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Gerard Deverin Obituary
AGE: 48 • Little Silver
Gerard "Gerry" Deverin, 48, of Little Silver, passed away on Friday March 1, 2013 at home. He was born in Edison and lived in Locust before moving to Little Silver in 1995. He graduated from Avon Old Farms in Avon Connecticut where he was awarded the schools highest honors, The Order of Avon and induction into Avon Old Farms hall of fame as a member of the New England Championship Lacrosse team of 1982 and was also a graduate of Monmouth University in West Long Branch. Gerard was the Vice President of Sales at West Wind Solutions LLC in Red Bank. He was a member of the Chapel Beach Club, an avid life long hockey and lacrosse player and a Big Fan of Notre Dame, Jets, and Rangers. Gerard was a devoted and loving father, husband, son, uncle and brother.
He is predeceased by father-in-law Peter Andrews. Surviving is his wife, Lori Deverin; daughter, Kathleen and his sons, Peter and Ryan; his parents Bernard and Claire Deverin of Red bank; his brothers, Bernard and wife Midge of Westport CT, and Sean and wife Michele of Fair Haven , his sisters, Charlene Deverin Kirtley and husband Robin of New York City, and Eileen Deverin Radovich and husband Harry of Locust; his mother-in-law, Betty Andrews of Kearny; sister in law, Linda and husband John Giordiano of Belleville, and brother-in-law Larry and wife Chrissy Andrews of Kearny. Many beloved Nieces and Nephews and his dear friends, John Ferrone, John Lee, Larsen Flinn, and Doug Crichton and the Deverin's loving supporting neighbors.
A visitation will be held on Monday, March 4, 2013 from 2-4 & 7-9pm at the John E. Day Funeral Home, 85 Riverside Ave, Red Bank NJ. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Tuesday March 5, 2013 at 11 AM at the Church of the Nativity in Fairhaven NJ. Interment will be private. In lieu of flowers memorial donations may be made in Gerard's name to The Deverin Family Trust, C/O of Sean G. Deverin ESQ., 160 White Road, Suite 204, Little Silver NJ 07739.
Please visit Gerry's memorial website at www.johnedayfuneralhome.com
Just like peas and carrots, Ger.
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Memories and Condolences
for Gerard Deverin
March 8, 2013
Hey Sean,
I am so sorry to learn of your loss...I noted it on Pete O'Mara's Facebook page...please accept my most sincere sympathy...you and your family are in my prayers...God Bless...with warm regards adn deep sympathy, Bob Witek
Jack Hills
March 7, 2013
Gerry , was a wonderful person. I knew him at Roanoke college.
Mr. & Mrs. R. Woods
March 7, 2013
Gerry Deverin was a decent, pleasant, innocent young man who never gave offence to anyone by word or deed. If there is a hereafter, he has certainly earned a place of honor there.
"His life was gentle, and the elements so mixed in him, that nature might stand up and say to all the world that-'this was a man'."
(Julius Caesar Act V)
Betsy Iler
March 7, 2013
Dearest Deverin Family,
I'm so sorry for the loss of Gerry.
I had known Gerry from RCDS. He always stood out amongst the students, even as a young boy - with his bright smile and warm nature, and of course his energy and as another mentioned, his joie de vie. I knew him later as well at Monmouth U., and whenever I would see him here in Little Silver, he always had a warm hello, and always asked how our family was and how my sister was doing - his classmate at RCDS. Such a thoughtful and special man. One of my fondest memories of Gerry is of course, seeing him driving his vintage Mustang! He embraced life, and left a lasting memory on all of us who were blessed in knowing him. My deepest condolences go out to the whole Deverin family. You are in my prayers.
Betsy Iler
Steve Kane
March 6, 2013
My sincere condolences to the Deverin family. I played hockey with Gerry at Navesink in the early 90s. While Gerry was one of the best players on the ice, he was also one of the nicest and most humble. Always with a smile and a kind word. He will be missed.
Greg Montgomery
March 6, 2013
Bernie & Clair- Diane and I are so sorry to hear of your loss. Gerry was such a great kid and we treasure the memories watching hockey @ Navesink with you and others. Our hearts go out to you and wish you peace and comfort during these unbelievable times. Love, Greg & Diane Montgomery
Moira Scola
March 6, 2013
...the best times were always with Gerry...
Moira Scola
March 6, 2013
Owen Gavigan, Jr.
March 6, 2013
I'm sure that heaven is a brighter place with the arrival of Gerry. He had that special gift of making you feel better after having been in his presence. He was always quick with a smile, loved to laugh and had that twinkle in his eye.
We became friends at RCDS when he arrived I think in 2nd grade. I have great memories of spending time with the Deverin family and of course "Bo". Tackling Gerry was hard enough while playing football at the Deverin's, but seeing "Bo" the Great Dane galloping from the house barking at me was absolutely terrifying at such a young age. Of course Gerry thought it was VERY funny to see the look of terror on my face and would say "'Don't Move' and he won't bite you".
