Anthony & Gail Salvato

February 24, 2013

Dear Mark, Toni, Richard, and Michael,
Keeping you in our thoughts and prayers as we mourn the passing of a wonderful friend. Please know that the cherished memories of Debbie will live forever in our hearts.
Tony and Gail Salvato

Pete Rizzolo

February 22, 2013

Mark,I'm so sorry for your loss.She will be missed dearly.

Lynn MacKenzie O'Rourke

February 21, 2013

Toni and family
My thoughts and prayers are with you in this most difficult and sad time. May God Bless. Rest in peace Debbie.

February 21, 2013

Mark and Katie,

Words cannot express how sorry we are to hear about your mom. You and your entire family are in our thoughts and prayers at this time.

Dickie, Barbara and Nicole

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