He was one of those unique people who was as great a man as he was as a young boy. He seemed to have a "joie de vivre" throughout his life.
Last night and today, I think what struck me most about seeing Bernie, Sean, Charlene and Eileen is that you share that special gift Gerry had to light up a room with your wonderful smiles. This must have been passed onto all of you by your mom and dad because as we talked about Gerry they both had those radiant Deverin smiles and twinkling eyes. Mr. & Mrs. Bernard Deverin gave us all the pleasure of knowing a very special person who will be missed. My thoughts and prayers are with Lori, Peter, Ryan, Kathleen and the entire Deverin family in your time of grief.
Edward Dixon
March 5, 2013
Dear Sean and all the Deverin family, I too wish to extend my deepest sympathies and condolences to you all on the loss of Gerry...You are in my prayers...Warm Regards, Edward Dixon
March 5, 2013
Dear Deverin family.
I am so very sorry to have heard the news about Gerry. It's been so long since I had seen him. But the memories of Gerry stand out so clear for me. He was such full of energy. Loved life. A that twinkle in the eyes. Almost knowing he had something up his sleeve...:) I will say a prayer for him as well as the family. Again my deepest sympathies to you all.
Best wishes,
Hydi Dixon
( Friend from N.C.C. )
Andrew Burns
March 4, 2013
His contagious smile and tendency to laughter warmed the room and everyone in it.
Slainte and God Bless
Kathleen Gilson
March 4, 2013
...time is standing still. my dear friend. in this darkest hour, i can find solace in God's mercy that you brought such unconditional love, friendship and happiness to my friend Lori and all of us that had the gift of knowing you. our hearts our broken. you will be forever missed.~with all of our love to The Deverins~... The Gilson Family
Mike, Kath, Ryan, Steve, Tara and Michael Jr.
Lisa Donahue-Dinklage
March 4, 2013
Our thoughts and prayers are with Gerry's family. We have such fond memories of Gerry and his family growing up. May God hold him close and may his family find comfort in the fact that Gerry was well-respected and much loved by his childhood friends.
Fondly,
Lisa Donahue-Dinklage, for The Donahue Family
Rick Baeta
March 4, 2013
I only met you two years ago my friend down at the beach club. Right away I knew you were one of the good ones. You left us too early but will not be forgotten. Keep a beach chair saved and a cold one for us in Haven.
March 4, 2013
My deepest sympathies to the entire Deverin family. What an amazing gift to have been able to be friends with Gerry. Such a great spirit and example of strength.
I never could catch you Gerry, but I'll always remember you.
God bless.
Michael Fitzgerald
Jim Boyle
March 4, 2013
Dear Deverin Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you. Gerry was like a big brother for me at Avon Old Farms. He was a good friend and could always make you laugh. Gerry made the world a better place.
Christopher (Drake McGloin) Weaver
March 4, 2013
I knew Gerry since we were kids around age 7. We met on the tennis courts up at Navesink. We played every day all summer long for many a Summer. He was a great kid and an amazing, ever-frustrating opponent on the courts. Later, I joined him in school, at Rumson Country Day. I entered in the 7th grade. Adolescence can be a magical time for kids; and I'm grateful to say that Gerry added a lot of joy, laughter, merriment & fun to the three years I attended (7th - 9th grade). Our gang of little rascals enjoyed our time together very much; in & out of the classroom. Gerry and I played on the RCDS football team along with a great bunch of guys. We went up against a lot of bigger teams; from other "Day" schools & some boarding schools as well. Gerry could zig & zag and thus, completely baffle the defences of those opposing teams as he scored many touchdowns for our underdog of a team. I may have added a few myself to the scoreboard. I remember a sleep over at his parents' house in Locust. They had a huge family dog whose name might have been Marmaduke (as he was a Great Dane). Gerry and I played albums all night long (including Foreigner's first album which had just been released). We also played plenty of games in the gameroom downstairs including my first foray into table top bowling. During those 3 years of golden, wondrous youth (7th -9th grade), we also had many great parties on the weekends with all of our friends. One of the best was in the late Spring and many of us were able to jump in the Deverin's pool whilst listening to Rock n Roll music and enjoying the comraderie of youth. After our years together as kids & teens, I didnt see Gerry that often. We spoke occasionally and almost got together for a RCDS 25 year reunion. For his wife, children, family & friends I wish but one thing........that the memory of his bright shining mind, heart & smile never fade. We will all be reunited from Whence we all come from..........Heaven. I'm glad God put Gerry into our lives & world & hearts. I feel truly saddened that his health was compromised and that he left us so young. Thankfully, he added a slice of Heaven to all our lives. Thanks Gerry. I look forward to a best of 3 or 5 set tennis match when I return Home as well. May God bless us all.
Sincerely,
Christopher (Drake McGloin) Weaver
[email protected]
March 4, 2013
with deepest sympathy, Rest In Peace gerry. Love terri Rowett & family.
March 4, 2013
Dear Claire and Bernie, I was shocked and deeply saddened to hear of your Jerry's passing. I will always remember his brilliant
Smile...and growing up with my children, Chris and Julie.
My heart goes out to you, Lori, and your beautiful family
My thoughts and prayers will forever be with you.
Love, Maria Mcgloin
March 4, 2013
You will be missed terribly... Thank you for all the fun times and laughter. You were truly one of "The Good Guys"
Julie and Ken Gunther
Jack Verdon
March 4, 2013
Gerry, we will all miss your smiling eyes and hearty laugh. You were the best roommate one could wish for. Although brief, I am glad that we created great memories living, studying and making much merriment together. My deepest condolences and prayers go out to you mother, father, brothers, sisters, your wife and children. Rest peacefully my friend. May your laugh ring in our hears and hearts.
Go Jets!
Jack Verdon
Carl Cunneff
March 4, 2013
My dearest sympathy goes out to the Deverins`and family. I have great memories of Gerry playing football and hockey as kids, as well as playing with Marmaduke his beloved Great Dane.
March 4, 2013
To the Deverin family,
I was so fortunate to grow up with Gerry and his family while at RCDS. I will never the forget the day I met him when he blew by me in gym class with that big smile on his face. With Gerry you knew right away that he was special. I have nothing but the happiest memories with Gerry and I can hear his laugh as I am writing this. My heartfelt sympathies to you all. Dean Anderson and family
Terri Miller
March 4, 2013
Was shocked and saddened to see this in the paper this morning. I met Gerry years ago in Sea Bright when we were both in our 20s and remember he was always so full of energy. My heart goes out to the Deverin family.
Terri Miller (Johnson)
March 4, 2013
My family and are are so saddened to hear of Gerry's passing this morning. I have some wonderful memories of Gerry when we were growing up and was lucky to be in he and Lori's company several times as adults. He was a wonderful, kind and happy man and will be greatly missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this very sad time. Tony and Lynn (Pugliese) Crupi, and family
March 4, 2013
Deepest sympathy to the Deverin family. May it comfort your hearts to know that you have the loving support of friends who love your family very much. Gerard's memory will live in your hearts as you share fond memories in the days ahead. Please know as the passage says at Psalm 34 verse 18 " God is near to those that are broken in heart; and those crushed in spirit he saves."
Terry Shea
March 3, 2013
I just heard The news and was saddened for all who knew Gerry to have lost someone so young and full of life. I met Gerry when we were young and he left a permanent and lasting impression on me. i have spoken fondly of him over the years and will always remember that smile and quick wit My condolences to his wife, friends and family and to Gerry, I'll see you again someday my friend. Terry Shea
Pat & Ken Snuffer
March 3, 2013
You will be forever missed but never out of anyone's hearts or minds! A gentle soul to all who knew him who knew how to make others laugh along with him. Our prayers to all the family & friends at this most dificult time.
March 3, 2013
Very sorry to learn of Gerry's passing.
Many great memories growing up playing hockey at NCC. Great picture of him above. Exactly how I will remember him.
Peace and comfort to all who will miss him.
Joe Burns Jr
Salisbury Maryland
Patty Leister
March 3, 2013
"Death leaves a heartache
no one can heal;
Love leaves a memory no
one can steal."
~~Irish Tombstone
Lori, Peter, Kathleen, Ryan, and Gerry's family & friends-
you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Stay strong, Lori!
The Leister Clan
Toni
March 3, 2013
To the family of Gerard, you have my deepest sympathy and I'm sure you miss him very much. I hope you may find comfort with the possibility of being reunited with Gerard in the near future, under peaceful, righteous conditions. John 17:3
Seth Murphy
March 3, 2013
Love and prayers out to the entire Deverin family. Another gone too soon.
Lissa Crichton
March 3, 2013
To all the Deverins, I had the pleasure of growing up with your family. We all spent so much time together as kids in school and sports. Gerry always had a big smile on his face. I will remember him that way. prayers for you all. love Lissa
March 3, 2013
Lori, Sean and the Deverin family, All the McKenna family send their heartfelt sympathies to your lovely family. Gerry was a true gentleman and great example of class and grace. I will always remember his smile and love of family. Bill McKenna and family
Gerry and Paul, Scola's July 2012
Moira Scola
March 3, 2013
July 2012....
Moira Scola
March 3, 2013
Gerry I will love you FOREVER my Friend...Some of my happiest, most fun times were spent with you and Lori...Nothing will ever be the same without you...Forever friends...Moira..xo
Susie and Owen Gavigan
March 3, 2013
Only the sweetest memories of the little boy and the man. To see him always brightened your day. Our love to Lori and his wonderful family. Special thoughts of love for Claire and Bernie. God bless. Susie and Owen Gavigan
March 3, 2013
Dear Lori,
Our heartfelt sympathy goes out to you, Peter, Kathleen, Ryan and the Deverin & Andrews' families as you begin to mourn your beloved Gerry's passing! You had an amazing life together! He loved you so truly & deeply? May your memories & sense of humor sustain you during this sad time. Love & friendship, Wendy & Bruce
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